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"Lol I can shave it for them haha "You need a steady hand | |||
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"No shortage of single guys looking meets with just fems!! Maybe they don't like the thought of performing in front of another guy (especially straight guys), stage fright maybe? Unless they're hung like a Banaba! "Where is that innocent whistling emoticon when you need it  | |||
"Needs to be the right couple for me and have got to know them a bit socially first also " +1 | |||
"Just wondering if most single blokes r on here purely as a fantasy ? We have found most blokes we chat to on here are all talk and text but when it comes to meeting they seem to back out at the last min, we think maybe they like the idea of meeting a cpl but nerves get the better of them lol Any other cpls find this too ? "Maybe the wife wouldn't let them out the night you wanted to meet  | |||
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"Flip me there's singles males getting it again. " | |||
"Needs to be the right couple for me and have got to know them a bit socially first also
+1"Same here. Much the same as a woman but even more so with a couple. Have to be relaxed and at ease and find them welcoming. Only ever with one couple and they were not nice to put it mildly. They were all about themselves and quite arrogant. | |||
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"if they havent got a few veries from actual meets pass on them harsh on the single guys but times too short so well verified guys only saves the messing about" And bi for you two | |||
"No shortage of single guys looking meets with just fems!! Maybe they don't like the thought of performing in front of another guy (especially straight guys), stage fright maybe? Unless they're hung like a Banaba!
Where is that innocent whistling emoticon when you need it "in the garage. . Next to the banabas  | |||
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"Needs to be the right couple for me and have got to know them a bit socially first also "same here we like to chat on here a bit but have even arranged a meet in town for a few drinks but ends up with a no show and a lame excuse lol | |||
"Good to know your experience explicit, as this only gonna help me here. I started recently and got an invite, for which I had to drive a long way. I was tired after work and the drive, but I did show up and had a great deal of fun. Pity the couple was on another site and did not pay for the full subscription, so couldn't verify me. We will see each other again, so great, however helped my noway in getting myself established on the scene as a reliable person. As funny as it sounds, I also noticed that there are couples that treat men as a cock with attached body and they think that guys should be available 24h and be able to have sex with every single lady that exists. It is an uncomfortable situation, when my profile is very specific about the types of playmates I expressed the desire to play with and I still get approached by couples that do not fit the criteria at all. We are all here for fun and enjoyment of all involved parties, so let us be respectful to all members of the community. Stage fright to perform next to another guy, what are we, kids? ""Good to know your experience explicit, as this only gonna help me here. I started recently and got an invite, for which I had to drive a long way. I was tired after work and the drive, but I did show up and had a great deal of fun. Pity the couple was on another site and did not pay for the full subscription, so couldn't verify me. We will see each other again, so great, however helped my noway in getting myself established on the scene as a reliable person. As funny as it sounds, I also noticed that there are couples that treat men as a cock with attached body and they think that guys should be available 24h and be able to have sex with every single lady that exists. It is an uncomfortable situation, when my profile is very specific about the types of playmates I expressed the desire to play with and I still get approached by couples that do not fit the criteria at all. We are all here for fun and enjoyment of all involved parties, so let us be respectful to all members of the community. Stage fright to perform next to another guy, what are we, kids? "It might not be in your case but for many straight guys they feel uncomfortable in the presence of another male. Especially if they think they are not well endowed and that can cause nerves (also known as stage fright). Adults (not just kids) have hang ups, get nerves and have self image issues. You'll find it's just my opinion! Based on my experiences. Not based on anything factual. | |||
"Just wondering if most single blokes r on here purely as a fantasy ? We have found most blokes we chat to on here are all talk and text but when it comes to meeting they seem to back out at the last min, we think maybe they like the idea of meeting a cpl but nerves get the better of them lol Any other cpls find this too ?
Maybe the wife wouldn't let them out the night you wanted to meet"Lol been thinking that too | |||
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" It might not be in your case but for many straight guys they feel uncomfortable in the presence of another male. Especially if they think they are not well endowed and that can cause nerves (also known as stage fright). Adults (not just kids) have hang ups, get nerves and have self image issues. You'll find it's just my opinion! Based on my experiences. Not based on anything factual. " I understand all that (my cock is not the biggest in the village, neither is the smallest, although one nice lady judging by my photo said it is tiny - she is a really classy lady - I kinda wish now she had the chance to feel it, so she could give first hand opinion - lol - rather than just being rude), however one could imagine that since people made a decision to participate in this lifestyle they understand what they have signed up for
Showing up to an appointment is the most decent thing to do in my opinion. The quality of performance is another. I wasn't on my best the first time as I was overwhelmed with the situation and excitement (we had an amazingly erotic scenario for the play), however I was thankfully no way intimidated by the presence of the gentleman, as I knew what I was signing up for
This might not differ much from real life, most men have big mouth and brag about who they are and what they can do, however usually life verifies quickly who was just bragging and who was honest.
I guess it is all about honesty and the ability to communicate well. This environment is highly pressurised for new male members of the community, so maybe you guys are right here that all this could case a big level of stress (I can only accept this to the performance, no show is not an option). | |||
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"Have heard alot of people say the same thing that some guy's are all talk...we would have to get to know a few first...and tbh...mr p is the one that would have the final say...as i would be the one to have the most say in choosing a fem....get to know a few first and build up the trust.... "You mean I need to sweet talk Mr P first yer asking a bit much | |||
"Have heard alot of people say the same thing that some guy's are all talk...we would have to get to know a few first...and tbh...mr p is the one that would have the final say...as i would be the one to have the most say in choosing a fem....get to know a few first and build up the trust....
You mean I need to sweet talk Mr P first yer asking a bit much "Haha duffer....your sweet talk in the toilet's was all he needed.... | |||
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"Have heard alot of people say the same thing that some guy's are all talk...we would have to get to know a few first...and tbh...mr p is the one that would have the final say...as i would be the one to have the most say in choosing a fem....get to know a few first and build up the trust....
You mean I need to sweet talk Mr P first yer asking a bit much
Haha duffer....your sweet talk in the toilet's was all he needed.... "Yeah but he was so easy, I'd prefer a bit of a challenge lol | |||
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" It might not be in your case but for many straight guys they feel uncomfortable in the presence of another male. Especially if they think they are not well endowed and that can cause nerves (also known as stage fright). Adults (not just kids) have hang ups, get nerves and have self image issues. You'll find it's just my opinion! Based on my experiences. Not based on anything factual. I understand all that (my cock is not the biggest in the village, neither is the smallest, although one nice lady judging by my photo said it is tiny - she is a really classy lady - I kinda wish now she had the chance to feel it, so she could give first hand opinion - lol - rather than just being rude), however one could imagine that since people made a decision to participate in this lifestyle they understand what they have signed up for
Showing up to an appointment is the most decent thing to do in my opinion. The quality of performance is another. I wasn't on my best the first time as I was overwhelmed with the situation and excitement (we had an amazingly erotic scenario for the play), however I was thankfully no way intimidated by the presence of the gentleman, as I knew what I was signing up for
This might not differ much from real life, most men have big mouth and brag about who they are and what they can do, however usually life verifies quickly who was just bragging and who was honest.
I guess it is all about honesty and the ability to communicate well. This environment is highly pressurised for new male members of the community, so maybe you guys are right here that all this could case a big level of stress (I can only accept this to the performance, no show is not an option). "have to agree with the above i remember my first Cpl it was a last min meet, so no time to panic about it when i entered the house he was in jeanss and t shirt she had the sexiest number i had ever seen on. i nervous hell i was shitting but we had a drink and started chatting all the while she had the chat room open on the lappy, shifting on the sofa to give me a better view after a bit she stood up and leant down to me showing some great cleavage as she kissed me that was it nerves gone as i thought. We played and he watched joining in after about half an hr i have to say it wasn't my best performance but it got me over the hurdle of will i could i. Remember u and ur partner have probally years of experience with each other he is stepping in to ur life and afraid to over shoot the mark if u get my drift best to stick with proven guys and introduce new guys probably in a party scenario | |||
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"I'm just too shy lol." Oh I doubt that  | |||
"I'm just too shy lol." +1  | |||
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usually i message them and dont get a reply but never had a couple look for me | |||
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