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"If you get along who cares about the age gap. My biggest was 27 years and got on extremely well."
Well said!! Age is just a number after all. If ur both happy then fuck every1 elce |
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By *aid back OP Man
over a year ago
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"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??
Depends on what age the people are i would say."
well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ?? "
It depends, if ur a person who cares what other people think then it probally is, if ur a person that dont really care what peopke think no its not too big. As long as the two people are good for one another and are happy thats whats is important.
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"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??
Depends on what age the people are i would say.
well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol"
Mates sister is probably a bigger problem than the age tbh. At 23 she is old enough to make her own mistakes |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??
Depends on what age the people are i would say.
well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol"
My first thought would be "how much do I value my 'mates' friendship".
If it's of any value, let her admire you from afar. |
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"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??
Depends on what age the people are i would say.
well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol
My first thought would be "how much do I value my 'mates' friendship".
If it's of any value, let her admire you from afar."
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I'd agree with pure...20+ years of a gap might be a little much. But fab related or not...its not really the age, both parties have to be mature enough to handle it. I've met 20 somethings that are more emotionally mature than some 40 somethings |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??
Depends on what age the people are i would say.
well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol
My first thought would be "how much do I value my 'mates' friendship".
If it's of any value, let her admire you from afar."
I agree with this
I went with my uncles friend there was 8 years between us and they haven't really got on since
I regret it to be honest cus is did affect there friendship....  |
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"oh I know that about being too close to home it was one of the reasons I said no but it got me thinking about the age gap is all"
Well in that case, you're the older one so you need to be aware that she is only starting her journey & it may not be what she still wants in a years time. One would think that at 35 you have at least got an idea of your direction in life, she won't be in the same place for a while so the longevity of the relationship may depend on your patience. |
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"oh I know that about being too close to home it was one of the reasons I said no but it got me thinking about the age gap is all
Well in that case, you're the older one so you need to be aware that she is only starting her journey & it may not be what she still wants in a years time. One would think that at 35 you have at least got an idea of your direction in life, she won't be in the same place for a while so the longevity of the relationship may depend on your patience. "
Exactly this. Went out with an 18 yr old when I was 26...and this pretty much summed it up |
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"oh I know that about being too close to home it was one of the reasons I said no but it got me thinking about the age gap is all
Well in that case, you're the older one so you need to be aware that she is only starting her journey & it may not be what she still wants in a years time. One would think that at 35 you have at least got an idea of your direction in life, she won't be in the same place for a while so the longevity of the relationship may depend on your patience.
Exactly this. Went out with an 18 yr old when I was 26...and this pretty much summed it up"
Of course there's lots of fun to be had whilst waiting... PMA guys, PMA!
Of course, add 10 to each age & it's a different ball game. |
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Have to say that is a very good question. And I self am also guilty of it. But in my case we had it at 55 but a few people we met were way above that maybe 65 people lie on profile for many reasons so why don't you  just a wee thought to by pass it. Yeah I know my bad |
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"i'm just wondering is a 12/13 year age gap too big ??
Depends on what age the people are i would say.
well the ages would be 35 and 23 a mates younger sister asked me to go for a drink at the weekend and i said no as i felt a little old lol
My first thought would be "how much do I value my 'mates' friendship".
If it's of any value, let her admire you from afar."
Have to agree. ... Could ruin a friendship potentially. ...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Because most guys have their age lower than it actually is!! My cut off is 45 but still meet guys who look olde than 50!!! Very annoying Cos I don't like older men at all, that's just me. Everyone's different I guess  |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Because most guys have their age lower than it actually is!! My cut off is 45 but still meet guys who look olde than 50!!! Very annoying Cos I don't like older men at all, that's just me. Everyone's different I guess "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because most guys have their age lower than it actually is!! My cut off is 45 but still meet guys who look olde than 50!!! Very annoying Cos I don't like older men at all, that's just me. Everyone's different I guess "
My age on here is 38 but I'm told I don't look a day over 30, would I have more success if I lowered my age?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Depends on what each of you want from it.
I had a bonking buddy/casual relationship, we were never going to get romantic,the exact same ages as you are talking about there,a 13 yr difference but she had had a releationship with a guy older than me before and also she is very intelligent and mature minded.
It was great and it fizzled out after a year or so.Each of us moved on and have no issues with any of it.
I've dated a friends older sister for a short while,it was good but we had different needs and it went nowhere but we get on well these days.
I had a hot and steamy,on and off thing in my mid 20's with my best friends younger sister,it didn't end well but she fights with everyone,her own family,her ex husband.The odd thing about that was that she ad the same colour eyes as my friend and that was weird.So once the eye colour is different it's easier.
Now in my late 40's,I would have no problem dating seriously 20 yrs below my age and maybe 5 yr's older depending on how healthy the woman is.
As for a casual bonking buddy or a once off shag,I'd go for any age above 27 once the personality was mature and the attraction is there. |
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