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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I wish couples who are only here to chat would state it on their profile instead of saying they want to meet other couples when have no intention of doing so 
This is a swinging site. Facebook is for chatting  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"to be fair, people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on ."
I know they are. Doesn't mean I have to like it or not have an opinion about it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We're a couple. Been here a while. We're verified. But not quite ready to meet yet.
Does that mean were not allowed use site?
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I said unverified 
I don't recall saying not allowed  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me."
Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.
Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone "
agree with you both,(while defending the
right of people to use the site anyway they wish)
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.
Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone
agree with you both,(while defending the
right of people to use the site anyway they wish)
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Thank you Good to see not everyone is going to jump on the band wagon to tell me how wrong I am couldn't care less what people use it for but they should state it on their profile  |
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By *cjoyCouple
over a year ago
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"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.
Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone
agree with you both,(while defending the
right of people to use the site anyway they wish)
Thank you Good to see not everyone is going to jump on the band wagon to tell me how wrong I am couldn't care less what people use it for but they should state it on their profile "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've had quite a few contact us starts off legit then suddenly there wife or girl is I'll but could we still meet them if that's the vase go look after them or the wufea busy n they are allowed to play on there on but the missus cant verify it
Its more than off putting and ruining the site for a Lotta people I'm sure |
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"We've had quite a few contact us starts off legit then suddenly their wife or girl is ill but could we still meet them if that's the case go look after them or the wife is busy and they are allowed to play on their own but the missus cant verify it
Its more than off putting and ruining the site for a Lotta people I'm sure "
That's what I call a fake profile. |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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Maybe they don't know they just want to chat maybe they just find it difficult to take the next step....lots and lots of reasons ....but you can take the initiative and suggest a coffee met fairly early in the conversation if theres a load of excuses ....move on |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Tricky one all swingers are here cause the want to be but some are shy and need a chance we were given a chance wouldnt b here otherwise just sayin "
Absolutely but it didn't take me a year |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?"
Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?
Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat "
Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couple few weeks ...relax |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?
Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat
Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couple few weeks ...relax "
Not hard work just annoying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?
Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat
Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax
Not hard work just annoying "
Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?
Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat
Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax
Not hard work just annoying
Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really"
Yes I know it's not just couples, but as that's what we're looking for I'm not bothered about the rest Not sure what you mean by, you don't like don't bother reading |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?
Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat
Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax
Not hard work just annoying
Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really
Yes I know it's not just couples, but as that's what we're looking for I'm not bothered about the rest Not sure what you mean by, you don't like don't bother reading "
As it says...don't like don't read?.....your a new couple here...relax a bit maybe |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?
Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat
Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax
Not hard work just annoying
Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really
Yes I know it's not just couples, but as that's what we're looking for I'm not bothered about the rest Not sure what you mean by, you don't like don't bother reading
As it says...don't like don't read?.....your a new couple here...relax a bit maybe "
sorry I'm lost  |
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"Tricky one all swingers are here cause the want to be but some are shy and need a chance we were given a chance wouldnt b here otherwise just sayin "
Agreed. When I was part of a couple, luckily both of us wanted to swing as much as the other, so there wasn't much talking about it, apart from establishing rules. But a lot of couples aren't so lucky, and they're afraid yet want to meet. We had a good first meet and everything went well from there.
galwayduo, I'd love to chat you about it but sadly you've blocked guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sher its like changing the channel if you dont like whats on, just flick on and stay searching?
Except you have to chat for a bit to find out if they want anything other than chat
Such hard work tho....chatting!! Give it up and move on....your here as a couplpe few weeks ...relax
Not hard work just annoying
Think that's in general tho not just couples... You don't like don't bother reading.... Move on, easy really
Yes I know it's not just couples, but as that's what we're looking for I'm not bothered about the rest Not sure what you mean by, you don't like don't bother reading
As it says...don't like don't read?.....your a new couple here...relax a bit maybe
sorry I'm lost "
Basically relax....and move on |
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"a profile that's here a while with no meet veri's that doesnt state they're only here for chat would raise red flags with me.
Me too except they usually don't state that they're just here to chat. If they did it would be so much easier for everyone "
If they have been here over 4 months and no veri's then take it they are not meeting, and move on, under 4 months benefit of the doubt for a while.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well."
If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.
My 2 cents. |
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"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.
If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.
My 2 cents."
OK good to know, we always assume they are hiding fakes lol |
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"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.
If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.
My 2 cents."
Oh before we asked about and they always say the people left the site so they can't show. Convenient lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.
If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.
My 2 cents.
Oh before we asked about and they always say the people left the site so they can't show. Convenient lol"
Well that screams fake profile if every single veri has left the site now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to be fair, people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on ."
YAWN "people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on .."
Go to the baker to buy meat... oh wrong Shop, then you can even move on.. Is your free decision !! But what a waste of time , as long it is your time ,no prob .. but why wasting other people's time ?
"you can always move on" ..your point of view is the ultimate argument for everything...from now on everything else is pointless  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well."
I agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do people hide all verifications so profile says verified but you can't see who verified them. It is useless we presume they are fake as well.
If someone really interests you ask to see their veris. Genuine profiles will unhide them to allow you do do. Some people hide them as they just like to keep who they meet private from the whole site.
My 2 cents.
Oh before we asked about and they always say the people left the site so they can't show. Convenient lol"
I got that exact answer recently from a guy I was supposed to meet for a chat. We were supposed to set it up for last week but haven't heard from him since  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"to be fair, people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on .
YAWN "people are free to use the site whatever way they wish.If they are not for you you can always move on .."
Go to the baker to buy meat... oh wrong Shop, then you can even move on.. Is your free decision !! But what a waste of time , as long it is your time ,no prob .. but why wasting other people's time ?
"you can always move on" ..your point of view is the ultimate argument for everything...from now on everything else is pointless "
It seems to me these users are in the wrong shop altogether!!! I'm the OP btw |
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some are not ready to meet yet ,some are here just for chat,each to their own
