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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
"why is it so hard to organise a swingers party any tips or any couples interested in going to one
its not hard at all just pick a date location and invite who u want simples"
I do agree with the OP. Weirdly it's single guys that fuck it up. Invited 15, only 3 replied
Invited 3 couples and 2 females. All replied positively. Had to cancel because of the guys. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we had parties in the past and totally agree it was the single males messed it up for us we have handed out over 20 invites to couples on our friends list and only one has said they would come so were looking for another 2 couples to join join us |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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we love going to parties , but between going to parties and trying to arrange one ourselves for later on in the year its important to get the right people there as right people there, great party |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
Belfast |
Guys,
having a party is pretty straight forward.
There are certain things you have to remember
1 get your venue and date sorted first, that determines the numbers that can attend.
2 Plan the date at least 2 months in advance
3 Set your rules to balance the numbers attending to what you like, that is the number of couples, single girls and single males. Also if the party is a small affair, make sure you know what type of swinger you want to come. You must be into the same sort of stuff. If it s a large party it doesn't matter so much as ones that like similar stuff will aggregate together.
4 Invite who you like to your party, before putting it out in the forums and events page
5 Once out in the fab world domain expect to get a lot of interest from males. Only invite those that follow the rules and even then only half will turn up, couples are no better than the males and the single girls need a lot of work before hand but prove to be the most reliable about turning up
6 Expect the list to change a lot in the week before the party so have a reserve list.
Any more advice about how to check the verification, credibility, and ensure attendance message me, i will be glad to help
Keep Swinging xxxxxxx
Jaz
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"why is it so hard to organise a swingers party any tips or any couples interested in going to one
its not hard at all just pick a date location and invite who u want simples
I do agree with the OP. Weirdly it's single guys that fuck it up. Invited 15, only 3 replied
Invited 3 couples and 2 females. All replied positively. Had to cancel because of the guys."
Why did you have to cancel because of the guys? Were the people that confirmed not enough?
I'm a single guy and I was the only one to turn up at a party last week. We're not all time waters. |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
Limavady |
"why is it so hard to organise a swingers party any tips or any couples interested in going to one
its not hard at all just pick a date location and invite who u want simples
I do agree with the OP. Weirdly it's single guys that fuck it up. Invited 15, only 3 replied
Invited 3 couples and 2 females. All replied positively. Had to cancel because of the guys.
Why did you have to cancel because of the guys? Were the people that confirmed not enough?
I'm a single guy and I was the only one to turn up at a party last week. We're not all time waters."
Simple answer is no they were not enough. No, not all single guys are timewasters. But if you.expect a degree of no shows you.have to msg a lot to get 6 to turn.up |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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we must have messaged about 20 other couples outside of our friends list and no replies back at all we dont meet single males any more thats why we havnt invited any we know not all males on here a timewasters but we do know some couples can be |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"rinksandboris we give all the couples plenty of notice we understand for we have kids or selfs do yous like partys xxx"
we take our hats off to anyone that organises a party , as we know the amount of people that wont reply back when asked or else say they will go and dont turn or mail the day of the party saying they cant go , yes there is always the chance something can happen with family at the last minute . but trying to organise a party is not as easy as people think and people often dont think of the work thats goes into them just for people to have some fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why is it so hard to organise a swingers party any tips or any couples interested in going to one
its not hard at all just pick a date location and invite who u want simples"
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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i used to host regular parties before it really isnt that hard yes you will have drop outs and no shows but if you have a good core group of regulars then its never a problem to get 20/30 people to a party |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!! "
so whens your next party  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!!
so whens your next party "
12th of Never is pencilled in.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!!
so whens your next party
12th of Never is pencilled in...."
thats a long long time |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!!
so whens your next party
12th of Never is pencilled in....
thats a long long time"
pmsl!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!!
so whens your next party
12th of Never is pencilled in....
thats a long long time"
Best things are worth waiting on..... and that's a fact. |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
Belfast |
"My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!! "
Should have learned after the first one woody lol
GO through this every time!!! but somehow i manage to enjoy the fact the majority of people that attend are worth it
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!!
Should have learned after the first one woody lol
GO through this every time!!! but somehow i manage to enjoy the fact the majority of people that attend are worth it
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Do you think that's a pretty accurate account I gave jaz? Feel free to add anything I may have missed out lol
Mind you, I suppose it depends on people's definition of 'a party'?? 2 or 3 couples, at the house, doesn't really rate as a party, in my books. I'd say 25+ people, is the kind of number that you could call a party.... |
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By *oci1Couple
over a year ago
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"we love going to parties , but between going to parties and trying to arrange one ourselves for later on in the year its important to get the right people there as right people there, great party"
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
Belfast |
"My advice to anyone thinking of hosting a party.......don't!! It's just not worth the hassle.....unless you're the type to just invite anyone along and have a "couldn't give a fuck" attitude.
If you put effort in, to do it right, you'll be flabbergasted at the weeks of work beforehand. Exhausted on the day, even before it starts. Stressed when people can't follow simple directions and your phone is going nuts with texts/calls/voicemails. Frustrated by the last minute dropouts and their wildly over complicated excuses, or just the usual 'time of the month' excuse from the lazy one's.
Exhausted AND Stressed, as guests show a total lack of respect for the venue and other guests. Relieved... when it's over, quickly followed by dismayed, at the amount of cleaning up to do. Angered at those that avoided paying their contribution, or short changed it. Shocked at the places people choose to put used condoms(despite bins being provided)and dirty tissues/wipes and worse. Even more xhausted after hours of cleaning AND even more stressed about the handover of keys(If you rent a venue).
Oh and then Euphoric, as the first of the verifs start to arrive....when you'll probably be put in the notion, to announce your next one.
DON'T DO IT!!
Should have learned after the first one woody lol
GO through this every time!!! but somehow i manage to enjoy the fact the majority of people that attend are worth it
Do you think that's a pretty accurate account I gave jaz? Feel free to add anything I may have missed out lol
Mind you, I suppose it depends on people's definition of 'a party'?? 2 or 3 couples, at the house, doesn't really rate as a party, in my books. I'd say 25+ people, is the kind of number that you could call a party...."
spot on woody (RIP)
the smaller parties are more intimate affairs
the bigger parties are mind blowing |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"we love going to parties , but between going to parties and trying to arrange one ourselves for later on in the year its important to get the right people there as right people there, great party "
Totally agree its the people that make the best parties.
Takes time to get to know the right people you know will make the party work
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