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over a year ago
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Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks "
im not bothered what the message says as long as its not sumthing like "hi can i destroy yur ass! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol"
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I prefer a neutral message at the start. You wouldn't walk up to someone in a bar and go straight in with dirty talk.. Or would you?"
Nope I wouldn't do that. |
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over a year ago
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"I prefer a neutral message at the start. You wouldn't walk up to someone in a bar and go straight in with dirty talk.. Or would you?" id be to shy for all that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol" hi classy lady  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just ask something like "R u ok hun?" u e i ther get blocked or just deleted for that lol "
Pretty much this.
There is never a garauntee that she will be interested, just take a shot either way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady "
hello |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady
hello " lol do's that work  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady
hello lol do's that work "
ah yea,say hi and im anybodys lol |
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"A simple hello doesnt do it for me for a first message....needs to grab my attention
even in the unlikely event tht he was hot as fuck? "
yeah well might bend the rules a wee bit in that case lol...always have to have a wee peek at profile to make sure before shooting yourself in the foot!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady
hello lol do's that work
ah yea,say hi and im anybodys lol " hi!!!   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"A simple hello doesnt do it for me for a first message....needs to grab my attention
even in the unlikely event tht he was hot as fuck?
yeah well might bend the rules a wee bit in that case lol...always have to have a wee peek at profile to make sure before shooting yourself in the foot!!"
yea i always luk at the profile first b4 i even read the message,sumtimes a first message mite be,"hi,how are u?" but after a few convos he mite be really nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady
hello lol do's that work
ah yea,say hi and im anybodys lol hi!!!  "
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only joking x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol" never send you a dirty msgs what so ever,to classy for sorth of thing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails "
ah my tried and tested method
something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails
ah my tried and tested method
something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through"
Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now...     |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails
ah my tried and tested method
something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through
Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now...    "
offs sssshhh sending you pics of my unhoovered carpet isn't too bad  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails
ah my tried and tested method
something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through
Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now...   
offs sssshhh sending you pics of my unhoovered carpet isn't too bad "
I keep telling you to get that bum fluff removed and i know you like multitasking with your hoover lotta that pic you sent was.....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails
ah my tried and tested method
something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through
Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is out now...    i always start my message with muck lady's love it "
Rather be rolling about in the muck tbh....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think most like to be respected. Just cause we are on a swinging site doesnt mean the ladys are sluts or that. Normal conversation, read profiles and not just look at the pictures. A 10 yr old read picture books. But to stand out make it interesting and with couples speak to both male and female. Speak to mia like a lady and she'll be a freak in bed |
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"Think most like to be respected. Just cause we are on a swinging site doesnt mean the ladys are sluts or that. Normal conversation, read profiles and not just look at the pictures. A 10 yr old read picture books. But to stand out make it interesting and with couples speak to both male and female. Speak to mia like a lady and she'll be a freak in bed "
If Mr L wrote that last line about me I'd kill him.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks "
Maybe just maybe the reason people block you is nothing to do with sending a dirty message...
More to do with the fact of calling people childish names... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"U should normally mail them real dirty message. Then go in chatroom drop trousers and wank on cam. Never fails
ah my tried and tested method
something original helps, just think how many "wanna fuk?" or "show me yur baps love" messages ladies on here get. Get stuck in on forums too, peoples personality or lack of shines through
Lotta you send me filthy messages everyday....oooh lets pretend we are bff's and all that....ooops the secret is iout now...   
offs sssshhh sending you pics of my unhoovered carpet isn't too bad
I keep telling you to get that bum fluff removed and i know you like multitasking with your hoover lotta that pic you sent was..... "
interesting??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think most like to be respected. Just cause we are on a swinging site doesnt mean the ladys are sluts or that. Normal conversation, read profiles and not just look at the pictures. A 10 yr old read picture books. But to stand out make it interesting and with couples speak to both male and female. Speak to mia like a lady and she'll be a freak in bed
If Mr L wrote that last line about me I'd kill him. "
Really... ah im sure she wont mind haha. Ssshhh haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks
Maybe just maybe the reason people block you is nothing to do with sending a dirty message...
More to do with the fact of calling people childish names..."
Most of the time I try and show women respect on this when sending a message but then there are times I like to try a different approach yano |
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People see messages as an intro, I have had dirty messages which were quit funny and liked them, then have had some that are just plain crud rude and unnecessary explicit. the later is unwanted I guess its about balance and keeping it light for me, just my thoughts
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dint think it really matters tbh,
I've sent all sorts of mail,apart from pure filthy ones,dont see the point,its a sex site,we are all here for same thing...
Most are read but no reply or just deleted
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all just wondering what type of messages do women/couples prefer when getting mailed by a man for the first time? I know I have been blocked a couple of times but some feedback won't hurt thanks
Maybe just maybe the reason people block you is nothing to do with sending a dirty message...
More to do with the fact of calling people childish names...
Most of the time I try and show women respect on this when sending a message but then there are times I like to try a different approach yano"
So a different approach is "hey wanna chat? " and someone says "no thanks" and the reply they get is no problem GRANNY??? ... Good luck with that i can see that approach will surely get you lots of meets!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You remember wrong then, I am very straight and if i abused you in anyway i would hold my hands up but as well you know i didn't!
This is the full conversation and that's all i have to say on the matter!
Happy fabbing
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No problem granny
2 weeks ago
No thanks.
2 weeks ago
Hey how are ya fancy a chat
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The reason I asked was that I usually send a dirty message but then I find myself bring blocked lol
i wudnt send a dirty message without saying hello first lol hi classy lady
hello " is it ok to send a durty message n ow since i got hello ou tta the way  |
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