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If a women or cpl say no, why do men feel the need to abuse them, ruins it for the rest of us
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry but how exactly does it ruin it for anyone but the abusive person????  "
Because people get that pissed off they change their settings and u don't get a chance to meet them, have been talking with a few women who have left the site because of the abuse they where getting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry but how exactly does it ruin it for anyone but the abusive person????
Because people get that pissed off they change their settings and u don't get a chance to meet them, have been talking with a few women who have left the site because of the abuse they where getting "
We can tell the difference between a good guy and a moron very quickly so I wouldn't worry too much, the abusive ones usually don't last very long anyway. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sorry but how exactly does it ruin it for anyone but the abusive person????
Because people get that pissed off they change their settings and u don't get a chance to meet them, have been talking with a few women who have left the site because of the abuse they where getting
We can tell the difference between a good guy and a moron very quickly so I wouldn't worry too much, the abusive ones usually don't last very long anyway. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Some people just deal with rejection in a childlike and aggressive way, not nice to be turned down but just have to deal with it. Thick skin needed for fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry but how exactly does it ruin it for anyone but the abusive person????
Because people get that pissed off they change their settings and u don't get a chance to meet them, have been talking with a few women who have left the site because of the abuse they where getting "
yes,a FEW women,not all of them,most have the sense not to tar everyone with the same brush |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yep we havent had much abuse and we are a straight forward couple but in saying that we have single guys blocked due to the amount of mails we got. If we need them we will find them. Most couples we have chatted with have been great to chat with. Im on the fence though cause its the same arguement with single females. Like your lucky to get a reply at times. So its just take the good with the bad and enjoy the good  |
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over a year ago
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I haven't had that much abuse really but the abuse I have had has bothered me, not going to pretend it hasn't.
What I am finding more and more is that if I'm chatting to someone they seem ok initially but after chatting for a bit realise we just aren't suitable, I worry more about telling them no not interested anymore as I may have already sent face pic by this stage, it may be irrational fear but you hear so many stories about people getting grief it makes me nervous. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I haven't had that much abuse really but the abuse I have had has bothered me, not going to pretend it hasn't.
What I am finding more and more is that if I'm chatting to someone they seem ok initially but after chatting for a bit realise we just aren't suitable, I worry more about telling them no not interested anymore as I may have already sent face pic by this stage, it may be irrational fear but you hear so many stories about people getting grief it makes me nervous."
That's true, we r all adults so if talking to some1 for a while and they then say we aren't suitable. We just have to accept it and thank them for being honest, we r all adults here for fun at the end if the day xx |
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