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One partner wants to play other dose not what do you do
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this???   
Both must want to play or jealousy/envy with rot away at them  "
Am not in a couple atm but from previous relationships i would have to agree. It might work ok at the start but I think if it continues in a similar fashion it could lead to rows as the non swinging partner may become feeling jealous or possibly inadequate. |
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"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this??? "
If it's their rules, and they're both happy it's nothing to do with us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would, if in a couple feel a bit shitty if my partner was off bonking while I wasn't in the mood.. But I agree with the rules.. set them before you go and no problems |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would, if in a couple feel a bit shitty if my partner was off bonking while I wasn't in the mood.. But I agree with the rules.. set them before you go and no problems "
True....when we meet as a couple...if one of us doesnt want to play the other wont...mr p is very good he wouldnt play unless i was happy...but if rules are set out and you's find what works for you then its your business...  |
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"I'd be uncomfortable if soneone was left. Wouldn't be nice to be just left sitting there in my opinion. Think it could lead to too many problems.
xBratx"
don't think you would b left sitting alone ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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100% about communication between the couple. If both parties are happy for 1 to play with someone else then no problem. As long as everything is open, honest, and up front. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If one of a couple wants to play. But the other dose not. But the one that dose not is happy for the other person to play, Once they are at the party with them.. what would ye feel about this??? "
I think both need to be very careful in that situation, would be shit to be left sitting waiting while the other person got their jollies , however if both are happy with the other playing alone then don't see a problem no. |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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At a party we play with whoever we want to no problem....but if it's a cpl met we have the drink meet first go home and decide if we want to make a date....there is no question of one of us takeing things further unless we both do
...and as for breaking any rules....the rule book should be firmly shoved up the offenders arse.....but only if the don't like anal |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Just to clarify... If a rule book is drawn up and one of the couple breaks a rule is the rule book then used to spank the naughty rule breaker?... 
You looking for a spanked bottom? "
Madam I'm a 'spanker' not a 'spankee'...
'Switch' me hole!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to clarify... If a rule book is drawn up and one of the couple breaks a rule is the rule book then used to spank the naughty rule breaker?...
You looking for a spanked bottom?
Madam I'm a 'spanker' not a 'spankee'...
'Switch' me hole!! "
You offering??????  |
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