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Respectful...of peoples boundaries...limits...relationship...ie that there are two on a profile and both should be addressed...i feel that as we are married that should be respected...the message content not being crude and rude...this is a sex site doesnt mean its an open house.....rules...etc...  |
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"Respectful...of peoples boundaries...limits...relationship...ie that there are two on a profile and both should be addressed...i feel that as we are married that should be respected...the message content not being crude and rude...this is a sex site doesnt mean its an open house.....rules...etc... "
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"Respectful...of peoples boundaries...limits...relationship...ie that there are two on a profile and both should be addressed...i feel that as we are married that should be respected...the message content not being crude and rude...this is a sex site doesnt mean its an open house.....rules...etc... "
it is funny how many "respectful" guys have very little respect when you grade respect like that |
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"Respectful...of peoples boundaries...limits...relationship...ie that there are two on a profile and both should be addressed...i feel that as we are married that should be respected...the message content not being crude and rude...this is a sex site doesnt mean its an open house.....rules...etc... "
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I find it kind of hard to communicate with a couples profile - you don't really know who it is you are talking to - its like when a couple have an email address - it changes the whole dynamic of sending a message/email. It makes it very businesslike.
Having said that - of course I totally respect their right to ......... |
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"I find it kind of hard to communicate with a couples profile - you don't really know who it is you are talking to - its like when a couple have an email address - it changes the whole dynamic of sending a message/email. It makes it very businesslike.
Having said that - of course I totally respect their right to ......... "
you should be able to say what you mailing to either of the parties lol |
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"I find it kind of hard to communicate with a couples profile - you don't really know who it is you are talking to - its like when a couple have an email address - it changes the whole dynamic of sending a message/email. It makes it very businesslike.
Having said that - of course I totally respect their right to .........
you should be able to say what you mailing to either of the parties lol"
Not really - What if its a wake up message - and the wrong person opens it ! LOL |
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"I find it kind of hard to communicate with a couples profile - you don't really know who it is you are talking to - its like when a couple have an email address - it changes the whole dynamic of sending a message/email. It makes it very businesslike.
Having said that - of course I totally respect their right to .........
you should be able to say what you mailing to either of the parties lol
Not really - What if its a wake up message - and the wrong person opens it ! LOL"
whats a wake up message ? |
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"I find it kind of hard to communicate with a couples profile - you don't really know who it is you are talking to - its like when a couple have an email address - it changes the whole dynamic of sending a message/email. It makes it very businesslike.
Having said that - of course I totally respect their right to .........
you should be able to say what you mailing to either of the parties lol
Not really - What if its a wake up message - and the wrong person opens it ! LOL
whats a wake up message ? "
As in first message of the day - but perhaps carrying on a sex related chat from previous night. |
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"I find it kind of hard to communicate with a couples profile - you don't really know who it is you are talking to - its like when a couple have an email address - it changes the whole dynamic of sending a message/email. It makes it very businesslike.
Having said that - of course I totally respect their right to .........
you should be able to say what you mailing to either of the parties lol
Not really - What if its a wake up message - and the wrong person opens it ! LOL
whats a wake up message ?
As in first message of the day - but perhaps carrying on a sex related chat from previous night."
that not very respectful  |
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over a year ago
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To me being respectful means actually READING my profile (which clearly sadly not alot do ) and taking what's written on it as a good guide of what i'm looking for and of course what i'm not looking for and not just going ahead and chancing yer arm anyway
Happy friday fabbers
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"I find it kind of hard to communicate with a couples profile - you don't really know who it is you are talking to - its like when a couple have an email address - it changes the whole dynamic of sending a message/email. It makes it very businesslike.
Having said that - of course I totally respect their right to .........
you should be able to say what you mailing to either of the parties lol
Not really - What if its a wake up message - and the wrong person opens it ! LOL
whats a wake up message ?
As in first message of the day - but perhaps carrying on a sex related chat from previous night.
that not very respectful "
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I am lost, or maybe lost in translation, continue having a sex chat with someone where you left off the night before is disrespectful? Maybe i am a bit thick this tonight  |
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"I am lost, or maybe lost in translation, continue having a sex chat with someone where you left off the night before is disrespectful? Maybe i am a bit thick this tonight "
well i think he ment that he was having sex chat with oe part of a cpl and wouldnt want to mail them in case the other seen it.
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"No i got that, i just don't get why that could be disrespectful, she probably tells the husband anyway "
I would have thought that too, besides how does he know for definite that it was the fem half of the couple talking the night before? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Respect is something that cannot be lost in translation and should be demonstrated by people in everyday life, unfortunately some idiots/time wasters/ fakes misconstrue the honesty of people as an open opportunity to abuse and belittle in a way only described best as bullying. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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"Respectful...of peoples boundaries...limits...relationship...ie that there are two on a profile and both should be addressed...i feel that as we are married that should be respected...the message content not being crude and rude...this is a sex site doesnt mean its an open house.....rules...etc...
it is funny how many "respectful" guys have very little respect when you grade respect like that "
Isn't it great then that not all single guys are 'cut from the same cloth' as it were... 
Respect for everyone's including my own (needs, wants, boundaries, rules, status etc) is paramount to me. I've heard so many stories of people (men and women) being disrespectful and also had disrespect shown to me but you just brush yourself off and carry on.
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"Respectful...of peoples boundaries...limits...relationship...ie that there are two on a profile and both should be addressed...i feel that as we are married that should be respected...the message content not being crude and rude...this is a sex site doesnt mean its an open house.....rules...etc...
it is funny how many "respectful" guys have very little respect when you grade respect like that
Isn't it great then that not all single guys are 'cut from the same cloth' as it were...
Respect for everyone's including my own (needs, wants, boundaries, rules, status etc) is paramount to me. I've heard so many stories of people (men and women) being disrespectful and also had disrespect shown to me but you just brush yourself off and carry on.
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i totally agree i was a single guy on here myself once and always showed respect everybody |
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"I am lost, or maybe lost in translation, continue having a sex chat with someone where you left off the night before is disrespectful? Maybe i am a bit thick this tonight
well i think he ment that he was having sex chat with oe part of a cpl and wouldnt want to mail them in case the other seen it.
mr laid"
The point I was trying to make ( and not very eloquently using the "sex chat " example above ) was that it can be difficult to communicate when you don't really know who it is you are talking to. Perhaps the trick is to view the couple as one entity and not individuals. And I suppose that is valid if they are on here as a swinging couple.
I am confusing myself now!
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"To me being respectful means actually READING my profile (which clearly sadly not alot do ) and taking what's written on it as a good guide of what i'm looking for and of course what i'm not looking for and not just going ahead and chancing yer arm anyway
Happy friday fabbers
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"The point I was trying to make ( and not very eloquently using the "sex chat " example above ) was that it can be difficult to communicate when you don't really know who it is you are talking to. Perhaps the trick is to view the couple as one entity and not individuals. And I suppose that is valid if they are on here as a swinging couple.
I am confusing myself now!
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Sounds like you finally got there OP!
There could be some confusion if the male half is bi but we share everything so I would suggest talking to them neutrally to begin. As Mr has no interest in guys any further contact of a sexual nature will be handled by me but after initial contact we would normally let the person know straight away who is chatting.
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