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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
Why is it that people think it's ok to send messages which are addressed to only one member of a couple? I'm sure it happens a lot here but I just think it's so rude...... Sure I'd love to meet you when you have completely ignored my other half!!!!
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"Welcome to Fab! Our members range from the professional elite to the downright ignorant! Sit back, relax and enjoy the flight.
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Oh I have my seat belt buckled!!
It's been annoying me for a while....... But it really p***** me off this evening. |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"I agree with op, i must say though i have gotten a good few messages from couples where they did not say whom was chatting, miss or mister!  "
Yes, that's not great either. Having to send that awkward 'so who am I talking to' message. |
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I can understand where op coming from. .
when two parties ain't addressed.
But its annoying when couples mail and u have no clue either. ..
maybe there should be a link in the message that the couples send like s icon saying if its the male or female mailing. . |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"Ah sure, there comes a point in the conversation where either the words pussy or cockcome up, then i know "
Hahahaha yes I bet!! It's great to know that every time we open a message it's going to be the start of an intelligent conversation |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"I can understand where op coming from. .
when two parties ain't addressed.
But its annoying when couples mail and u have no clue either. ..
maybe there should be a link in the message that the couples send like s icon saying if its the male or female mailing. ."
Completely agree with you there, it would make things a lot easier. We will have to come up with a better system than initials for messages from now on.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
There's a lot of truth in what u are saying i always try to address both unless i know which i am chatting to. On a similar note when a cpls profile post on the fourms it can be hard to distinguish which one is posting,we all see ur own posts signed as mrs mc which is great but others expect us to guess 
no fecking at guessing |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"There's a lot of truth in what u are saying i always try to address both unless i know which i am chatting to. On a similar note when a cpls profile post on the fourms it can be hard to distinguish which one is posting,we all see ur own posts signed as mrs mc which is great but others expect us to guess
no fecking at guessing "
Hi cj, I just think it a common courtesy to address both parties in a first message particularly.
But I see where you are coming from too, it can be difficult to tell who's who with couples on the forums. And I'm also guilty at times of not signing 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always address both. The giveaway for me is it is a couple not single
But sometimes if mails are going back and forth I don't know who is mailing back
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I agree with op, i must say though i have gotten a good few messages from couples where they did not say whom was chatting, miss or mister!
when we send a mail it will always be from both if us as we a cpl , cause if we meet people , we do it together so whats the point in misleading someone to think they are chatting to miss or mister "
Good point.. never thought of it like that. But it is still nice to know I suppose |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"I always address both. The giveaway for me is it is a couple not single
But sometimes if mails are going back and forth I don't know who is mailing back
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Yes that does seem to be the general consensus...... I think we, as a couple will definitely be making a more conscious effort to sign messages so that it's much clearer from now on.
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"I agree with op, i must say though i have gotten a good few messages from couples where they did not say whom was chatting, miss or mister!
when we send a mail it will always be from both if us as we a cpl , cause if we meet people , we do it together so whats the point in misleading someone to think they are chatting to miss or mister "
Yes I see your point _razy-cpl regardless of which one of us replies it's a given that anything said is from us both.
But I can see that for people messaging it's easier to know if it's the male or female that's chatting.
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I agree with op, i must say though i have gotten a good few messages from couples where they did not say whom was chatting, miss or mister!
when we send a mail it will always be from both if us as we a cpl , cause if we meet people , we do it together so whats the point in misleading someone to think they are chatting to miss or mister "
don't think they intend to mislead i have chatted to both at the same time and on another occasion just one of the Cpl its then the confusion happens
but it can be funny when mr answers a mail u sent when chatting to Mrs last and yes we all seen the funny side of it |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"I always address both. The giveaway for me is it is a couple not single
But sometimes if mails are going back and forth I don't know who is mailing back
Yes that does seem to be the general consensus...... I think we, as a couple will definitely be making a more conscious effort to sign messages so that it's much clearer from now on.
Miss Mcjoy "
same here
mr & mrs crazy |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"I agree with op, i must say though i have gotten a good few messages from couples where they did not say whom was chatting, miss or mister!
when we send a mail it will always be from both if us as we a cpl , cause if we meet people , we do it together so whats the point in misleading someone to think they are chatting to miss or mister
don't think they intend to mislead i have chatted to both at the same time and on another occasion just one of the Cpl its then the confusion happens
but it can be funny when mr answers a mail u sent when chatting to Mrs last and yes we all seen the funny side of it "
No I really don't think that anyone is trying to mislead but it can be confusing I guess.
That's happened to us too but luckily it was all taken in very good humour.
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"I always address both. The giveaway for me is it is a couple not single
But sometimes if mails are going back and forth I don't know who is mailing back
Yes that does seem to be the general consensus...... I think we, as a couple will definitely be making a more conscious effort to sign messages so that it's much clearer from now on.
Miss Mcjoy
same here
mr & mrs crazy "
Nice chatting to you both
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when we send a mail it will always be from both if us as we a cpl , cause if we meet people , we do it together so whats the point in misleading someone to think they are chatting to miss or mister "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I agree with op, i must say though i have gotten a good few messages from couples where they did not say whom was chatting, miss or mister!
when we send a mail it will always be from both if us as we a cpl , cause if we meet people , we do it together so whats the point in misleading someone to think they are chatting to miss or mister
don't think they intend to mislead i have chatted to both at the same time and on another occasion just one of the Cpl its then the confusion happens
but it can be funny when mr answers a mail u sent when chatting to Mrs last and yes we all seen the funny side of it
No I really don't think that anyone is trying to mislead but it can be confusing I guess.
That's happened to us too but luckily it was all taken in very good humour.
Miss Mcjoy "
yes once u have established a rappore with a cpl it can be great fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A...here....as usual!!
P...hardly ever bothers to go on here so its mostly me....
But getting mails from the majority of the couples its the men..
Boundaries are always in place even when we flirt...i hope most couples are like that!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We tend to not say who is who mailing as what we find usually happens is if we show that I (Mrs) is the one replying it usually causes them to try and turn the conversation sexual while they show a bit more respect if they aren't sure who's mailing or if they know it's Mr. It's due to this that most of the mailing and forum posting is left to himself. |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"A...here....as usual!!
P...hardly ever bothers to go on here so its mostly me....
But getting mails from the majority of the couples its the men..
Boundaries are always in place even when we flirt...i hope most couples are like that!! "
Hi Annie, same with us, Mr Mcjoy rarely uses the forums so it's usually me here.
We both flirt in messages but are both very aware of how far to take things, and it works for us.
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"We tend to not say who is who mailing as what we find usually happens is if we show that I (Mrs) is the one replying it usually causes them to try and turn the conversation sexual while they show a bit more respect if they aren't sure who's mailing or if they know it's Mr. It's due to this that most of the mailing and forum posting is left to himself."
That is often the case sadly 
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"We tend to not say who is who mailing as what we find usually happens is if we show that I (Mrs) is the one replying it usually causes them to try and turn the conversation sexual while they show a bit more respect if they aren't sure who's mailing or if they know it's Mr. It's due to this that most of the mailing and forum posting is left to himself."
i cant understand that considering ur chatting to a Cpl both will have access to all mail |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We tend to not say who is who mailing as what we find usually happens is if we show that I (Mrs) is the one replying it usually causes them to try and turn the conversation sexual while they show a bit more respect if they aren't sure who's mailing or if they know it's Mr. It's due to this that most of the mailing and forum posting is left to himself.
i cant understand that considering ur chatting to a Cpl both will have access to all mail "
Unfortunately as is the case with most sites of this nature there are always idiots who think with their cock and overlook the fact that both will see and try and chance their arm once they see the woman is mailing. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"We tend to not say who is who mailing as what we find usually happens is if we show that I (Mrs) is the one replying it usually causes them to try and turn the conversation sexual while they show a bit more respect if they aren't sure who's mailing or if they know it's Mr. It's due to this that most of the mailing and forum posting is left to himself.
i cant understand that considering ur chatting to a Cpl both will have access to all mail
Unfortunately as is the case with most sites of this nature there are always idiots who think with their cock and overlook the fact that both will see and try and chance their arm once they see the woman is mailing."
the small head thinking for the big head i know what ur saying |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"We tend to not say who is who mailing as what we find usually happens is if we show that I (Mrs) is the one replying it usually causes them to try and turn the conversation sexual while they show a bit more respect if they aren't sure who's mailing or if they know it's Mr. It's due to this that most of the mailing and forum posting is left to himself.
i cant understand that considering ur chatting to a Cpl both will have access to all mail
Unfortunately as is the case with most sites of this nature there are always idiots who think with their cock and overlook the fact that both will see and try and chance their arm once they see the woman is mailing."
Kind of sad to think that those people don't understand what being in a real relationship is all about..... Like one of us would do anything without the others knowledge !!!
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"Why is it that people think it's ok to send messages which are addressed to only one member of a couple? I'm sure it happens a lot here but I just think it's so rude...... Sure I'd love to meet you when you have completely ignored my other half!!!!
ups i did it last nite too tell mister my apologies id bite his bum too with plesure xxx"
Haha Hey Gorgeous, old friends aren't included in that.......
And I'm sure Mr Mcjoy would be delighted to have you bite his sexy ass too
Miss Mcjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of truth in what u are saying i always try to address both unless i know which i am chatting to. On a similar note when a cpls profile post on the fourms it can be hard to distinguish which one is posting,we all see ur own posts signed as mrs mc which is great but others expect us to guess
no fecking at guessing
Hi cj, I just think it a common courtesy to address both parties in a first message particularly.
But I see where you are coming from too, it can be difficult to tell who's who with couples on the forums. And I'm also guilty at times of not signing
Miss Mcjoy "
Yikes good point and I'm guilty of that too... but its usually Mrs Noire posting |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it that people think it's ok to send messages which are addressed to only one member of a couple? I'm sure it happens a lot here but I just think it's so rude...... Sure I'd love to meet you when you have completely ignored my other half!!!!
ups i did it last nite too tell mister my apologies id bite his bum too with plesure xxx
Haha Hey Gorgeous, old friends aren't included in that.......
And I'm sure Mr Mcjoy would be delighted to have you bite his sexy ass too
Miss Mcjoy "
will do with the cherry on top |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is it that people think it's ok to send messages which are addressed to only one member of a couple? I'm sure it happens a lot here but I just think it's so rude...... Sure I'd love to meet you when you have completely ignored my other half!!!!
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haha sure what about the ones that say 'would the wife like a good fucking'
A- im not married
B- its only me that uses the profile! |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"There's a lot of truth in what u are saying i always try to address both unless i know which i am chatting to. On a similar note when a cpls profile post on the fourms it can be hard to distinguish which one is posting,we all see ur own posts signed as mrs mc which is great but others expect us to guess
no fecking at guessing
Hi cj, I just think it a common courtesy to address both parties in a first message particularly.
But I see where you are coming from too, it can be difficult to tell who's who with couples on the forums. And I'm also guilty at times of not signing
Miss Mcjoy
Yikes good point and I'm guilty of that too... but its usually Mrs Noire posting"
Hi Mrs Noire......... Only thing you're guilty of is being hot
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's a lot of truth in what u are saying i always try to address both unless i know which i am chatting to. On a similar note when a cpls profile post on the fourms it can be hard to distinguish which one is posting,we all see ur own posts signed as mrs mc which is great but others expect us to guess
no fecking at guessing
Hi cj, I just think it a common courtesy to address both parties in a first message particularly.
But I see where you are coming from too, it can be difficult to tell who's who with couples on the forums. And I'm also guilty at times of not signing
Miss Mcjoy
Yikes good point and I'm guilty of that too... but its usually Mrs Noire posting
Hi Mrs Noire......... Only thing you're guilty of is being hot
Miss Mcjoy "
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"Why is it that people think it's ok to send messages which are addressed to only one member of a couple? I'm sure it happens a lot here but I just think it's so rude...... Sure I'd love to meet you when you have completely ignored my other half!!!!
haha sure what about the ones that say 'would the wife like a good fucking'
A- im not married
B- its only me that uses the profile!"
That drives me cracked!! Like Mr Mcjoy is going to answer messages like that....... Good luck getting a meet with lines like that my friend!!!
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"Why is it that people think it's ok to send messages which are addressed to only one member of a couple? I'm sure it happens a lot here but I just think it's so rude...... Sure I'd love to meet you when you have completely ignored my other half!!!!
ups i did it last nite too tell mister my apologies id bite his bum too with plesure xxx
Haha Hey Gorgeous, old friends aren't included in that.......
And I'm sure Mr Mcjoy would be delighted to have you bite his sexy ass too
Miss Mcjoy will do with the cherry on top "
Mmmmmmmmm yes please
Miss Mcjoy |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"My bf never comes on here I'm left to do all the dirty work wish he did sometimes I'd luv to see a change In some of the messages I get if they taught it was a male they wer talkin to "
Oh yeah..... I'd say there'd be a very quick change of tone and attitude
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"My bf never comes on here I'm left to do all the dirty work wish he did sometimes I'd luv to see a change In some of the messages I get if they taught it was a male they wer talkin to
Oh yeah..... I'd say there'd be a very quick change of tone and attitude
Miss Mcjoy "
might pretend one day see what happens |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"My bf never comes on here I'm left to do all the dirty work wish he did sometimes I'd luv to see a change In some of the messages I get if they taught it was a male they wer talkin to
Oh yeah..... I'd say there'd be a very quick change of tone and attitude
Miss Mcjoy might pretend one day see what happens "
That would be quite amusing..... You'll have to keep us posted
Miss Mcjoy |
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over a year ago
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"We tend to not say who is who mailing as what we find usually happens is if we show that I (Mrs) is the one replying it usually causes them to try and turn the conversation sexual while they show a bit more respect if they aren't sure who's mailing or if they know it's Mr. It's due to this that most of the mailing and forum posting is left to himself."
100% agree Laura does a lot of the messages on here and when its me (tom) the guys change conversation totally and are really polite .when they know its Laura all they want is sex text .we have found that the male half of couples are worse for this than the single males |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"I can understand where op coming from. .
when two parties ain't addressed.
But its annoying when couples mail and u have no clue either. ..
maybe there should be a link in the message that the couples send like s icon saying if its the male or female mailing. ."
The same when posting on forums too. |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"not good,but so is people not replying to msgs,a simple no thanks is usually sufficient.but no most dont even bother that lmao"
I do agree with you there, and we generally reply to all messages
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"not good,but so is people not replying to msgs,a simple no thanks is usually sufficient.but no most dont even bother that lmao"
most dont reply beacause the sender hasnt bothered to read the profile,or decided to completely ignore the profilers wishes.now why would that warrant a reply? |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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I am guilty of this all the time...I just assume everyone knows its me mrs cause mr is never on the forums. ..but will have to remember in future. ...in messages it might be either of us not a problem I think when its cpls cause cpls know it to and from both |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"not good,but so is people not replying to msgs,a simple no thanks is usually sufficient.but no most dont even bother that lmao
most dont reply beacause the sender hasnt bothered to read the profile,or decided to completely ignore the profilers wishes.now why would that warrant a reply?"
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I always have to ask which of the cpl it is messaging me
Gets a bit dull after a while, 2 sides to this I think lol
Especially shitty if there had been a mix up with communication and one of the pair get arsey!
Had this yesterday and can live without the hassle to be honest
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