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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey All
Now I'm not having a go at anyone or any group of people.
I'm new here about a week. I have literally just been granted access to the forums hence the post now.
But i have found myself a little intimated I must admit.
Now I'm s big boy and can take rejection / criticism etc bug find the atmosphere sometimes a little hostile.
Just wondering what everyone else thinks. Maybe it's because I'm new .. I'm not sure.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hey All
Now I'm not having a go at anyone or any group of people.
I'm new here about a week. I have literally just been granted access to the forums hence the post now.
But i have found myself a little intimated I must admit.
Now I'm s big boy and can take rejection / criticism etc bug find the atmosphere sometimes a little hostile.
Just wondering what everyone else thinks. Maybe it's because I'm new .. I'm not sure.."
think people can be very sarcastic and even rude at times |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just in replies on the forums. . Not aimed at me but in general.
I have received some rude mails but I understand you'll get that.
Maybe it's sarcasm I don't know... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Things do get heated sometimes but i think it can be normal as we are all humans and get a bit annoyed , not saying is right, about the pm well try and don't let it bother you, no need for rude or nasty messages x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I suppose as I'm returning I had this image of it being great.. but obviously forgot the nor so nice experiences. .
It's probably just me being a bit timid I suppose... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey Gaz....the forum is a great place to have a laugh! You gotta be thick skinned here too tho...but i think the most of the "usuals" who post here mean no harm and just like a bit of banter....Also i think sometimes people can be misinterpreted through text,heated or sarcastic....no that's just mick Mc lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Hey Gaz....the forum is a great place to have a laugh! You gotta be thick skinned here too tho...but i think the most of the "usuals" who post here mean no harm and just like a bit of banter....Also i think sometimes people can be misinterpreted through text,heated or sarcastic....no that's just mick Mc lol "
Ah no I understand and thanks for all the replies I was just a little overwhelmed I suppose. Maybe I'm just a little sensitive 
I'll have to grow thicker skin |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.  "
It's probably going to fall off at this stage |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"I suppose as I'm returning I had this image of it being great.. but obviously forgot the nor so nice experiences. .
It's probably just me being a bit timid I suppose..."
Big hug and enjoy ,..... and develop skin like a rhino  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I suppose as I'm returning I had this image of it being great.. but obviously forgot the nor so nice experiences. .
It's probably just me being a bit timid I suppose...
Big hug and enjoy ,..... and develop skin like a rhino "
Thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.
It's probably going to fall off at this stage "
Welcome to the forums
We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.
It's probably going to fall off at this stage
Welcome to the forums
We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever "
I'll bear that in mind lol
But I still think I may wear a cup |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.
It's probably going to fall off at this stage
Welcome to the forums
We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever "
No but you do a Quare head lock  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Gaz you will grown thicker skin, i was a bit like you, and it does get better, keep posting and block those who are not nice xx"
Thanks for the advice and the other guys and you are right..
I must be having an emotional night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.
It's probably going to fall off at this stage
Welcome to the forums
We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever
No but you do a Quare head lock "
Watch it sunshine  |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"It's all the sexual tension, I recommend knocking one out before you post, makes for a much more relaxed tone.
It's probably going to fall off at this stage
Welcome to the forums
We aren't THAT scary, I've never kneed anyone in the nuts ever
No but you do a Quare head lock
Watch it sunshine "
I thought it was a moon   |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"Lol
Just need to learn to ignore the bitching. The genuine one's make this place fun and worth it. Relax and enjoy.
Don't lie...It's the bitching that make it fun!!! "
Fun ?? When did this start   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Gaz you will grown thicker skin, i was a bit like you, and it does get better, keep posting and block those who are not nice xx
Thanks for the advice and the other guys and you are right..
I must be having an emotional night "
Is not that bad lol. ... We are all a pretty friendly bunch . Well most lol. .. Welcome
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution... |
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"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution... "
aww foxie don't as my mum used say feck the bergrudgers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution... "
Bitching on here really? Next ya will be saying the cliques!!!!!.
Good to see ya back |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution... "
Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...
Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great. "
The last few days!! Whats that 5 out if 365 there is a bitta craic here!!! No thanks nippy!! Enough bitching in the real world.. |
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"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...
Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great.
The last few days!! Whats that 5 out if 365 there is a bitta craic here!!! No thanks nippy!! Enough bitching in the real world.."
that's a shame roxie so many people have taken a back seat in the forums lately.
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"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago. "
Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled
The place is a joke |
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"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago. Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled
The place is a joke "
. Thanks, I have a very nice lad, or did I read that wrong? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand that the forum can come across as intimidating. Some people know each other or others have been on the forums for a while and it looks like one big gang. Then there are the shit stirrers and the ones who wait for the shit stirrers to start so they can have a good go too lol
Remember it's all just an online thing, it's not actually real. Just have fun and when the shit hits the fan, duck!
You're probably best off not to post any complaining threads about not getting any meets or how rude all the women are.... that won't help haha
Best of luck and welcome! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Welcome OP...
Now, thats all the girls on their besh behavior.. nice welcoming tones and friendly bunch...
Just you wait till theyre all on their periods m8.. fuckin hell... dont look at them the wrong way on here.. theyre like wild bunch of hyenas.. rip ya to bits they would !!
Anyhow, welcome, grow a thick skin, youll be loved one day, hated the next, dont say anything too controversial, remember, the walls have eyes... and ears.. and sometimes a big boot that kick yas out of Forums
May your stay be long and a happy one
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago. Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled
The place is a joke "
i bet u say that to all the guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you. When you're an outsider looking in their is peeps here who I would not meet due to their rudeness or been unpleasant to others.Everyone has a right to post here yet regular forum users will make unnecessary comment on threads to stir a reaction.
No surprise why there are time outs and bans!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it
There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Welcome OP...
Now, thats all the girls on their besh behavior.. nice welcoming tones and friendly bunch...
Just you wait till theyre all on their periods m8.. fuckin hell... dont look at them the wrong way on here.. theyre like wild bunch of hyenas.. rip ya to bits they would !!
Anyhow, welcome, grow a thick skin, youll be loved one day, hated the next, dont say anything too controversial, remember, the walls have eyes... and ears.. and sometimes a big boot that kick yas out of Forums
May your stay be long and a happy one
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thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it
There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react
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The forums are not an accurate representation of the site anyway, sure it is only a small percentage of people that even post on them, the rest are lurkers. |
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"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it
There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react
The forums are not an accurate representation of the site anyway, sure it is only a small percentage of people that even post on them, the rest are lurkers."
I'm a lurker  |
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"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it
There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react
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"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it
There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react
The forums are not an accurate representation of the site anyway, sure it is only a small percentage of people that even post on them, the rest are lurkers.
I'm a lurker "
Do you look a bit like a greyhound?
Oh wait, is that a lurcher? |
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"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it
There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...
Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great.
The last few days!! Whats that 5 out if 365 there is a bitta craic here!!! No thanks nippy!! Enough bitching in the real world.."
I thought this was the real world!!
Like real life the forums have their good n bad times but overall its more good than bad I reckon. But I agree with Letme......we do miss the posters who were more active on here with positive/informative/entertaining/witty posts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago. Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled
The place is a joke "
Once again finding myself agreeing with Letme....... I won't embarrass you Michael lol....but will just say he is sound out |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Tbh, and this is really only my opinion, and not a pop at anyone , if the forums upset anyone that much, then they really do need to step away. It's not worth it
There will always be differences of opinions on here, that's life, no one can change that. All anyone can change is how they react
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Spot on and take responsibility for their reaction. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I used to be a pretty regular poster in the forums and I have totally stopped in the last about 3/4 weeks cause of all the bitching that goes on here.. thread with caution...
Aww foxie, come on back. The craic in here the past few days has been great.
The last few days!! Whats that 5 out if 365 there is a bitta craic here!!! No thanks nippy!! Enough bitching in the real world..
I thought this was the real world!!
Like real life the forums have their good n bad times but overall its more good than bad I reckon. But I agree with Letme......we do miss the posters who were more active on here with positive/informative/entertaining/witty posts. "
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"I would imagine there's more bitchiness in private messages than on the forum. That's been my experience anyway, including the one I got ten minutes ago. Michael why u have to be the nicest lad on here and for to get a nasty mail im baffled
The place is a joke
Once again finding myself agreeing with Letme....... I won't embarrass you Michael lol....but will just say he is sound out "
Yip one of the good guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hey All
Now I'm not having a go at anyone or any group of people.
I'm new here about a week. I have literally just been granted access to the forums hence the post now.
But i have found myself a little intimated I must admit.
Now I'm s big boy and can take rejection / criticism etc bug find the atmosphere sometimes a little hostile.
Just wondering what everyone else thinks. Maybe it's because I'm new .. I'm not sure.."
I will hold your hand lol...honestly...its not that scary...a thick skin...hell yessss...but as some above have said...it isnt the real world so if it gets bit much just have a break...i just lept into the forums and its great fun and a good way to meet people and tbh the laughs i have on here outway the negatives!! |
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