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Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today "
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site. "
You call that attention seeking???
Sheesh stick around here for a day, you will soon see attention seeking |
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over a year ago
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Women...can afford to be fussy on here...no two ways about it...but its hard being a couple aswell as we both have to find someone we both like to play with...sofia is right just dont pander to it..alot do!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Drawing attention to themselves yes,letting guys know they are available that day for fun yes,but it doesn't mean they have to shag every guy that contacts them.
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over a year ago
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women..."
I agree. The fake ones are just so blatant it's obvious |
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over a year ago
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"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site.
You call that attention seeking???
Sheesh stick around here for a day, you will soon see attention seeking "
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Yes but then its these "Fake" or "Attention Seeking" profiles that put statuses or shit about Single men calling them fake or more so and then make single males look bad. acting like they run the place!!
There should be a section, like the way you can verify a persons profile. To mark them as fake. I think All profiles should have their verification picture up. Or if they don't turn up to meets that you can tag them as a "No-Show"
Single omen here have wayyyy to much power over single males yet we are all here for the same reasons!!  |
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over a year ago
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I agree. The fake ones are just so blatant it's obvious"
Yep me to. .. But it does apply to guys as well esp rise who can accommodate then
suddenly can't. .. To many fakes sadly but loads of lovely people to  |
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NO see that's what I agree with. If they are available, don't make a public display about it on the status link. Put up a "Meet Me" advertisement. OR mail a guy. Putting up a blatant status about "Ohh feeling horny, any takers" and then start making excuses or being like sorry no when guys do mail.because guaranteed a few hours later their putting statuses up about "Ohh at home, would love a seeing to" or some shit like that! |
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"Yes but then its these "Fake" or "Attention Seeking" profiles that put statuses or shit about Single men calling them fake or more so and then make single males look bad. acting like they run the place!!
There should be a section, like the way you can verify a persons profile. To mark them as fake. I think All profiles should have their verification picture up. Or if they don't turn up to meets that you can tag them as a "No-Show"
Single omen here have wayyyy to much power over single males yet we are all here for the same reasons!! "
Single women have as much power as you guys allow them to have
Don't forget, straight single girls are usually wanting straight single guys. The power exchange should be equal.
Unfortunately there are so many guys on here who will say or do anything for a quick shag it's no wonder the power exchange has shifted
Block, ignore and move on to someone who is your equal |
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I agree. The fake ones are just so blatant it's obvious
Yep me to. .. But it does apply to guys as well esp rise who can accommodate then
suddenly can't. .. To many fakes sadly but loads of lovely people to "
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I agree. The fake ones are just so blatant it's obvious
Yep me to. .. But it does apply to guys as well esp rise who can accommodate then
suddenly can't. .. To many fakes sadly but loads of lovely people to "
have to say there i can acc lol  but most ladys say the travel when u arrange a meet after chattung for a while they back down or start playing games. |
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what is really the difference between me putting up a meet request and a status saying I'm looking for a meet?
In both cases, I still have a choice whether I want to accept any of the offers, if there are any.
Personally, I've done both and I don't really do it again because some guys have a sense of entitlement and think once they write to me, they have the right to meet - because it was me who put up a meet request, so why am I suddenly being difficult???
I'm in no way a supermodel but I still have my preferences. So should everyone . Let's say you write to me after I put up a 'need a shag' update. We start chatting and I realise you're not for me, we don't have the same kinks or I don't find you attractive or not very nice. It's still my right to say no. Maybe I make up an excuse because you're a bit pushy or just plain weird. That can happen too. This is just an example and I'm not saying that's how you or me are.
Maybe they made the same mistake like me and have put up these updates. Then they got overwhelmed by the amount of emails and some of them can be quite crude.
I'm not defending a behaviour which is acting superior or arrogant. But I don't like any people with a sense of entitlement.
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"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site. "
The fact will not become better, no matter how many times we are criticizing and repeats it.  yes here are time wasters , fakes, just attention-seeking people, and here are more females than males .. so here is not only the ratio Women to Men is 1:100 what means there is a higher risk to find an fake or whatever with an female profile, than between males.... it is as it is |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just to play devils advocate though how do you know these "females" have not met someone who has mailed them?"
The OP is coming across like he is pissed women are saying no to him, how would he know who they are and aren't meeting???????? |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Women...can afford to be fussy on here...no two ways about it...but its hard being a couple aswell as we both have to find someone we both like to play with...sofia is right just dont pander to it..alot do!! "
i agree its very hard for cpls to get it just right...you have to be twice as lucky as a single guy/girl the only up side is you still have someone to shag at the end of the night |
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Exactly do guys expect girls to fall at there feet like were desperate jesus another guy who can't take rejection , like a message I got yesterday "hey slut I'm in your area tomorrow wana meet " I rest my case |
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"Exactly do guys expect girls to fall at there feet like were desperate jesus another guy who can't take rejection , like a message I got yesterday "hey slut I'm in your area tomorrow wana meet " I rest my case "
just a question how can singke lads mail you when u have them blocked are the fake profiles. |
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I'm not fake I have them blocked because I'm not interested in guys plus I have them blocked because of all the nasty messages I've received and reported over the last week because when I tell a guy thanks but no thanks he gets nasty |
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"what is really the difference between me putting up a meet request and a status saying I'm looking for a meet?
In both cases, I still have a choice whether I want to accept any of the offers, if there are any.
Personally, I've done both and I don't really do it again because some guys have a sense of entitlement and think once they write to me, they have the right to meet - because it was me who put up a meet request, so why am I suddenly being difficult???
I'm in no way a supermodel but I still have my preferences. So should everyone . Let's say you write to me after I put up a 'need a shag' update. We start chatting and I realise you're not for me, we don't have the same kinks or I don't find you attractive or not very nice. It's still my right to say no. Maybe I make up an excuse because you're a bit pushy or just plain weird. That can happen too. This is just an example and I'm not saying that's how you or me are.
Maybe they made the same mistake like me and have put up these updates. Then they got overwhelmed by the amount of emails and some of them can be quite crude.
I'm not defending a behaviour which is acting superior or arrogant. But I don't like any people with a sense of entitlement.
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Well said!! Just coz someone posts a meet, doesn't mean she has to meet every guy who mails her then in response to that status!!
I don't see how posting a meet or a status saying you want a meet makes the OP think there are women who feel they run the site? God forbid she has a mind of her own and uses her right to say no |
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"I have been told whinging on the forums is a great way to get meets, havent tried it so far but I am going to give it a go on Thursday"
Ah ranty Thursday as it's known in The Lounge forum |
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"I'm not fake I have them blocked because I'm not interested in guys plus I have them blocked because of all the nasty messages I've received and reported over the last week because when I tell a guy thanks but no thanks he gets nasty"
no worries atall lynda thanks for explaining. |
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Ok I may be Completly wrong but the way I see it is a woman put whatever in her status it's not that she's saying every guy here mail me I'm gonna fuck this first one I open.
Now I'd say it's more likely that girl has maybe talked to a few guys that she gets on with and really is puttin the status for them.
If I'd never chatted to someone why would I send them a message for to meet there n then. I don't think that women have any more power on here than guys they just don't drop there knickers to every guy just because they have sent them a message. |
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"Ok I may be Completly wrong but the way I see it is a woman put whatever in her status it's not that she's saying every guy here mail me I'm gonna fuck this first one I open.
Now I'd say it's more likely that girl has maybe talked to a few guys that she gets on with and really is puttin the status for them.
If I'd never chatted to someone why would I send them a message for to meet there n then. I don't think that women have any more power on here than guys they just don't drop there knickers to every guy just because they have sent them a message. "
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"Ok I may be Completly wrong but the way I see it is a woman put whatever in her status it's not that she's saying every guy here mail me I'm gonna fuck this first one I open.
Now I'd say it's more likely that girl has maybe talked to a few guys that she gets on with and really is puttin the status for them.
If I'd never chatted to someone why would I send them a message for to meet there n then. I don't think that women have any more power on here than guys they just don't drop there knickers to every guy just because they have sent them a message. "
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"Ok I may be Completly wrong but the way I see it is a woman put whatever in her status it's not that she's saying every guy here mail me I'm gonna fuck this first one I open.
Now I'd say it's more likely that girl has maybe talked to a few guys that she gets on with and really is puttin the status for them.
If I'd never chatted to someone why would I send them a message for to meet there n then. I don't think that women have any more power on here than guys they just don't drop there knickers to every guy just because they have sent them a message. "
Thankfully a man who is using good reasoning. Why are there so many bitter men on here??
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"I have been told whinging on the forums is a great way to get meets, havent tried it so far but I am going to give it a go on Thursday"
do u think winging on the on the forums will get you meets
errr I would think I would be a drama queen and people think Chris that's ones having trouble keep away from her. |
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"I have been told whinging on the forums is a great way to get meets, havent tried it so far but I am going to give it a go on Thursday do u think winging on the on the forums will get you meets
errr I would think I would be a drama queen and people think Chris that's ones having trouble keep away from her. "
Yep, that's what I think of the drama lamas. Others will catch on eventually 
Btw letme, willy was taking the piss, being very ironic |
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"I have been told whinging on the forums is a great way to get meets, havent tried it so far but I am going to give it a go on Thursday do u think winging on the on the forums will get you meets
errr I would think I would be a drama queen and people think Chris that's ones having trouble keep away from her. "
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"Exactly do guys expect girls to fall at there feet like were desperate jesus another guy who can't take rejection , like a message I got yesterday "hey slut I'm in your area tomorrow wana meet " I rest my case
just a question how can singke lads mail you when u have them blocked are the fake profiles."
So if you have single guys blocked you are fake. So does that mean I'm fake cos they are blocked on my profile? Errr no - just fed up with 'fancy a fuck' messages and using the site how I want. |
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"I have been told whinging on the forums is a great way to get meets, havent tried it so far but I am going to give it a go on Thursday do u think winging on the on the forums will get you meets
errr I would think I would be a drama queen and people think Chris that's ones having trouble keep away from her.
Yep, that's what I think of the drama lamas. Others will catch on eventually
Btw letme, willy was taking the piss, being very ironic "
ohhh thank god for that no dramas please irs not s soap opera this place |
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"I have been told whinging on the forums is a great way to get meets, havent tried it so far but I am going to give it a go on Thursday do u think winging on the on the forums will get you meets
errr I would think I would be a drama queen and people think Chris that's ones having trouble keep away from her.
Yep, that's what I think of the drama lamas. Others will catch on eventually
Btw letme, willy was taking the piss, being very ironic "
hey nippy we had our own drama last week fooey and them.bloody icecreams well foofoo u can keep them I not having it now !!!!! |
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I agree somewhat with the original poster .
A lot of people do go overboard with the current status - who really wants to know if you "have been spit roasted last night ".
It's not very classy. Slutiness also has it's part to play on here. In the bedroom though. |
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"Women...can afford to be fussy on here...no two ways about it...but its hard being a couple aswell as we both have to find someone we both like to play with...sofia is right just dont pander to it..alot do!!
i agree its very hard for cpls to get it just right...you have to be twice as lucky as a single guy/girl the only up side is you still have someone to shag at the end of the night "
very true lol...we are still in a win win... |
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"I have been told whinging on the forums is a great way to get meets, havent tried it so far but I am going to give it a go on Thursday do u think winging on the on the forums will get you meets
errr I would think I would be a drama queen and people think Chris that's ones having trouble keep away from her.
Yep, that's what I think of the drama lamas. Others will catch on eventually
Btw letme, willy was taking the piss, being very ironic hey nippy we had our own drama last week fooey and them.bloody icecreams well foofoo u can keep them I not having it now !!!!! "
I think fooey got lost on his ride |
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Doesnt matter what single girls put on as their status..
If you mail them and they say "no thanks" therye entitled to go and put something new on an hour later and still look for a meet..
In fact they can do it for days on end and until they find someone right to meet, then they could stop posting up ..
Anyone whos got a "no" ( and we all do ), get the fuck over it.. move on.. go have a wank or keep looking for a meet..
Remember.. girls rules change by the fuckin minute anyhow |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"Exactly do guys expect girls to fall at there feet like were desperate jesus another guy who can't take rejection , like a message I got yesterday "hey slut I'm in your area tomorrow wana meet " I rest my case
just a question how can singke lads mail you when u have them blocked are the fake profiles.
So if you have single guys blocked you are fake. So does that mean I'm fake cos they are blocked on my profile? Errr no - just fed up with 'fancy a fuck' messages and using the site how I want."
I hid my profile last week because I was fed up with the 'fancy a fuck' messages too......the peace and quiet was unbelievable!
But back to the original thread - female puts up status update looking for a meet. She gets, say, 20 messages from single guys. Option 1 is that she turns down 19 guys and is called a fake/timewaster/ twisted bitch for not meeting said 19 guys. Option 2 is that she meets all 20 guys and is called a slut/whore or many other names. Where does she win??? Can't really see that she does. Just because we're on a sex site, doesn't mean that we don't have standards, and nor does it mean that we 'control' the site. A hint of sour grapes me thinks?? |
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"So true I'm seriously thinking of deleting account some messages are so childish .."
Why?
Why not block males from contacting you, and you do the searching
Yes it means you don't get to boast about your millions of mails you get, but you get to control your use of the site. You choose who you want to talk to. Saves all that heartache and crap |
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"Exactly do guys expect girls to fall at there feet like were desperate jesus another guy who can't take rejection , like a message I got yesterday "hey slut I'm in your area tomorrow wana meet " I rest my case
just a question how can singke lads mail you when u have them blocked are the fake profiles.
So if you have single guys blocked you are fake. So does that mean I'm fake cos they are blocked on my profile? Errr no - just fed up with 'fancy a fuck' messages and using the site how I want.
I hid my profile last week because I was fed up with the 'fancy a fuck' messages too......the peace and quiet was unbelievable!
But back to the original thread - female puts up status update looking for a meet. She gets, say, 20 messages from single guys. Option 1 is that she turns down 19 guys and is called a fake/timewaster/ twisted bitch for not meeting said 19 guys. Option 2 is that she meets all 20 guys and is called a slut/whore or many other names. Where does she win??? Can't really see that she does. Just because we're on a sex site, doesn't mean that we don't have standards, and nor does it mean that we 'control' the site. A hint of sour grapes me thinks??"
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"So true I'm seriously thinking of deleting account some messages are so childish ..
Why?
Why not block males from contacting you, and you do the searching
Yes it means you don't get to boast about your millions of mails you get, but you get to control your use of the site. You choose who you want to talk to. Saves all that heartache and crap "
" please please chase me " so that I can have fun telling you to f*ck right off ! |
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"When have you ever heard of me boasting am I not allowed an opinion??"
Sorry that wasn't a personal dig or anything. I apologise if you thought it was
I'm just saying that it's so easy to block guys and still stay on the site. A lot of us who have been here a while become proactive and look for what we want , rather then wait for it to fall in our laps
Means we are the few females who say we don't get much mail and the mail we do get is often of a better quality because we are only getting mail from people we are looking to attract
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i know this is off topic.. but...
went to view a girls profile in this thread.. and it cam up she has us blocked.. thats fine..
hovever.. when we go to block her... it wont let us do it ?? wtf ???
how does this happen ???
help please |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Such a shame one or 2 nice guys on here but a few nasty People on here spoil it for many such a shame"
There's loads of lovely people on here. Don't let one or two eejits chase you off. Use your filters and work the site |
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"i know this is off topic.. but...
went to view a girls profile in this thread.. and it cam up she has us blocked.. thats fine..
hovever.. when we go to block her... it wont let us do it ?? wtf ???
how does this happen ???
help please "
Go to your blocked list and type her addy in it |
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"Such a shame one or 2 nice guys on here but a few nasty People on here spoil it for many such a shame"
Theres loads of nice guys on here. They usually dont post on here tho. |
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"Exactly do guys expect girls to fall at there feet like were desperate jesus another guy who can't take rejection , like a message I got yesterday "hey slut I'm in your area tomorrow wana meet " I rest my case
just a question how can singke lads mail you when u have them blocked are the fake profiles.
So if you have single guys blocked you are fake. So does that mean I'm fake cos they are blocked on my profile? Errr no - just fed up with 'fancy a fuck' messages and using the site how I want.
I hid my profile last week because I was fed up with the 'fancy a fuck' messages too......the peace and quiet was unbelievable!
But back to the original thread - female puts up status update looking for a meet. She gets, say, 20 messages from single guys. Option 1 is that she turns down 19 guys and is called a fake/timewaster/ twisted bitch for not meeting said 19 guys. Option 2 is that she meets all 20 guys and is called a slut/whore or many other names. Where does she win??? Can't really see that she does. Just because we're on a sex site, doesn't mean that we don't have standards, and nor does it mean that we 'control' the site. A hint of sour grapes me thinks?? "
Absolutely! Tho I don't give a flying fig what men think of me on here. And if they are whiny even less. My profile. My way of running it. If you don't like something block and move on. |
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"i know this is off topic.. but...
went to view a girls profile in this thread.. and it cam up she has us blocked.. thats fine..
hovever.. when we go to block her... it wont let us do it ?? wtf ???
how does this happen ???
help please
Go to your blocked list and type her addy in it"
i did nippy, but it doesnt transfer her onto the blocked list.. wtf !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've often put up feeling in wicked mood etc. Why the he'll not."
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"I've often put up feeling in wicked mood etc. Why the he'll not.
yeah and last time you did and I emailed you, you had the audacity to reject me!!! How very dare you!!! "
Well it was a long shot after all |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"So true I'm seriously thinking of deleting account some messages are so childish ..
Why?
Why not block males from contacting you, and you do the searching
Yes it means you don't get to boast about your millions of mails you get, but you get to control your use of the site. You choose who you want to talk to. Saves all that heartache and crap "
Single ladies or cpls looking for guys listen to nippy it's common sense.....look at it this way.....if a retailer sent you 100 pairs of shoes you might see a pair you like....but if you go shopping chances are you will find a pair that are just right cause you already know what you like the retailer doesn't.....do ya get me?.....block and look yourself....works a charm....but I fear it will fall on deaf ears |
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By *ichelle 2014Woman
over a year ago
Cork / limerick / tipp / Clare |
"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site. "
Oh dear have I upset you in some way |
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"yeah loads of great guys on here.... unforunately plenty of idiots too but hey, who said this is easy? lol"
do ye find it easy to spot the idiots?
they should stand out? |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site.
Oh dear have I upset you in some way "
Yea u had the cheek to turn him down |
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Is starting this thread not obvious attention seeking? Smacks of "please notice me" a bit
The idea of this site is to meet other people is it not,for one to do that there is a certain necessity to attract attention.What makes stating what's on your mind in a dedicated status section any less a case of seeking attention than putting up pictures of your cock/tits/ass etc
I take your point about women having more control but such is life here.When women are outnumbered possibly 10:1 they have a right to be choosy.If you're going to get so wound up,almost cynical by someone's status then ignore it.And common sense would suggest if a woman does put a status up shes obviously going to get an even higher volume of messages and if yours isn't one that stands out then just move on,throwing your toys out of the pram seems a tad juvenile,almost desperate frustration.Get over it. |
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By *ichelle 2014Woman
over a year ago
Cork / limerick / tipp / Clare |
"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site.
Oh dear have I upset you in some way
Yea u had the cheek to turn him down "
Funny thing is I don't have any mail from him |
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"yeah loads of great guys on here.... unforunately plenty of idiots too but hey, who said this is easy? lol
do ye find it easy to spot the idiots?
they should stand out?"
sometimes it takes a few messages and once or twice I had to meet them before I realised it. Some are good at disguise lol |
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By *ichelle 2014Woman
over a year ago
Cork / limerick / tipp / Clare |
"Is starting this thread not obvious attention seeking? Smacks of "please notice me" a bit
The idea of this site is to meet other people is it not,for one to do that there is a certain necessity to attract attention.What makes stating what's on your mind in a dedicated status section any less a case of seeking attention than putting up pictures of your cock/tits/ass etc
I take your point about women having more control but such is life here.When women are outnumbered possibly 10:1 they have a right to be choosy.If you're going to get so wound up,almost cynical by someone's status then ignore it.And common sense would suggest if a woman does put a status up shes obviously going to get an even higher volume of messages and if yours isn't one that stands out then just move on,throwing your toys out of the pram seems a tad juvenile,almost desperate frustration.Get over it."
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"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site.
Oh dear have I upset you in some way
Yea u had the cheek to turn him down
Funny thing is I don't have any mail from him "
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"Is starting this thread not obvious attention seeking? Smacks of "please notice me" a bit
The idea of this site is to meet other people is it not,for one to do that there is a certain necessity to attract attention.What makes stating what's on your mind in a dedicated status section any less a case of seeking attention than putting up pictures of your cock/tits/ass etc
I take your point about women having more control but such is life here.When women are outnumbered possibly 10:1 they have a right to be choosy.If you're going to get so wound up,almost cynical by someone's status then ignore it.And common sense would suggest if a woman does put a status up shes obviously going to get an even higher volume of messages and if yours isn't one that stands out then just move on,throwing your toys out of the pram seems a tad juvenile,almost desperate frustration.Get over it."
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"Yes but then its these "Fake" or "Attention Seeking" profiles that put statuses or shit about Single men calling them fake or more so and then make single males look bad. acting like they run the place!!
There should be a section, like the way you can verify a persons profile. To mark them as fake. I think All profilesshould have their verification
picture up. Or if they don't turn up to meets that you can tag them as a "No-Show"
Single omen here have wayyyy to much power over single males yet we are all
here for the same reasons!! "
Last time I checked, it was a free country! We can put up whatever the fuck we want as a status, shag whoever we want etc etc
Just like we are all free to post threads about whatever we want!!
That's what's great about FAB there are no rules!!
The last time I told a couple that I didn't want to meet them again they took it very personally!!
The last time I was decent and respectful to a guys feelings, he told me I was a snob and wouldn't know a gud ride if I fell on one????
U may think the girls on here OWN the site, but uve no idea of some of the abuse we get off guys who think all they have to do is show COCK and Boom! It's definitely a 2way street here  |
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By *ichelle 2014Woman
over a year ago
Cork / limerick / tipp / Clare |
"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site.
Oh dear have I upset you in some way
Yea u had the cheek to turn him down
Funny thing is I don't have any mail from him
Maybe it was your status that threw him into a spin?"
Lol may be oh and if you only knew what the status ment was nothing got to do with been a bitch towards any nice people on here |
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"Yes but then its these "Fake" or "Attention Seeking" profiles that put statuses or shit about Single men calling them fake or more so and then make single males look bad. acting like they run the place!!
There should be a section, like the way you can verify a persons profile. To mark them as fake. I think All profilesshould have their verification
picture up. Or if they don't turn up to meets that you can tag them as a "No-Show"
Single omen here have wayyyy to much power over single males yet we are all
here for the same reasons!!
Last time I checked, it was a free country! We can put up whatever the fuck we want as a status, shag whoever we want etc etc
Just like we are all free to post threads about whatever we want!!
That's what's great about FAB there are no rules!!
The last time I told a couple that I didn't want to meet them again they took it very personally!!
The last time I was decent and respectful to a guys feelings, he told me I was a snob and wouldn't know a gud ride if I fell on one????
U may think the girls on here OWN the site, but uve no idea of some of the abuse we get off guys who think all they have to do is show COCK and Boom! It's definitely a 2way street here "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So true I'm seriously thinking of deleting account some messages are so childish ..
Why?
Why not block males from contacting you, and you do the searching
Yes it means you don't get to boast about your millions of mails you get, but you get to control your use of the site. You choose who you want to talk to. Saves all that heartache and crap
Single ladies or cpls looking for guys listen to nippy it's common sense.....look at it this way.....if a retailer sent you 100 pairs of shoes you might see a pair you like....but if you go shopping chances are you will find a pair that are just right cause you already know what you like the retailer doesn't.....do ya get me?.....block and look yourself....works a charm....but I fear it will fall on deaf ears "
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"I've often put up feeling in wicked mood etc. Why the he'll not.
yeah and last time you did and I emailed you, you had the audacity to reject me!!! How very dare you!!! "
Did I. I don't remember that. |
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over a year ago
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Here's a thought and just my thought guys, but how about being a bit more selective about who you send messages too and you might not get as many knock backs. I read a profile fully first and if there is anything on there that I don't match up to then I move on to the next one. I still had few knock backs but that's life and I'm limiting the chances wasting my time sending countless emails. I will also say there are women out there that will come looking for you if you fit what they are looking for but I guess someone who whinges about no replies doesn't fall into that category |
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"I've often put up feeling in wicked mood etc. Why the he'll not.
yeah and last time you did and I emailed you, you had the audacity to reject me!!! How very dare you!!!
Did I. I don't remember that."
just joking |
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over a year ago
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"I have been told whinging on the forums is a great way to get meets, havent tried it so far but I am going to give it a go on Thursday do u think winging on the on the forums will get you meets
errr I would think I would be a drama queen and people think Chris that's ones having trouble keep away from her.
Yep, that's what I think of the drama lamas. Others will catch on eventually
Btw letme, willy was taking the piss, being very ironic hey nippy we had our own drama last week fooey and them.bloody icecreams well foofoo u can keep them I not having it now !!!!!
I think fooey got lost on his ride "
Did someone mention Drama Queens!?
Right, that's it... I'm throwing this Icecream out of my cot!!  |
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at the end off the day ladys and gents the way i see it is were adults and here for no need to be nasty and unkind to each other.They are a good few single males who just dont know on how to talk to a ladys properly with respect and expect to jump into bed at one message it takes time also they feel brave insulting someone behind a screen jmo on the matter glad im not like that. |
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Yep, that's what I think of the drama lamas. Others will catch on eventually
Btw letme, willy was taking the piss, being very ironic hey nippy we had our own drama last week fooey and them.bloody icecreams well foofoo u can keep them I not having it now !!!!!
I think fooey got lost on his ride
Did someone mention Drama Queens!?
Right, that's it... I'm throwing this Icecream out of my cot!! "
Whaa whaa I wants me icecream Fooey....you promised so you did!!!  |
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over a year ago
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I'm not fake sweetie "
No,no you are not....or that was the best dream ever |
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Yep, that's what I think of the drama lamas. Others will catch on eventually
Btw letme, willy was taking the piss, being very ironic hey nippy we had our own drama last week fooey and them.bloody icecreams well foofoo u can keep them I not having it now !!!!!
I think fooey got lost on his ride
Did someone mention Drama Queens!?
Right, that's it... I'm throwing this Icecream out of my cot!!
Whaa whaa I wants me icecream Fooey....you promised so you did!!! "
Too late, it's on the floor!!
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I'm not fake sweetie "
Thank God u not fake Michelle. How wicked u
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"Loving this thread. Too terrified to post anything on it though.
**Attention Seeker Alert**
There he is, over there!
(runs for cover while everyone is looking at fooeys enormous willy) "
Sod attention seekers, I see HIJACKING |
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"Loving this thread. Too terrified to post anything on it though.
**Attention Seeker Alert**
There he is, over there!
(runs for cover while everyone is looking at fooeys enormous willy)
Sod attention seekers, I see HIJACKING "
Say Hi to Jack for me too!!...
And it's not THAT big!!....
I just have no back bone! |
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By *ichelle 2014Woman
over a year ago
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I'm not fake sweetie
Thank God u not fake Michelle. How wicked u
feeling."
Oh very llong im on a quest 2 find a suit 2 go with the shirt |
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I'm not fake sweetie "
dam hot tho im moving to cork just thought i mite add that lol. |
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I get the original point. And understand frustration. But c'mon. We have to accept and appreciate differences! I've met some wonderful people here. But been exposed to some crap as well. It's a cliche I know but why we all just get along? |
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"Loving this thread. Too terrified to post anything on it though.
**Attention Seeker Alert**
There he is, over there!
(runs for cover while everyone is looking at fooeys enormous willy) "
Thats his icecream cone Michael! |
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I'm not fake sweetie
Thank God u not fake Michelle. How wicked u
feeling.
Oh very llong im on a quest 2 find a suit 2 go with the shirt "
I'm sure could oblige |
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"So true I'm seriously thinking of deleting account some messages are so childish ..
Why?
Why not block males from contacting you, and you do the searching
Yes it means you don't get to boast about your millions of mails you get, but you get to control your use of the site. You choose who you want to talk to. Saves all that heartache and crap
Single ladies or cpls looking for guys listen to nippy it's common sense.....look at it this way.....if a retailer sent you 100 pairs of shoes you might see a pair you like....but if you go shopping chances are you will find a pair that are just right cause you already know what you like the retailer doesn't.....do ya get me?.....block and look yourself....works a charm....but I fear it will fall on deaf ears "
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By *ichelle 2014Woman
over a year ago
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"Getting quite sick of seeing Single Women acting like they run this site.
We are all here to meet and chat to friendly people for Sex at the end of the day. People can sugarcoat it or deny it all they like but the bottom line is this site is for meeting others for sex.
Now granted, people have tastes and certain standards which is just the way life goes. Its perfectly understandable.
If I mail a woman or couple offering my time, or simply looking to chat based on a good profile and I get an honest reply saying sorry not interested or not looking for single males right now. That's decent enough and what should be expected.
What pisses me off tho is single women in here and posting statuses for example:
"Oh I'm in bold bitch mode today"
"Ohh feeling like a naughty girl tonight, would love some sex, any one interested???"
and then turning down offers. That's just fucking stupid. Don't make public offer just to turn down or hope for the best looking or sounding guy to reply to you.
Go look for them and ask them for a meet, or simply start talking to them and go from there.
These women that crave messages from all the men on this site yet do nothing about it are whats wrong with this site. "
Careful now your name change in the past 24 hrs just screams fake what you hiding from Hun or is this your way of getting attention |
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I'm not fake sweetie "
Wasn't aimed at you Michelle. I was assuming the OP's quotes were from newbie unverified peeps |
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By *ichelle 2014Woman
over a year ago
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"Such status screams of 'fake' to me. It also applies to a lot of young guys....
Move on...plenty of genuine fun women...
I'm not fake sweetie
Wasn't aimed at you Michelle. I was assuming the OP's quotes were from newbie unverified peeps"
My apologies then |
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"Yes but then its these "Fake" or "Attention Seeking" profiles that put statuses or shit about Single men calling them fake or more so and then make single males look bad. acting like they run the place!!
There should be a section, like the way you can verify a persons profile. To mark them as fake. I think All profiles should have their verification picture up. Or if they don't turn up to meets that you can tag them as a "No-Show"
Single omen here have wayyyy to much power over single males yet we are all here for the same reasons!! "
i agree with u about sum females but theres sum men like tht on here too,all talk but when it cums to the crunch they bak out so its not just the women at it |
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My name change is irrelevant considering that the name change applies to forums as well..???
Beside, I am not hiding from what I posted! I stand behind my opinion!
As well as everyone else on this site. |
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Just to clerify. The examples I used in reference to my OP was not a direct attack or anything at who ever posted it. I was simply using statuses as examples. If I was to get personally offended at someone I would simply block them, no point getting worked up over something you cant change....
I was only venting my opinion here on the forums because that is what they are for at the end of the day and everyone is entitled to their opinion
APOLOGIES TO ANYONE OFFENDED! |
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