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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would going into cam chat help, like go on cam prove your real ask someone that looked at you on cam to verify you, then you go and verify the meets you had, then they can verify you back |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?"
A meet and greet was being talked about by Lbow to help people like yourself , keep an eye out for it  |
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"The meets were not verifed. But how to verifed if the verifed people will not talk to u if u r not verifed?"
So the meets you had were not verified either?
So first thing is for you all to verify each other.. that's a start.
Most people here will look at ur verifications.. and prob not believe them.. so...
Ur next step is to try and get someone man..woman..couple... anyone who has a good few veris from others who also have good few veris...
to meet u ... For Coffee!! Just coffee...
That veri will be believed 
Its a start... its difficult... its a very slow process unless ur hung like a horse and 6ft tall and have muscles coming out of ur ears
Also go to the next meet n greet.... meet everyone in one go... that's my plan |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?"
its because new people cant verfie eachother i think the site got bit strict because off all the fake ones not very welcommin for new members i got lucky because i had a great meet with a verified lady.
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"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too  "
Hi Sofia.. is that true?
I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too
Hi Sofia.. is that true?
I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members
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Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative. |
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"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too
Hi Sofia.. is that true?
I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members
Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative. "
Sweet... that sounds more like a private party
Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet
If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party |
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By *ean299Man
over a year ago
Lucan |
"Thomas check out the thread:
Hang on lads I have an idea
By longbow
He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies "
Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too
Hi Sofia.. is that true?
I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members
Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.
Sweet... that sounds more like a private party
Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet
If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party "
The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males |
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"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too
Hi Sofia.. is that true?
I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members
Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.
Sweet... that sounds more like a private party
Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet
If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party
The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males"
I hear what ur saying Sofia
My only problem is when its called a meet n greet... and then its controlling who attends... it should be open to everyone..
So let's say the venue could hold 80 people... the organiser would say...doors open at 8.. first 80 people get in... men women or couples..doesn't matter
That's fairest way ... in my opinion |
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"And uproar and unwanted publicity by those turned away at the door.
You're forgetting this is Ireland! Swinging is still taboo."
True lol
But if u know the rules... door open at 8.. first 80 in.. and someone turns up at 10... and can't get in...that's their own fault... people need to be adults on this site
Don't they? |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too
Hi Sofia.. is that true?
I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members
Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.
Sweet... that sounds more like a private party
Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet
If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party
The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males
I hear what ur saying Sofia
My only problem is when its called a meet n greet... and then its controlling who attends... it should be open to everyone..
So let's say the venue could hold 80 people... the organiser would say...doors open at 8.. first 80 people get in... men women or couples..doesn't matter
That's fairest way ... in my opinion "
So potentially it could end up with 80 single men only!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too
Hi Sofia.. is that true?
I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members
Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.
Sweet... that sounds more like a private party
Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet
If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party
The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males
I hear what ur saying Sofia
My only problem is when its called a meet n greet... and then its controlling who attends... it should be open to everyone..
So let's say the venue could hold 80 people... the organiser would say...doors open at 8.. first 80 people get in... men women or couples..doesn't matter
That's fairest way ... in my opinion
So potentially it could end up with 80 single men only!! "
And those 80 will just be 'lurkers'  |
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"Also getting invited to a meet abd greet as a non verified person can be difficult too
Hi Sofia.. is that true?
I didn't think someone can pick n choose who comes to meets... everyone should b allowed to attend...male female or both...that should b the whole point of a meet n greet...especially for new members
Whowever organises the M&G or party can of course pick who can attend. That's their perrogative.
Sweet... that sounds more like a private party
Fairer would be open to everyone in the area... meet n greet
If people are selecting who attends they should rename it ...private party
The issue usually is getting the numbers and a verified person is more likely to turn up than a Jon-verified. After all these events need to pay for themselves and if you ask any of organisers they will probably tell you the biggest no show percentage is usually single males
I hear what ur saying Sofia
My only problem is when its called a meet n greet... and then its controlling who attends... it should be open to everyone..
So let's say the venue could hold 80 people... the organiser would say...doors open at 8.. first 80 people get in... men women or couples..doesn't matter
That's fairest way ... in my opinion
So potentially it could end up with 80 single men only!! "
Lol it could... the random factor... isn't that what lives all about
At least they all can verify each other
Not sure that would help my profile though... 79 veris from guys lol |
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"Wex meets and greets have to have some control to get the balance right believe me there is nothing worse than being at a m&g where its a cock fest its uncomfortable for all "
Lol I can see ur point |
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By *ean299Man
over a year ago
Lucan |
"Thomas check out the thread:
Hang on lads I have an idea
By longbow
He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies
Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?"
go into browse. ..see who is near you and message them and explain and ask them if they would meet you for a coffee and verify you're real. ... We have all be there and it's difficult but definitely doable... Good luck  |
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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago
Bangor, Norn Iron |
"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?"
I'll meet for coffee, if that will help.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?
I'll meet for coffee, if that will help.. "
Such a lovely man you are.... |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"Finding it hard to get verifed on here. I am 100% real nothing fake here. Have had meets but find that a lot of people will not even talk to me because I am not verified . Can someone help?
go into browse. ..see who is near you and message them and explain and ask them if they would meet you for a coffee and verify you're real. ... We have all be there and it's difficult but definitely doable... Good luck "
Your very doable  |
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By *ean299Man
over a year ago
Lucan |
"Thomas check out the thread:
Hang on lads I have an idea
By longbow
He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies
Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me."
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By *ean299Man
over a year ago
Lucan |
"Thomas check out the thread:
Hang on lads I have an idea
By longbow
He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies
Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me."
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By *ean299Man
over a year ago
Lucan |
"Thomas check out the thread:
Hang on lads I have an idea
By longbow
He's trying to set up a meet n greet for newbies
Yes check out that thread. I have offered to help organising a similar event in Dublin. Anyone interested in helping out or attending please pm me."
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Thank god someone verified me before lol