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"Safe play all the way. We recently got a message for a man who's said he could go bareback as he fired blanks!! Clearly he wasn't aware of the other risks of unprotected sex. " Glad to hear yeah wew almost meet a fella who wew thought played with protection but joined another site and there was his profile with picture of him and no glove. Its just not right | |||
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"Can't see if ppl practice safe sex or not is really a issue for you if you practice safe sex is that not your health taken care of......we do but can't see what other ppl choose to do affecting us " Ok so in your opinion unsafe sex is fine! Aids in Ireland is higher than ever before...... | |||
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"I'd always use protection. Too big a risk not to. And in a community like this unsafe sex would just be silly! Piece of mind for yourself and the person your sleeping with." I agree a lot of us are extremely sexually active thus infections could possibly spread like wild flower! | |||
"Can't see if ppl practice safe sex or not is really a issue for you if you practice safe sex is that not your health taken care of......we do but can't see what other ppl choose to do affecting us Ok so in your opinion unsafe sex is fine! Aids in Ireland is higher than ever before......" You don't seem to understand me.....obviously we don't think unsafe sex is fine if we did we would not practice safe sex ourselves......but if we always practice safe sex then our sexual health is protected.....and that is our only concern......is that clearer | |||
"Can't see if ppl practice safe sex or not is really a issue for you if you practice safe sex is that not your health taken care of......we do but can't see what other ppl choose to do affecting us Ok so in your opinion unsafe sex is fine! Aids in Ireland is higher than ever before...... You don't seem to understand me.....obviously we don't think unsafe sex is fine if we did we would not practice safe sex ourselves......but if we always practice safe sex then our sexual health is protected.....and that is our only concern......is that clearer " Yes it is clear as crystal. Whats your opinion on parties in which no one wears protection we went to one (twice I must add-second time just to ensure it wasn't just a once off). Anyhow not one used a condom at said party. Needless to say we just observed! Now in that case these people have met a lot could end up dire for us all! | |||
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"Safe Sex all the way... I met somebody on from here that said they practised safe sex and when it came to it refused to put on a Condom... So I got up got dressed and left, Your Health is your wealth......
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"Safe play is a must and if I see guys have verifications from women I know don't use condoms I won't meet them " We are exactly the same | |||
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"No glove no love!!!! Simple's " | |||
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"Op if u practice safe sex it doesnt matter that others dont.u are protecting urselves" True but condoms do break on occasion! | |||
"Can't see if ppl practice safe sex or not is really a issue for you if you practice safe sex is that not your health taken care of......we do but can't see what other ppl choose to do affecting us Ok so in your opinion unsafe sex is fine! Aids in Ireland is higher than ever before...... You don't seem to understand me.....obviously we don't think unsafe sex is fine if we did we would not practice safe sex ourselves......but if we always practice safe sex then our sexual health is protected.....and that is our only concern......is that clearer Yes it is clear as crystal. Whats your opinion on parties in which no one wears protection we went to one (twice I must add-second time just to ensure it wasn't just a once off). Anyhow not one used a condom at said party. Needless to say we just observed! Now in that case these people have met a lot could end up dire for us all!" Same at partys or cpl meet if ppl want to have unprotected sex then they are not for us.....so I can't see how it could end up dire not unless they forced you......we attend a lot of partys but have yet had anyone refuse to wear a condom with us ....cpl or single men....that has been our experience anyway | |||
"I even wear a hi vizz jacket and steel capped boots " | |||
"Op if u practice safe sex it doesnt matter that others dont.u are protecting urselves True but condoms do break on occasion!" Yip....and surely in that instance you get your self tested a.s.a.p. But that would apply even if you were never in this life style...if you were jjust a person with more then one sexual partner | |||
"Op if u practice safe sex it doesnt matter that others dont.u are protecting urselves" That's my point exactly | |||
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"Safe sex always. Here's a question...there's a lot of chat about safe sex with regard to intercourse. What about oral? Std's can be transmitted orally. The vast majority of us here either love a great bj or a good lick....do you practice safe oral?" Ah, the awkward question! | |||
"Safe sex always. Here's a question...there's a lot of chat about safe sex with regard to intercourse. What about oral? Std's can be transmitted orally. The vast majority of us here either love a great bj or a good lick....do you practice safe oral? Ah, the awkward question!" With men yes women no  | |||
"Safe sex always. Here's a question...there's a lot of chat about safe sex with regard to intercourse. What about oral? Std's can be transmitted orally. The vast majority of us here either love a great bj or a good lick....do you practice safe oral? Ah, the awkward question! With men yes women no "So OP, you are adamant how wrong it is to have sex without a condom but you'll have unprotected oral sex?? Tut, tut, tut! That seems a tad hypocritical. | |||
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"Safe sex always. Here's a question...there's a lot of chat about safe sex with regard to intercourse. What about oral? Std's can be transmitted orally. The vast majority of us here either love a great bj or a good lick....do you practice safe oral? Ah, the awkward question! With men yes women no
So OP, you are adamant how wrong it is to have sex without a condom but you'll have unprotected oral sex??
Tut, tut, tut! That seems a tad hypocritical."Very true.... | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 01/05/14 16:42:16]" Yup suppose it is hypocritical but still less chance through oral than penetration! | |||
"[Removed by poster at 01/05/14 16:42:16] Yup suppose it is hypocritical but still less chance through oral than penetration!" How so? | |||
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"No ....should but truer to give a bij once with a condom and I nearly got sick.....so we are going with the blessing of the throat once a year....that's a joke ok" Haha | |||
"[Removed by poster at 01/05/14 16:42:16] Yup suppose it is hypocritical but still less chance through oral than penetration!" lost for words! | |||
"Is there? Really? Exchange of bodily fluids can pass std's quite easily " Yes they can ok for all we lick without condoms but dont suck with said haha...... In saying that feck all women will meet us so pretty safe in that regard lol! | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 01/05/14 16:42:16] Yup suppose it is hypocritical but still less chance through oral than penetration! lost for words! "Mwah now ya's are starting to attack!!!! All I was wondering is what peoples opinions where ! | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 01/05/14 16:42:16] Yup suppose it is hypocritical but still less chance through oral than penetration! lost for words!
No attack. Just wondering peeps opinion on oral.
Mwah now ya's are starting to attack!!!!
All I was wondering is what peoples opinions where !" | |||
"I'd always use protection. Too big a risk not to. And in a community like this unsafe sex would just be silly! Piece of mind for yourself and the person your sleeping with." | |||
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"[Removed by poster at 01/05/14 16:42:16] Yup suppose it is hypocritical but still less chance through oral than penetration! lost for words!
Mwah now ya's are starting to attack!!!!
All I was wondering is what peoples opinions where !"You started this thread OP! A few questions on your statement & you're being attacked, don't be silly. It sounds ridiculous that you will preach safe vaginal/Anal sex but not oral is all I'm saying. | |||
"[Removed by poster at 01/05/14 16:42:16] Yup suppose it is hypocritical but still less chance through oral than penetration! lost for words!
Mwah now ya's are starting to attack!!!!
All I was wondering is what peoples opinions where !
You started this thread OP!
A few questions on your statement & you're being attacked, don't be silly.
It sounds ridiculous that you will preach safe vaginal/Anal sex but not oral is all I'm saying." my sentiments exactly. It's a contradiction. Effectively the OP doesn't practice safe sex. | |||
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"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol" Talking or licking! Lol | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol" see you do practice safe oral sex... Lol | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol Talking or licking! Lol" Talking am gone back now to me corner another person you guys put in their place | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol see you do practice safe oral sex... Lol " | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol Talking or licking! Lol Talking am gone back now to me corner another person you guys put in their place "Noooooooooooooooooo it's just chat | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol Talking or licking! Lol Talking am gone back now to me corner another person you guys put in their place
Noooooooooooooooooo it's just chat "not really have read forums b4 n have to say unless are one of the 'gang' then best stay in shadows | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol" Not at all, the more people who join in on the forum the better. A knot tied with your tongue can't be undone by your smile. | |||
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"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol Talking or licking! Lol Talking am gone back now to me corner another person you guys put in their place
Noooooooooooooooooo it's just chat
not really have read forums b4 n have to say unless are one of the 'gang' then best stay in shadows"The shadows are only made by ourselves. So stand up and turn your light on | |||
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"You do know the only safe sex os no sex, anything else is just safer sex. All you can do is minimise the risks" Very well said Sofia.  | |||
"If we're playing with others then its always safe, we don't use them with each other as we've been together long enough to know we're both safe. But always cover up with others" | |||
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"Just to b clear.who here uses condoms for oral?" Not me either....Ax | |||
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"Thank god for that.id throw my hat at the scene if it came to that" | |||
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"You do know the only safe sex os no sex, anything else is just safer sex. All you can do is minimise the risks"
Which is why I prefer not to meet guys who go play with those who play unprotected
Whilst I never have penetrative sex without a condom. I do owo. I need to know the person I'm playing with has also played as safely as they can If he's playing in circles where condoms are not used, not for me
However me and the doctors at Anderson house are on first name terms as I go every couple of months | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol Talking or licking! Lol Talking am gone back now to me corner another person you guys put in their place
Noooooooooooooooooo it's just chat
not really have read forums b4 n have to say unless are one of the 'gang' then best stay in shadows" | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol Talking or licking! Lol Talking am gone back now to me corner another person you guys put in their place
Noooooooooooooooooo it's just chat
not really have read forums b4 n have to say unless are one of the 'gang' then best stay in shadows"Wouldn't stop posting cos your thoughts are different from those that shout the loudest Unless others post,the loudest here will make it their way or no way Stand up and be counted. | |||
"Lesson learnt keep me gob shut lol Talking or licking! Lol Talking am gone back now to me corner another person you guys put in their place
Noooooooooooooooooo it's just chat
not really have read forums b4 n have to say unless are one of the 'gang' then best stay in shadows"not at all with out differant opinions it would be very boreing.....and its great to see everyone being so growen up and not getting all hot under the collar | |||
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"Well there is no wrapper on our pictures because we are a couple. But if playing it's a must. So being you can't judge in pictures because it might be partner!" | |||
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"Reading all that wud knock the horn off me anyway.no horn-no sex-no std Good job "Just play smart, a lot of people who have STDs don't even know they have them, as they have no symptoms but the person they give it to gets the symptoms. | |||
bravo...I hope people read that. | |||
"Thank god for that.id throw my hat at the scene if it came to that " | |||
"Reading all that wud knock the horn off me anyway.no horn-no sex-no std Good job
Just play smart, a lot of people who have STDs don't even know they have them, as they have no symptoms but the person they give it to gets the symptoms."Great post shame can't upload some of the pictures of std's. My initial profession was as a nurse now am a higher medical trained professional and think these issues should be high lighted | |||
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" 7 STDs you could get from oral sex Comments: 4 Comments | Leave A Comment Sep 12, 2012 By Amanda King Most of us feel like we’re pretty well-educated about sex and STDs, but what about the risks of oral sex? Do you know which diseases can be transmitted through oral sex, and how to keep yourself safe? Herpes labialis (Photo/ wikipedia) Herpes This is the most commonly transmitted STD through oral sex. There are two types of herpes simplex virus (HSV) infection: HSV 1, which causes sores around the mouth, and HSV 2 which is responsible for genital sores. It is possible for a person with HSV 1 to transmit the virus and cause genital sores on the receiving partner. It is also possible, although rare, for HSV 2 to be transmitted from genital to mouth contact, causing mouth sores. SEE ALSO: STDs you can get from anal sex It is possible to transmit and catch herpes even during times when there are no symptoms. Certain medications, such as Zovirax, and the use of condoms or dental dams can help to lessen the chance of transmission, but won’t eliminate it entirely. HPV oral cancer (Photo/ intelligentdental) HPV (human papillomavirus) Also referred to as genital warts, HPV can also be transmitted via oral sex. In fact, HPV acquired through oral sex is believed to be a main cause of throat cancer. Condoms and dental dams are effective in reducing the transmission rate of HPV through oral sex, but they do not prevent it, entirely, since, like with herpes, the disease is spread through skin to skin contact, rather than through bodily fluids. HPV presents as small, hard, generally painless white bumps on the genitalia and is a major cause of cancer in women. White spots from gonorrhea (Photo/ stdsandyou) Gonorrhea Sometimes called “The Clap,” gonorrhea is very easily transmitted through oral sex, most often causing throat infections, which are difficult to treat, but usually resolve in a matter of three to four months. It is less likely to be transmitted from a female to a partner, since the site of infection is at the cervix, which doesn’t come into play during cunnilingus. SEE ALSO: Sexual health: Do you know your STDs? Oral gonorrhea can produce a sore throat, difficulty swallowing, red spots and white/yellow discharge. Oral gonorrhea can also be transmitted to another person through oral sex, manifesting as an infection of the genitals. Gonorrhea is treated with antibiotics, but in recent years, antibiotic resistant strains of the disease have been emerging, making it difficult to treat. Left untreated, gonorrhea can cause, pelvic inflammatory disease (PID) and epididymitis in men, which can both lead to infertility. Chlamydia (Photo/ rightdiagnosis) Chlamydia This is transmitted similarly to gonorrhea, being more common during fellatio, and with low female to partner transmission rates. The symptoms of a chlamydia throat infection are similar to a sore throat because of a cold. Dry, scratchy throat and painful swallowing are common. The symptoms of a genital infection are burning during urination, pain during sex (for women), testicular pain, rectal pain and discharge, discharge from the penis or vagina. Like gonorrhea, it is treated with antibiotics. Syphilis sores. (Photo/ globalskinatlas) Syphilis It is extremely transmittable via oral sex. It is only contagious during symptomatic phases, however, in some phases of the disease, the painless sores are easy to overlook. The symptoms include sores, skin rash and lesions on the palms of the hands and soles of the feet, fever, swollen lymph nodes, hair loss, headaches, weight loss and exhaustion. SEE ALSO: ‘Do I have syphilis?’ – Symptoms and treatment Left untreated, syphilis can damage internal organs, including the brain. Late stage syphilis causes blindness, paralysis, trouble coordinating muscle movements and even death. It is also treated with antibiotics. Hepatitis A and B-Vaccine Hepatitis B It may not be transmittable through traditional oral sex, but oral to anal contact is a risk factor. Fortunately, most people are being vaccinated for hepatitis B. Oral to anal sex also comes with a risk for hepatitis A, which isn’t as widely given. If you practice this type of oral sex, ask your doctor for a hepatitis A vaccine. HIV lores (Photo/ hardinmd.lib.uiowa) HIV It is transmitted primarily through vaginal or anal sex, but it is possible to transmit it via oral sex. The risk is increased when cuts or sores in the mouth are present, when ejaculate is taken into the mouth, and when the person receiving oral sex is infected with other STDs in addition to HIV. SEE ALSO: Michael Douglas says his throat cancer caused by oral sex The risk of contracting HIV through receiving oral sex is low, as it is not transmitted through saliva. The risk of giving oral sex to an infected partner is much higher, as it is transmitted through genital secretions. Condoms and dental dams provide an effective line of defense. Join the Conversation! Share and Discuss! Facebook ALSO ON VOXXI: Snapshot of the day – April 1 of 39 Next Next Photo credit (AP Photo/Alastair Grant, File) × Prince Harry and girlfriend Cressida Bonas break up (4-30-14) Apr 25, 2014 By Jessica Lucia Roiz British news media are reporting that Prince Harry and his girlfriend Cressida Bonas have split up. Press Association cited an unidentified source as saying that Harry, 29, and Bonas, 25, had decided to end their two-year relationship. Other news media _ including the BBC, the Daily Mail and The Sun _ also reported the breakup, giving no sources. 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"Ok there appears to be a lot on here who have no regard what so ever for their safety or others. We won;t meet anyone who is known to play without the use of a condoms nor who has pictures on profile with no protection. Am just wondering other peoples opinions....As in this day and age people really need to be safe. One rotten egg could lead to a lot of problems for soooo many !" all the ppl i have spoken to and most profiles ive read only do safe sex so id say most ppl on fab do safe sex | |||
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"Ok there appears to be a lot on here who have no regard what so ever for their safety or others. We won;t meet anyone who is known to play without the use of a condoms nor who has pictures on profile with no protection. Am just wondering other peoples opinions....As in this day and age people really need to be safe. One rotten egg could lead to a lot of problems for soooo many ! all the ppl i have spoken to and most profiles ive read only do safe sex so id say most ppl on fab do safe sex" Oh I am not disputing the fact that most use protection its the small minority that don't use them that worries me! | |||
"Safe sex or no sex , at the end of the day do we really know who were playing with , really ! " FACT! Sure we should all become nuns and priests haha! | |||
"Safe sex or no sex , at the end of the day do we really know who were playing with , really ! FACT! Sure we should all become nuns and priests haha!" After you | |||
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