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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi Everybody, what's your opinion on Racism in swinging? I've been here a while now and met lots of lovely people, but while finding swingers to be very liberal (for obvious reasons). I've come across swingers who have not been as liberal!!! when it comes to skin tone.
Is this just preference or racism
BTW I'm NOT a Racist  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personal preference I'd say
Same as some don't like fat people, others don't like skinny ones etc etc etc
Just because we are open minded and liberal when it comes to sex, it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to have personal preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not racist. Some people just aren't attracted to a particular race. People just turn it into racism because political correctness has gone mad. Being choosy about colour is the exact same as being choosy about any other physical characteristic. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personal preference I'd say
Same as some don't like fat people, others don't like skinny ones etc etc etc
Just because we are open minded and liberal when it comes to sex, it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to have personal preferences"
Agreed its up to everyones personal preference who they would like to be intimate with.I don't think its racist not to want to have sex outside of your own preferences |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personal preference I'd say
Same as some don't like fat people, others don't like skinny ones etc etc etc
Just because we are open minded and liberal when it comes to sex, it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to have personal preferences
Agreed its up to everyones personal preference who they would like to be intimate with.I don't think its racist not to want to have sex outside of your own preferences"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personal preference I'd say
Same as some don't like fat people, others don't like skinny ones etc etc etc
Just because we are open minded and liberal when it comes to sex, it doesn't mean we aren't allowed to have personal preferences"
This would be my view too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Racism is for small minded people....
Have to say its all about the attraction....
Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think most who decline a meet with someone of opposite skin tone are NOT racist.
However, I think to decline a meet, even to just to say hi and chat, with someone because of ethnic roots is.
You wouldn't refuse to sit next to someone at work because of ethnic roots would you ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Racism is for small minded people....
Have to say its all about the attraction....
Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!! "
Yeahhh small minded and bigots. And I agree with your analogy red and blonde, red haired women gorgeous!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Racism is for small minded people....
Have to say its all about the attraction....
Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!!
Yeahhh small minded and bigots. And I agree with your analogy red and blonde, red haired women gorgeous!!"
Exactly....everyone has a preference |
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"Racism is for small minded people....
Have to say its all about the attraction....
Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!!
Yeahhh small minded and bigots. And I agree with your analogy red and blonde, red haired women gorgeous!!"
ah I've a thing for red heads definitely lol! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think most who decline a meet with someone of opposite skin tone are NOT racist.
However, I think to decline a meet, even to just to say hi and chat, with someone because of ethnic roots is.
You wouldn't refuse to sit next to someone at work because of ethnic roots would you ?"
Live and let live I say!!! The reason I brought it up is because of an incident, at a gathering were there was an overtly strong reaction to interracial sex!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my way of looking at it if god made us all the same we be a fairly boring race off people that why he made everyone different to add some excitement lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi Everybody, what's your opinion on Racism in swinging? I've been here a while now and met lots of lovely people, but while finding swingers to be very liberal (for obvious reasons). I've come across swingers who have not been as liberal!!! when it comes to skin tone.
Is this just preference or racism
BTW I'm NOT a Racist "
dont think its racism at all!sum ppl prefer big girls/guys and sum prefer smaller,so its down to personal preference id say |
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"Hi Everybody, what's your opinion on Racism in swinging? I've been here a while now and met lots of lovely people, but while finding swingers to be very liberal (for obvious reasons). I've come across swingers who have not been as liberal!!! when it comes to skin tone.
Is this just preference or racism
BTW I'm NOT a Racist "
Not wanting to play with people of a particular race or ethnicity is fine, everyone has their own preferences and no one has to do anything they don't want to , hanging up the phone and blocking because you were too stupid to realise the person is not irish before you spoke to them, or standing up and walking out of the bar when you realise the person is not Irish is ignorance.
If it is that important to you,,, ask.
Actually don't understand why this site asks for ethnicity in your profile but doesn't publish it anywhere. |
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By *rBrownnSexyMan
over a year ago
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"Racism is for small minded people....
Have to say its all about the attraction....
Ie....a man who likes redhead or blonds......its what your attracted to!!!
Yeahhh small minded and bigots. And I agree with your analogy red and blonde, red haired women gorgeous!!
Exactly....everyone has a preference "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a foreigner myself but I'm not black, brown or caramel. So it probably has less of an effect on me. I do get made fun of a lot though because of it. I don't think though I was ever rejected because of it though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It doesn't matter what race, size etc somebody. If they are good in bed what does it matter. If you were blind folded with headphones on ( which is quite kinky btw) then you would make your judgement on how the sex is, not the person. After all we're all pink on the inside ... literally.  |
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I love foreign women and different ethnic races even more. My only problem is there are not as many on here although make the most of it when get over to England. So I for one am delighted to see more and more foreign women coming looking to grab us pale ass innocent Irish guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have just read an article on "Sexual Racism" whilst it was aimed at gay sex I am amazed to see it covers all genders when Googled it in depth and raised in a forum here, I also see it is mainly men who are not up for mixed meets of color, so its not a gay thing its a man thing.
Me i don't care i like cock, though a bit ocd when it comes to cleanliness..slightest hint of odour and i am off...  |
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My skin is a little darker than the average Irish male, I am from a different country and still I have had some rejection recently because of I am not originally from here. I was surprised, very surprised but I let it go so I suggest to do the same.
No need to complain about it for centuries it will always happen.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My skin is a little darker than the average Irish male, I am from a different country and still I have had some rejection recently because of I am not originally from here. I was surprised, very surprised but I let it go so I suggest to do the same.
No need to complain about it for centuries it will always happen.
Regards, "
I'd doubt it's because of skin colour or what country your from...
Possibly you weren't attractive to the op...it happens...  |
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By *izoBiMan
over a year ago
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"It doesn't matter what race, size etc somebody. If they are good in bed what does it matter. If you were blind folded with headphones on ( which is quite kinky btw) then you would make your judgement on how the sex is, not the person. After all we're all pink on the inside ... literally. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe I was not what they were looking for but I was clearly told that they only go for Irish.
Fine with me, their loss. lol"
Im shocked at that response...
But I guess it takes all sorts...
We don't care about Race,colour,country or if your vegan or vegetarian! It's all bollocks at the end of the day!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well we prefare too meet well spoken english people as it gets confusing in mails so does that make me a racist i hope not as im not a racist you can be green pink white red black what ever and from anywhere as we state in our profile no liife storys or drama but we did have 1 person call us a racist as we said sorry but we cannot meet u cause of your english in the mails our reply was fcuk you.irish racist so i dunno maybe you can tell me if i am or not |
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Are men racist when it comes to sex? I wouldn't have thought so, or at least not any more than they are in relation to anything else. Who knows? 