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Looking for relationships?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just saw a status saying "iam not here for fun, iam here for a relationship" and i couldn't help but ask were they serious! The reply i got said that they weren't here for pathetic fun and fantasies and that they have spoke to loads of ppl here looking for relationships
.. My question is, really? Is anyone here honestly looking for a relationship here? Just seems like a strange place to pursue a relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not the place for relationship s a nice enjoyable Fuck and walk away"
How stupid is that ?  That is definitely not the place to search for a relationship  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's up to each individual how they use the site. It's just that they probably will have a tough time finding someone for a serious relationship on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am definitely not looking for one but some people have found a person here and left, each to their own 
It is one thing if it " happens" but another if you choose such a site for searching !  "
calling them stupid is not really nice though. this person seems to be upfront about it, so where's the harm? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Let's say it's unusual to look for a relationship in here. But as said by others, people have really ' found' each other here. Some even got married and are still swinging. Others might have left the scene. But I wonder if the ppl that found each other on Fab were deliberately looking for a relationship. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess everyone here is after something slightly different, but that's what makes this place great if we all wanted the same wed get bored.
Who knows, if they find a relationship here maybe Fab will get a new couple for us all to enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry Jay, we are all here for different reasons, who are we to say how people should use the site, yes it is a swingers site and most people are here for nsa fun but if someone else wants to look for something else let them! If i see a profile like that i don't even look as it does not interest me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I am definitely not looking for one but some people have found a person here and left, each to their own
It is one thing if it " happens" but another if you choose such a site for searching !
calling them stupid is not really nice though. this person seems to be upfront about it, so where's the harm? "
sorry if that sounds rude , but , get an grip , that is not a vanilla flower friendship website .. that is clear .
I would advise for such plans other places ... and of course there is no harm but it sound a wee bit strange to me  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It depends, i have great friends here, it all depends how you use it, some prefer to fuck and go, others prefer the social side and others a relationship, none of them are wrong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Very happily single and want to stay that way don't need a man in my life but do miss sex so that's why I'm here . But a meet can be a dinner and drinks and lots of flirting before the naked fun . I like to make a meet like a date night but after it is "thank you for a wonderful night take care now " |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry Jay, we are all here for different reasons, who are we to say how people should use the site, yes it is a swingers site and most people are here for nsa fun but if someone else wants to look for something else let them! If i see a profile like that i don't even look as it does not interest me "
yaeh of course of course .. but honestly that sounds silly if someone search here a serious relationship ..come on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wouldn't have thought anyone would join here to pursue a relationship!
Although if you have a very strong connection with someone you do meet here, that can be hard to ignore. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It might to you, i can think of many silly things too
Each to their own "
sure of course ... you can go with your cook hat and jacket to the opera in the night, and with a Pinstripe suit in the kitchen, but, it would be the wrong choose. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"oi! get a grip yourself or I grip something of you a bit too hard!!!  
Respecting others opinions!!!"
Did you read what I wrote ? or want you just stir the pot ...? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong or right on that Jay!
No rules about how to use the site or are you writting them now? "
No all fine ... I have no problem if you've read what I've written. All fine, people can do what they want , also find a buyer for their car here, or find an window cleaner or or ...
i would just wonder to read that here .. that's all
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong or right on that Jay!
No rules about how to use the site or are you writting them now?
No all fine ... I have no problem if you've read what I've written. All fine, people can do what they want , also find a buyer for their car here, or find an window cleaner or or ...
i would just wonder to read that here .. that's all
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Good Jay, we've worn you down!!! Haha!
now let's all fuck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nothing wrong or right on that Jay!
No rules about how to use the site or are you writting them now?
No all fine ... I have no problem if you've read what I've written. All fine, people can do what they want , also find a buyer for their car here, or find an window cleaner or or ...
i would just wonder to read that here .. that's all
Good Jay, we've worn you down!!! Haha!
now let's all fuck! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am sure you could Jay, same that in the forums, people talk about anything, and i post where it interest me, same with a profile, i read, and if i agree i chat, if not i move along |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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At first thought yes, this would seem the wrong place to persue a relationship, but think about it a little harder...
...say I'm a single bloke and self confessed swinger, and I'm never gonna change. Am I going to have a better chance finding someone who shares my lifestyle choice here or on a vanilla dating site?
If you went on a vanilla first date with someone and mentioned that you're a swinger and youre never gonna change,what would happen? I'd like to think there's a 50/50 chance it would go in your favour but this is Ireland.
At least here fundamentally we're all swingers so if you fall in love with someone there's a stronger chance you both could remain in the lifestyle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"At first thought yes, this would seem the wrong place to persue a relationship, but think about it a little harder...
...say I'm a single bloke and self confessed swinger, and I'm never gonna change. Am I going to have a better chance finding someone who shares my lifestyle choice here or on a vanilla dating site?
Well said, there are people here who want committed relationships with people who think the same as them. I was lucky enough to meet and marry someone who was the same as me, granted it took a while but they are out there and it does work if both people are committed to open honesty and respect for each others differences.
If you went on a vanilla first date with someone and mentioned that you're a swinger and youre never gonna change,what would happen? I'd like to think there's a 50/50 chance it would go in your favour but this is Ireland.
At least here fundamentally we're all swingers so if you fall in love with someone there's a stronger chance you both could remain in the lifestyle."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I suppose if you're into some kinky shit. To find your perfect partner you gotta hang out with the kinky lot. Same as if you're looking dor a good living Christian. You'd probably be better going to the local church social rather than Fab and vice versa. Not everything has to be nsa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Plenty sites for relationships, this clearly is a swing site, but whatever floats yer boat!!! We're all different, no one knows what's gonna happen on here. But personally I don't think it's for me
Think we're all a bit fifty shades of fucked up pml  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Plenty sites for relationships, this clearly is a swing site, but whatever floats yer boat!!! We're all different, no one knows what's gonna happen on here. But personally I don't think it's for me
Think we're all a bit fifty shades of fucked up pml "
Lmao fifty shades of fucked up. Yeah I think I will agree with that |
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I have rarely if ever gone to the pub or club saying time to find a g/f .. it just happens , and I firmly believe sites like this are similar , I know singles that met on here and are now married and happily swinging still .. ( rare I know ).. they way I look at it is if it happens it happens ...
soooooo anyone fancy a meet today lol
PS .. very happy being single ATM incase I scare any ladies off lol |
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"My question is, really? Is anyone here honestly looking for a relationship here? Just seems like a strange place to pursue a relationship "
why do you care why people are here hifi how/why does it affect you ?.
i (mr) personally didnt join fab looking for a relationship but also didnt join for just anonymous random sex either. i joined as i had been a swinging on a few other sites in the past and enjoyed the social side to swinging and i also enjoyed group fun...
we have recently started going out together after meeting at a meet and greet. neither of us where looking for a relationship but when you meet somebody you like it happens. we could have met walking down the street or at a gig it doesnt matter and it shouldnt bother anyone else how,why or where people meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My question is, really? Is anyone here honestly looking for a relationship here? Just seems like a strange place to pursue a relationship
why do you care why people are here hifi how/why does it affect you ?.
i (mr) personally didnt join fab looking for a relationship but also didnt join for just anonymous random sex either. i joined as i had been a swinging on a few other sites in the past and enjoyed the social side to swinging and i also enjoyed group fun...
we have recently started going out together after meeting at a meet and greet. neither of us where looking for a relationship but when you meet somebody you like it happens. we could have met walking down the street or at a gig it doesnt matter and it shouldnt bother anyone else how,why or where people meet"
Sometimes when you are not looking for it that's when you will find it |
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