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By *s. Appletree OP Woman
over a year ago
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Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it is unfortunate but true.
The site is teeming with them.
Some are lucky and some might get the odd creepo now and again and i don't think it has anything to do with not being someone else's type.
That can be sorted out on a first meet if they not each others cuppa tea.
plenty just talk about it and that is all.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A lot of women on here dont meet men for a while. This doesnt suit many men..
And we arent supposed to have standards..this doesnt suit many either. Theres too many men...not enough women..hence a lot of frustration.. well thats part of it. |
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ? "
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything. |
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By *s. Appletree OP Woman
over a year ago
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"A lot of women on here dont meet men for a while. This doesnt suit many men..
And we arent supposed to have standards..this doesnt suit many either. Theres too many men...not enough women..hence a lot of frustration.. well thats part of it."
think you hit the nail on the head there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A lot of women on here dont meet men for a while. This doesnt suit many men..
And we arent supposed to have standards..this doesnt suit many either. Theres too many men...not enough women..hence a lot of frustration.. well thats part of it."
Here here fully agree well said |
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By *s. Appletree OP Woman
over a year ago
curtain twitching sleepy village |
"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ? "
99% of the people we've met here have been sane, sound and genuine ,there have been one or two but nothing to get worked up about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything."
This also is true ^^^^  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat "
thats not a timewaster though,thats just someone using the site the way that suits themselves. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat "
This can be true too but I don't know if its fair to call them time wasters. Some people are shy and don't have great social skills and they may just chat to feel human, however they should put that up on their profiles that for the moment they just want to chat and aren't at a point to meet |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat "
And thats their perogative. Move on if that doesnt suit. Not everyone is here to meet. And that particular topic has been done to death.  |
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By *s. Appletree OP Woman
over a year ago
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat "
well there has to be some form of communication to beginning ...how else does one come to an agreement on where when and for a meet ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat
thats not a timewaster though,thats just someone using the site the way that suits themselves."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat
And thats their perogative. Move on if that doesnt suit. Not everyone is here to meet. And that particular topic has been done to death. "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been here since the site started and never had a no show
Have I spent time chatting to people to decide its not going to happen ? Yes
Is that time wasting ? No
This is a no strings attached site
One really neads to know what one wants from it. If a couple of hours time spent is time wasting , perhaps you have too much on in your life and this site isn't for you
I'm not here to shag anyone who is registered. As in real life I need to make a connection and feel like its worth taking forward.
Anyone who's not happy with the way I work the site can bugger off and whinge
I know I'm genuine. The guys I do meet know the same. Win win  |
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat
This can be true too but I don't know if its fair to call them time wasters. Some people are shy and don't have great social skills and they may just chat to feel human, however they should put that up on their profiles that for the moment they just want to chat and aren't at a point to meet"
It's such a pity that not everybody can see things from this point of view.
I joined the site over two years ago & had my fair share of good and bad experiences. I took a break for a few months due to (I don't like using these words lol) alot of fakes/timewasters/abusive people ruining the experience for me.
I decided to come back & ease myself back in but I'm asking myself why did I bother. Same problems as before & people seem to get quite nasty when I say I'm here to chat for now, despite having stated that on my profile...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also guys seem to have a very bad rep here. I know there are loads of guys on the site. But I have been let down by plenty couples and ladies. Not all us guys are time wasters on here. There are genuine ones as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was only posting from what I have found on here i have also had some great meets and meet so great people...but I am sure alot of the guys here will tell ya is a good few time waster messer here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat
This can be true too but I don't know if its fair to call them time wasters. Some people are shy and don't have great social skills and they may just chat to feel human, however they should put that up on their profiles that for the moment they just want to chat and aren't at a point to meet
It's such a pity that not everybody can see things from this point of view.
I joined the site over two years ago & had my fair share of good and bad experiences. I took a break for a few months due to (I don't like using these words lol) alot of fakes/timewasters/abusive people ruining the experience for me.
I decided to come back & ease myself back in but I'm asking myself why did I bother. Same problems as before & people seem to get quite nasty when I say I'm here to chat for now, despite having stated that on my profile...
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Don't ever allow anything to bring you down, just know inside yourself that its 100% OK to be who you are and what you are. Its also OK to do as you see fit here not as others want or wish. Stay true to you and keep your chin up. I will say it again we are all as humans perfectly imperfect. Welcome back and keep
Smiling , its all good |
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By *rBrownnSexyMan
over a year ago
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Every day there is thread about time waster /fake people or something in that line. it is free website what do you accept. People come and go and delete and create new profile. No one can stop that! |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"Been here since the site started and never had a no show
Have I spent time chatting to people to decide its not going to happen ? Yes
Is that time wasting ? No
This is a no strings attached site
One really neads to know what one wants from it. If a couple of hours time spent is time wasting , perhaps you have too much on in your life and this site isn't for you
I'm not here to shag anyone who is registered. As in real life I need to make a connection and feel like its worth taking forward.
Anyone who's not happy with the way I work the site can bugger off and whinge
I know I'm genuine. The guys I do meet know the same. Win win "
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"Every day there is thread about time waster /fake people or something in that line. it is free website what do you accept. People come and go and delete and create new profile. No one can stop that!"
Everyone should b made to do a lie detector test hanging from a helicopter..suspended over a river infested with man/woman (dont wanna be sexist) eating aligators,pirannas and great white sharks!!
If they fail the test..drop em in.. that will sort out the buggers!!!!!! Lol |
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"Yep alot of time wasters here think some use it just to chat
This can be true too but I don't know if its fair to call them time wasters. Some people are shy and don't have great social skills and they may just chat to feel human, however they should put that up on their profiles that for the moment they just want to chat and aren't at a point to meet
It's such a pity that not everybody can see things from this point of view.
I joined the site over two years ago & had my fair share of good and bad experiences. I took a break for a few months due to (I don't like using these words lol) alot of fakes/timewasters/abusive people ruining the experience for me.
I decided to come back & ease myself back in but I'm asking myself why did I bother. Same problems as before & people seem to get quite nasty when I say I'm here to chat for now, despite having stated that on my profile...
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Ahhh dimples x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a sense there can't be any fakes as there is a real person behind every profile. Many many profiles are not quite what they appear to be though and it can be exhausting for genuine people. We've been very selective and don't meet often but everyone (o.k. 99%) we've met have been super people. |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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The only ppl I would consider time wasters are ones that make arrangements and then not show up...cause anyone can send a text to cancel.....ppl are here for all sorts of reasons doesn't make then timewasters if they just want to chat |
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"The only ppl I would consider time wasters are ones that make arrangements and then not show up...cause anyone can send a text to cancel.....ppl are here for all sorts of reasons doesn't make then timewasters if they just want to chat"
True Dave
Chatting is not time wasting... its the no shows..with no texts..no warning
I do think there are just a hand full of people who do it deliberately...all the time.
That's just a theory |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have encountered so many fakes,at least 2 or 3 a day. Another classic is "couples" where its clearly just a man, not saying he's not part of a couple but when you go to plan something he 'fesses up about his gf/wife not being entirely aware he's here and making plans. It seems its mostly the man talking,we're the opposite. Wastes an awful lot of time |
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"We have encountered so many fakes,at least 2 or 3 a day. Another classic is "couples" where its clearly just a man, not saying he's not part of a couple but when you go to plan something he 'fesses up about his gf/wife not being entirely aware he's here and making plans. It seems its mostly the man talking,we're the opposite. Wastes an awful lot of time"
2 or 3 a day..... that's nuts!!
Must be very annoying
I know what u mean about guys pretending to b couples... I had the male part say I would have to meet him first...I guess for sex..before meeting wife..
Hmmmm. .I don't think sooo... binned that one lol |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"We have encountered so many fakes,at least 2 or 3 a day. Another classic is "couples" where its clearly just a man, not saying he's not part of a couple but when you go to plan something he 'fesses up about his gf/wife not being entirely aware he's here and making plans. It seems its mostly the man talking,we're the opposite. Wastes an awful lot of time"
we always look to speak to both of the on the phone if there genuine like us they will give u a time to ring them . it usually cuts out the messers we find |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have encountered so many fakes,at least 2 or 3 a day. Another classic is "couples" where its clearly just a man, not saying he's not part of a couple but when you go to plan something he 'fesses up about his gf/wife not being entirely aware he's here and making plans. It seems its mostly the man talking,we're the opposite. Wastes an awful lot of time
2 or 3 a day..... that's nuts!!
Must be very annoying
I know what u mean about guys pretending to b couples... I had the male part say I would have to meet him first...I guess for sex..before meeting wife..
Hmmmm. .I don't think sooo... binned that one lol"
2 already this morning,it tends to be from brand new members.
The couples thing is so annoying tho,especially if they seem sound. Can't believe he asked to meet you first lol
Anyone we meet we always speak on the phone to first and it's always fem to fem,no exceptions.... would be funny to leave Mr stuck with another Mr tho lol |
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"We have encountered so many fakes,at least 2 or 3 a day. Another classic is "couples" where its clearly just a man, not saying he's not part of a couple but when you go to plan something he 'fesses up about his gf/wife not being entirely aware he's here and making plans. It seems its mostly the man talking,we're the opposite. Wastes an awful lot of time
2 or 3 a day..... that's nuts!!
Must be very annoying
I know what u mean about guys pretending to b couples... I had the male part say I would have to meet him first...I guess for sex..before meeting wife..
Hmmmm. .I don't think sooo... binned that one lol"
Theres a lot of them on here for sure! Ask any single female. Usually the account is run by the male. They go after new females in particular. Thats enough to scare off a few of us! |
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"We have encountered so many fakes,at least 2 or 3 a day. Another classic is "couples" where its clearly just a man, not saying he's not part of a couple but when you go to plan something he 'fesses up about his gf/wife not being entirely aware he's here and making plans. It seems its mostly the man talking,we're the opposite. Wastes an awful lot of time
2 or 3 a day..... that's nuts!!
Must be very annoying
I know what u mean about guys pretending to b couples... I had the male part say I would have to meet him first...I guess for sex..before meeting wife..
Hmmmm. .I don't think sooo... binned that one lol
Theres a lot of them on here for sure! Ask any single female. Usually the account is run by the male. They go after new females in particular. Thats enough to scare off a few of us! "
We noticed that from the off,we seem to be one of the rarer couples where the girl has most of the control.I'd imagine its terrifying for a single girl, we've met a few now and it was nerve racking for all lol |
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything."
yur imperfect???? |
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect???? "
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect???? "
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"A lot of women on here dont meet men for a while. This doesnt suit many men..
And we arent supposed to have standards..this doesnt suit many either. Theres too many men...not enough women..hence a lot of frustration.. well thats part of it."
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,."
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,.
oh sorry,must have been all the self praise "
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,.
oh sorry,must have been all the self praise
Could it a matter of interpretation classy? Or possibly reading something into threads that you want to see but isn't actually there?"
well judging by the ridiculous comment u made the other day about me being jealous of u (just because i made a comment on yur thread about ppl being happy in their own skin whether thin or large) when i dont even know u or had even viewed yur profile b4 gives one the impression tht u view yurself as sumthing special |
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,.
oh sorry,must have been all the self praise
Could it a matter of interpretation classy? Or possibly reading something into threads that you want to see but isn't actually there?
well judging by the ridiculous comment u made the other day about me being jealous of u (just because i made a comment on yur thread about ppl being happy in their own skin whether thin or large) when i dont even know u or had even viewed yur profile b4 gives one the impression tht u view yurself as sumthing special "
Aren't we all special in our own right and just to clarify I don't see myself as anything other than a regular woman just like any other woman here. I do think its decent of you to actually converse here with me in a straight up fashion and say how you feel. Not everything here is as it seems classy, |
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,.
oh sorry,must have been all the self praise
Could it a matter of interpretation classy? Or possibly reading something into threads that you want to see but isn't actually there?
well judging by the ridiculous comment u made the other day about me being jealous of u (just because i made a comment on yur thread about ppl being happy in their own skin whether thin or large) when i dont even know u or had even viewed yur profile b4 gives one the impression tht u view yurself as sumthing special
Aren't we all special in our own right and just to clarify I don't see myself as anything other than a regular woman just like any other woman here. I do think its decent of you to actually converse here with me in a straight up fashion and say how you feel. Not everything here is as it seems classy, "
I dont know whether u meant to or not but it looked to me like u were trying to belittle me when i was just making a point to your post,yes we are all unique in our own way but I would never think I was better than anyone else cos we are all the same! |
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,.
oh sorry,must have been all the self praise
Could it a matter of interpretation classy? Or possibly reading something into threads that you want to see but isn't actually there?
well judging by the ridiculous comment u made the other day about me being jealous of u (just because i made a comment on yur thread about ppl being happy in their own skin whether thin or large) when i dont even know u or had even viewed yur profile b4 gives one the impression tht u view yurself as sumthing special
Aren't we all special in our own right and just to clarify I don't see myself as anything other than a regular woman just like any other woman here. I do think its decent of you to actually converse here with me in a straight up fashion and say how you feel. Not everything here is as it seems classy,
I dont know whether u meant to or not but it looked to me like u were trying to belittle me when i was just making a point to your post,yes we are all unique in our own way but I would never think I was better than anyone else cos we are all the same! "
I never said that, if I wanted to I would have as I don't hold back. It was not directed at you at all and if you interrpreted it that way apologies. That thread got hot and heated as people read things into it that actually wasn't there. I can't stop others who are on the defensive or on the look out for an argument from twisting things with childish sniping. |
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Haven't read the rest but....I am not the same. I am the cat! The shit! A legend! I completely rock! I love myself and everyone else. If I think someone is talking shit or being a cunt, i'll tell you. Although it would only be based on my opinion. We all have our opinions....as we are unique and influenced differently throughout life. That's the beauty of it all. Saying that there are some dicks about! |
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"Haven't read the rest but....I am not the same. I am the cat! The shit! A legend! I completely rock! I love myself and everyone else. If I think someone is talking shit or being a cunt, i'll tell you. Although it would only be based on my opinion. We all have our opinions....as we are unique and influenced differently throughout life. That's the beauty of it all. Saying that there are some dicks about! "
I think you are da bomb too you go whoop whoop honesty all the way. Lol |
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,.
oh sorry,must have been all the self praise
Could it a matter of interpretation classy? Or possibly reading something into threads that you want to see but isn't actually there?
well judging by the ridiculous comment u made the other day about me being jealous of u (just because i made a comment on yur thread about ppl being happy in their own skin whether thin or large) when i dont even know u or had even viewed yur profile b4 gives one the impression tht u view yurself as sumthing special
Aren't we all special in our own right and just to clarify I don't see myself as anything other than a regular woman just like any other woman here. I do think its decent of you to actually converse here with me in a straight up fashion and say how you feel. Not everything here is as it seems classy,
I dont know whether u meant to or not but it looked to me like u were trying to belittle me when i was just making a point to your post,yes we are all unique in our own way but I would never think I was better than anyone else cos we are all the same!
I never said that, if I wanted to I would have as I don't hold back. It was not directed at you at all and if you interrpreted it that way apologies. That thread got hot and heated as people read things into it that actually wasn't there. I can't stop others who are on the defensive or on the look out for an argument from twisting things with childish sniping."
ok this is the last I will say on the subject!but u did post this comment in reply to mine
me:sexy isnt about being really thin!most men dont like really thin women anyway!being sexy is about being happy and confident in yur own skin!"
u:oh dear me thinks someone has a case of the green meanies |
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,.
oh sorry,must have been all the self praise
Could it a matter of interpretation classy? Or possibly reading something into threads that you want to see but isn't actually there?
well judging by the ridiculous comment u made the other day about me being jealous of u (just because i made a comment on yur thread about ppl being happy in their own skin whether thin or large) when i dont even know u or had even viewed yur profile b4 gives one the impression tht u view yurself as sumthing special
Aren't we all special in our own right and just to clarify I don't see myself as anything other than a regular woman just like any other woman here. I do think its decent of you to actually converse here with me in a straight up fashion and say how you feel. Not everything here is as it seems classy,
I dont know whether u meant to or not but it looked to me like u were trying to belittle me when i was just making a point to your post,yes we are all unique in our own way but I would never think I was better than anyone else cos we are all the same!
I never said that, if I wanted to I would have as I don't hold back. It was not directed at you at all and if you interrpreted it that way apologies. That thread got hot and heated as people read things into it that actually wasn't there. I can't stop others who are on the defensive or on the look out for an argument from twisting things with childish sniping.
ok this is the last I will say on the subject!but u did post this comment in reply to mine
me:sexy isnt about being really thin!most men dont like really thin women anyway!being sexy is about being happy and confident in yur own skin!"
u:oh dear me thinks someone has a case of the green meanies"
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"Okay first time to put a thread up here but guys and girls ...really ??? Full of fakes ...and time wasters ...everyone i have met seem genuine enough bar one of two ....but could it be that some on here just feel hard done by because they just ain't another's type ?
Welcome to the forums, I honestly don't believe people are fakes however I do think there are a lot here that aren't sure what they want. I think fear has a lot to do with it, they do want to meet but they blackout due to nerves or unsurity. I think its very poor behaviour though from adults if they can't find the courage to just cancel with appropriate notice, but again god knows what they may be feeling. Certainly when there is sex involved or anticipated it adds to some peoples nerves. You also just have what I think are voyeurs who want to believe they can meet but don't have the ability to socially interact. Its just my opinion and not necessarily others. Maybe some are married and they think they want to but are afraid of what it may do to their marriage or others may just have guilt attacks at the last minute. I realise their are hardcore lifestylers here but many others do it for ccuriosity just for the short term. At the end of the day we are all perfectly imperfect and its pointless getting upset or personalising anything.
yur imperfect????
I sure am never claimed to be anything else, never will be anything but myself,.
oh sorry,must have been all the self praise
Could it a matter of interpretation classy? Or possibly reading something into threads that you want to see but isn't actually there?
well judging by the ridiculous comment u made the other day about me being jealous of u (just because i made a comment on yur thread about ppl being happy in their own skin whether thin or large) when i dont even know u or had even viewed yur profile b4 gives one the impression tht u view yurself as sumthing special
Aren't we all special in our own right and just to clarify I don't see myself as anything other than a regular woman just like any other woman here. I do think its decent of you to actually converse here with me in a straight up fashion and say how you feel. Not everything here is as it seems classy,
I dont know whether u meant to or not but it looked to me like u were trying to belittle me when i was just making a point to your post,yes we are all unique in our own way but I would never think I was better than anyone else cos we are all the same!
I never said that, if I wanted to I would have as I don't hold back. It was not directed at you at all and if you interrpreted it that way apologies. That thread got hot and heated as people read things into it that actually wasn't there. I can't stop others who are on the defensive or on the look out for an argument from twisting things with childish sniping.
ok this is the last I will say on the subject!but u did post this comment in reply to mine
me:sexy isnt about being really thin!most men dont like really thin women anyway!being sexy is about being happy and confident in yur own skin!"
u:oh dear me thinks someone has a case of the green meanies
That comment was put under the wrong post my bad my error"
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