So were new to all this. Only been to a few M&G parties. Although weve met some amazing people. And weve been asked to parties/meets.
We're shy and to be honest little scared about out first sex meet.
Is this normal? How dis ye feel? Were ye totally relaxed once u got there??
Any help out be great!
I/C |
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over a year ago
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No not at all, still get nervous when getting ready for a meet. However after i get there I start to relax and just go with the flow. I think if I was ever to lose those nerves I would stop |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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Yes quiet normal as it approaches the excitement grows along with the nerves they should be good nerves once u meet up maybe for a drink or coffee first it usually subsides and u feel at ease let the fun begin remember if u still feel nervous enough that u feel uncomfortable its ok to say no
enjoy once u get in to it its addictive be warned
happy swinging  |
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Nerves is all part of the excitement and build up. Meet for drink / coffee first and if it doesn't feel right you don't have to go any further. Same as party you don't have to play unless you want to. Happy swinging xx |
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I always do, even when i meet my regular guys, so it's totally normal, take it easy, few drinks and let the chat flow and hopefully other things will, no rush either, when it feels right ye'll know xx |
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"So were new to all this. Only been to a few M&G parties. Although weve met some amazing people. And weve been asked to parties/meets.
We're shy and to be honest little scared about out first sex meet.
Is this normal? How dis ye feel? Were ye totally relaxed once u got there??
Any help out be great!
I/C"
when i went to my first party i drank so much with my nerves i was pissed!everyone is nervous at meeting new ppl ,its natural so i wudnt worry about it,once u have a drink or 2 u will feel more relaxed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We're all very human and nerves are a very human quality and reaction. If we didn't have them there would be something wrong with us as it shows we care & we're human |
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Dont get me wrong.when we go out to parties we are good fun. Anyone who has met us can confirm.were not shy individuals with drink in us. Lol
But its the sexual side were nervous bout. Aswell as maybe being too picky and wanting it to be perfect. Which is bad idea cos.
If u plan for perfection and you dont get it. You'll be turned off the experience. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"nerves are always there before a meet but if u met the right people and ye click the nerves go straight out the window and when ur on the home u will wonder what u were nervous about.  "
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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perfection can never be planned . its comes naturally when ur comfortable with who u meet and that usually takes the 2nd meet to get everything perfect as by this time u know exactly what turns the other people on and they know what turns ye on |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"perfection can never be planned . its comes naturally when ur comfortable with who u meet and that usually takes the 2nd meet to get everything perfect as by this time u know exactly what turns the other people on and they know what turns ye on "
as above the first time is to have fun and a laugh get comfortable with each other u will find a second and further it gets better |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...
Cos were lost really.
Think we'd try "soft swing" before
Full swap though.
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that's exactly what we are thinking as well, takes a lot of stress away that way, we are cam verified but if don't get a meet soon people are going to think we are time wasters , Gerri xx |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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Yip can be nerve wrecking...but when you click with a cpl it's so much fun...meet for a drink first that's what we do that way theres no pressure...and if everyone wants take it from there....partys are also great places to meet with no pressure to play |
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"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...
Cos were lost really.
Think we'd try "soft swing" before
Full swap though.
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Now come trust Auntie Annie....ill hold yer hand.....  |
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"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...
Cos were lost really.
Think we'd try "soft swing" before
Full swap though.
Now come trust Auntie Annie....ill hold yer hand..... "
Hehe We're definately not ready for u annie. You'll eat us alive |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...
Cos were lost really.
Think we'd try "soft swing" before
Full swap though.
Now come trust Auntie Annie....ill hold yer hand.....
Hehe We're definately not ready for u annie. You'll eat us alive"
Annie their nervous.....not nieve....us on the other hand you could trust with your lives |
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"I think we nearly need to be held by the hand and say try this...
Cos were lost really.
Think we'd try "soft swing" before
Full swap though.
that's exactly what we are thinking as well, takes a lot of stress away that way, we are cam verified but if don't get a meet soon people are going to think we are time wasters , Gerri xx "
Gerri don't rush it and don't worry what other people think. Just when you both feel comfortable with it let it happen. |
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We just had our first meet meet last weekend. Was strange in that some of the things we were worried about were fine and some things we didn't even think about were a bit iffy. The couple we were with were brilliant though so yeah, I'd say choose carefully. Have to say this week has been a bit of an emotional rollercoaster for both of us, so be prepared for that I guess. Feel free to message if you have questions |
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