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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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You have the coffee meet and you think it went well..... the next text is telling you their not interested in going forward. What is the worse let down you have received?
or are people in tuned to others feelings or care either way?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the worst I had was "would ya ever fuck off with yourself". Gutted, I was. Obviously I'm not used to rejection!  "
really?? had they read your post about women's opinion?? lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think the worst I had was "would ya ever fuck off with yourself". Gutted, I was. Obviously I'm not used to rejection! "
I've learned a touch of finesse since those days Michael. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the worst I had was "would ya ever fuck off with yourself". Gutted, I was. Obviously I'm not used to rejection!
I've learned a touch of finesse since those days Michael. "
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I think the worst I had was "would ya ever fuck off with yourself". Gutted, I was. Obviously I'm not used to rejection!
I've learned a touch of finesse since those days Michael. "
just a touch  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have the coffee meet and you think it went well..... the next text is telling you their not interested in going forward. What is the worse let down you have received?
or are people in tuned to others feelings or care either way?
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Being direct surely the best approach after a coffee meet. If you're nice it's usually appreciated too, rather than leaving someone hanging on...  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought the block button was for that!! 
you would block some one instead of letting them know who didn't went to meet them again?
Oh ya. Definitely!!!.  "
And if the guy blocked you instead of informing you he wasn't interested I'm assuming you be ok with that or even expect it and not a text or phone call? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought the block button was for that!!
you would block some one instead of letting them know who didn't went to meet them again?
Oh ya. Definitely!!!.
feck no prisoners there "
or maybe sarcasm doesn't come across well here? I hope...  |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"I thought the block button was for that!!
you would block some one instead of letting them know who didn't went to meet them again?
Oh ya. Definitely!!!.
And if the guy blocked you instead of informing you he wasn't interested I'm assuming you be ok with that or even expect it and not a text or phone call?"
oh that would never happen. Did you not know us women call the shots on here!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the worst I had was "would ya ever fuck off with yourself". Gutted, I was. Obviously I'm not used to rejection!
I've learned a touch of finesse since those days Michael. "
Lmao Nippy =-O |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"I thought the block button was for that!!
you would block some one instead of letting them know who didn't went to meet them again?
Oh ya. Definitely!!!.
feck no prisoners there
or maybe sarcasm doesn't come across well here? I hope... "
you got it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway "
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends "
Was the same about boyzone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then "
Me neither I don't think ppl exist in real life oh I do I arranged 5 meets n not 1 showed up thats my let downs n 2 blocked then |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Me neither I don't think ppl exist in real life oh I do I arranged 5 meets n not 1 showed up thats my let downs n 2 blocked then"
well going from a previous post you now know why you were blocked,( although I think sarcasm was been used,) whatever reason people not show up but why not be honest about no chemistry etc, We are not all going to fancy each other |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Usually after coffee meet I leave the ball in there court.if they want to meet again they message and if they dont they dont
Would you not miss your ball?? "
Or is it just a cock n ball story!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the worst I had was "would ya ever fuck off with yourself". Gutted, I was. Obviously I'm not used to rejection!
I've learned a touch of finesse since those days Michael.
just a touch "
Purrrrrtt |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
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"Usually after coffee meet I leave the ball in there court.if they want to meet again they message and if they dont they dont
Would you not miss your ball?? "
Leaves me an excuse to go back n get it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Me neither I don't think ppl exist in real life oh I do I arranged 5 meets n not 1 showed up thats my let downs n 2 blocked then
well going from a previous post you now know why you were blocked,( although I think sarcasm was been used,) whatever reason people not show up but why not be honest about no chemistry etc, We are not all going to fancy each other "
Ouch! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I generally wait for the veri...ya know by that wether they wanna meet again.
on my side i just say i didnt think we clicked before or after coffee but i would always give the benefit of the doubt by at least meeting for coffee before i decide not to bother meeting them for fun...!!!! |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Usually after coffee meet I leave the ball in there court.if they want to meet again they message and if they dont they dont
Would you not miss your ball??
Leaves me an excuse to go back n get it "
What if they got rid because they weren't interested?? |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"Usually after coffee meet I leave the ball in there court.if they want to meet again they message and if they dont they dont
Would you not miss your ball??
Leaves me an excuse to go back n get it
What if they got rid because they weren't interested?? "
U havent seen them yet but they are keepers |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Usually after coffee meet I leave the ball in there court.if they want to meet again they message and if they dont they dont
Would you not miss your ball??
Leaves me an excuse to go back n get it
What if they got rid because they weren't interested??
U havent seen them yet but they are keepers"
There's always a first!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone"
You cannot be comparing the two?? |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two?? "
I suppose. No one compares to boyzone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two??
I suppose. No one compares to boyzone. "
Ure all showing ure age here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two?? !-
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I suppose. No one compares to boyzone. "
i'd block you if you didn't allure me so |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two?? !-
)
I suppose. No one compares to boyzone.
i'd block you if you didn't allure me so "
If it helps my brother was at that concert |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice."
i remember u tellin me that...shocking shame on the guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice."
real classy guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two?? !-
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I suppose. No one compares to boyzone.
i'd block you if you didn't allure me so
If it helps my brother was at that concert"
it makes me jealous of your bro is all |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice."
That's awful, guess he didn't do discreet very well, I hope you know you are better off |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice."
well ??? Did u |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice.
well ??? Did u "
I did consider it, I am desperate you know haha
Oh I forgot to say, he also asked me for a verification LMAO!!... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two??
I suppose. No one compares to boyzone.
Ure all showing ure age here"
Showing your age talking about Boyzone!!!....opps was gonna mention Abba but best keep my trap shut |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two??
I suppose. No one compares to boyzone.
Ure all showing ure age here
Showing your age talking about Boyzone!!!....opps was gonna mention Abba but best keep my trap shut "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice."
Really..for feck sake...good riddance to him Sweet x |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice.
well ??? Did u
I did consider it, I am desperate you know haha
Oh I forgot to say, he also asked me for a verification LMAO!!... "
awe now that's just going to far |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two??
I suppose. No one compares to boyzone.
Ure all showing ure age here
Showing your age talking about Boyzone!!!....opps was gonna mention Abba but best keep my trap shut "
i was thinking more moody blues |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice.
well ??? Did u
I did consider it, I am desperate you know haha
Oh I forgot to say, he also asked me for a verification LMAO!!...
awe now that's just going to far "
Maddness...one step beyond |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We talking just fab?
yes
ah, nothing to report then
Go on tell us anyway
ok if you insist....biggest letdown of my life. Robert, Jimmy, and John decided to do a one off show in 2007. Obviously i was already entering my granny's details on ebay, when my "friend" said its cool, got us both tickets. This turned out to be a joke, he thought it'd be funny, it wasn't. The show was soldout once he told me. We are no longer friends
Was the same about boyzone
You cannot be comparing the two??
I suppose. No one compares to boyzone.
Ure all showing ure age here
Showing your age talking about Boyzone!!!....opps was gonna mention Abba but best keep my trap shut
i was thinking more moody blues "
Ahh its the wrong thread Im in. 80s Smoochies is where I should be...Do you hear the drums Fernando |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice.
well ??? Did u
I did consider it, I am desperate you know haha
Oh I forgot to say, he also asked me for a verification LMAO!!...
awe now that's just going to far
Maddness...one step beyond "
welcome to the house of fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice.
well ??? Did u
I did consider it, I am desperate you know haha
Oh I forgot to say, he also asked me for a verification LMAO!!...
awe now that's just going to far
Maddness...one step beyond
welcome to the house of fun "
One sec....just looking for me baggy trousers |
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By (user no longer on site)
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If I don't feel the vibe I tell them I am not feeling the vibe.. It's has happened in the past, but wasn't going to do it for the sake of it.. Think she was happy enough tbh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice.
well ??? Did u
I did consider it, I am desperate you know haha
Oh I forgot to say, he also asked me for a verification LMAO!!...
awe now that's just going to far
Maddness...one step beyond
welcome to the house of fun
One sec....just looking for me baggy trousers "
where's me jumper |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Face PIC and then blocked
Got to tell ya,that fking hurt!
Thought she was the 1......
U reading this ya bitch lol
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who blocked you, with a fine ass like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice.that is bad form....but i did laugh.. "
I can laugh about it too now! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think the worst I had was "would ya ever fuck off with yourself". Gutted, I was. Obviously I'm not used to rejection! "
Sorry Michael but I'm breaking my sides laughing at that one !!!! We've all had em but maybe not as direct as that !!!!!! One coffee meet I had went ok but when I suggested A follow up , she said she was only meeting with her fb in future !! Fine except, within a couple of weeks she had a number of reviews up meeting on her own !!!!! As with you , why can't they just say it straight out ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have the coffee meet and you think it went well..... the next text is telling you their not interested in going forward. What is the worse let down you have received?
or are people in tuned to others feelings or care either way?
Being direct surely the best approach after a coffee meet. If you're nice it's usually appreciated too, rather than leaving someone hanging on... "
Couldn't agree more !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"worst one?... I was dumped at the pub, literally. "Let me go and find a parking space" ... 3min later I got a text "not my type" ... 5min later another text "you can still suck me off"
nice.that is bad form....but i did laugh..
I can laugh about it too now! "
You can't but laugh at that one !!! His loss Sweetwhispers , his loss !!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I generally wait for the veri...ya know by that wether they wanna meet again.
on my side i just say i didnt think we clicked before or after coffee but i would always give the benefit of the doubt by at least meeting for coffee before i decide not to bother meeting them for fun...!!!! "
More power to u CC !! Pity everyone can't be as honest as u and they just shudn't come back with the " didn't want to hurt ur feelings " line..........were all adults on here , but....at times, I wonder !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Face PIC and then blocked
Got to tell ya,that fking hurt!
Thought she was the 1......
U reading this ya bitch lol
who blocked you, with a fine ass like that "
U have lol  |
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"I generally wait for the veri...ya know by that wether they wanna meet again.
on my side i just say i didnt think we clicked before or after coffee but i would always give the benefit of the doubt by at least meeting for coffee before i decide not to bother meeting them for fun...!!!! More power to u CC !! Pity everyone can't be as honest as u and they just shudn't come back with the " didn't want to hurt ur feelings " line..........were all adults on here , but....at times, I wonder !!!!"
im a very honest person....its not good for ya tho at times.people dont like to hear the truth |
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"I generally wait for the veri...ya know by that wether they wanna meet again.
on my side i just say i didnt think we clicked before or after coffee but i would always give the benefit of the doubt by at least meeting for coffee before i decide not to bother meeting them for fun...!!!! More power to u CC !! Pity everyone can't be as honest as u and they just shudn't come back with the " didn't want to hurt ur feelings " line..........were all adults on here , but....at times, I wonder !!!!
im a very honest person....its not good for ya tho at times.people dont like to hear the truth "
CC , ur just too good for this site !!!!? Ur way too considerate and thoughtful, if only everyone else on here wasnt half as good as you !!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Face PIC and then blocked
Got to tell ya,that fking hurt!
Thought she was the 1......
U reading this ya bitch lol
who blocked you, with a fine ass like that
U have lol "
Nope your not blocked hun, you don't fit my age preference |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have the coffee meet and you think it went well..... the next text is telling you their not interested in going forward. What is the worse let down you have received?
or are people in tuned to others feelings or care either way?
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i a guy b4 when i was out,we swapped numbers and i met him again 3 times,we got on really well but i never heard frm him again! i didnt get it cos he was ringing me everyday and texting all the time and then nothing!men are really strange creatures! |
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