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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hey guys, What are your thoughts on people getting into relationships here? Obviously its none of our business and people can do as they choose but iam always baffled when i read a profile stating they are here strictly for nsa fun and then you talk to them and they say "sorry but i have met a guy here recently and iam not meeting anybody else"
You could say they are just saying that to fob the person off but i dont believe that to be the case when you can easily ignore the person, Tell them straight out your not interested etc
I think that if a woman messaged me and i replied "sorry i met a girl recently here and iam commited to her" I would imagine i would be laughed at, as if i somehow thought i found love!!
If someone meets someone and commits to just that person, I would consider that a relationship essentially , would you?
Alot of people in these situations tend to get attached and eventually one or the other gets hurt when it was never going anywhere anyway so iam just curious why people do it! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would say each to their own, if they have come across anyone they think is absolutely brilliant, I say fair play and make sure you grab it when you can. You don't know what is going to happen next in life and I would rather have tried and failed than always left wondering. Life really is roo short |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No not really a relationship but a fuck buddy. they know and understand boundries and you get regular sex...its win win "
Its def a win win ... for the guy in particular though i feel because its usually harder for the guy to get it regularly as oppose to the woman!! I agree each to their own! Just seems a lil odd when most people come here for nsa fun and the last thing they want is commitment!
I wonder is loneliness a part of it? Sometimes i thing its the strong minded people that strictly fuck and then its goodbye, emotions never come into play and there are those that are a little lonely and want the company of someone more so then the sex so commiting to one person means they get that more regularly?
Again, each to their own! It just interestes me when i hear of people commiting to each other here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would say each to their own, if they have come across anyone they think is absolutely brilliant, I say fair play and make sure you grab it when you can. You don't know what is going to happen next in life and I would rather have tried and failed than always left wondering. Life really is roo short"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Emotion do come into it but u gotta learn to step back.which is sometimes hard to do.if ur single its no problem if both parties are willing but when ur married and having regular sex with someone else there have to rules |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Emotion do come into it but u gotta learn to step back.which is sometimes hard to do.if ur single its no problem if both parties are willing but when ur married and having regular sex with someone else there have to rules"
I dont think i could ever commit to someone here , simple because if iam honest,I believe emotions would come in to it! As much as id love a regular fuck buddy, Rarely do they work out! and getting hurt aint no fun ha I also think the women move on way faster then the men which is iron cause most people prob think its the men that are heartless and move on ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here "
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well op nothing wrong with ppl getting together on here as long as they know what's ahead for them.
a cpl meet on fab and only 2weeks ago they are getting married also we met here and there is talk of moving in. 
so yes we were after nsa fun but got more so where the prob?? 
no its up to the people involved. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Emotion do come into it but u gotta learn to step back.which is sometimes hard to do.if ur single its no problem if both parties are willing but when ur married and having regular sex with someone else there have to rules
I dont think i could ever commit to someone here , simple because if iam honest,I believe emotions would come in to it! As much as id love a regular fuck buddy, Rarely do they work out! and getting hurt aint no fun ha I also think the women move on way faster then the men which is iron cause most people prob think its the men that are heartless and move on ha "
well im talking about from my point of view. emotions have come into play for me before and it is a killer but ya got to weigh it up. and my kids win hands down so frpm the get go i know and let others know where i stand.that way theres no love lost and no broken hearts |
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!!"
no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"well op nothing wrong with ppl getting together on here as long as they know what's ahead for them.
a cpl meet on fab and only 2weeks ago they are getting married also we met here and there is talk of moving in.
so yes we were after nsa fun but got more so where the prob??
no its up to the people involved. "
Thats awesome, always is when and if it works out but thats rare to!! I know someone who also met a guy here and is supposedly in love now! Great for them i say but i question some peoples meaning of love! I know people that cheat on each other and think they love each other lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well op nothing wrong with ppl getting together on here as long as they know what's ahead for them.
a cpl meet on fab and only 2weeks ago they are getting married also we met here and there is talk of moving in.
so yes we were after nsa fun but got more so where the prob??
no its up to the people involved.
Thats awesome, always is when and if it works out but thats rare to!! I know someone who also met a guy here and is supposedly in love now! Great for them i say but i question some peoples meaning of love! I know people that cheat on each other and think they love each other lol"
well cheating is a whole other ball game. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens"
I dont believe anything just happens though, You have to be open to a relationship in order for it to happen! It does feel awesome when you connect with someone though,Its never happened for me here though ha |
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens
I dont believe anything just happens though, You have to be open to a relationship in order for it to happen! It does feel awesome when you connect with someone though,Its never happened for me here though ha "
I wasn lookin for a relationship wen I met the fella I'm with now but the night I met him we jus clicked and we wer never apart after that nite now I'd be lost without him he's my best friend aswel as my partner |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!!"
Why not? Find a partner who enjoys swinging, carry on swinging. What's the bad idea? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens
I dont believe anything just happens though, You have to be open to a relationship in order for it to happen! It does feel awesome when you connect with someone though,Its never happened for me here though ha I wasn lookin for a relationship wen I met the fella I'm with now but the night I met him we jus clicked and we wer never apart after that nite now I'd be lost without him he's my best friend aswel as my partner "
Lucky you, I want that *sniff sniff* haha I do think tho, If the person your with is more like a best friend then anything else then thats one good indicator ye found someone worth keeping! Too many people settle for someone because its just comfortable and handy |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!!
Why not? Find a partner who enjoys swinging, carry on swinging. What's the bad idea?"
Haha straight to the point and a good point you make to , true i suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!!
Why not? Find a partner who enjoys swinging, carry on swinging. What's the bad idea?"
that's it exactly. that's what we done and were loving it. |
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens
I dont believe anything just happens though, You have to be open to a relationship in order for it to happen! It does feel awesome when you connect with someone though,Its never happened for me here though ha I wasn lookin for a relationship wen I met the fella I'm with now but the night I met him we jus clicked and we wer never apart after that nite now I'd be lost without him he's my best friend aswel as my partner
Lucky you, I want that *sniff sniff* haha I do think tho, If the person your with is more like a best friend then anything else then thats one good indicator ye found someone worth keeping! Too many people settle for someone because its just comfortable and handy "
iv never been with someone jus cause it was handy what's the point if both people aren happy the whole relationship is pointless I think |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"Hey guys, What are your thoughts on people getting into relationships here? Obviously its none of our business and people can do as they choose but iam always baffled when i read a profile stating they are here strictly for nsa fun and then you talk to them and they say "sorry but i have met a guy here recently and iam not meeting anybody else"
You could say they are just saying that to fob the person off but i dont believe that to be the case when you can easily ignore the person, Tell them straight out your not interested etc
I think that if a woman messaged me and i replied "sorry i met a girl recently here and iam commited to her" I would imagine i would be laughed at, as if i somehow thought i found love!!
If someone meets someone and commits to just that person, I would consider that a relationship essentially , would you?
Alot of people in these situations tend to get attached and eventually one or the other gets hurt when it was never going anywhere anyway so iam just curious why people do it! "
we meet on a different swing site almost 2 years ago and we have moved in together and are in a loving relationship and love swinging as a cpl too  to be honest i dont think meeting a vanilla guy would have worked for me as im a true swinger for many years now and now i have the best of both worlds rolled into one , a partner that i love and we both enjoy swinging |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens
I dont believe anything just happens though, You have to be open to a relationship in order for it to happen! It does feel awesome when you connect with someone though,Its never happened for me here though ha I wasn lookin for a relationship wen I met the fella I'm with now but the night I met him we jus clicked and we wer never apart after that nite now I'd be lost without him he's my best friend aswel as my partner
Lucky you, I want that *sniff sniff* haha I do think tho, If the person your with is more like a best friend then anything else then thats one good indicator ye found someone worth keeping! Too many people settle for someone because its just comfortable and handy iv never been with someone jus cause it was handy what's the point if both people aren happy the whole relationship is pointless I think"
No what i mean is that we often settle for less! Look at how many people are in relationships, kill each other daily , fight n argue the whole time, rarely do they get on but yet they persist in staying together!! Alot of relationships are like that! To find someone you can call a best friend is special like |
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens
I dont believe anything just happens though, You have to be open to a relationship in order for it to happen! It does feel awesome when you connect with someone though,Its never happened for me here though ha I wasn lookin for a relationship wen I met the fella I'm with now but the night I met him we jus clicked and we wer never apart after that nite now I'd be lost without him he's my best friend aswel as my partner
Lucky you, I want that *sniff sniff* haha I do think tho, If the person your with is more like a best friend then anything else then thats one good indicator ye found someone worth keeping! Too many people settle for someone because its just comfortable and handy iv never been with someone jus cause it was handy what's the point if both people aren happy the whole relationship is pointless I think
No what i mean is that we often settle for less! Look at how many people are in relationships, kill each other daily , fight n argue the whole time, rarely do they get on but yet they persist in staying together!! Alot of relationships are like that! To find someone you can call a best friend is special like "
we hav fights everyone does but it's always over lil things like me not gettin enough sex or him openin the window at night and freezen me but in nearly 4 years we hav never had a major fight over somethin |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey guys, What are your thoughts on people getting into relationships here? Obviously its none of our business and people can do as they choose but iam always baffled when i read a profile stating they are here strictly for nsa fun and then you talk to them and they say "sorry but i have met a guy here recently and iam not meeting anybody else"
You could say they are just saying that to fob the person off but i dont believe that to be the case when you can easily ignore the person, Tell them straight out your not interested etc
I think that if a woman messaged me and i replied "sorry i met a girl recently here and iam commited to her" I would imagine i would be laughed at, as if i somehow thought i found love!!
If someone meets someone and commits to just that person, I would consider that a relationship essentially , would you?
Alot of people in these situations tend to get attached and eventually one or the other gets hurt when it was never going anywhere anyway so iam just curious why people do it!
we meet on a different swing site almost 2 years ago and we have moved in together and are in a loving relationship and love swinging as a cpl too to be honest i dont think meeting a vanilla guy would have worked for me as im a true swinger for many years now and now i have the best of both worlds rolled into one , a partner that i love and we both enjoy swinging "
What about those though that are just lonely more then anything. I feel some women here are here for attention more then anything and tey are lonely and get with a guy as a result when its doomed from day one! Two true swingers that know its what they want is diffferent, thats a great match ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens
I dont believe anything just happens though, You have to be open to a relationship in order for it to happen! It does feel awesome when you connect with someone though,Its never happened for me here though ha I wasn lookin for a relationship wen I met the fella I'm with now but the night I met him we jus clicked and we wer never apart after that nite now I'd be lost without him he's my best friend aswel as my partner
Lucky you, I want that *sniff sniff* haha I do think tho, If the person your with is more like a best friend then anything else then thats one good indicator ye found someone worth keeping! Too many people settle for someone because its just comfortable and handy iv never been with someone jus cause it was handy what's the point if both people aren happy the whole relationship is pointless I think
No what i mean is that we often settle for less! Look at how many people are in relationships, kill each other daily , fight n argue the whole time, rarely do they get on but yet they persist in staying together!! Alot of relationships are like that! To find someone you can call a best friend is special like we hav fights everyone does but it's always over lil things like me not gettin enough sex or him openin the window at night and freezen me but in nearly 4 years we hav never had a major fight over somethin "
Everyone has fights, depends what the fights are over! What you described isnt really a fight , thats just little annoyances yee have with each other ha |
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"Hey guys, What are your thoughts on people getting into relationships here? Obviously its none of our business and people can do as they choose but iam always baffled when i read a profile stating they are here strictly for nsa fun and then you talk to them and they say "sorry but i have met a guy here recently and iam not meeting anybody else"
You could say they are just saying that to fob the person off but i dont believe that to be the case when you can easily ignore the person, Tell them straight out your not interested etc
I think that if a woman messaged me and i replied "sorry i met a girl recently here and iam commited to her" I would imagine i would be laughed at, as if i somehow thought i found love!!
If someone meets someone and commits to just that person, I would consider that a relationship essentially , would you?
Alot of people in these situations tend to get attached and eventually one or the other gets hurt when it was never going anywhere anyway so iam just curious why people do it!
we meet on a different swing site almost 2 years ago and we have moved in together and are in a loving relationship and love swinging as a cpl too to be honest i dont think meeting a vanilla guy would have worked for me as im a true swinger for many years now and now i have the best of both worlds rolled into one , a partner that i love and we both enjoy swinging
What about those though that are just lonely more then anything. I feel some women here are here for attention more then anything and tey are lonely and get with a guy as a result when its doomed from day one! Two true swingers that know its what they want is diffferent, thats a great match ha "
That's a pretty sweeping statement, may I ask what you are basing that on? from personal experiences with chatting to women on here? |
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!! no a swinger site is the last place if go lookin for one but it jus shows that two people can connect from here I highly doubt anyone comes on here lookin for one but it happens
I dont believe anything just happens though, You have to be open to a relationship in order for it to happen! It does feel awesome when you connect with someone though,Its never happened for me here though ha I wasn lookin for a relationship wen I met the fella I'm with now but the night I met him we jus clicked and we wer never apart after that nite now I'd be lost without him he's my best friend aswel as my partner
Lucky you, I want that *sniff sniff* haha I do think tho, If the person your with is more like a best friend then anything else then thats one good indicator ye found someone worth keeping! Too many people settle for someone because its just comfortable and handy iv never been with someone jus cause it was handy what's the point if both people aren happy the whole relationship is pointless I think
No what i mean is that we often settle for less! Look at how many people are in relationships, kill each other daily , fight n argue the whole time, rarely do they get on but yet they persist in staying together!! Alot of relationships are like that! To find someone you can call a best friend is special like we hav fights everyone does but it's always over lil things like me not gettin enough sex or him openin the window at night and freezen me but in nearly 4 years we hav never had a major fight over somethin
Everyone has fights, depends what the fights are over! What you described isnt really a fight , thats just little annoyances yee have with each other ha "
ha ye we do lil things that pisses both of us off most of mine are done on purpose tho cause I'm jus a bitch sometimes ha |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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hifi firstly ill address your original point yes two people csn meet from here or any other site. I did myself nearly 10 years ago and the relationship lasted over 5 years. and that included a few years where we didnt swing at all...
secondly it seems to me that you are slightly put out but the fact that someone has started seeing someone from the site maybe someone you liked ??
thirdly
im convinced you a doppelganger of somebody else who is always on here. . as you have used some of the exact same language as him sent via txt message to a friend of mine |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"hifi firstly ill address your original point yes two people csn meet from here or any other site. I did myself nearly 10 years ago and the relationship lasted over 5 years. and that included a few years where we didnt swing at all...
secondly it seems to me that you are slightly put out but the fact that someone has started seeing someone from the site maybe someone you liked ??
thirdly
im convinced you a doppelganger of somebody else who is always on here. . as you have used some of the exact same language as him sent via txt message to a friend of mine"
I assure you 100% iam nobody else here , People thought i was knickersoaker aswell ffs lol nor have i been "put out" by someone i fancied!! Ive been rejected plenty here, It comes with being a member! Its just a general question as i hear it alot |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Hey guys, What are your thoughts on people getting into relationships here? Obviously its none of our business and people can do as they choose but iam always baffled when i read a profile stating they are here strictly for nsa fun and then you talk to them and they say "sorry but i have met a guy here recently and iam not meeting anybody else"
You could say they are just saying that to fob the person off but i dont believe that to be the case when you can easily ignore the person, Tell them straight out your not interested etc
I think that if a woman messaged me and i replied "sorry i met a girl recently here and iam commited to her" I would imagine i would be laughed at, as if i somehow thought i found love!!
If someone meets someone and commits to just that person, I would consider that a relationship essentially , would you?
Alot of people in these situations tend to get attached and eventually one or the other gets hurt when it was never going anywhere anyway so iam just curious why people do it!
we meet on a different swing site almost 2 years ago and we have moved in together and are in a loving relationship and love swinging as a cpl too to be honest i dont think meeting a vanilla guy would have worked for me as im a true swinger for many years now and now i have the best of both worlds rolled into one , a partner that i love and we both enjoy swinging
What about those though that are just lonely more then anything. I feel some women here are here for attention more then anything and tey are lonely and get with a guy as a result when its doomed from day one! Two true swingers that know its what they want is diffferent, thats a great match ha
That's a pretty sweeping statement, may I ask what you are basing that on? from personal experiences with chatting to women on here?"
It is but i just feel some women here are more lonely then anything, Its not something that can be proven or anything! Its just the vibe i get from some people , not many of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Correction most men/women on here are bored ... bored at work mostly so on here to pass the time .. others just pop on for a quick perv .. others use here for what it was intended to originally chat-click-meet-fuck.. personally I practically live on here .. think he does too .. |
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"Hey guys, What are your thoughts on people getting into relationships here? Obviously its none of our business and people can do as they choose but iam always baffled when i read a profile stating they are here strictly for nsa fun and then you talk to them and they say "sorry but i have met a guy here recently and iam not meeting anybody else"
You could say they are just saying that to fob the person off but i dont believe that to be the case when you can easily ignore the person, Tell them straight out your not interested etc
I think that if a woman messaged me and i replied "sorry i met a girl recently here and iam commited to her" I would imagine i would be laughed at, as if i somehow thought i found love!!
If someone meets someone and commits to just that person, I would consider that a relationship essentially , would you?
Alot of people in these situations tend to get attached and eventually one or the other gets hurt when it was never going anywhere anyway so iam just curious why people do it! "
i think if yur a female on here and just meeting the same guy and no one else u will end up getting hurt!cos 9 times out of 10 the guy will be meeting other woman and not just one!unless they both really like each other and have no interest in anyone else then they shud get married |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think it's great two people can get a relationship from here
But you wouldnt come here if a relationship was what you wanted? ha Unless you lose focus on why you are here! Two people hookin up is great but just seems like a bad idea here , I dunno why!!"
ive heard of a few cpls tht met on fab and their still together,i think one cpl even got married |
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By *s. AppletreeWoman
over a year ago
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Its perfectly fine for someone to want to be in a relationship....its the way we are programmed ....but i agree here is not the place to find it ....as much as i have meet some real great sweet and sexy as hell guys here ....the moment i change my mind on what i want ..or if the one comes along ....this type of play time will be done for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I don't know how I would manage as a single on here to be honest, if I met someone I really liked and they didn't feel the same way it would totally suck, but then I would only have myself to blame for being on here in the first place. |
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im convinced you a doppelganger of somebody else who is always on here. . as you have used some of the exact same language as him sent via txt message to a friend of mine"
And the very same inquisitive, repetitive threads!...
Keep up the good work Hifisnicks  |
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over a year ago
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"Its perfectly fine for someone to want to be in a relationship....its the way we are programmed ....but i agree here is not the place to find it ....as much as i have meet some real great sweet and sexy as hell guys here ....the moment i change my mind on what i want ..or if the one comes along ....this type of play time will be done for me "
im not looking for a realionship but if i did meet sumone on here and developed feelings for him and the feeling was mutual i wud go with the flow,i wudnt care tht i met him on a sex site! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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im convinced you a doppelganger of somebody else who is always on here. . as you have used some of the exact same language as him sent via txt message to a friend of mine
And the very same inquisitive, repetitive threads!...
Keep up the good work Hifisnicks "
or hisoaker or nickerfi |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Lol @ some people here, I cant believe some people still think this is ks, Just because we both have similar views doesnt mean we MUST be the same person!! Ive stated many times iam happy to prove who iam! Iam NOT ks... deal with it |
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"I don't know how I would manage as a single on here to be honest, if I met someone I really liked and they didn't feel the same way it would totally suck, but then I would only have myself to blame for being on here in the first place."
i agree here.it come down to yourself at the end of the day.i u allow yourself to fall for someone that has no feelings for you whatsoever its your own fault.nobody elses. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"[Removed by poster at 11/04/14 16:46:18]"
Iam not saying all singles are needy but are there some here that are... of course!! I too can be needy! as said,it sucks to like someone and not be liked back but thats life , not just fab!! |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/04/14 16:46:18]
Iam not saying all singles are needy but are there some here that are... of course!! I too can be needy! as said,it sucks to like someone and not be liked back but thats life , not just fab!!"
but u did say that women are...!!! |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Lol @ some people here, I cant believe some people still think this is ks, Just because we both have similar views doesnt mean we MUST be the same person!! Ive stated many times iam happy to prove who iam! Iam NOT ks... deal with it "
it's a forum ppl can believe what they want lol similarly you can believe that people can't meet and start a relationship from fab or that loneliness has anything to do with fab or whatever you want lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"[Removed by poster at 11/04/14 16:46:18]
Iam not saying all singles are needy but are there some here that are... of course!! I too can be needy! as said,it sucks to like someone and not be liked back but thats life , not just fab!!
but u did say that women are...!!!"
Some not ALL, Some women here are extremely strong minded people too!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Lol @ some people here, I cant believe some people still think this is ks, Just because we both have similar views doesnt mean we MUST be the same person!! Ive stated many times iam happy to prove who iam! Iam NOT ks... deal with it
it's a forum ppl can believe what they want lol similarly you can believe that people can't meet and start a relationship from fab or that loneliness has anything to do with fab or whatever you want lol"
Your clearly not getting what iam saying, I was putting it out there for discussion NOT stating people CANT get into a relationship ,I said at least two or three times "each to their own" and i think its great when it works out but whatever ha :P |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/04/14 16:46:18]
Iam not saying all singles are needy but are there some here that are... of course!! I too can be needy! as said,it sucks to like someone and not be liked back but thats life , not just fab!!
but u did say that women are...!!!
Some not ALL, Some women here are extremely strong minded people too!!"
of course which is why we are all different.however the comment about women being on here because of loneliness is silly really....we are on here for sex...end of  |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/04/14 16:46:18]
Iam not saying all singles are needy but are there some here that are... of course!! I too can be needy! as said,it sucks to like someone and not be liked back but thats life , not just fab!!
but u did say that women are...!!!
Some not ALL, Some women here are extremely strong minded people too!!
of course which is why we are all different.however the comment about women being on here because of loneliness is silly really....we are on here for sex...end of "
Again,Not everyone ... i just got vibes from some people i chatted to. Nobody can truely say why anyone is here! I do believe some people here are somewhat lonely in there lives but thats just my belief and even if its true, big deal! It doesnt mean they shouldnt be here |
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"just so you know laid and curvy i thought this was starting to sound very like a ks debate so thats why i deleted...just cant go there"
it seems to be.. |
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"[Removed by poster at 11/04/14 16:46:18]
Iam not saying all singles are needy but are there some here that are... of course!! I too can be needy! as said,it sucks to like someone and not be liked back but thats life , not just fab!!
but u did say that women are...!!!
Some not ALL, Some women here are extremely strong minded people too!!
of course which is why we are all different.however the comment about women being on here because of loneliness is silly really....we are on here for sex...end of
Again,Not everyone ... i just got vibes from some people i chatted to. Nobody can truely say why anyone is here! I do believe some people here are somewhat lonely in there lives but thats just my belief and even if its true, big deal! It doesnt mean they shouldnt be here "
I kinda do agree that some people are on here out of loneliness but it applies to both men and women, and to lots of other sites where people interact, some people are on there cos they are lonely, the internet is full of lonely people, it's a way for them to interact with people that they may not get a chance to do in the offline world. However, I do not agree that all singles are on here cos they are lonely, I would say the majority of them are on here for a good old fashioned rodgering, banter ,some fun with like minded people and nothing more! |
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over a year ago
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"I've recently met someone here we are getting on great she's sexy good looking bi n we will be swinging together very soon
chuffed for you "
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"hifi firstly ill address your original point yes two people csn meet from here or any other site. I did myself nearly 10 years ago and the relationship lasted over 5 years. and that included a few years where we didnt swing at all...
secondly it seems to me that you are slightly put out but the fact that someone has started seeing someone from the site maybe someone you liked ??
thirdly
im convinced you a doppelganger of somebody else who is always on here. . as you have used some of the exact same language as him sent via txt message to a friend of mine"
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over a year ago
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I have to throw my two cents worth in here
Firstly, I joined here as a single girl and I met plenty of men. The majority of THEM wanted more from me. Most single fems here will agree with me when I say it's mostly men looking for more then NSA. This thread puts single fems in a poor light and makes us look like lonely desperados on here for attention and not just a good fuck. Women have needs too!!!
Secondly, I met my bf here. We met for a coffee and hit it off. We both tried to fight it. But when you connect with someone and the chemistry is there, then why pass it up just coz you met through swing? Like someone else said, ye can meet and then swing together!!
I think a lot of men confuse swinging and a swing site with a sex and free hookers site. Some men here aren't here for banter or for respectable NSA, they expect women to be at their beck and call whenever they want a quick shag without having to buy them a drink or fein interest in a conversation first.
Loads of people meet and fall in love here, some works out and some doesn't, I personally wish all the couples the very best |
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"I have to throw my two cents worth in here
Firstly, I joined here as a single girl and I met plenty of men. The majority of THEM wanted more from me. Most single fems here will agree with me when I say it's mostly men looking for more then NSA. This thread puts single fems in a poor light and makes us look like lonely desperados on here for attention and not just a good fuck. Women have needs too!!!
Secondly, I met my bf here. We met for a coffee and hit it off. We both tried to fight it. But when you connect with someone and the chemistry is there, then why pass it up just coz you met through swing? Like someone else said, ye can meet and then swing together!!
I think a lot of men confuse swinging and a swing site with a sex and free hookers site. Some men here aren't here for banter or for respectable NSA, they expect women to be at their beck and call whenever they want a quick shag without having to buy them a drink or fein interest in a conversation first.
Loads of people meet and fall in love here, some works out and some doesn't, I personally wish all the couples the very best "
here here well put lollipop |
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"I have to throw my two cents worth in here
Firstly, I joined here as a single girl and I met plenty of men. The majority of THEM wanted more from me. Most single fems here will agree with me when I say it's mostly men looking for more then NSA. This thread puts single fems in a poor light and makes us look like lonely desperados on here for attention and not just a good fuck. Women have needs too!!!
Secondly, I met my bf here. We met for a coffee and hit it off. We both tried to fight it. But when you connect with someone and the chemistry is there, then why pass it up just coz you met through swing? Like someone else said, ye can meet and then swing together!!
I think a lot of men confuse swinging and a swing site with a sex and free hookers site. Some men here aren't here for banter or for respectable NSA, they expect women to be at their beck and call whenever they want a quick shag without having to buy them a drink or fein interest in a conversation first.
Loads of people meet and fall in love here, some works out and some doesn't, I personally wish all the couples the very best "
Hear hear!
In my opinion it's those very men that are the ones complaining most of the time, THEY'RE wondering why nobody wants to meet them.
Presumption on my part but anyone want to bet these same men would be the ones wanting the girl they met on here to stop swinging if they get together.
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"I think there was a thread afew wks ago about a couple who met on here a while ago but are getting married in two wks. I think!! I could be wrong "
I had a fallin out with a girl here basically because she had agreed to something but then went back on her word after she had met someone here, For some strange reason HE rang me 30 times recently at 6am to tell me they were in love , Wonder if its the same person ha |
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"I had a fallin out with a girl here basically because she had agreed to something but then went back on her word after she had met someone here, For some strange reason HE rang me 30 times recently at 6am to tell me they were in love , Wonder if its the same person ha "
Ha, god thats mad! love works in mysterious ways though (being sarcastic of course) |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"I think there was a thread afew wks ago about a couple who met on here a while ago but are getting married in two wks. I think!! I could be wrong
I had a fallin out with a girl here basically because she had agreed to something but then went back on her word after she had met someone here, For some strange reason HE rang me 30 times recently at 6am to tell me they were in love , Wonder if its the same person ha "
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"I had a fallin out with a girl here basically because she had agreed to something but then went back on her word after she had met someone here, For some strange reason HE rang me 30 times recently at 6am to tell me they were in love , Wonder if its the same person ha
Ha, god thats mad! love works in mysterious ways though (being sarcastic of course) "
The funny thing is, She told somebody here that i gave her an awful time,I signed in to chat one day and was threatened and abused by some guy who of course knew everything she said was 100% true lol I put him straight and told him about the 30calls etc and he accused me of makin it up. Thats what yur up against here sometimes i guess ha Iam no saint of course but makes me laugh when a girl says summit bad about you and guys just assume oh wow she must be telling the truth because i wanna fuck her lol |
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Well if her circumstances changed then she mustn't have been able to do what ever it was she agreed to do with you. Were you supportive of her new situation or did you try haggle her into doing what she had agreed to do with you before she met him? |
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"I have to throw my two cents worth in here
Firstly, I joined here as a single girl and I met plenty of men. The majority of THEM wanted more from me. Most single fems here will agree with me when I say it's mostly men looking for more then NSA. This thread puts single fems in a poor light and makes us look like lonely desperados on here for attention and not just a good fuck. Women have needs too!!!
Secondly, I met my bf here. We met for a coffee and hit it off. We both tried to fight it. But when you connect with someone and the chemistry is there, then why pass it up just coz you met through swing? Like someone else said, ye can meet and then swing together!!
I think a lot of men confuse swinging and a swing site with a sex and free hookers site. Some men here aren't here for banter or for respectable NSA, they expect women to be at their beck and call whenever they want a quick shag without having to buy them a drink or fein interest in a conversation first.
Loads of people meet and fall in love here, some works out and some doesn't, I personally wish all the couples the very best "
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By *aid backMan
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"Well if her circumstances changed then she mustn't have been able to do what ever it was she agreed to do with you. Were you supportive of her new situation or did you try haggle her into doing what she had agreed to do with you before she met him?"
well ive seen the text messages and mails so ill let you guess lol |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I think there was a thread afew wks ago about a couple who met on here a while ago but are getting married in two wks. I think!! I could be wrong
I had a fallin out with a girl here basically because she had agreed to something but then went back on her word after she had met someone here, For some strange reason HE rang me 30 times recently at 6am to tell me they were in love , Wonder if its the same person ha "
once some one here for what ever reason falling in love, just pissed off,or decides they need a break from meeting makes that clear they are entitled to go back on their word for future meets and coffees what ever they arrange once u get enough notice and its not an hr before a planned meet no problem we all have to respect their decision
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