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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I'm an honest, decent guy who is as my profile says. Yet I feel like a "asshole" being a member!! What have I got to do, to interest a female or couple. I can't be more open and honest or is this all a "fun show" |
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"I'm an honest, decent guy who is as my profile says. Yet I feel like a "asshole" being a member!! What have I got to do, to interest a female or couple. I can't be more open and honest or is this all a "fun show""
Your age immediately excludes you from most people (I speak from personal experience! lol). Even those that state they're interested in people in our age group will often ignore your contact as they will be getting plenty of messages from younger men, and that means you will get pushed to the bottom of the pile! Sadly that is the nature of this site, and you shouldn't take it personally or it will affect your confidence
Don't despair though. There are some - though not many - who are discerning enough to appreciate a mature man with decent virtues! 
Get verified, keep trying, and hope you find someone with a little bit of discernment!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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He is verified 
Need to get a picture or two up there. Needn't be of your face, but have one of those available to send
There are plenty of women on here who like the more mature man. Are you targeting them?
I would also suggest getting in to the chat room and start getting recognised. And looking out for any socials happening and get to them |
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I know what you mean. Age is definitely an issue. Most women go for the younger guys. I reckon earlys is the best age for a guy.
Anyway - get a pic up and it's necessary to make a connection when chatting .
Get rid of the bit re it's not necessary to meet re coffee. Suggests sex only without connection
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah you gotta put up some pics to give folk a feeler!
And being nice/polite is important but there has to be an attraction too.
Manners will only get you so far  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Disagree with u slightly there on the age issue there are lots willing to fly the older more mature male my problem is finding an older woman  
Older then you?
Yep that's going to be a huge problem 
smart arse i have to catch up to u yet "
I lied about my age
Not 50 till later in the year |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Age is only a number poilte and chatting to people on forums or on here is great fun.. you really will meet nice people on here.. best of luck with it.  "
very true age only becomes a problem if you let it some folks have there own preffs age height body type but u will find that you will be somebodies flavour. the best advice I can give is be yourself and dont be a creep the women oh here get contacted by enough creeps if ur not one u will stand out. also try and get invited to m&gs or parties these are grwat way to show urself in a good light away ftom a screen. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Guys I know where he is coming from, I have added pics (including face) always read the ladies profiles. And still nothing except for getting blocked lol and one reason was that I couldnt get round on a certain day to fix a users computer lol
also I have message certain people asking in what do they like in general its either a one word answer followed by a block or just a straight block, fuck me is it to much to ask for abit of manners eg sorry your not my type
well thats my rant over lol o just one other thing I personally think newbies should be broken in to make them feel welcome? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Guys I know where he is coming from, I have added pics (including face) always read the ladies profiles. And still nothing except for getting blocked lol and one reason was that I couldnt get round on a certain day to fix a users computer lol
also I have message certain people asking in what do they like in general its either a one word answer followed by a block or just a straight block, fuck me is it to much to ask for abit of manners eg sorry your not my type
well thats my rant over lol o just one other thing I personally think newbies should be broken in to make them feel welcome?"
Just felt I had to comment on this... a guy asked me earlier what kinda guys was I into.... I had been chatting to him already, I had to explain to him that I wouldnt be talking to him if I wasnt interested as im not here to waste anyones time or to bullshit. Same goes for what im into. It says it all on my profile. Fair enough if it comes to actually meeting a person we may exchange things we might like to do (to/with each other!!!) But those questions bug the life out of me!!!! happy swinging!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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while you may have pics in private, but in order to be even looked at you need to put up some profile pic. A nice, sexy pic of yourself, doesn't have to be of the face |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"He is verified
Need to get a picture or two up there. Needn't be of your face, but have one of those available to send
There are plenty of women on here who like the more mature man. Are you targeting them?
I would also suggest getting in to the chat room and start getting recognised. And looking out for any socials happening and get to them"
I like older men.... as long as they are in decent shape lol...few more pics would be good.... |
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