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A year without sex
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Spoke to a girl the other day and it turned into a fun convo and she told me she hasn't had sex in over a year! I nearly fell off the chair with shock! What's the longest you have gone without sex? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"17yrs from the day I was born
17!!!! God I was young at 15  "
i had sex for the first time at 15 and it would seem an enternity to me if I had to go a year without |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"17yrs from the day I was born
17!!!! God I was young at 15 i had sex for the first time at 15 and it would seem an enternity to me if I had to go a year without "
I didn't have sex for almost 2 years but that was due to ill health. I am now making up for it  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"17yrs from the day I was born
17!!!! God I was young at 15 i had sex for the first time at 15 and it would seem an enternity to me if I had to go a year without
I didn't have sex for almost 2 years but that was due to ill health. I am now making up for it "
 that's good |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex"
maybe they're in a sexless relationship? maybe they're picky and just can't find the right partner for sex? maybe religious guilt stops them from having sex outside marriage? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex you cant judge ppl!!! "
Of course he can Dutch!
He's the knickersoaker, he is the Oracle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 fucking years!!!! And I never cheated! He didnt find me attractive.............made me feel like shite. But hey I'm making up for it now. But it does upset me if ppl on here are doing this because they are not getting ' enough' sex at home or not exciting enough sex....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex you cant judge ppl!!! "
where did I judge people? It's there own business but for something that's so enjoyable and pleasurable it's strange
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was 13 years away from making the "40 year old virgin" a true story.. yes there is a bit of maths involved.. looking back now I honestly don't know how I fucking managed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its one thing to be a virgin and not in a relationship and not having sex. But when youre in a relationship and there is no sex, something is wrong. Well in my case anyway. |
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"Its one thing to be a virgin and not in a relationship and not having sex. But when youre in a relationship and there is no sex, something is wrong. Well it my case anyway. "
I was in a sex less marraige too its not a happy place. Much better now that he is gone and I discovered fab
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its one thing to be a virgin and not in a relationship and not having sex. But when youre in a relationship and there is no sex, something is wrong. Well it my case anyway. I was in a sex less marraige too its not a happy place. Much better now that he is gone and I discovered fab"
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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About ten years ago I went a year without sex. Nearly lost my mind. A tough time and one I never want to repeat
It helped that the first girl I was with after that time was amazing fun and very open to experimenting. So many hot memories from my short time going out with her. If she's here. Thanks   |
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"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?"
I'm currently in a sexless "marriage". I took things into my on hands, so to speak a few yrs ago after enduring years of no sex.
He now knows I have had lovers and hosted parties etc.
he's no interest in coming along and I think he's relieved that he doesn't have to do it.. |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Another question! Your in a sexless Marraige! Would you stay in it?
I'm currently in a sexless "marriage". I took things into my on hands, so to speak a few yrs ago after enduring years of no sex.
He now knows I have had lovers and hosted parties etc.
he's no interest in coming along and I think he's relieved that he doesn't have to do it.. "
and we are delighted that ur here too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex"
well for me my mum passed away and I moved home from abroad to put order on the household..teach the auld lad how to use the washing machine and the likes .. having sex wasn't somethin I even thought about it.. I think after 2.5 yrs here I more than made up for a year without |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Like if ur in health and nothing is stopping u why would anyone go so long without sex"
Happen to be when I became a single mum, won't tell you for how long cause we would all cry, so been there done that got the t-shirt ain't going back  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I found sites like fab when I was about 24/25 so never really had a shortage, until I decided to settle down and get married. Went without for 2 years before the marriage broke down and now I'm back on sites like fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends |
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"In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends "
I'm in a very similar situation....... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends "
good for you... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends
I'm in a very similar situation......."
I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends
I'm in a very similar situation.......
I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better "
happy birthday by the way xxxx |
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"In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends
I'm in a very similar situation.......
I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better "
Likewise! I stuck out the marriage without any sex for 9 years, and it wes totally destroying my confidence and self esteem. coming on here was a decision I didn't take lightly, as I would prefer a marriage with intimacy and sex, but as curvy said, we don't live in a perfect world.
Happy birthday |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends
I'm in a very similar situation.......
I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better
happy birthday by the way xxxx "
Aww thank you curvy x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"In all honesty im married nearly thirty years and sleeping in separate rooms for the last ten. We love each other very much just seemed to stop Having sex unless it's a special occasion. But we have a dtr whose married and two grandsons to think about. I have been mostly celibate for years and I was happy enough but last year decided I missed sex so choose to do this for my own sanity. And I'm having a ball! And it's not even just the sex. .. ive meet some really cool wonderful people and friends
I'm in a very similar situation.......
I find this a good way to resolve a situation that otherwise was driving me to considering an affair. ...I don't want to hurt anyone so this seemed better
Likewise! I stuck out the marriage without any sex for 9 years, and it wes totally destroying my confidence and self esteem. coming on here was a decision I didn't take lightly, as I would prefer a marriage with intimacy and sex, but as curvy said, we don't live in a perfect world.
Happy birthday "
Aww thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Spoke to a girl the other day and it turned into a fun convo and she told me she hasn't had sex in over a year! I nearly fell off the chair with shock! What's the longest you have gone without sex?"
i went without sex for 2 yrs b4 |
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By *ocbrownMan
over a year ago
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"out every weekend
are you struggling to pull or do you try?
how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?"
id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"out every weekend
are you struggling to pull or do you try?
how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?
id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"out every weekend
are you struggling to pull or do you try?
how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?
id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there "
hey, could I buy you a drink? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"out every weekend
are you struggling to pull or do you try?
how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?
id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there
hey, could I buy you a drink? "
sure,a drink and im anyones lol not!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"out every weekend
are you struggling to pull or do you try?
how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?"
yes! U have to try! Otherwise u will never no whether u would succeed or not |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"out every weekend
are you struggling to pull or do you try?
how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?
id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there
hey, could I buy you a drink?
sure,a drink and im anyones lol not!!"
Well that Babycham I got ya went a LONG way, Classy!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"out every weekend
are you struggling to pull or do you try?
how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?
id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there
hey, could I buy you a drink?
sure,a drink and im anyones lol not!!
Well that Babycham I got ya went a LONG way, Classy! "
u spiked tht and tuk advantage of me u brute! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"out every weekend
are you struggling to pull or do you try?
how do u "pull" women?like if u seen a woman u fancied in a pub wud u go over to her?
id go over say hi and ask if i could get her a drink and take it from there
hey, could I buy you a drink?
sure,a drink and im anyones lol not!!
Well that Babycham I got ya went a LONG way, Classy!
u spiked tht and tuk advantage of me u brute! "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything.
And stealing knickers! u must have a right collection now. "
They've gone all crusty though! |
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"Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything.
And stealing knickers! u must have a right collection now.
They've gone all crusty though! "
don't worry foofoo I will send u another pair. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Classy watch hfk hrs mad with drink in him starts blowing. Kisses and everything.
And stealing knickers! u must have a right collection now.
They've gone all crusty though! don't worry foofoo I will send u another pair. "
Woohooo |
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