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Married peeps

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok got a mail from a guy married that's no problem they just have to fit in with me which are mostly wkends

anyway he goes on to say he would prefer married ladies as they would have a lot more to loose and wouldn't follow him home . Whats peoples views on this are we the single females just too dangerous for these married guys who think like that oh by the way he was a newbie

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lol.. go him !!

he will soon learn his way around fab lol !!

"follow him home"... jesssssuss.... hell find it hard enough to get a girl never mind get a stalker lol

good luck new guy !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jasus he tinks alot of himself, maybe it would have been him doing the following

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

lol I thought the same

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I will meet a single guy but hes gotta live far away....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will meet a single guy but hes gotta live far away...."

Like dublin

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I agree that attached people are suited best with each other as they understand each other's situations better.

But him saying this to you kind of assumed that single ladies will fall in love with him and harrass him. Oh purlease, will he get over himself??!!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Ohhh ffs so single women are bunny boilers

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

letme seems so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will meet a single guy but hes gotta live far away....

Like dublin

like dublin exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I will meet a single guy but hes gotta live far away....

Like dublin

like dublin exactly

I like

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

This guy probably thinks every woman is looking for a husband.....I'd say the majority of single ladies on here already had one and they have lost their appeal somewhat......now they just want the fun bits

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

haha...what a blooming idiot...welcome to fab...he will learn!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok got a mail from a guy married that's no problem they just have to fit in with me which are mostly wkends

Even as a single guy, I've always favoured couples for that reason, amongst the many others that people will no doubt point out!! Not that I think it's likely on Fab but I have had a couple of bad experiences off site(How are you really likely to know, til it happens?).

No reflection on the OP, who I know this doesn't apply to but a lot of the Females on Fab, do appear to have a "My way, or the by way" take on guys and seem to enjoy getting them to jump through hoops, just for the hell of it. I've never been that type and no matter how attractive, I walk at the first sign of that attitude

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Sounds like he's a bit up himself, personally i think any woman here that sleeps with a married man is a low life, if the persons partner is happy with the arrangement then fine but i think knowingly sleeping with a man that could result in reckon a families life is just low, he's the one married n all but women should here should be lookin out for other women, not fuckin they're husbands behind they're back! Please don't flame m, iit's just an opinion, what you do is your own business ultimately

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok got a mail from a guy married that's no problem they just have to fit in with me which are mostly wkends

Good to hear that...bad up myself attitude stinks...ive no time for it...i speak to everyone and give everyone a chance not all looks based......think that fella loving himself!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Now woody u know me

and what _avie t said is right well fir me got that t shirt and now its just fun no issues still here so cant b to bad

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Sounds like he's a bit up himself, personally i think any woman here that sleeps with a married man is a low life, if the persons partner is happy with the arrangement then fine but i think knowingly sleeping with a man that could result in reckon a families life is just low, he's the one married n all but women should here should be lookin out for other women, not fuckin they're husbands behind they're back! Please don't flame m, iit's just an opinion, what you do is your own business ultimately "

What about a man that sleeps with a married women?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always say to my hubby we have alot at stake being on here as we have children...but he reads all my messages and we are very open...hate women or men who have no respect for a marriage...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about a man that sleeps with a married women? "

Same applies obviously, don't get me wrong, the thought of sleeping with a married woman is a turn oneespecially if it's behind her husbands back but what's a turn on in themind sshouldn't always be acted on, we all have some mad fantasies iam sure, doesn't mean we should act them out! Some fantasies are best kept as just that.... A fantasy!! I've seen families torn apart over affairs and ultimately as a result of a selfish partner that puts themselves first and id like to think women wouldn't be stupid enough to accompany a man in his desire to cheat on his wife! So many available men to fuck on here,some girls target married men however, won't even say what i think of them lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I dont have a prob meeting married guys thats there buisness at the end of the day thats up to them not me to decide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont have a prob meeting married guys thats there buisness at the end of the day thats up to them not me to decide"

So you have no part to play in it at all? You could decide to meet someone thats single or at least meet a married guy whos wife is happy with the arrangment but hey, this is just what i think! We all have diff views on things

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

No i dont have a prob as fir meeting single guys here theres v few

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I used to think the same like you hifi, but I guess experience and being more mature has changed my opinion about it a bit. I'm trying to avoid attached men but to be honest, probably more than 70% single men on here are actually secretly attached anyway. I don't avoid them because of morale issues, but just out of pure selfishness as it's difficult to arrange meets with them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No i dont have a prob as fir meeting single guys here theres v few

ah feck off now busty lol your just bold.... too bold.... been that bold is gonna get u in trouble lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I used to think the same like you hifi, but I guess experience and being more mature has changed my opinion about it a bit. I'm trying to avoid attached men but to be honest, probably more than 70% single men on here are actually secretly attached anyway. I don't avoid them because of morale issues, but just out of pure selfishness as it's difficult to arrange meets with them. "

I agree , My ex was with 3 men in the year before she met me and of the 3 only one was single, or at least she didnt find out if he had a partner but the other two had , the difference here tho is that she was decieved, she didnt knowingly sleep with a married man!! I can see and understand the fantasy of it but i just think its a lousy thing to do, People should have morals and have the strength to practise them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Hilf i was that wife at home many yrs ago so i know full well both sides what it did for me in the long run was made me stronger and who i am today

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I dont have a prob meeting married guys thats there buisness at the end of the day thats up to them not me to decide

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so why do you call busty bold for meeting attached men and me doing a lousy thing??

not sure why we're different lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ame applies obviously, don't get me wrong, the thought of sleeping with a married woman is a turn oneespecially if A fantasy!! I've seen families torn apart over affairs and ultimately as a result of a selfish partner that puts themselves first and id like to think women wouldn't be stupid enough to accompany a man in his desire to cheat on his wife! So many available men to fuck on here,some girls target married men however, won't even say what i think of them lol"
ok it is not selfishness.....we do what we gotta do..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hilf i was that wife at home many yrs ago so i know full well both sides what it did for me in the long run was made me stronger and who i am today"

All the more reason not to do it...but i have went with a guy when i was single who had a girlfriend but no kids involved...its the family thing that gets me the most...kids being involved they dont deserve it!!And yes if they are gona do it they will find someone...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so why do you call busty bold for meeting attached men and me doing a lousy thing??

not sure why we're different lol"

I never specifically referred to you hun lol In a nut shell iam saying that it takes a very bold person to do that and while being bold is fun, i think its more of a desire to prove to urself that you can take a guy away fro someone or summit like that,I think theres a deeper reason behind it personally and i find it a lil lousy but as i said, its just my opinion! Theres reasons i think that way as iam sure theres reasons women do the things they do

some ppl unfortunetly just dont know themselves why they do what they do , all they can say is "eh cause its fun or eh cause i want to" lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

exactly, if the urge is there, they're going to find someone anyway. If someone is cheating than in my mind the marriage is probably over anyway, I'm not barging in and claiming the man to be mine.

But hey, this will just end up in a big disagreement. I can understand that people have very different views on this.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I really don't think Fab is the right place for such morality.....it's about the freedom to have sex, with like minded people and as such, should be free from judgement....especially from fellow Fab Members?

I meet people and take them at face value, i'm not here to delve into their personal lives. i've no business in doing so.

Busty knows me and we share many friends but all we know is our Fab names and rough area's of the island that we live in. No more than that? I never ask about home life, kids, jobs......there's plenty to talk about, outside of that.

Jump of the high horse, meet people and enjoy Fab, for what Fab is....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"exactly, if the urge is there, they're going to find someone anyway. If someone is cheating than in my mind the marriage is probably over anyway, I'm not barging in and claiming the man to be mine.

But hey, this will just end up in a big disagreement. I can understand that people have very different views on this. "

Exactly, lets leave it at that

i respect your opinions though

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so why do you call busty bold for meeting attached men and me doing a lousy thing??

not sure why we're different lol

some ppl unfortunetly just dont know themselves why they do what they do , all they can say is "eh cause its fun or eh cause i want to" lol"

Let me clarify young man, that this is certainly not a game to me and I have nothing to proof and my aim is not to take a man away from someone. I'm not here to meet a husband.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

*Jump off the high horse.....before the Spelling, Grammar and Punctuation Police jump in lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And no sign of Jeremy Kyle...i love the forums so i do....ding ding next round

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I really don't think Fab is the right place for such morality.....it's about the freedom to have sex, with like minded people and as such, should be free from judgement....especially from fellow Fab Members?

I meet people and take them at face value, i'm not here to delve into their personal lives. i've no business in doing so.

Jump of the high horse, meet people and enjoy Fab, for what Fab is.... "

Whats your point? that when you join fab , fuck family life and fuck wether or not your wreckin a home? More to life then sex and def more to life then fab! You act as if fab is a green light to do whatever you want and anything goes! I have morals, joining fab doesnt change them, you either have them or you dont! I know of a guy that killed himself over his wife having an affair, bigger fool him but the destruction it causes is beyond words and i personally wouldnt want any part in it!! Too many people are all about themselves and dont think of others!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so why do you call busty bold for meeting attached men and me doing a lousy thing??

not sure why we're different lol

some ppl unfortunetly just dont know themselves why they do what they do , all they can say is "eh cause its fun or eh cause i want to" lol

Let me clarify young man, that this is certainly not a game to me and I have nothing to proof and my aim is not to take a man away from someone. I'm not here to meet a husband. "

Why are you assuming iam specifically talking about you? lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are you assuming iam specifically talking about you? lol "

you're not specifying anyone particularly. But you talk about women in general... I'm a woman, last time I checked lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"lol.. go him !!

he will soon learn his way around fab lol !!

"follow him home"... jesssssuss.... hell find it hard enough to get a girl never mind get a stalker lol

good luck new guy !"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet people and take them at face value, i'm not here to delve into their personal lives. i've no business in doing so.

Jump of the high horse, meet people and enjoy Fab, for what Fab is....

I wonder if you've actually thought about why you're on Fab? I just wonder, if perhaps your views and beliefs would be better suited to a dating site? But then thats where most of the real cheating husbands/wives are? Same moral dilemma.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The only married men I won't meet are the ones who think it's ok to screw another woman in he marital home whilst the missus is at work

So I do have morals, just different ones to you

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are you assuming iam specifically talking about you? lol

you're not specifying anyone particularly. But you talk about women in general... I'm a woman, last time I checked lol"

Fair enough but i believe theres a psychological reason behind all decision making! Why else would anyone want to sleep with a married man ? it cant be simple because why not? Its not the only option available so the question is why take the risk ?The obvious answer may be for the exitment and thrill n so forth but then you can dig deeper and ask why do you need to feel exitement and thrill etc?? eventually you will understand that your doing it psychologicaly to fill a void you have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

sorry about the grammar and spelling lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am married and have my reasons for doing what I do. When I joined fab it was all new and people were doing things I never ever dreamt I would ever do but as time has gone on I have tried some such things and some I liked and some not. I have to admit that I maybe was in awe of some people and thought it was way outside my comfort zone and maybe came across as a prude (well I was!!! ) but as my time on fab has continued so has my experience and I am not in a situation to judge anyone as its a free country and whatever floats each person boat, go for it!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet people and take them at face value, i'm not here to delve into their personal lives. i've no business in doing so.

Jump of the high horse, meet people and enjoy Fab, for what Fab is....

True, nobody is saying they are all here, they are everywhere! Just because i think its wrong for a woman to knowingly sleep with a married man doesnt mean i shouldnt be here lol quit lookin for a row and trying to force your beliefs on to me ! Aint gonna happen, I have my view you have yours, end of

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By *damsamMan over a year ago

South

"I will meet a single guy but hes gotta live far away....

Like dublin

like dublin exactly

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Come on up or down, depending on your perspective!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why are you assuming iam specifically talking about you? lol

you're not specifying anyone particularly. But you talk about women in general... I'm a woman, last time I checked lol

Or it could just be an attraction to that person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't think that hifi's opinion should stop him from being on here. I'm not really with him being that judgemental but as said when I was his age, I thought the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or it could just be an attraction to that person."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plenty of single women and men to play with on here...no need for the married ones...alot of people state on their profiles no married men...and suppose should be women also...im not gona sit here and say i may not ever meet someone whos married and fall in love with them...who knows what around the corner..but surely no strings means that!!!!who wants an angry wife and upset children...ffs some do have morals...and that sounds likr a big mess to me nota bita fun????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ooh and i mean the married ones without consent...now if they are liars and people are not aware then thats different but being aware isnt great in my eyes...just my opinion each to their own...fab is nsa...my huband says the four ffff's! !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"ooh and i mean the married ones without consent...now if they are liars and people are not aware then thats different but being aware isnt great in my eyes...just my opinion each to their own...fab is nsa...my huband says the four ffff's! !!"

Few versions of the four f's?

Find'em Fuck'em Fuck'em out Forget'em

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Few versions of the four f's?

Find'em Fuck'em Fuck'em out Forget'em"

Correct woody whos been a good boy listening in class!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Few versions of the four f's?

Find'em Fuck'em Fuck'em out Forget'em"

find them...feel them...fuck them...forget them!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Few versions of the four f's?

Find'em Fuck'em Fuck'em out Forget'em

find them...feel them...fuck them...forget them!!"

You're too polite

Find'em Finger'em Fuck'em Forget'em lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Few versions of the four f's?

Find'em Fuck'em Fuck'em out Forget'em

find them...feel them...fuck them...forget them!!

You're too polite

Find'em Finger'em Fuck'em Forget'em lol"

fist??? that polite for you. ...omg im joking noooo way...haha...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Few versions of the four f's?

Find'em Fuck'em Fuck'em out Forget'em

find them...feel them...fuck them...forget them!!

You're too polite

Find'em Finger'em Fuck'em Forget'em lol

fist??? that polite for you. ...omg im joking noooo way...haha...

Nothing wrong with a good fisting, you not see the gloves provided last Saturday???

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By *exyfuntimes2Couple over a year ago

Dublin/Carlow

Swingers do have morals, just different morals than vanilla people. Morals are self-decided, not imposed by others

Lots of high horses here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Few versions of the four f's?

Find'em Fuck'em Fuck'em out Forget'em

find them...feel them...fuck them...forget them!!

You're too polite

Find'em Finger'em Fuck'em Forget'em lol

fist??? that polite for you. ...omg im joking noooo way...haha...

Nothing wrong with a good fisting, you not see the gloves provided last Saturday???

nooo lol you serious...omg...i had a girl try it on me once and i near flew off the bed!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Think I just got horsewhipped there lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

most single girls on this site r bunny boilers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"most single girls on this site r bunny boilers

you will get in trouble for that haha...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Think I just got horsewhipped there lol"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ment that in a real nice way ... most are.. but that's a good thing.. adds to the excitement

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I am married and have my reasons for doing what I do. When I joined fab it was all new and people were doing things I never ever dreamt I would ever do but as time has gone on I have tried some such things and some I liked and some not. I have to admit that I maybe was in awe of some people and thought it was way outside my comfort zone and maybe came across as a prude (well I was!!! ) but as my time on fab has continued so has my experience and I am not in a situation to judge anyone as its a free country and whatever floats each person boat, go for it!

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this exactly

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ment that in a real nice way ... most are.. but that's a good thing.. adds to the excitement

lol...ive got a big diamonty ring with a rabbit on it i always tell people its my bunny boiler ring...they think im mad haha...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"most single girls on this site r bunny boilers

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like fuck I am.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Down with this sort of thing!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Live and let live ..

I choose not to play with attached people ..unless he other half is involved or has given full consent .

I have been tempted at times but always reassured by the belief that are tons and tons of single guys and girls here yo have filthy fun with !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Live and let live ..

I choose not to play with attached people ..unless he other half is involved or has given full consent .

I have been tempted at times but always reassured by the belief that are tons and tons of single guys and girls here yo have filthy fun with !!

well said...totally agree...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

for cryin out loud wat a wally

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"for cryin out loud wat a wally

Who's a wally?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The subject of the original post I imagine ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The subject of the original post I imagine .. "

haha...prob so...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Where's Wally???

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By *urious fem ddWoman over a year ago

dublin

One of tomorrow's news papers is running a story on dating/sex/extra-marital sex in Ireland. Should be a good read. If fab is mentioned we can expect loads of newbies tomorrow. ...

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By *usky Couple01Couple over a year ago

Aberdeenshire

Hi am married man I don't get much fun so I have look on here and it's hard to meet woman on here

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By *irty MurtyMan over a year ago

my place

I reckon im one of a few genuine single Guys on here and i have no bother meeting single or married women or couples,

And to be honest i don't Care why people are here that's there own business and none of mine

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion

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By *lutaxiMan over a year ago

Dundalk

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion "

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By *razy-CplCouple over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion "

havnt walked a mile in ur shoes but i have walked a mile in a partners shoes and it not a very nice shoe to walk in either as an adult or a kid , kids i feel sorry for as they also found out when i did .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion "

Well Said Cj

Each to there own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion "

Here here mate

Everyone has ther own reasons for being on here, my lady has a fair idea what im at she says its what bouncers get up to but iv yet till go with a lady through my work,im on here for my own reasons

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion "

No one needs to have walked a mile, in anyone's shoes, cj dude. Likewise no one has to explain, or justify, their reason for being here. Meet whoever wants to meet you, no one else's business, simple as that. Publicise it and then you have to expect criticism from some, goes with the turf....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion

woody u are dead right glad to see open minder people on here if its for u it will come to u and if not walk on by

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I guess the original post got lost in the thread, he was only newbie so has yet to experience the difficulty of getting a meet. Given time hell be sending mail to all the categories hoping for a chat never mind a meet.lol

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By *shoreMan over a year ago

cork

Wow....would not mind you following me home....he may be just overly catious

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion

yes true...what a load of rubbish...saying oooh who cares...when your married and have kids its a different story!!!Its about RESPECT...yes you should care who you meet...ive saw the effect a broken home has children...its not nice and you have to take responsabilty for your actions in life...now on the other foot if my husband messed up...id be most angry at him as he knows whats at stake!!!

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion

while u are entitled to ur view there thousands of reasons for people to be here weather married,single ,attached or whatever i am saying u don't know mine and i don't need to know urs if someone chooses to do something i don't think on a site that is set up for people to meet for nsa u can pontificate morals

every one has their preferences use them view others if theirs matches urs fine but don't ram ur morals down my troagh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Once again

LIVE & LET LIVE xxx

Happy swinging what ever direction it takes

Once people know themselves what works for them ., what else matters ?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Right...._j47...its an open forum...and thats my opinion...as a married women with kids...i havent opened your mouth and rammed anything down your throat!!Its my view...if a women or man isnt happy then grow a pair and tell your husband or wife...and be honest...yes we all have our own reasons for being on here i agree...but thats how i feel and if you dont like my view..then move on...you gave your view and thats mine!!!

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By *razy-CplCouple over a year ago

and surrounding areas

"To all u highly judgmental people we all have our own reasons for being on here when u walked a mile in my shoes then come back and give me an honest opinion

every one has their preferences use them view others if theirs matches urs fine but don't ram ur morals down my troagh "

sorry but cant see where anybody is ramming morals down ur troath, all were saying is from the other side its not a nice place to be and defo not nice for kids . but each to there own

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes thanks crazy cpl...think some on here...believe they can only have an opinion...well nope...and i am able to see everyones point...in a nice way...not a nasty way!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I total agree if your not "getting" it at home or your other half does not swing and you can't bring it up Ireland get them into it don't mean your ok to swing. "In MY opinion" if your not happy with your sex life fix/deal with it or walk away. Its not fair on your partner or kids ( if you have them). Do the right thing and grow up.

AGAIN JUST MY OPINION

beav

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I total agree if your not "getting" it at home or your other half does not swing and you can't bring it up Ireland get them into it don't mean your ok to swing. "In MY opinion" if your not happy with your sex life fix/deal with it or walk away. Its not fair on your partner or kids ( if you have them). Do the right thing and grow up.

AGAIN JUST MY OPINION

beav"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As a married woman on here in secret so to speak i will add my opinion.... is all well and good saying walk away if ur not happy but things just arent that easy. there is so much to consider.i am on here for sex end of.theres just not enough at home and a woman has needs too. i have toys to beat the band but nothing beats the contact with a man. its perfectly fine to have an opinion on "cheaters" but make sure u understand the reasons behind it before you cast your stones. You dont have to live with it so whats it to you if the one you shag us married or not??? again just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet people and take them at face value, i'm not here to delve into their personal lives. i've no business in doing so.

Jump of the high horse, meet people and enjoy Fab, for what Fab is....

From your writings above you seem to be insinuating that people on here are going to enter into an illicit affair and wreck homes. There are more chances of that happening in civilian life then here. Most people on here might only ever meet each other once for NSA as most of us are just here for the sexual experience not a hidden agenda to wreck homes and kids lives. I personaly don't judge anyone's personal situation on here and to be honest dont want to know. But from my experience alot of singles on here are married but that's there choice not for any of us to judge. To be honest to the people that say they will not meet anyone that's married or attached you probably have unknowingly who really knows on here of anybody's marital status. Just because somebody says they are single and not attached doesn't mean they are.

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I meet people and take them at face value, i'm not here to delve into their personal lives. i've no business in doing so.

Jump of the high horse, meet people and enjoy Fab, for what Fab is....

yeah that is true...the ones that state they are single may not be...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I /we( as a cpl) will not be meeting a married person (knowingly) again we meet a married person and i forced myself to go ahead with it as it was something i really wanted to try and i really had a worst feeling about myself as I lost my family to a cheating partner.

I am not ramming my opinion down anyone's throat but lets be honest image how you would feel if you were caught or even worse if you found out your partner was cheating behind your back.

believe me its a horrible experience and the worst feeling.

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related"

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By *onyg4funMan over a year ago

South

"As a married woman on here in secret so to speak i will add my opinion.... is all well and good saying walk away if ur not happy but things just arent that easy. there is so much to consider.i am on here for sex end of.theres just not enough at home and a woman has needs too. i have toys to beat the band but nothing beats the contact with a man. its perfectly fine to have an opinion on "cheaters" but make sure u understand the reasons behind it before you cast your stones. You dont have to live with it so whats it to you if the one you shag us married or not??? again just my opinion

CC you are absolutely right, I agree with you on this. It is very easy for people to "throw stones", not knowing the full story of any situation. It should not make any difference on here if someone is married, in relationship or single. We al know the rules, so let's follow them!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related"

Very true

but its still cheating.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes i do see your point..there is alot at stake..it can be messy...and we do all have needs sexually...im maybe just lucky enough that we can be honest with each other...and invite others into our sex life...we are both in this together..

I suppose not everyone is in the same position..but i would still have to be honest with my mr...just how i am...we all have our reasons...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Or Derry.
"I will meet a single guy but hes gotta live far away....

Like dublin

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By *onyg4funMan over a year ago

South

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related

Very true

but its still cheating.

Holier than thou springs to mind. So judgemental. Live and let live, no need for you to come on here trying to make people feel bad by using provocative words, we all know what it is, we all make choices, you make yours, and no one makes inane comments about it, ok. So stop being the "morals" police

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related

Very true

but its still cheating.

of course it's still cheating. But as some said we don't know what happens at people's homes. I come from a broken home myself but a lot of people just stay together for financial reasons or for the kids' sake. They have no sex. Some have partners who are ill e.g. take anti depressants which takes away their libido. Most human beings needs sex or they get really frustrated. Again, it's not the right thing to do to cheat but what would you all do if you're stuck in relationship and your partner for the life doesn't want sex?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related

Very true

but its still cheating.

yip true no matter how you butter it up....

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By *onyg4funMan over a year ago

South

I suppose not everyone is in the same position..but i would still have to be honest with my mr...just how i am...we all have our reasons...

Please don't be so naieve, how can some people be "honest", as you call it, with partners, if there are issues there that prevail and make being honest impossible. Bully for you that you have the "perfect" relationship! Actually, no one on here has the perfect "relationship", if they did, including you, then they would not be on here. Most people on here for something which is missing, including you, whether you care to admit it or not! So please don't be judgemental!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

I suppose not everyone is in the same position..but i would still have to be honest with my mr...just how i am...we all have our reasons...

"
this is true everyone had b there reasons I don't judge some could look at it if the partner nows its still classed as cheating. Personally we all on here for nsa married single swinging with couples let's not judge and enjoy the nature of the site.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cc i may be wrong but we had a intimate chat and I think I know your reasons for been here. I hope you don't fall out with me as we get on well but Even knowing what I know I still don't agree but end of the day your an adult you make your own decision in life and face any and all consequences.

Still

you. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have asked him to swing with me but he wont.i have asked can i do it alone but the answer was no.i wont be told what to do by anyone so the choice is mine and im making it for me. i make it clear that im married and cheating and after that its ur choice to meet me or not. But i completely understand the risks for both parties.maybe its greed or maybe im just doing what i need to do in order to keep my sanity

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By *0shadesofashWoman over a year ago

DUBLIN

Wen I was married years ago I got cheated on he went off with a 16 year old and it tore are family apart I could never sleep with someone that was even involved with someone else never mind been married

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By *onyg4funMan over a year ago

South

"I have asked him to swing with me but he wont.i have asked can i do it alone but the answer was no.i wont be told what to do by anyone so the choice is mine and im making it for me. i make it clear that im married and cheating and after that its ur choice to meet me or not. But i completely understand the risks for both parties.maybe its greed or maybe im just doing what i need to do in order to keep my sanity

"
Well put CC

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

U have painted all married with the same brush there some who have different circumstances we are not all home wreckers if u read the profile it might clear some of that up. U have repeatedly posted ur view with out consideration for others view there for ramming it home so to speak

i don't need to justify to u or any others my home situation i quite happy with it my self as u and ur partner made a decision to cum one here for a little extra excitement i to made the same one extra martial fun its the same reason all be it u have the luxury of ur partner i have in the knowledge of mine

what i am saying don't paint all married with the same brush yes generalise us as cheaters if u like but not home wreckers

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related

Very true

but its still cheating.

No one is judging anyone...we all have morals...doesnt mean we have to agree with yours...whats the problem with having a fricking opinion on here..why would i agree to something i dont agree with...oooh incase i offend...i have a good friend who is having an affair on her husband...do i run and tell the moral police errrrm no...she respects my opinion and i respect her reasons...why cant we all learn and move on???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related

Very true

but its still cheating.

If I was in a sexless relationship but every other aspect of that same relationship was great I would rather be on here full-filling my needs with NSA then ending up getting emotionally involved with somebody in civilian life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I suppose not everyone is in the same position..but i would still have to be honest with my mr...just how i am...we all have our reasons...

And your not being judgemental ??

Seriously your saying married couples that swing are missing something in their marriage

I don't agree !! they are here to get an 'added' something not making up a deficit ! Of course there are always exceptions to every rule !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Still

you. xxx

no beav ur not wrong.i wont fall out with anyone on here because of opinions.i think its great that people can have an open discussion and shake hands at the end of it.i am judged alot on here because of my marital status and still i dont mind.those who like me like me those who dont just dont take the time to get to know me be it because im married, opinionated or other....its all fun and really shouldnt matter at the end of the day

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think theres a bit of confusion between n.s.a. Sex and a affair the two are in no way related

Very true

but its still cheating.

ok so who you trying to impress??

Im stating my opinion that's all If you read my comments you will see that and you will also see that im stating the obvious. Im not trying to make ppl feel bad and if i did id be very surprised that my few words done it but the cheating didn't.

ppl can do what they want on here ( hope they enjoy) i just rather not join them that's all.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Wen I was married years ago I got cheated on he went off with a 16 year old and it tore are family apart I could never sleep with someone that was even involved with someone else never mind been married "

thumb is for your opinion not that you got cheated on.

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By *0shadesofashWoman over a year ago

DUBLIN

thumb is for your opinion not that you got cheated on.

"
haha still wouldn look down on others on here that do it everyone has there reasons it's jus not for me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"U have painted all married with the same brush there some who have different circumstances we are not all home wreckers if u read the profile it might clear some of that up. U have repeatedly posted ur view with out consideration for others view there for ramming it home so to speak

what i am saying don't paint all married with the same brush yes generalise us as cheaters if u like but not home wreckers "

I never did but it can wreck homes. look im not ramming my opinion im stating it. your starting to ram yours

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

I had a relationship for ages no sex for me i felt unwanted my confidence crashed.

I did cheat and I got caught. .im not saying sex is the main thing in my relationship but its a huge thing.

I'm being honest here iif I had not of been caught out I would probably be on here swinging, I loved him but our sex life crashed to the floor ..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

what i am saying don't paint all married with the same brush yes generalise us as cheaters if u like but not home wreckers "

just wondering why you feel the need to single me out on this????? Not everyone has said its ok and your getting on my last nerve with this ramming crap!!i thought we were here to learn...im very open minded and im not judging anyone...and i see everyones point of view...but thats how i feel...but because its not what you want to hear your picking an arguement with me..and bullying me...i never said my marriage was perfect. ...im just lucky we are open...why cant you accept a different opinion and move on?????

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By *0shadesofashWoman over a year ago

DUBLIN

"I had a relationship for ages no sex for me i felt unwanted my confidence crashed.

I did cheat and I got caught. .im not saying sex is the main thing in my relationship but its a huge thing.

I'm being honest here iif I had not of been caught out I would probably be on here swinging, I loved him but our sex life crashed to the floor .."
sex is a huge part in a relationship only fights me and my partner hav is over me not gettin enough sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a relationship for ages no sex for me i felt unwanted my confidence crashed.

I did cheat and I got caught. .im not saying sex is the main thing in my relationship but its a huge thing.

I'm being honest here iif I had not of been caught out I would probably be on here swinging, I loved him but our sex life crashed to the floor .."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

i don't need to justify to u or any others my home situation i quite happy with it my self as u and ur partner made a decision to cum one here for a little extra excitement i to made the same one extra martial fun its the same reason all be it u have tuhe luxury of ur partner i have in the knowledge of mine

what i am saying don't paint all married with the same brush yes generalise us as cheaters if u like but not home wreckers

I never did but it can wreck homes. look im not ramming my opinion im stating it. your starting to ram yours

He is ramming it...not us...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a relationship for ages no sex for me i felt unwanted my confidence crashed.

I did cheat and I got caught. .im not saying sex is the main thing in my relationship but its a huge thing.

I'm being honest here iif I had not of been caught out I would probably be on here swinging, I loved him but our sex life crashed to the floor ..

I would never judge you on that you have your reasons...and as a women its not nice to hear that you felt so low...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a relationship for ages no sex for me i felt unwanted my confidence crashed.

I did cheat and I got caught. .im not saying sex is the main thing in my relationship but its a huge thing.

I'm being honest here iif I had not of been caught out I would probably be on here swinging, I loved him but our sex life crashed to the floor .. sex is a huge part in a relationship only fights me and my partner hav is over me not gettin enough sex "

lol...

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"I had a relationship for ages no sex for me i felt unwanted my confidence crashed.

I did cheat and I got caught. .im not saying sex is the main thing in my relationship but its a huge thing.

I'm being honest here iif I had not of been caught out I would probably be on here swinging, I loved him but our sex life crashed to the floor ..

its a most horrible feeling to not feel wanted sexually or physically.its awful but u either wallow in self pity or you do something about it.im on here a year and still my confidance is low compared to some women but i can say this for sure im alot happier in my marriage since i started here. "
I would agree with u there curvy I have been there in a sexless relationship its not nice I would be here if still in my relationship.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I felt un wanted never had sex so i know what its like at this point i was considering leaving i was gearing up to it then i found out she was cheating so i know what its like and I also cheated on gf but I still don't think its right. If sex means that much to you ( it dose to me) walk away is better then been hated for breaking the marriage from infidelity.

AND AGAIN MY OPINION. you don't need to like or agree.

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

If u read back i think ill see that u picked up on my comment i am not picking on u but replying to u i see beavs views and some of the others i also seen beav has taken the time to get to know others situations as his post to curvy u say u have sat on the fence and were afraid to post because of the pack mentality if u were on the fence u would know i don't pick on people but i defend my position as strongly as u do urs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I felt un wanted never had sex so i know what its like at this point i was considering leaving i was gearing up to it then i found out she was cheating so i know what its like and I also cheated on gf but I still don't think its right. If sex means that much to you ( it dose to me) walk away is better then been hated for breaking the marriage from infidelity.

AND AGAIN MY OPINION. you don't need to like or agree.

that's obviously the best solution. But I think a lot of people are stuck in relationships because of financial reasons because they can't afford paying for two homes

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

AND AGAIN MY OPINION. you don't need to like or agree.

"
some people have a good marriage where sex is not priority.

Family financial reasons some just can't walk away. Not everyone is the same.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

AND AGAIN MY OPINION. you don't need to like or agree.

that's obviously the best solution. But I think a lot of people are stuck in relationships because of financial reasons because they can't afford paying for two homes"

That i totally agree with thats why my friend has stayed with her husband for financial reasons...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Here's the deal, as I see it.....you go to a Swing Club, either as a single, or couple. You enter a play room and there's people playing.....someone catches your eye and you join in. No time to fill out a 5 page questionaire regarding their status, moral, or religious beliefs.

Meets arranged directly on Fab, should be treated no differently!!

Some people CHOOSE to put that they are married on their profiles, there's no obligation to. A few say 'with consent' and a few are the single profiles of the two halves of a couple. Many that are married, choose NOT to put it on their profile and i'm quite sure that the majority who contact them, don't ask about their marital status, taking things at face value.

The point is that Swinging, is about consensual Sex, outside of any relationship, with no commitment and for the purpose only, of sexual gratification.

I don't personally like guys that wear the 'Married' status, as a victim badge.

I was in a loveless marriage, I did something about it, initially, yes, as a cheating husband BUT I stood up and dealt with it, talked it through, made sure our kids, were OUR top priority and we parted on good terms.....few could learn from that I reckon. Grow a set, that way the moral argument doesn't come into play...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Ok another questions for cpls who say they wont meet ppl that cheat over half of cpls on here aren't really cpls . Cpls on swing only so real cpls don't seem to have any issue with them so no different then single ppl just looks more real

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By *0shadesofashWoman over a year ago

DUBLIN

AND AGAIN MY OPINION. you don't need to like or agree.

"
it's not easy to walk away from someone u luv u jus to give there cock a slap from time to time to wake the fucker up ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I understand where you come from about 2 houses luckily i never had that problem but still think money should not come into your happiness.

O the other hand money plays a big part of my life now only work part time can't afored to live as it is but still pay for my kids and if i want to see them for one day im looking at the best part of 250.

my OPINION is obvious now i was willing to walk away but didn't need to. again lucky me.

strange to to say but i have never been happier in my sex life as for the rest. ah fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If u read back i think ill see that u picked up on my comment i am not picking on u but replying to u i see beavs views and some of the others i also seen beav has taken the time to get to know others situations as his post to curvy u say u have sat on the fence and were afraid to post because of the pack mentality if u were on the fence u would know i don't pick on people but i defend my position as strongly as u do urs

I think if you look back...im open minded and i do see other peoples point of view...im not scared to post my opinion on here far from it...i give my own opinion and learn from others...just some dont like that on here...im no sheep...if ive something to say i say it..whats wrong with that...i have read cc view and im understanding of her reasons...

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"Here's the deal, as I see it.....you go to a Swing Club, either as a single, or couple. You enter a play room and there's people playing.....someone catches your eye and you join in. No time to fill out a 5 page questionaire regarding their status, moral, or religious beliefs.

Meets arranged directly on Fab, should be treated no differently!!

The point is that Swinging, is about consensual Sex, outside of any relationship, with no commitment and for the purpose only, of sexual gratification.

I don't personally like guys that wear the 'Married' status, as a victim badge.

i totally agree with u woody only thing is i am not in a loveless marriage i have a very strong relationship strong enough to keep me in it this place is sex only if i wanted an affair its a dating site for married people looking to have affairs id be on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ok another questions for cpls who say they wont meet ppl that cheat over half of cpls on here aren't really cpls . Cpls on swing only so real cpls don't seem to have any issue with them so no different then single ppl just looks more real "

this is very true we were a " not real cpl " to start but we are now.

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Everyone is different and that's great ...but I think it's unfair to say that married cpls on here have something from their marriage we are married over 25 years and I don't see swinging as filling something that's missing rather adding to something that's already very good iam not saying it's definite but there's a good chance without swinging we just might both have a few affairs under our belt by now...but I totally understand if ppl rather not have sex with attached swingers

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By *0shadesofashWoman over a year ago

DUBLIN

this is very true we were a " not real cpl " to start but we are now.

"
one of the nicest couples on here

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

well then i haven't seen that bar the last few posts before that it was to damnation with all cheating home wrecking married people like u i ain't afraid to stand up for my opinion hence the great thing called debate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

cj can I ask?

does your wife know you are here??

guess i already did ask.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are a 'real' couple who don't (knowingly) meet people who are cheating. We don't judge anyone and couldn't give a hoot what others decide to do. I've chatted to many married people here who are swinging alone and I soon learned that everyone has their own backstory and reasons for being here, and things are often not black and white.

Personally I feel EXTREMELY lucky that we ourselves are on the same page when it comes to this lifestyle.

We just get more of a kick out of meeting people in solid and stable relationships like us, where everyone knows what's going on that's all. I don't think anyone should judge us for that either to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

But if one part of the Cpl said no im not swinging where would all of ye be now single divorced or maybe even cheating on there partner just a thought

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"cj can I ask?

does your wife know you are here??

guess i already did ask.

yes brave a couple of people here have met her at a M&G last oct

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Meets arranged directly on Fab, should be treated no differently!!

The point is that Swinging, is about consensual Sex, outside of any relationship, with no commitment and for the purpose only, of sexual gratification.

I don't personally like guys that wear the 'Married' status, as a victim badge.

...you made sure your kids were ok...thats what its all about...that was my point...you wernt happy and yous walked away civil with each other...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

and ppl that say married ppl on here have something wrong you are so wrong. your looking at swinging the wrong way.

married ppl on here have the perfect marriage.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I had a relationship for ages no sex for me i felt unwanted my confidence crashed.

I did cheat and I got caught. .im not saying sex is the main thing in my relationship but its a huge thing.

I'm being honest here iif I had not of been caught out I would probably be on here swinging, I loved him but our sex life crashed to the floor ..

Been reading this all morning but curvy what u wrote above ..I could have written...

And yes I am in here without partners knowledge..and yes I have had meets in my time not when it would interfere with family life either mine or who I am meeting..I am not a homewrecker nor a bunny boiler....and everyone is entitled to there own opinion.we are all never going to agree but that is what's great about being adults we say how we feel and move on...

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By *0shadesofashWoman over a year ago

DUBLIN

"But if one part of the Cpl said no im not swinging where would all of ye be now single divorced or maybe even cheating on there partner just a thought"
if my fella said he didn wanna do this I'd leave straight away I'm not gonna go out and cheat

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

thank you..xxxxx....im not a nasty person what i do on my husband is nasty but i do it for my own reasons nonetheless.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"cj can I ask?

does your wife know you are here??

guess i already did ask.

yes brave a couple of people here have met her at a M&G last oct "

does she swing?

one of you said about swinging and you /yous are doing it.

I brought it up in my marriage we kinda did it never on a site and it was never done right. prob why its finished.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"But if one part of the Cpl said no im not swinging where would all of ye be now single divorced or maybe even cheating on there partner just a thought if my fella said he didn wanna do this I'd leave straight away I'm not gonna go out and cheat "

aah swinging should just add a little extra fun. Kinda like a hobby we both enjoy. Just not golf.

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

We would be gone were in it together or out of it together

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By *lo1 slo2Couple over a year ago

newry

"cj can I ask?

does your wife know you are here??

guess i already did ask.

We have met her at a meet and greet and some is a beautiful intelligent woman

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yes at least we agree on something a debate...so learn and move on...and stop accusing people of ramming...when they are just giving their view!!!

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By *0shadesofashWoman over a year ago

DUBLIN

aah swinging should just add a little extra fun. Kinda like a hobby we both enjoy. Just not golf.

"
exactly golf jus didn do it for us haha

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"and ppl that say married ppl on here have something wrong you are so wrong. your looking at swinging the wrong way.

married ppl on here have the perfect marriage.

is there such a thing as the perfect marriage i am sure there are plenty here that would love to change something i know i do

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"cj can I ask?

does your wife know you are here??

guess i already did ask.

yes brave a couple of people here have met her at a M&G last oct "
I did I did.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Mr Panther here Married men who cheat on their wives and their sex life at home is great is there a brain missing you are having a affair oh I am only on here for some NSA since when was that not an affair dopey.

I thought when i first read it I thought it was because your not getting it No YOUR A CHEATER

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

nice to see you have that with your wife.

as for all you ppl given out about golf give over now i will start ramming my OPINION!!!

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By *0shadesofashWoman over a year ago

DUBLIN

"nice to see you have that with your wife.

as for all you ppl given out about golf give over now i will start ramming my OPINION!!!

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and I'll be the very first to tell u wer u can ram it :P ha stick to darts beav haha

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