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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
Ok so we received a message from a new couple, joined 2 days ago and are verified already. Message states that they are totally new to swinging so I don't believe the veri is from a previous swinging encounter.
Couple that verified them are only here 3 weeks and have one unpublished verification.
Am I just over thinking this as we recently encountered a fake (reported) profile.
I'm beginning to think that I'm going to be suspicious of all new profiles. 
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"Ok so we received a message from a new couple, joined 2 days ago and are verified already. Message states that they are totally new to swinging so I don't believe the veri is from a previous swinging encounter.
Couple that verified them are only here 3 weeks and have one unpublished verification.
Am I just over thinking this as we recently encountered a fake (reported) profile.
I'm beginning to think that I'm going to be suspicious of all new profiles.
Miss Mcjoy "
was it a verification from a cam or a meet could be believable if it was from a cam |
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over a year ago
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"was it a verification from a cam or a meet could be believable if it was from a cam
No it's a meeting in person verification. "
dodgy...... you should message and ask them how they got a meet so quickly   |
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"was it a verification from a cam or a meet could be believable if it was from a cam
No it's a meeting in person verification.
dodgy...... you should message and ask them how they got a meet so quickly "
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"was it a verification from a cam or a meet could be believable if it was from a cam
No it's a meeting in person verification.
dodgy...... you should message and ask them how they got a meet so quickly "
Yes I did, apparently it was just a chance meeting...... Sorry but I'm not buying it
Don't get me wrong we were all new here and had to prove ourselves genuine. And lucky for us we met a lovely couple who took a chance on us .
We do answer messages from new couples.... Benefit of the doubt and all that. But I am starting to get a little wary now.
Miss Mcjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"was it a verification from a cam or a meet could be believable if it was from a cam
No it's a meeting in person verification.
dodgy...... you should message and ask them how they got a meet so quickly
Yes I did, apparently it was just a chance meeting...... Sorry but I'm not buying it
Don't get me wrong we were all new here and had to prove ourselves genuine. And lucky for us we met a lovely couple who took a chance on us.
We do answer messages from new couples.... Benefit of the doubt and all that. But I am starting to get a little wary now.
Miss Mcjoy "
We have just found so may unverified couples tend to turn out to be single men, which such a waste of time!
Course every now and again ya meet two gems who just happen to be new to the scene, and we were all new once |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"In fairness to newbies I would say that I got a meet within days of joining the site. I wasn't new to the scene however."
Yes and I totally understand that but this 'couple' have said they are totally new to the scene.
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"Fake most probably. We ask them for their phone number and if they can take a call straight away. Thats usually works  "
That's a pretty good system. Not sure how it would work for us as we don't live together so are rarely in the same place to prove that we are a couple
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You see this the while time, I think in some cases it's where the person has just joined but they know someone using the site so get them to verify them |
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"That's a pretty good system. Not sure how it would work for us as we don't live together so are rarely in the same place to prove that we are a couple
Miss Mcjoy "
Ah but ye dont have to prove anything, its the other couple who does. If its a fake profile they will rarely even reply. We've caught out lots that way and so saved valuable time. We usually ask on the second or third email
If they say Mrs isnt around ask for her phone number anyway!xx |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Go with your gut instinct. If your wrong so be it..
And my gut instinct is usually right
I just don't want to look at every new profile with this element of suspicion
Miss Mcjoy "
I know what you mean but I'd prefer to err on the side of caution. Unfortunately it's how you have to play this site. |
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over a year ago
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"That's a pretty good system. Not sure how it would work for us as we don't live together so are rarely in the same place to prove that we are a couple
Miss Mcjoy
Ah but ye dont have to prove anything, its the other couple who does. If its a fake profile they will rarely even reply. We've caught out lots that way and so saved valuable time. We usually ask on the second or third email
If they say Mrs isnt around ask for her phone number anyway!xx "
and then he will say...'well we have a play phone but it's here with me at the moment'..... and so on  grr.. |
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"That's a pretty good system. Not sure how it would work for us as we don't live together so are rarely in the same place to prove that we are a couple
Miss Mcjoy
Ah but ye dont have to prove anything, its the other couple who does. If its a fake profile they will rarely even reply. We've caught out lots that way and so saved valuable time. We usually ask on the second or third email
If they say Mrs isnt around ask for her phone number anyway!xx
and then he will say...'well we have a play phone but it's here with me at the moment'..... and so on grr.."
Then it would be thanks but no thanks |
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"and then he will say...'well we have a play phone but it's here with me at the moment'..... and so on grr.."
Yes, we've got that reply lol. Then my index finger moved swiftly to the "block" button |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
"That's a pretty good system. Not sure how it would work for us as we don't live together so are rarely in the same place to prove that we are a couple
Miss Mcjoy
Ah but ye dont have to prove anything, its the other couple who does. If its a fake profile they will rarely even reply. We've caught out lots that way and so saved valuable time. We usually ask on the second or third email
If they say Mrs isnt around ask for her phone number anyway!xx "
Good thinking ..... Might give that a try. Thank you.
Miss Mcjoy |
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By *cjoy OP Couple
over a year ago
Galway |
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I know what you mean but I'd prefer to err on the side of caution. Unfortunately it's how you have to play this site."
It is unfortunate and I guess every day we are learning something new here.
Miss Mcjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ah the number of really hot women that keep appearing around cork is just getting ridiculous... anyone else notice? anyone get lucky?"
sorry, didn't mean to offend anyone with my hotness when I'm down in Cork |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ok so we received a message from a new couple, joined 2 days ago and are verified already. Message states that they are totally new to swinging so I don't believe the veri is from a previous swinging encounter.
Couple that verified them are only here 3 weeks and have one unpublished verification.
Am I just over thinking this as we recently encountered a fake (reported) profile.
I'm beginning to think that I'm going to be suspicious of all new profiles.
Miss Mcjoy was it a verification from a cam or a meet could be believable if it was from a cam "
i wudnt go by a cam verie at all!ive seen 2 fake profiles so far tht were both verified by cam twice!sum of them put a video on their cam and gullible ppl think their real! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"a hottie in cork joined five hours ago and has a verification from a well verified couple from a meet today already! go girl!"
We messaged a new female cork profile with a veri and i asked her about it, she admitted that they had been verified by someone "just to get them going" and they hadnt met at all. |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"a hottie in cork joined five hours ago and has a verification from a well verified couple from a meet today already! go girl!
We messaged a new female cork profile with a veri and i asked her about it, she admitted that they had been verified by someone "just to get them going" and they hadnt met at all."
thankk god we dont meet single fem as dont think we could put up with all the fake fem profiles even thou there are a few fake cpls profile around but not as much |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Best I saw this week was a newbie with a cam verification. Been here three days As far as I know you you have to be here a week before you can be in chat, cam and interact
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