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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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why do ppl (men) think if they have meet a girl that's in a cpl profile (when she was single) that they have the right to just expect a meet and or totally disregard the fact that she is now in a relationship.
The worst part is that they can be well known and liked. 
I know i was naive joining the site but that shit is out of order anymore of it and blocked straight away. 
now rant over.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ah the old "I met her once, therefore I can meet her anytime I want" mentality.
Blood leaving the big head and entering the little head can turn the most rational man into an idiot. |
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By *ilderMan
over a year ago
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Why is the sky blue? Why are the clouds white? Life throws up so many questions! 
Who feckin knows! 
P.S. I don't need to know the answer to the above questions just like I don't need to know or could know why some looper assumed anything. Very little in life can be assumed   |
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From memory he has a newer couple profile also hence the question and as a guy on here never expect anything never mind meeting a girl from a couple profile on her own unless is offered to me as an option.
Respect due and given and expected in return is my moto. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Doesn't just happen cos you are now in a relationship. Happens to us singles. Play witha guy once and then next thing you know they are following every move you make on here. And woe betide you if you advertise you are looking a meet
Block and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ah the old "I met her once, therefore I can meet her anytime I want" mentality.
Blood leaving the big head and entering the little head can turn the most rational man into an idiot."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doesn't just happen cos you are now in a relationship. Happens to us singles. Play witha guy once and then next thing you know they are following every move you make on here. And woe betide you if you advertise you are looking a meet
Block and move on"
and a guy probably is in the doghouse to, if u meet him for fun and then he doesn't contact u again until the next time? Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how does it affect you? "
I will only list a few reasons
well its says they don't respect her and she is my gf so i won't have it.
the fact that they disregard the cpl status mean they disregard me.
it pissing herself off.
but most of all it doesn't matter if it bothers me it still should not be done. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how does it affect you?
I will only list a few reasons
well its says they don't respect her and she is my gf so i won't have it.
the fact that they disregard the cpl status mean they disregard me.
it pissing herself off.
but most of all it doesn't matter if it bothers me it still should not be done. "
it was a genuine question.... i think your post would have made more impact if you would have not generalised it but actually said what your part in it is. That's all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Simples, there's a lot of men with no respect or manners on here. It's the pussy effect, they'd step over a dead corpse just to get it.
Chin up it's really not worth it xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how does it affect you?
I will only list a few reasons
well its says they don't respect her and she is my gf so i won't have it.
the fact that they disregard the cpl status mean they disregard me.
it pissing herself off.
but most of all it doesn't matter if it bothers me it still should not be done.
it was a genuine question.... i think your post would have made more impact if you would have not generalised it but actually said what your part in it is. That's all. "
how would I not generalize? I can't name and shame id get a ban.
Its a genuine Q ok but personally i think an unfair one. It implies that I can't be annoyed about it when personally I think I have every right to be. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Simples, there's a lot of men with no respect or manners on here. It's the pussy effect, they'd step over a dead corpse just to get it.
Chin up it's really not worth it xx"
True tiny very true.
Have to say id prob step over one to get to you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Simples, there's a lot of men with no respect or manners on here. It's the pussy effect, they'd step over a dead corpse just to get it.
Chin up it's really not worth it xx
True tiny very true.
Have to say id prob step over one to get to you "
Ya mad thing |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do ppl (men) think if they have meet a girl that's in a cpl profile (when she was single) that they have the right to just expect a meet and or totally disregard the fact that she is now in a relationship.
The worst part is that they can be well known and liked.
I know i was naive joining the site but that shit is out of order anymore of it and blocked straight away.
now rant over. "
has she still her single female profile? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"don't worry beav... you are entitled to be annoyed about anything you want hun. It just makes more sense to me now that I know that she's your gf. "
Cool. we all have our things that piss us off for me its lack of respect, sense of entitlement, ah fuck ill be here all day. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"why do ppl (men) think if they have meet a girl that's in a cpl profile (when she was single) that they have the right to just expect a meet and or totally disregard the fact that she is now in a relationship.
The worst part is that they can be well known and liked.
I know i was naive joining the site but that shit is out of order anymore of it and blocked straight away.
now rant over. has she still her single female profile?"
no and that's a hole other story. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"why do ppl (men) think if they have meet a girl that's in a cpl profile (when she was single) that they have the right to just expect a meet and or totally disregard the fact that she is now in a relationship.
The worst part is that they can be well known and liked.
I know i was naive joining the site but that shit is out of order anymore of it and blocked straight away.
now rant over. has she still her single female profile?
no and that's a hole other story. "
ah sure a few poor lads obviously liked meeting her and she's still here but under diff circumstances and now she won't! It will pass |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"why do ppl (men) think if they have meet a girl that's in a cpl profile (when she was single) that they have the right to just expect a meet and or totally disregard the fact that she is now in a relationship.
The worst part is that they can be well known and liked.
I know i was naive joining the site but that shit is out of order anymore of it and blocked straight away.
now rant over. "
a number of years ago i was part of a cpl and we used to meet single guys and one or two of them after we had met them tried to get herself to play off side lucky we had a relationship were we where totaly honest and we had a play phone so i knew all about it. your best bet is to trust your partner and ignore them |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"why do ppl (men) think if they have meet a girl that's in a cpl profile (when she was single) that they have the right to just expect a meet and or totally disregard the fact that she is now in a relationship.
The worst part is that they can be well known and liked.
I know i was naive joining the site but that shit is out of order anymore of it and blocked straight away.
now rant over.
a number of years ago i was part of a cpl and we used to meet single guys and one or two of them after we had met them tried to get herself to play off side lucky we had a relationship were we where totaly honest and we had a play phone so i knew all about it. your best bet is to trust your partner and ignore them "
i would imagine there is a world of guys who try to get the female in a couple to play alone! Thrill of the chase |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"why do ppl (men) think if they have meet a girl that's in a cpl profile (when she was single) that they have the right to just expect a meet and or totally disregard the fact that she is now in a relationship.
The worst part is that they can be well known and liked.
I know i was naive joining the site but that shit is out of order anymore of it and blocked straight away.
now rant over.
a number of years ago i was part of a cpl and we used to meet single guys and one or two of them after we had met them tried to get herself to play off side lucky we had a relationship were we where totaly honest and we had a play phone so i knew all about it. your best bet is to trust your partner and ignore them "
O i do trust just makes me want to leave makes me think all men are dicks I KNOW THAT'S NOT TRUE just makes me think it. plus hate having to shovel the shit out of the way. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Total lack of respect once the cpls profile and both single profiles say u only play as a Cpl that it. Also means they haven't read the profile
why does that not surprise me "
ill hold my hands up and admit I don't read every profile on here! Some are as long as short novels |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Total lack of respect once the cpls profile and both single profiles say u only play as a Cpl that it. Also means they haven't read the profile
why does that not surprise me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You know your filters are here to help you
Apply them
I have mine on. I don't wait for guys to mail me. If I'm looking I contact them
Life is so much simpler. Don't have a pile of crap mails to read every day and at the end if the day I'm the best judge on who I want to meet |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Total lack of respect once the cpls profile and both single profiles say u only play as a Cpl that it. Also means they haven't read the profile
why does that not surprise me ill hold my hands up and admit I don't read every profile on here! Some are as long as short novels "
there is a reason for that to eliminate time wasters as the profile had tried to outline what exactly they are looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You know your filters are here to help you
Apply them
I have mine on. I don't wait for guys to mail me. If I'm looking I contact them
Life is so much simpler. Don't have a pile of crap mails to read every day and at the end if the day I'm the best judge on who I want to meet"
we have had our differences but joking aside! What do u look for in a guy here on whether you will mail him or not? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"You know your filters are here to help you
Apply them
I have mine on. I don't wait for guys to mail me. If I'm looking I contact them
Life is so much simpler. Don't have a pile of crap mails to read every day and at the end if the day I'm the best jge on who I want to meet"
never even thought of it.
must be a joint decision. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Total lack of respect once the cpls profile and both single profiles say u only play as a Cpl that it. Also means they haven't read the profile
why does that not surprise me ill hold my hands up and admit I don't read every profile on here! Some are as long as short novels
there is a reason for that to eliminate time wasters as the profile had tried to outline what exactly they are looking for "
lol u can outline what ur looking for in short precise fashion! Some profiles, I'm wondering do they ever end lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know your filters are here to help you
Apply them
I have mine on. I don't wait for guys to mail me. If I'm looking I contact them
Life is so much simpler. Don't have a pile of crap mails to read every day and at the end if the day I'm the best judge on who I want to meetwe have had our differences but joking aside! What do u look for in a guy here on whether you will mail him or not?"
Serious answer?
I do a search of basic requirements
Then I read the profile
Well thought out, well filled out profiles will attract my attention. Humour and intelligence will pique my interest
Then I mail.
If there is any rapport then it's worth furthering
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know your filters are here to help you
Apply them
I have mine on. I don't wait for guys to mail me. If I'm looking I contact them
Life is so much simpler. Don't have a pile of crap mails to read every day and at the end if the day I'm the best judge on who I want to meetwe have had our differences but joking aside! What do u look for in a guy here on whether you will mail him or not?
Serious answer?
I do a search of basic requirements
Then I read the profile
Well thought out, well filled out profiles will attract my attention. Humour and intelligence will pique my interest
Then I mail.
If there is any rapport then it's worth furthering
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so a big thing for you is how much efforts put into a profile? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know your filters are here to help you
Apply them
I have mine on. I don't wait for guys to mail me. If I'm looking I contact them
Life is so much simpler. Don't have a pile of crap mails to read every day and at the end if the day I'm the best judge on who I want to meetwe have had our differences but joking aside! What do u look for in a guy here on whether you will mail him or not?
Serious answer?
I do a search of basic requirements
Then I read the profile
Well thought out, well filled out profiles will attract my attention. Humour and intelligence will pique my interest
Then I mail.
If there is any rapport then it's worth furthering
so a big thing for you is how much efforts put into a profile?"
Yes
To me it means they are serious about why they are here and are hoping to attract the people they want to meet
If they are serious about that, usually follows they are serious about meeting and having fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You know your filters are here to help you
Apply them
I have mine on. I don't wait for guys to mail me. If I'm looking I contact them
Life is so much simpler. Don't have a pile of crap mails to read every day and at the end if the day I'm the best judge on who I want to meetwe have had our differences but joking aside! What do u look for in a guy here on whether you will mail him or not?
Serious answer?
I do a search of basic requirements
Then I read the profile
Well thought out, well filled out profiles will attract my attention. Humour and intelligence will pique my interest
Then I mail.
If there is any rapport then it's worth furthering
so a big thing for you is how much efforts put into a profile?
Yes
To me it means they are serious about why they are here and are hoping to attract the people they want to meet
If they are serious about that, usually follows they are serious about meeting and having fun"
fair dues |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Why is the sky blue? Why are the clouds white? Life throws up so many questions!
Who feckin knows!
P.S. I don't need to know the answer to the above questions just like I don't need to know or could know why some looper assumed anything. Very little in life can be assumed "
Ah _ilder can I have what your having .. and where is this blue sky you speak of .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Beav's esteemed gf here.. Filters don't work in this instance as when someone recognises me from b4 and I got on well with them I chat to them ..( I have the motto its nice to be nice..which I'll be amending). However this causes problem's ;
1. Its hard for some guys distinguish between malone the single gal that was here for 2 years and the new me that's happily in a blossoming relationship with Beav ..
2. And beav is right there seems to be a sense of entitlement with some .. so I met them once or more b4 .. So now ignore the fact I have a bf they were here first and stalked their claim
As a woman its kinda worrying in this day and age how guys seem the need to have a claim on u.. im an independent, educated gal.. But I guess thats a whole other thread |
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"Beav's esteemed gf here.. Filters don't work in this instance as when someone recognises me from b4 and I got on well with them I chat to them ..( I have the motto its nice to be nice..which I'll be amending). However this causes problem's ;
1. Its hard for some guys distinguish between malone the single gal that was here for 2 years and the new me that's happily in a blossoming relationship with Beav ..
2. And beav is right there seems to be a sense of entitlement with some .. so I met them once or more b4 .. So now ignore the fact I have a bf they were here first and stalked their claim
As a woman its kinda worrying in this day and age how guys seem the need to have a claim on u.. im an independent, educated gal.. But I guess thats a whole other thread "
well said love. xx |
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"why do ppl (men) think if they have meet a girl that's in a cpl profile (when she was single) that they have the right to just expect a meet and or totally disregard the fact that she is now in a relationship.
The worst part is that they can be well known and liked.
I know i was naive joining the site but that shit is out of order anymore of it and blocked straight away.
now rant over.
a number of years ago i was part of a cpl and we used to meet single guys and one or two of them after we had met them tried to get herself to play off side lucky we had a relationship were we where totaly honest and we had a play phone so i knew all about it. your best bet is to trust your partner and ignore them
O i do trust just makes me want to leave makes me think all men are dicks I KNOW THAT'S NOT TRUE just makes me think it. plus hate having to shovel the shit out of the way. "
u wanna leave? Ur not aloud I forbid you ha jus block them or ignore it or tell them u will find and kill them but ur not fuckin leavin over it!  |
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"just makes me what to leave more. just to piss her off.
yeah no more of them pics  "
u won't like me wen I'm pissed off beavy that was horrible sayin that ya prick haha I'm gonna get spiderman to do it today cause u don't like it haha |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha"
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me "
still early days yet haha |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me still early days yet haha"
i'm baaaadly worried now |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me still early days yet haha
i'm baaaadly worried now "
u need to stop that sheep talk I'm startin to get worried now |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me still early days yet haha
i'm baaaadly worried now u need to stop that sheep talk I'm startin to get worried now "
lol it has gone a tad far |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me still early days yet haha
i'm baaaadly worried now u need to stop that sheep talk I'm startin to get worried now
lol it has gone a tad far "
jus a lil bit ye but if ur really into that whole sheep thing I'm not gonna judge ya over it |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me still early days yet haha
i'm baaaadly worried now u need to stop that sheep talk I'm startin to get worried now
lol it has gone a tad far jus a lil bit ye but if ur really into that whole sheep thing I'm not gonna judge ya over it "
it was just a phase, hung my wellies up now |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me still early days yet haha
i'm baaaadly worried now u need to stop that sheep talk I'm startin to get worried now
lol it has gone a tad far jus a lil bit ye but if ur really into that whole sheep thing I'm not gonna judge ya over it
it was just a phase, hung my wellies up now "
u get 2 deep into sheep clunge? Haha |
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"I hunt the fuckers down for makin him even think of leavin, pricks
jayus remind not to step on ur toes
She'd feckon kill you for less haha shhhh up u I'm not that bad haha
you've never been anything but sweetness and light to me still early days yet haha
i'm baaaadly worried now u need to stop that sheep talk I'm startin to get worried now
lol it has gone a tad far jus a lil bit ye but if ur really into that whole sheep thing I'm not gonna judge ya over it
it was just a phase, hung my wellies up now u get 2 deep into sheep clunge? Haha "
aye, was in rehab, but i'm getting better, one day at a time |
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"Beav's esteemed gf here.. Filters don't work in this instance as when someone recognises me from b4 and I got on well with them I chat to them ..( I have the motto its nice to be nice..which I'll be amending). However this causes problem's ;
1. Its hard for some guys distinguish between malone the single gal that was here for 2 years and the new me that's happily in a blossoming relationship with Beav ..
2. And beav is right there seems to be a sense of entitlement with some .. so I met them once or more b4 .. So now ignore the fact I have a bf they were here first and stalked their claim
As a woman its kinda worrying in this day and age how guys seem the need to have a claim on u.. im an independent, educated gal.. But I guess thats a whole other thread "
I've just got to read this thread now and my first thought I'd that I'd love to be a suspect here, for that would mean that one had met the delightful miss boobsy!  |
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