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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"whats the point ? you would be better off just asking them out straight if they would be into swinging "
very true and I would also imagine if one partner was against it but got a hint the other liked it, it might cause mishaps in the relationship
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd agree. Better upfront other wise all hell and jealousy would pursue. Wasn't a swingers club but I recall that happening to me in a normal nightclub wasn't nice. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yad think aswell she would of told him, if i came out of the toilet and saw my gf kissing some fella id go crazy to lol so would i"
Boys, boys!
Last time hubs came back from the jax in a swingers club he found me doing more than kissing. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I can say if I was in a loving serious relationship with a girl I wouldn't be into swinging in the slightest! I wouldn't like my gf off shaggin other men |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yad think aswell she would of told him, if i came out of the toilet and saw my gf kissing some fella id go crazy to lol so would i
Boys, boys!
Last time hubs came back from the jax in a swingers club he found me doing more than kissing."
Lol but iam sure he knew what yee were doing there in fairness? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can say if I was in a loving serious relationship with a girl I wouldn't be into swinging in the slightest! I wouldn't like my gf off shaggin other men "
Don't say that here man, I said that here and was slated that i shouldn't even be here lol I couldn't share someone i love personally but if it was just a sexual relationship purely based around sex then iam happy to share but ill put my hands up and admit to being a lil insecure as ive lost nearly every ex to other fellas lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can say if I was in a loving serious relationship with a girl I wouldn't be into swinging in the slightest! I wouldn't like my gf off shaggin other men
Don't say that here man, I said that here and was slated that i shouldn't even be here lol I couldn't share someone i love personally but if it was just a sexual relationship purely based around sex then iam happy to share but ill put my hands up and admit to being a lil insecure as ive lost nearly every ex to other fellas lol "
i wouldn't dream of sharing a gf i loved! Not in a month of Sundays! Now if it's just sexual that's diff |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I can say if I was in a loving serious relationship with a girl I wouldn't be into swinging in the slightest! I wouldn't like my gf off shaggin other men
Don't say that here man, I said that here and was slated that i shouldn't even be here lol I couldn't share someone i love personally but if it was just a sexual relationship purely based around sex then iam happy to share but ill put my hands up and admit to being a lil insecure as ive lost nearly every ex to other fellas lol "
Have you two considered hooking up? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I can say if I was in a loving serious relationship with a girl I wouldn't be into swinging in the slightest! I wouldn't like my gf off shaggin other men
Don't say that here man, I said that here and was slated that i shouldn't even be here lol I couldn't share someone i love personally but if it was just a sexual relationship purely based around sex then iam happy to share but ill put my hands up and admit to being a lil insecure as ive lost nearly every ex to other fellas lol
Have you two considered hooking up? "
No offence but why do people hate on us for having that opinion? I wouldn't share someone i love, it doesn't make sense to me, that's just me! This should not bother anybody here. Maybe iam just boring in comparison to most here or old fashioned but for me, ye don't share someone you love! And if i did then id end up loving them for the wrong reasons. Most ppl are in Lust not love! Anyways, these are just my views and we all have our reasons for thinking the way we think! Iam all for kinky fun but if i love someone then sorry but i ain't sharing ye lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Knickersoaker.. r u talking from experience ? have you ever had a girlfriend ?? or.. a girl you've loved ??"
yes I have been in a loving relationship! Wouldn't dream of sharing a women I love
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Knickersoaker.. r u talking from experience ? have you ever had a girlfriend ?? or.. a girl you've loved ??"
lol... all jokin aside though, why is there so much hate on here f people have an opinion here that differs from the majority?? I dont see anything wrong with a guy NOT wanting to share his woman!!
Alot of men couldnt give a shyte about there women and the only reason they "love" em is cause there allowed fuck other ppl and basically do what they want, Ive even spoke to men that have said the exact words "i couldnt care" yet if there gf broke up with them they are devesated but not cause they loved them,its because they loved the 3sums etc lol I could go on n on but at the end of the day, i have my views and not everyone agrees, thats fine! Each to their own! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"kk.. just wondering.. didn't seem to work out then ? eh ?
maybe you should have tried swinging with her then.....not a hope"
She's probably on here, keeping quiet unless he spots her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol."
if i shag a woman in a relationship it's no skin off my nose! I'm saying if I was in a relationship with a woman "I loved" I wouldn't share her
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol."
there is plenty of singles on here to! It's not just couples
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.if i shag a woman in a relationship it's no skin off my nose! I'm saying if I was in a relationship with a woman "I loved" I wouldn't share her "
Plenty of couples on here love each other, they are just open minded enough and secure enough with each other that they enjoy sharing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol."
Thats a stupid question, We are both single men and who are up for fun, you dont have to be willing to share your partner to join the site! For example, Some couples wont meet men , should they not be here either? why will the guy happily share his partner with a woman but not a man?? To me that sounds like hes controlling things and doesnt wanna share her but hey, each to theyre own, iam not gonna tell them they shouldnt be here |
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.
Thats a stupid question, We are both single men and who are up for fun, you dont have to be willing to share your partner to join the site! For example, Some couples wont meet men , should they not be here either? why will the guy happily share his partner with a woman but not a man?? To me that sounds like hes controlling things and doesnt wanna share her but hey, each to theyre own, iam not gonna tell them they shouldnt be here "
i know of a woman on this site who only gets to meet the men her partner chooses! How ridiculous is that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.
Thats a stupid question, We are both single men and who are up for fun, you dont have to be willing to share your partner to join the site! For example, Some couples wont meet men , should they not be here either? why will the guy happily share his partner with a woman but not a man?? To me that sounds like hes controlling things and doesnt wanna share her but hey, each to theyre own, iam not gonna tell them they shouldnt be here "
You both seem to be appalled at the idea that a couple in love would have sex with others outside of their relationship, yet that is what swinging entails usually, just wondering why you would join a site called fabSWINGERS is all  |
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.
Thats a stupid question, We are both single men and who are up for fun, you dont have to be willing to share your partner to join the site! For example, Some couples wont meet men , should they not be here either? why will the guy happily share his partner with a woman but not a man?? To me that sounds like hes controlling things and doesnt wanna share her but hey, each to theyre own, iam not gonna tell them they shouldnt be here
You both seem to be appalled at the idea that a couple in love would have sex with others outside of their relationship, yet that is what swinging entails usually, just wondering why you would join a site called fabSWINGERS is all "
as I said many times already! You ask the majority of lads on their 20's why there here and the answer you will get is for "no strings fun"! The word swinging won't even be mentioned |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.if i shag a woman in a relationship it's no skin off my nose! I'm saying if I was in a relationship with a woman "I loved" I wouldn't share her
Plenty of couples on here love each other, they are just open minded enough and secure enough with each other that they enjoy sharing."
Iam not gonna argue that but people love for different reasons, and we all have a different defenition of love!! Alot of people here dont love each other to , I mean theres thousands of couples here , you cant honestly think they have all found true love? Most people meet , develop a sexual relationship and then one r the other suggests 3sums and boom they join here, theyre having fun, its not love but i dont have an issue with it! if both ppl are happy go for it, id go for it if i met someone up for it but NOT if i loved them and thats all iam saying!! There are some couples here that have been together years , never tried swinging until recent times and there the couples i admire and respect because i could not do that! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.
Thats a stupid question, We are both single men and who are up for fun, you dont have to be willing to share your partner to join the site! For example, Some couples wont meet men , should they not be here either? why will the guy happily share his partner with a woman but not a man?? To me that sounds like hes controlling things and doesnt wanna share her but hey, each to theyre own, iam not gonna tell them they shouldnt be here
You both seem to be appalled at the idea that a couple in love would have sex with others outside of their relationship, yet that is what swinging entails usually, just wondering why you would join a site called fabSWINGERS is all "
That question has been answered, read the replies |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.there is plenty of singles on here to! It's not just couples "
So you're here to find a girlfriend and save her from the eternal damnation that the rest of us are going to? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.
Thats a stupid question, We are both single men and who are up for fun, you dont have to be willing to share your partner to join the site! For example, Some couples wont meet men , should they not be here either? why will the guy happily share his partner with a woman but not a man?? To me that sounds like hes controlling things and doesnt wanna share her but hey, each to theyre own, iam not gonna tell them they shouldnt be here
You both seem to be appalled at the idea that a couple in love would have sex with others outside of their relationship, yet that is what swinging entails usually, just wondering why you would join a site called fabSWINGERS is all as I said many times already! You ask the majority of lads on their 20's why there here and the answer you will get is for "no strings fun"! The word swinging won't even be mentioned "
Defo, theres loads of single fellas here for fun but if they caught there gf with a fella they would be mental! ALOT of single men would not share there partner FACT !! This site doesnt state that you have to be willing to share someone you love to join |
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.there is plenty of singles on here to! It's not just couples
So you're here to find a girlfriend and save her from the eternal damnation that the rest of us are going to?"
lmao, us poor deluded creatures eh! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.there is plenty of singles on here to! It's not just couples
So you're here to find a girlfriend and save her from the eternal damnation that the rest of us are going to?"
Yup, spot on lol Seriously, get a grip ha Whos saying that like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a person uses here for pure no strings fun and nothing else, there is nothing wrong with that!"
The problem is simple! these people want us to conform to there views and opinions! How dare we NOT wanna share someone we love!! Ya gotta wonder why they are so defensive , yad swear we were condeming them to hell ffs |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"So lads, what are you doing on a site called fabswingers if you are against the very essence of what swinging is all about? just a wee tiny bit confused here lol.there is plenty of singles on here to! It's not just couples
So you're here to find a girlfriend and save her from the eternal damnation that the rest of us are going to?"
in here for no strings fun! Simple as that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a person uses here for pure no strings fun and nothing else, there is nothing wrong with that!
The problem is simple! these people want us to conform to there views and opinions! How dare we NOT wanna share someone we love!! Ya gotta wonder why they are so defensive , yad swear we were condeming them to hell ffs "
I have nothing to be defensive about, I asked a simple question, just seems to be a very odd attitude to have on a swinger site is all, maybe I'm just not down with the kids these days  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If a person uses here for pure no strings fun and nothing else, there is nothing wrong with that!
The problem is simple! these people want us to conform to there views and opinions! How dare we NOT wanna share someone we love!! Ya gotta wonder why they are so defensive , yad swear we were condeming them to hell ffs
I have nothing to be defensive about, I asked a simple question, just seems to be a very odd attitude to have on a swinger site is all, maybe I'm just not down with the kids these days "
So you think that any single man here to meet SINGLE WOMEN should not be here if he wouldnt share someone he loves? Whats odd about it? Your acting as if we are sick and fucked up for not wanting to share someone lol At least we are upfront and honest about it!! I honesty cant understand why anyone would have a problem with that |
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"And the young single men of this site wonder why they have so much trouble getting meets
Big round of applause to the young single mans ambassador "
what we have said is our opinion and it certainly should not take from somebody getting a meet! As hilf already said, do we have to see the site in the sane light as the "regulars" to get a meet? |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi? "
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier?? |
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"And the young single men of this site wonder why they have so much trouble getting meets
Big round of applause to the young single mans ambassador "
He'll get the... *clap |
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"How's your philosophy working so far boys? Have you found all the single girls looking for the same?
Heres one for ye now,I swapped numbers with a girl here that messages me last night and said "i just saw your forum posts and your 100% right" and when i said why didnt you say something so her reply was "because ye cant say nothing on that thing, everyone backs up for each other, ye cant win"
Get a fuckin life like, i dont wanna share someone i love, get over it and move on "
pal I have had loads agree with me on things in private mail but won't say it on forum, I ask why! They say because I will get ridiculed |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier?? "
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site? |
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"And the young single men of this site wonder why they have so much trouble getting meets
Big round of applause to the young single mans ambassador
He'll get the... *clap"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"And the young single men of this site wonder why they have so much trouble getting meets
Big round of applause to the young single mans ambassador what we have said is our opinion and it certainly should not take from somebody getting a meet! As hilf already said, do we have to see the site in the sane light as the "regulars" to get a meet? "
Obviously we do, starting to feel like swinging is a cult the way these fools are goin on , its like they want to brainwash us lol If i was gay would they be saying oh thats wrong, u should be gettin with women lol Each to there own guys, some of ye are 40 yrs of age and older, its pathetic to say the least!! Go and enjoy the site and respect that people are here for different reasons |
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"How's your philosophy working so far boys? Have you found all the single girls looking for the same?
Heres one for ye now,I swapped numbers with a girl here that messages me last night and said "i just saw your forum posts and your 100% right" and when i said why didnt you say something so her reply was "because ye cant say nothing on that thing, everyone backs up for each other, ye cant win"
Get a fuckin life like, i dont wanna share someone i love, get over it and move on pal I have had loads agree with me on things in private mail but won't say it on forum, I ask why! They say because I will get ridiculed "
Do you keep all these mails in the same place as your old daily stars, i mean surveys? |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier??
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site?"
Because theres single women here lookin for the SAME ! Are u actually simple?? What cant u understand? |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier??
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site?"
are u really that silly? Honest question? There is a world of men here our age(in their 20's) who use it purely as a NSF site! |
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"How's your philosophy working so far boys? Have you found all the single girls looking for the same?
Heres one for ye now,I swapped numbers with a girl here that messages me last night and said "i just saw your forum posts and your 100% right" and when i said why didnt you say something so her reply was "because ye cant say nothing on that thing, everyone backs up for each other, ye cant win"
Get a fuckin life like, i dont wanna share someone i love, get over it and move on pal I have had loads agree with me on things in private mail but won't say it on forum, I ask why! They say because I will get ridiculed
Do you keep all these mails in the same place as your old daily stars, i mean surveys?"
there in my inbox |
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"And the young single men of this site wonder why they have so much trouble getting meets
Big round of applause to the young single mans ambassador what we have said is our opinion and it certainly should not take from somebody getting a meet! As hilf already said, do we have to see the site in the sane light as the "regulars" to get a meet?
Obviously we do, starting to feel like swinging is a cult the way these fools are goin on , its like they want to brainwash us lol If i was gay would they be saying oh thats wrong, u should be gettin with women lol Each to there own guys, some of ye are 40 yrs of age and older, its pathetic to say the least!! Go and enjoy the site and respect that people are here for different reasons "
Mmm. But most are here to swing. Because it's a swingers site. |
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See yer preaching to me for weeks "everyone uses this site in diff ways, there is no right or wrong"! Is that right people? If a person is here for simple NSF, so what? |
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"And the young single men of this site wonder why they have so much trouble getting meets
Big round of applause to the young single mans ambassador what we have said is our opinion and it certainly should not take from somebody getting a meet! As hilf already said, do we have to see the site in the sane light as the "regulars" to get a meet?
Obviously we do, starting to feel like swinging is a cult the way these fools are goin on , its like they want to brainwash us lol If i was gay would they be saying oh thats wrong, u should be gettin with women lol Each to there own guys, some of ye are 40 yrs of age and older, its pathetic to say the least!! Go and enjoy the site and respect that people are here for different reasons
Mmm. But most are here to swing. Because it's a swingers site."
Most are here for fun PERIOD , Just because your here for swinging doesnt mean everyone else is, there is plenty of women here ONLY interested in single men |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier??
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site?are u really that silly? Honest question? There is a world of men here our age(in their 20's) who use it purely as a NSF site! "
Please boys, keep it civil.
But don't use 'men' in a sentence again when referring to yourselves, you're breaching copyright. |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier??
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site?are u really that silly? Honest question? There is a world of men here our age(in their 20's) who use it purely as a NSF site!
Please boys, keep it civil.
But don't use 'men' in a sentence again when referring to yourselves, you're breaching copyright."
lol completely contradicting yourself in what u say! U were one of the people who said to me everyone has diff ways of using here and there is no right or wrong lol! what's the true definition of SWINGING? Partner swapping with other couples! All I'm saying is if I was in a serious relationship with a woman I loved I wouldn't share her! Thats all |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier??
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site?are u really that silly? Honest question? There is a world of men here our age(in their 20's) who use it purely as a NSF site!
Please boys, keep it civil.
But don't use 'men' in a sentence again when referring to yourselves, you're breaching copyright.lol completely contradicting yourself in what u say! U were one of the people who said to me everyone has diff ways of using here and there is no right or wrong lol! what's the true definition of SWINGING? Partner swapping with other couples! All I'm saying is if I was in a serious relationship with a woman I loved I wouldn't share her! Thats all"
Yes, we know because you keep repeating yourself. I'm not sure there is a true definition, i would say that the swingers we've spent any time with have one overriding quality, their warmth.
Size, shape, colour, is irrelevant, sometimes there is no physical attraction, but that doesn't mean we can't chat & become friends. Selfish is how you come across, I don't know either of you so maybe I'm wrong but I think selfishness is a sad, lonely & ugly emotion that will keep a lot of people away from you. |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier??
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site?are u really that silly? Honest question? There is a world of men here our age(in their 20's) who use it purely as a NSF site!
Please boys, keep it civil.
But don't use 'men' in a sentence again when referring to yourselves, you're breaching copyright.lol completely contradicting yourself in what u say! U were one of the people who said to me everyone has diff ways of using here and there is no right or wrong lol! what's the true definition of SWINGING? Partner swapping with other couples! All I'm saying is if I was in a serious relationship with a woman I loved I wouldn't share her! Thats all
Yes, we know because you keep repeating yourself. I'm not sure there is a true definition, i would say that the swingers we've spent any time with have one overriding quality, their warmth.
Size, shape, colour, is irrelevant, sometimes there is no physical attraction, but that doesn't mean we can't chat & become friends. Selfish is how you come across, I don't know either of you so maybe I'm wrong but I think selfishness is a sad, lonely & ugly emotion that will keep a lot of people away from you."
i use the site for NSF so there has to be physical attraction! How is that selfish? |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier??
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site?are u really that silly? Honest question? There is a world of men here our age(in their 20's) who use it purely as a NSF site!
Please boys, keep it civil.
But don't use 'men' in a sentence again when referring to yourselves, you're breaching copyright.lol completely contradicting yourself in what u say! U were one of the people who said to me everyone has diff ways of using here and there is no right or wrong lol! what's the true definition of SWINGING? Partner swapping with other couples! All I'm saying is if I was in a serious relationship with a woman I loved I wouldn't share her! Thats all
Yes, we know because you keep repeating yourself. I'm not sure there is a true definition, i would say that the swingers we've spent any time with have one overriding quality, their warmth.
Size, shape, colour, is irrelevant, sometimes there is no physical attraction, but that doesn't mean we can't chat & become friends. Selfish is how you come across, I don't know either of you so maybe I'm wrong but I think selfishness is a sad, lonely & ugly emotion that will keep a lot of people away from you.i use the site for NSF so there has to be physical attraction! How is that selfish?"
Oxford dictionary:
'(Of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for other people; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure'
To me, this is you. As I said, maybe I'm wrong, I hope I'm wrong. |
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"What is YOUR definition of a swinger ks/hifi?
Why does swinging come in to it?? Iam NOT a fuckin swinger, iam here for nsa fun with single women ! i dont have to be a swinger to be here! Why is this bothering u hun?? Would you rather i find a gf and share her ?? would that make your life happier??
Then why are you looking on a SWINGING site?are u really that silly? Honest question? There is a world of men here our age(in their 20's) who use it purely as a NSF site!
Please boys, keep it civil.
But don't use 'men' in a sentence again when referring to yourselves, you're breaching copyright.lol completely contradicting yourself in what u say! U were one of the people who said to me everyone has diff ways of using here and there is no right or wrong lol! what's the true definition of SWINGING? Partner swapping with other couples! All I'm saying is if I was in a serious relationship with a woman I loved I wouldn't share her! Thats all
Yes, we know because you keep repeating yourself. I'm not sure there is a true definition, i would say that the swingers we've spent any time with have one overriding quality, their warmth.
Size, shape, colour, is irrelevant, sometimes there is no physical attraction, but that doesn't mean we can't chat & become friends. Selfish is how you come across, I don't know either of you so maybe I'm wrong but I think selfishness is a sad, lonely & ugly emotion that will keep a lot of people away from you.i use the site for NSF so there has to be physical attraction! How is that selfish?
Oxford dictionary:
'(Of a person, action, or motive) lacking consideration for other people; concerned chiefly with one’s own personal profit or pleasure'
To me, this is you. As I said, maybe I'm wrong, I hope I'm wrong."
of course your going to think about yourself! At the end of the day you are trying to make yourself happy! I wouldn't be regarded as been one bit selfish |
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Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging more |
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging more"
in fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question!
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"You lifted this from the daily star problem page and actually the fella jad a foursome before deciding it wasn't for him "
I'll take "things that never actually happened for 400, Alex" |
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Guys can we stop giving these threads oxygen.
I'll sum it up.
KS: I saw/read something today..what do ye think?
Everyone else: we don't agree
Hifiman: well actually I agree.
KS: I'm here for NSA fun! Attraction is important!
Everyone else: but you've not met anyone else
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"Guys can we stop giving these threads oxygen.
I'll sum it up.
KS: I saw/read something today..what do ye think?
Everyone else: we don't agree
Hifiman: well actually I agree.
KS: I'm here for NSA fun! Attraction is important!
Everyone else: but you've not met anyone else
/end thread."
to sum it up 2 points! One! Some mail, lots doesn't get replied to! 2) the women I have spoke to! Very few I'm physically attracted to! I would assume physical attraction is very important to most for fun |
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging morein fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question! "
They probably are older but I would say the majority of the site is 30+ anyway. The reason a lot of people attend m&g is to network and meet people in a social situation where there is no obligation to play if there is no attraction. It is also a good way to get verified by several people that you are who you say you are. |
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"Guys can we stop giving these threads oxygen.
I'll sum it up.
KS: I saw/read something today..what do ye think?
Everyone else: we don't agree
Hifiman: well actually I agree.
KS: I'm here for NSA fun! Attraction is important!
Everyone else: but you've not met anyone else
/end thread."
Lmao it's like you've read this all before lol
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"Guys can we stop giving these threads oxygen.
I'll sum it up.
KS: I saw/read something today..what do ye think?
Everyone else: we don't agree
Hifiman: well actually I agree.
KS: I'm here for NSA fun! Attraction is important!
Everyone else: but you've not met anyone else
/end thread.
Lmao it's like you've read this all before lol
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging morein fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question!
They probably are older but I would say the majority of the site is 30+ anyway. The reason a lot of people attend m&g is to network and meet people in a social situation where there is no obligation to play if there is no attraction. It is also a good way to get verified by several people that you are who you say you are. "
me and hilf will attend one as a double act lol |
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging morein fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question!
They probably are older but I would say the majority of the site is 30+ anyway. The reason a lot of people attend m&g is to network and meet people in a social situation where there is no obligation to play if there is no attraction. It is also a good way to get verified by several people that you are who you say you are. right I'll try go to one so! do ye all just book a hotel or somewhere near by to stay?"
Usually book a hotel. If you get in touch with organisers of whatever one you decide to go to they should be able to tell you which one is best or if there is one where quite a few usually stay at. They also if you ask may be able to show you the ropes and introduce you to some attendees when you get there |
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging morein fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question!
They probably are older but I would say the majority of the site is 30+ anyway. The reason a lot of people attend m&g is to network and meet people in a social situation where there is no obligation to play if there is no attraction. It is also a good way to get verified by several people that you are who you say you are. me and hilf will attend one as a double act lol"
That's not a bad idea as at least you will know someone at the party, I know the ones i have gone to I have gone with a friend |
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging morein fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question!
They probably are older but I would say the majority of the site is 30+ anyway. The reason a lot of people attend m&g is to network and meet people in a social situation where there is no obligation to play if there is no attraction. It is also a good way to get verified by several people that you are who you say you are. right I'll try go to one so! do ye all just book a hotel or somewhere near by to stay?
Usually book a hotel. If you get in touch with organisers of whatever one you decide to go to they should be able to tell you which one is best or if there is one where quite a few usually stay at. They also if you ask may be able to show you the ropes and introduce you to some attendees when you get there"
lol sounds wonderful |
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Hey guys. I understand what you're saying, you feel that if you loved someone you wouldn't want to share them & that's fine, that's your choice. I think what people are taking issue with is the fact that you're saying that couples who do swing/share don't love each other, it's just lust...
Um.....WRONG!!
I have been with my partner for over 10 years & we love each other VERY much!! We like this site & lifestyle cause it's fun! We don't have feelings for anyone we've met from here but we DO have feelings for each other! Mr. J makes me laugh more than anyone I know, he's my best friend, my soul mate, my confidant (and a total hottie!). I could not love anyone else...ever.
For us, this site is somewhere to meet people who are like us and to have some fun sexual experiences. Just because we want to include other people does NOT mean that we don't love each other! I'm not saying that every couple here is in love but you should not generalise & say that very few or none of the couples here are in love!
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"Hey guys. I understand what you're saying, you feel that if you loved someone you wouldn't want to share them & that's fine, that's your choice. I think what people are taking issue with is the fact that you're saying that couples who do swing/share don't love each other, it's just lust...
Um.....WRONG!!
I have been with my partner for over 10 years & we love each other VERY much!! We like this site & lifestyle cause it's fun! We don't have feelings for anyone we've met from here but we DO have feelings for each other! Mr. J makes me laugh more than anyone I know, he's my best friend, my soul mate, my confidant (and a total hottie!). I could not love anyone else...ever.
For us, this site is somewhere to meet people who are like us and to have some fun sexual experiences. Just because we want to include other people does NOT mean that we don't love each other! I'm not saying that every couple here is in love but you should not generalise & say that very few or none of the couples here are in love!
Miss L "
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging morein fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question!
They probably are older but I would say the majority of the site is 30+ anyway. The reason a lot of people attend m&g is to network and meet people in a social situation where there is no obligation to play if there is no attraction. It is also a good way to get verified by several people that you are who you say you are. right I'll try go to one so! do ye all just book a hotel or somewhere near by to stay?
Usually book a hotel. If you get in touch with organisers of whatever one you decide to go to they should be able to tell you which one is best or if there is one where quite a few usually stay at. They also if you ask may be able to show you the ropes and introduce you to some attendees when you get therelol sounds wonderful "
It is, have been to a few now and had quite a bit of fun from them |
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging morein fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question!
They probably are older but I would say the majority of the site is 30+ anyway. The reason a lot of people attend m&g is to network and meet people in a social situation where there is no obligation to play if there is no attraction. It is also a good way to get verified by several people that you are who you say you are. right I'll try go to one so! do ye all just book a hotel or somewhere near by to stay?
Usually book a hotel. If you get in touch with organisers of whatever one you decide to go to they should be able to tell you which one is best or if there is one where quite a few usually stay at. They also if you ask may be able to show you the ropes and introduce you to some attendees when you get therelol sounds wonderful
It is, have been to a few now and had quite a bit of fun from them"
im not gonna lie there is very few meet and greets locally and the others are all effort in going to them, travelling, booking a hotel etc! Also I don't have a world of time to play with on weekends |
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"Can we not agree to disagree on this topic, everyone has different definition of what this site is about. What I would find more interesting is which view gains the most fun from the site, my bets are on the ones who embrace the social side of swinging morein fairness why would a lad in his 20's attend meet and greets? I would imagine most there are a lot older, no? genuine question! "
My partner is 31 and I'm 30 and we go to meet & greet parties & we've seen plenty of young hot couples there! We have gotten all but one of our meets from these parties! And we've been invited to other parties because organisers met us there & liked us OR because other people passed on our names as people worthy of a party invite! We've had fun at each & every party we've attended! |
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If there is none handy, pair up with someone to share costs such as hotel and petrol etc. It's what I've done when heading to all of mine. Also keeping an eye out on some of the hotel sites means you can get a fairly good deal. Time wise I have never considered it a waste of time due to meeting people I will play with. I have just treated it like a normal night out with a bit of kink added and therefore had a good time |
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"Just wondering guys....
Do you both (Hifi,Snicks) know each other??...
Same ideas, same posts, same philosophies..... Even same town!
Hmmm
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I'm not in Waterford and no we don't |
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"sure we"ll see what happens
There's a post up for a m&g in Waterford that's on soon & hifi has already asked for an invite, you're halfway sorted."
thats the one I already said I can't attend isit? May bank hol weekend |
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"As I said, maybe I'm wrong, I hope I'm wrong.of course your going to think about yourself! At the end of the day you are trying to make yourself happy! I wouldn't be regarded as been one bit selfish "
I like shellfish, especially king prawns. Mmmm. 
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"sure we"ll see what happens
There's a post up for a m&g in Waterford that's on soon & hifi has already asked for an invite, you're halfway sorted.thats the one I already said I can't attend isit? May bank hol weekend "
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"Hey guys. I understand what you're saying, you feel that if you loved someone you wouldn't want to share them & that's fine, that's your choice. I think what people are taking issue with is the fact that you're saying that couples who do swing/share don't love each other, it's just lust...
Um.....WRONG!!
I have been with my partner for over 10 years & we love each other VERY much!! We like this site & lifestyle cause it's fun! We don't have feelings for anyone we've met from here but we DO have feelings for each other! Mr. J makes me laugh more than anyone I know, he's my best friend, my soul mate, my confidant (and a total hottie!). I could not love anyone else...ever.
For us, this site is somewhere to meet people who are like us and to have some fun sexual experiences. Just because we want to include other people does NOT mean that we don't love each other! I'm not saying that every couple here is in love but you should not generalise & say that very few or none of the couples here are in love!
Miss L "
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?"
Can you tell me where you read that article please? |
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?"
i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you! |
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!"
Well I would like to read it |
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read it"
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read itread the thread "
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read itread the thread
Jesus I don't have the time to read 110 posts That probably have nothing to do with the article. What's the problem letting me know where I can read it??"
as I said if your that interested read the thread |
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read itread the thread
Jesus I don't have the time to read 110 posts That probably have nothing to do with the article. What's the problem letting me know where I can read it??as I said if your that interested read the thread "
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read itread the thread
Jesus I don't have the time to read 110 posts That probably have nothing to do with the article. What's the problem letting me know where I can read it??as I said if your that interested read the thread
So the whole article is on the thread somewhere?? Is that what your saying??"
most of it ye |
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read itread the thread
Jesus I don't have the time to read 110 posts That probably have nothing to do with the article. What's the problem letting me know where I can read it??as I said if your that interested read the thread
So the whole article is on the thread somewhere?? Is that what your saying??most of it ye "
So are you not understating me I don't wish to read "most of it" I would Like to read ALL of it and I'm not going through over 100 posts to read it. I really don't see what the problem is?? Am I missing something?? |
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read itread the thread
Jesus I don't have the time to read 110 posts That probably have nothing to do with the article. What's the problem letting me know where I can read it??as I said if your that interested read the thread
So the whole article is on the thread somewhere?? Is that what your saying??most of it ye
So are you not understating me I don't wish to read "most of it" I would Like to read ALL of it and I'm not going through over 100 posts to read it. I really don't see what the problem is?? Am I missing something??"
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read itread the thread
Jesus I don't have the time to read 110 posts That probably have nothing to do with the article. What's the problem letting me know where I can read it??as I said if your that interested read the thread
So the whole article is on the thread somewhere?? Is that what your saying??most of it ye
So are you not understating me I don't wish to read "most of it" I would Like to read ALL of it and I'm not going through over 100 posts to read it. I really don't see what the problem is?? Am I missing something??not at all "
Great I'll look forward reading the article thanks |
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?
Can you tell me where you read that article please?i could ye but I doubt very much it bothers you!
Well I would like to read itread the thread
Jesus I don't have the time to read 110 posts That probably have nothing to do with the article. What's the problem letting me know where I can read it??as I said if your that interested read the thread
So the whole article is on the thread somewhere?? Is that what your saying??most of it ye
So are you not understating me I don't wish to read "most of it" I would Like to read ALL of it and I'm not going through over 100 posts to read it. I really don't see what the problem is?? Am I missing something??not at all
Great I'll look forward reading the article thanks"
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"Hey guys. I understand what you're saying, you feel that if you loved someone you wouldn't want to share them & that's fine, that's your choice. I think what people are taking issue with is the fact that you're saying that couples who do swing/share don't love each other, it's just lust...
Um.....WRONG!!
I have been with my partner for over 10 years & we love each other VERY much!! We like this site & lifestyle cause it's fun! We don't have feelings for anyone we've met from here but we DO have feelings for each other! Mr. J makes me laugh more than anyone I know, he's my best friend, my soul mate, my confidant (and a total hottie!). I could not love anyone else...ever.
For us, this site is somewhere to meet people who are like us and to have some fun sexual experiences. Just because we want to include other people does NOT mean that we don't love each other! I'm not saying that every couple here is in love but you should not generalise & say that very few or none of the couples here are in love!
Miss L "
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Seeing as we are all giving opinions on here
Knickersoaker I think your a dickhead and that other fuckin idiot with ya..prob get a few days banned for this but worth it just to let ye know ye are dickheads..
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"Seeing as we are all giving opinions on here
Knickersoaker I think your a dickhead and that other fuckin idiot with ya..prob get a few days banned for this but worth it just to let ye know ye are dickheads..
Miss fun "
lol lovely jubbly |
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"Hey guys. I understand what you're saying, you feel that if you loved someone you wouldn't want to share them & that's fine, that's your choice. I think what people are taking issue with is the fact that you're saying that couples who do swing/share don't love each other, it's just lust...
Um.....WRONG!!
I have been with my partner for over 10 years & we love each other VERY much!! We like this site & lifestyle cause it's fun! We don't have feelings for anyone we've met from here but we DO have feelings for each other! Mr. J makes me laugh more than anyone I know, he's my best friend, my soul mate, my confidant (and a total hottie!). I could not love anyone else...ever.
For us, this site is somewhere to meet people who are like us and to have some fun sexual experiences. Just because we want to include other people does NOT mean that we don't love each other! I'm not saying that every couple here is in love but you should not generalise & say that very few or none of the couples here are in love!
Miss L "
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"Hey guys. I understand what you're saying, you feel that if you loved someone you wouldn't want to share them & that's fine, that's your choice. I think what people are taking issue with is the fact that you're saying that couples who do swing/share don't love each other, it's just lust...
Um.....WRONG!!
I have been with my partner for over 10 years & we love each other VERY much!! We like this site & lifestyle cause it's fun! We don't have feelings for anyone we've met from here but we DO have feelings for each other! Mr. J makes me laugh more than anyone I
know, he's my best friend, my soul mate, my confidant (and a total hottie!). I could not love anyone else...ever.
For us, this site is somewhere to meet people who are like us and to have some fun sexual experiences. Just because we want to include other people does NOT mean that we don't love each other! I'm not saying that every couple here is in love but you should not generalise & say that very few or none of the couples here are in love!
Miss L "
couldnt have said it better myself....hubby and i been together over 10years also...not nice reading some of these threads...  |
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"Saw a story today of a man been duped into a swinging club by his gf! He went to the toilet and when he came out she was snogging another fella and all hell broke loose! The girl is now suggesting inviting other couples and singles into their bed but he's fully against it! My question is did u ever trick a partner into attending a swinger club in the hope they would like it?"
u wud want to be a rite idiot to do tht! |
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Mr Panther here KS arent you the type of bloke who walks around tesco's asking girls to be your ex so you can tell everybody you have had a girlfriend
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"Seeing as we are all giving opinions on here
Knickersoaker I think your a dickhead and that other fuckin idiot with ya..prob get a few days banned for this but worth it just to let ye know ye are dickheads..
Miss fun "
I agree with you 100%....these guys should fuck off and join a fucking dating site.... |
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