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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok.. as most people will probably know.. theres a M&G in Belfast on Saturday...
As far as we know.. theres also.. 3 big parties happening on the same night...
Ours will probably pull around 6 - 7 couples...
The other one will probably pull around the same.. and maybe a bit more..
The 3rd will probably pull around 4.. ( cus that's wot party organisers asked for )
Now.. the point is....
For everyone saying theres "nothing happening" or.. "fabs boring".. etc etc.... well, Jesus.. this is the first weekend weve ever seen so many things happening in the city centre...
So, if your sitting complainging on this site .. stop doing it.. and actually go out and get involved.. theres loads to do in Belfast on a Saturday !!
( sponsored by NI tourist board ) lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok.. as most people will probably know.. theres a M&G in Belfast on Saturday...
As far as we know.. theres also.. 3 big parties happening on the same night...
Ours will probably pull around 6 - 7 couples...
The other one will probably pull around the same.. and maybe a bit more..
The 3rd will probably pull around 4.. ( cus that's wot party organisers asked for )
Now.. the point is....
For everyone saying theres "nothing happening" or.. "fabs boring".. etc etc.... well, Jesus.. this is the first weekend weve ever seen so many things happening in the city centre...
So, if your sitting complainging on this site .. stop doing it.. and actually go out and get involved.. theres loads to do in Belfast on a Saturday !!
( sponsored by NI tourist board ) lol"
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"Ok.. as most people will probably know.. theres a M&G in Belfast on Saturday...
As far as we know.. theres also.. 3 big parties happening on the same night...
Ours will probably pull around 6 - 7 couples...
The other one will probably pull around the same.. and maybe a bit more..
The 3rd will probably pull around 4.. ( cus that's wot party organisers asked for )
Now.. the point is....
For everyone saying theres "nothing happening" or.. "fabs boring".. etc etc.... well, Jesus.. this is the first weekend weve ever seen so many things happening in the city centre...
So, if your sitting complainging on this site .. stop doing it.. and actually go out and get involved.. theres loads to do in Belfast on a Saturday !!
( sponsored by NI tourist board ) lol"
Well said Belfast is swinging!!!!  |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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Not winging but just pointing out that there are a large number of single guys and TV's that are not "wanted" at any of these meets. That's fine as obviously it's up to the meet organizer but people may feel "excluded" and that the site does not match what they want. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"Not winging but just pointing out that there are a large number of single guys and TV's that are not "wanted" at any of these meets. That's fine as obviously it's up to the meet organizer but people may feel "excluded" and that the site does not match what they want. "
hey Nikki is there not a Friday night club in Dublin the TA club i think it is called |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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its called TH club...
it is a very good club, weve been there.. and.. in future.. we would hope to hold a party there ( we were gonna but ownership was going through a changover )... but.. yeah, for all TV / CD... its a great club...
nikki.. theres loads of tv / cd admirers out ther in Ireland.. north and south |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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" Not winging but just pointing out that there are a large number of single guys and TV's that are not "wanted" at any of these meets. That's fine as obviously it's up to the meet organizer but people may feel "excluded" and that the site does not match what they want.
hey Nikki is there not a Friday night club in Dublin the TA club i think it is called
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There may be. I haven't been down to Dublin for years. Really wasn't a personal issue except hard as a TV to get into the party scene. But that's life I understand! |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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" Not winging but just pointing out that there are a large number of single guys and TV's that are not "wanted" at any of these meets. That's fine as obviously it's up to the meet organizer but people may feel "excluded" and that the site does not match what they want.
hey Nikki is there not a Friday night club in Dublin the TA club i think it is called
There may be. I haven't been down to Dublin for years. Really wasn't a personal issue except hard as a TV to get into the party scene. But that's life I understand!"
there u go ask and u receive maybe its a door opener  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We should play revolving parties lol two hours in each before you move on to the next party, the only thing being id look lovely standing in a meet n greet with a toga on lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We should play revolving parties lol two hours in each before you move on to the next party, the only thing being id look lovely standing in a meet n greet with a toga on lol "
Toga toga toga..... sorry had to be done |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Friends,romans,countrymen,lend me your...........coat
more like lend me your wife
"i come to bury penis,not to praise it"  "
you can bury it in miss Decca just keep it away from me lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"last time 3 parties clashed we all ended up in one house lol... and that was a lonnngggg longggg night lol
great to see so much activity in Belfast"
is that the same night im thinking off, that ended up being a brilliant night lol even though i paid your taxi home ya big miserable bastard lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not winging but just pointing out that there are a large number of single guys and TV's that are not "wanted" at any of these meets. That's fine as obviously it's up to the meet organizer but people may feel "excluded" and that the site does not match what they want. "
There'll be loads of guys in dresses at one of the parties lol Is that a dagger hidden under your Toga, or have you been at the Viagra again!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not winging but just pointing out that there are a large number of single guys and TV's that are not "wanted" at any of these meets. That's fine as obviously it's up to the meet organizer but people may feel "excluded" and that the site does not match what they want. "
hey Nikki, I think its ridiculous that parties and M&G arent open for everyone. I think they should be. The more the merrier and I'd love to chat and hear all the naughty stories lol. And tell a few of mine lol. Last M&G I was at ppl thought I was a TV as I was wearing a wig and Im tall and broadshouldered. I thought that was funny Unfortunately I was the only one.......id wish to see all makes and models at parties. There's room for all of us!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"last time 3 parties clashed we all ended up in one house lol... and that was a lonnngggg longggg night lol
great to see so much activity in Belfast
is that the same night im thinking off, that ended up being a brilliant night lol even though i paid your taxi home ya big miserable bastard lol "
bolllocks lmao!! the fecker charged us BOTH a TENNER EACH LOL... now, he did have to get out of bed to come pick us up lol !!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"last time 3 parties clashed we all ended up in one house lol... and that was a lonnngggg longggg night lol
great to see so much activity in Belfast
is that the same night im thinking off, that ended up being a brilliant night lol even though i paid your taxi home ya big miserable bastard lol
bolllocks lmao!! the fecker charged us BOTH a TENNER EACH LOL... now, he did have to get out of bed to come pick us up lol !!!!"
your to cute ya big fucker, you got mrs diamonds to blow him for your half off the bill lol |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"Not winging but just pointing out that there are a large number of single guys and TV's that are not "wanted" at any of these meets. That's fine as obviously it's up to the meet organizer but people may feel "excluded" and that the site does not match what they want. "
ive had a tv at one of the parties i hosted with a friend. but it is up the the people who are organising it to decide the numbers of males females cpls and tvs. if you where to have an open invite to everyone on the site theres the potential for serious trouble. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok.. as most people will probably know.. theres a M&G in Belfast on Saturday...
As far as we know.. theres also.. 3 big parties happening on the same night...
Ours will probably pull around 6 - 7 couples...
The other one will probably pull around the same.. and maybe a bit more..
The 3rd will probably pull around 4.. ( cus that's wot party organisers asked for )
Now.. the point is....
For everyone saying theres "nothing happening" or.. "fabs boring".. etc etc.... well, Jesus.. this is the first weekend weve ever seen so many things happening in the city centre...
So, if your sitting complainging on this site .. stop doing it.. and actually go out and get involved.. theres loads to do in Belfast on a Saturday !!
( sponsored by NI tourist board ) lol "
Couldn't agree more! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i have to agree with nikki, the people on this site are very much geared towards other couples and females, being a single guy, puts your chances of even getting a reply in the under 10% region, let alone getting party invites etc |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i have to agree with nikki, the people on this site are very much geared towards other couples and females, being a single guy, puts your chances of even getting a reply in the under 10% region, let alone getting party invites etc"
im going to have to disagree with you... at our parties in past, and at other couples parties in the past, theres always been a large amount of single guys invited... but, the thing is.. theres so many single guys, its total impossible to get every one along to a party.. and all parties have to keep the single guy numbers sensible.. so hopefully guys will understand the reasons for this.. a lot of couples love single guys, a lot don't, and keeping a good balance is very hard to do... so, try n look at it from the couples point of view also...  |
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"i have to agree with nikki, the people on this site are very much geared towards other couples and females, being a single guy, puts your chances of even getting a reply in the under 10% region, let alone getting party invites etc"
Most couples swing as its a joint enjoyment thing. Most (note "most")single guys just join here to get laid. Simple as that. We've noticed that most guys who want a mmf simply want to get laid, if hubby has to be present, so be it. Not our idea of fun. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh Fab is alive & kicking don't worry about that. I'm sure there's a few smaller gatherings occurring also.
Mini gathering in Galway tonight -FFMM Grouphug |
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By *vsnikkiTV/TS
over a year ago
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"Oh Fab is alive & kicking don't worry about that. I'm sure there's a few smaller gatherings occurring also.
Mini gathering in Galway tonight -FFMM Grouphug"
I enjoy it here and agree that people and groups will be out. Winging doesn't change much but neither does incorrect self congratulation |
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By (user no longer on site)
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The fact that prob 75% of the single guys aren't single(so easy to spot) is a major problem. The hardest group to get to turn up at parties ARE single guys, that's why relatively few get regular invites. A lot talk the talk and pester the life out of you in the run up to a party but then either cease contact(2 weeks later say their phone was broken/lost/stolen), get called into work, have car trouble, say"is it tonight? I thought it was next week, sorry I can't make it tonight" , or one of the other bullshit excuses regularly heard all the time. Best one was a Saturday night....text the guy"Are you coming?" reply " I'm in bed and too much hassle to get up again" this was at 10:30pm.....Party Animal or what lol Single guys do themselves no favours.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh Fab is alive & kicking don't worry about that. I'm sure there's a few smaller gatherings occurring also.
Mini gathering in Galway tonight -FFMM Grouphug
I enjoy it here and agree that people and groups will be out. Winging doesn't change much but neither does incorrect self congratulation"
Whatever that means |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi guys i am in northern ireland at the min is these partys tonight in belfast just for couples or can single guys attend that is if they are invited?"
You would have needed your name on the list weeks ago. Parties and m&g are usually always by private invite long in advance |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i understand that there are a number of considerations when it comes to planning a party and i agree that too many single men would be a bad idea, i also agree that a number of 'single guys' may not be single, the point i am making however is that based on my experience of this site, the majority of couples are either couple orientated or prefer a single female or (and this is my fav) will not meet unless you have been verified, which whilst in principle is a solid practice, in reality it means any number of guys are instantly ruled out because they haven't managed to meet and get verified and i have tried before anyone says anything about lurking:P |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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My turn
Having just finished the belfast meet last night. I totally agree with Woody. Fed up with single males attitude in general.
I try to balance the night with couples ladies and males immaterial to their gender preference. THe size of the place always limits the total number of people you can invite
For this meet there were 15 spaces for single males. Over 70 males made contact including TV/CD, Bi and Gay. BEfore the invites were sent
of the 15 guys getting an invite 4 turned up including me! 3 didn't turn up at all and didnt give any apologies. 1 had a legitimate excuse known to me. The rest had other excuses that I take at face value.
for 4 days before the meet 10 more guys contacted me, but i had offered the places to other already on the reserve list.
I have always tried to offer a small number of spaces to unverified males, having been there myself and this time neither turned up! The risk of having too many unkown quantities in a public place is too high!
So if any single male wants to complain about not getting invites to a meet I suggest they try organising one before they open their mouth!!!!!
Cause in reality anyone that organises a meet or party deserves a medal!!!!! and has the right to invite who they see fit.
With that i must acknowledge my insanity because i already have ideas for the next one!!!!!
Keep swinging
Jaz
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"My turn
Having just finished the belfast meet last night. I totally agree with Woody. Fed up with single males attitude in general.
I try to balance the night with couples ladies and males immaterial to their gender preference. THe size of the place always limits the total number of people you can invite
For this meet there were 15 spaces for single males. Over 70 males made contact including TV/CD, Bi and Gay. BEfore the invites were sent
of the 15 guys getting an invite 4 turned up including me! 3 didn't turn up at all and didnt give any apologies. 1 had a legitimate excuse known to me. The rest had other excuses that I take at face value.
for 4 days before the meet 10 more guys contacted me, but i had offered the places to other already on the reserve list.
I have always tried to offer a small number of spaces to unverified males, having been there myself and this time neither turned up! The risk of having too many unkown quantities in a public place is too high!
So if any single male wants to complain about not getting invites to a meet I suggest they try organising one before they open their mouth!!!!!
Cause in reality anyone that organises a meet or party deserves a medal!!!!! and has the right to invite who they see fit.
With that i must acknowledge my insanity because i already have ideas for the next one!!!!!
Keep swinging
Jaz
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By (user no longer on site)
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that's fair enough and it's great to see that you give some slots to unverified guys, however you have said that a guy shouldn't complain unless he organises a party, how would he go about contacting people, getting them to agree to come to a party where the host is unverified, not to mention most couples do not reply to messages from single, unverified guys, so that rules out most couples, a number of single women also express a preference for verified guys and then of course you have to get their attention through a mountain of messages which they must shift through on a daily basis, but basically the message would read something like, ' hi you don't know me and no one on this site has met me, would you like to come to a meet and greet.
i realise that this seems negative and truth be told that is not my intent, i am just offering my view on what i see to be the mindset in place here |
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"that's fair enough and it's great to see that you give some slots to unverified guys, however you have said that a guy shouldn't complain unless he organises a party, how would he go about contacting people, getting them to agree to come to a party where the host is unverified, not to mention most couples do not reply to messages from single, unverified guys, so that rules out most couples, a number of single women also express a preference for verified guys and then of course you have to get their attention through a mountain of messages which they must shift through on a daily basis, but basically the message would read something like, ' hi you don't know me and no one on this site has met me, would you like to come to a meet and greet.
i realise that this seems negative and truth be told that is not my intent, i am just offering my view on what i see to be the mindset in place here"
Fair comment and eloquently put. Food for thought for some. Hope you yet verified soon |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"that's fair enough and it's great to see that you give some slots to unverified guys, however you have said that a guy shouldn't complain unless he organises a party, how would he go about contacting people, getting them to agree to come to a party where the host is unverified, not to mention most couples do not reply to messages from single, unverified guys, so that rules out most couples, a number of single women also express a preference for verified guys and then of course you have to get their attention through a mountain of messages which they must shift through on a daily basis, but basically the message would read something like, ' hi you don't know me and no one on this site has met me, would you like to come to a meet and greet.
i realise that this seems negative and truth be told that is not my intent, i am just offering my view on what i see to be the mindset in place here"
I get were you are I was there myself. In fact im not even fab verified yet.Indeed it was a topic of discussion between me and another single guy. We both agreed its about 6 months before you are verified as a single male and have a meet!
My advice is this
Be truthful on your profile
Read profiles and accept the preferences of the people
Have some pics of you and not your cock
Post on the forums
Join in and chat in the chat rooms
Be respectful
Be patient
Put yourself in the ring for every meet and party
Accept rejection, again and again and again
When you do get an invite; be there
At the party be pleasant and clean
Wait for the lady/host to take the lead
No means No
Eventually your reputation will bring you to the attention of the ladies or others that you will enjoy the company off
Jaz xxx
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"that's fair enough and it's great to see that you give some slots to unverified guys, however you have said that a guy shouldn't complain unless he organises a party, how would he go about contacting people, getting them to agree to come to a party where the host is unverified, not to mention most couples do not reply to messages from single, unverified guys, so that rules out most couples, a number of single women also express a preference for verified guys and then of course you have to get their attention through a mountain of messages which they must shift through on a daily basis, but basically the message would read something like, ' hi you don't know me and no one on this site has met me, would you like to come to a meet and greet.
i realise that this seems negative and truth be told that is not my intent, i am just offering my view on what i see to be the mindset in place here
I get were you are I was there myself. In fact im not even fab verified yet.Indeed it was a topic of discussion between me and another single guy. We both agreed its about 6 months before you are verified as a single male and have a meet!
My advice is this
Be truthful on your profile
Read profiles and accept the preferences of the people
Have some pics of you and not your cock
Post on the forums
Join in and chat in the chat rooms
Be respectful
Be patient
Put yourself in the ring for every meet and party
Accept rejection, again and again and again
When you do get an invite; be there
At the party be pleasant and clean
Wait for the lady/host to take the lead
No means No
Eventually your reputation will bring you to the attention of the ladies or others that you will enjoy the company off
Jaz xxx
It took me over 3 months to get my first meet when I joined Fab, first time around. I see guys complaining after 3 days!! Even of the verified guys....a lot are unreliable, which makes it even more difficult for unverified guys. I personally have given unverified guys a chance to attend parties, based on their approach, attitude and yes, to a certain degree, gut instinct. On the whole though, verifs and word of mouth, are still the best way to 'make it' on Fab but single guys will always be the problem group to deal with...
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By (user no longer on site)
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Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort |
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort"
4 months, 4 friends, no verifs......that is all  |
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort
4 months, 4 friends, no verifs......that is all "
Awww don't be so hard woody , you had trouble when you first came here and you were well experienced
At least he's willing to get out there and get known |
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort
4 months, 4 friends, no verifs......that is all
Awww don't be so hard woody , you had trouble when you first came here and you were well experienced
At least he's willing to get out there and get known "
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By (user no longer on site)
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woody i'm pretty sure i covered the not getting verified issue in detail, 4 friends yes, i don't see this site as facebook where i need 100 friends, i keep my friends list to those i speak too, which probably should be taken down to three since i haven't heard from one couple in a while lol |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort"
Go in to chat and keep an eye put fot talk about meets and parties
I always post the social meet open invitations on the forums and when all is ready and close to the finish line.
I post on meets and events
chin up man sounds like your on the right lines to getting there |
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort
Go in to chat and keep an eye put fot talk about meets and parties
I always post the social meet open invitations on the forums and when all is ready and close to the finish line.
I post on meets and events
chin up man sounds like your on the right lines to getting there"
yes jaz you are the man...and you welcome everyone..of all sexual orientation....which is great! Even if you did grab my bum haha... |
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort
Go in to chat and keep an eye put fot talk about meets and parties
I always post the social meet open invitations on the forums and when all is ready and close to the finish line.
I post on meets and events
chin up man sounds like your on the right lines to getting there
yes jaz you are the man...and you welcome everyone..of all sexual orientation....which is great! Even if you did grab my bum haha..."
He didnt grab mine!! I appear to be the only one |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort
Go in to chat and keep an eye put fot talk about meets and parties
I always post the social meet open invitations on the forums and when all is ready and close to the finish line.
I post on meets and events
chin up man sounds like your on the right lines to getting there
yes jaz you are the man...and you welcome everyone..of all sexual orientation....which is great! Even if you did grab my bum haha...
He didnt grab mine!! I appear to be the only one "
Darn it i thought i got it earlier.right girl next time im grabbing yours with both hands to make amends lol!!!!!! |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort
Go in to chat and keep an eye put fot talk about meets and parties
I always post the social meet open invitations on the forums and when all is ready and close to the finish line.
I post on meets and events
chin up man sounds like your on the right lines to getting there
yes jaz you are the man...and you welcome everyone..of all sexual orientation....which is great! Even if you did grab my bum haha..."
TY guys, it was a mighty fine ass if I may say so myself lol
JAz |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"woody i'm pretty sure i covered the not getting verified issue in detail, 4 friends yes, i don't see this site as facebook where i need 100 friends, i keep my friends list to those i speak too, which probably should be taken down to three since i haven't heard from one couple in a while lol"
This most def isn't facebook BUT success for any single guy is 100% about networking, so you have to put the effort in, to get word about that you're a nice guy and worth meeting......and that involves befriending people. This game is all about trust....people ask around about people...so the more people that can say"he's an ok guy" the better the chance of a meet. That's just the way it is.....so the longer you're a member with very few friends or verifs, the less likely you are to be considered seriously......in my view! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"woody i'm pretty sure i covered the not getting verified issue in detail, 4 friends yes, i don't see this site as facebook where i need 100 friends, i keep my friends list to those i speak too, which probably should be taken down to three since i haven't heard from one couple in a while lol
This most def isn't facebook BUT success for any single guy is 100% about networking, so you have to put the effort in, to get word about that you're a nice guy and worth meeting......and that involves befriending people. This game is all about trust....people ask around about people...so the more people that can say"he's an ok guy" the better the chance of a meet. That's just the way it is.....so the longer you're a member with very few friends or verifs, the less likely you are to be considered seriously......in my view!"
It is about word of mouth on here that really is true...you have to get yourself out there...but suppose its easier for fems and couples than males...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort
Go in to chat and keep an eye put fot talk about meets and parties
I always post the social meet open invitations on the forums and when all is ready and close to the finish line.
I post on meets and events
chin up man sounds like your on the right lines to getting there
yes jaz you are the man...and you welcome everyone..of all sexual orientation....which is great! Even if you did grab my bum haha...
He didnt grab mine!! I appear to be the only one
Darn it i thought i got it earlier.right girl next time im grabbing yours with both hands to make amends lol!!!!!!"
I will look forward to it |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"woody i'm pretty sure i covered the not getting verified issue in detail, 4 friends yes, i don't see this site as facebook where i need 100 friends, i keep my friends list to those i speak too, which probably should be taken down to three since i haven't heard from one couple in a while lol
This most def isn't facebook BUT success for any single guy is 100% about networking, so you have to put the effort in, to get word about that you're a nice guy and worth meeting......and that involves befriending people. This game is all about trust....people ask around about people...so the more people that can say"he's an ok guy" the better the chance of a meet. That's just the way it is.....so the longer you're a member with very few friends or verifs, the less likely you are to be considered seriously......in my view!"
woody never a truer word has been spoken |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"Thanks _azsins for the ponters, truth be told since I haven't had any meets etc, I don't know the ropes, if I was at a meet and greet I wouldn't know where to begin so in all probability I would just find somewhere i'm not in the way until I figure out a few do's and don'ts, which may actually make me look like a perv, may need a new plan actually lol. Can I ask though how you go about finding out about meet and greets, obviously I would like to get to one and as such would need to introduce myself to a few of the hosts, nothing may ever come of it but being civil doesn't take a lot of effort
Go in to chat and keep an eye put fot talk about meets and parties
I always post the social meet open invitations on the forums and when all is ready and close to the finish line.
I post on meets and events
chin up man sounds like your on the right lines to getting there
yes jaz you are the man...and you welcome everyone..of all sexual orientation....which is great! Even if you did grab my bum haha...
He didnt grab mine!! I appear to be the only one
Darn it i thought i got it earlier.right girl next time im grabbing yours with both hands to make amends lol!!!!!!
I will look forward to it "
So do I |
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By *azsinsMan
over a year ago
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"woody i'm pretty sure i covered the not getting verified issue in detail, 4 friends yes, i don't see this site as facebook where i need 100 friends, i keep my friends list to those i speak too, which probably should be taken down to three since i haven't heard from one couple in a while lol
This most def isn't facebook BUT success for any single guy is 100% about networking, so you have to put the effort in, to get word about that you're a nice guy and worth meeting......and that involves befriending people. This game is all about trust....people ask around about people...so the more people that can say"he's an ok guy" the better the chance of a meet. That's just the way it is.....so the longer you're a member with very few friends or verifs, the less likely you are to be considered seriously......in my view!
woody never a truer word has been spoken "
imagine this on a forum 3 single guys in total agreement, all we need is a fourth for the A team di di di -do do do |
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By *aid backMan
over a year ago
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"woody i'm pretty sure i covered the not getting verified issue in detail, 4 friends yes, i don't see this site as facebook where i need 100 friends, i keep my friends list to those i speak too, which probably should be taken down to three since i haven't heard from one couple in a while lol
This most def isn't facebook BUT success for any single guy is 100% about networking, so you have to put the effort in, to get word about that you're a nice guy and worth meeting......and that involves befriending people. This game is all about trust....people ask around about people...so the more people that can say"he's an ok guy" the better the chance of a meet. That's just the way it is.....so the longer you're a member with very few friends or verifs, the less likely you are to be considered seriously......in my view!
woody never a truer word has been spoken
imagine this on a forum 3 single guys in total agreement, all we need is a fourth for the A team di di di -do do do"
i aint gettin on do damn plane fool !! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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thanks woody and jaz, i admit to thinking that maybe it would be better if i wasn't on here, as women are even more of a mystery to me now lol for instance, i had one woman tell me i'm too nice to be on here, i had another give me her kik after she saw a face pic, then she said i looked liked her ex-bf, i ain't heard nothing since, also had a girl say she wanted to meet, i asked when and where, also back to not getting a reply. I can only conclude that i'm doing something wrong, although i admit to having no idea what that maybe. i figure i will hang in a bit longer and then if i'm still able to get random people to ignore i will accept that swinging may not be for me lol |
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