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over a year ago
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Hi all,
Now I'm far from naive and I know that my boobs are hard to ignore and I'm well used to guys looking at them... and I quite enjoy it too.
So I've got this new fella at work reporting into me. He keeps on staring at them, he's that type who probably thinks he's not obvious but he is. I thought sure the lad will get over it (them) at some point, but it's been months now and it's only getting worse. Even to a point that I've noticed others seeing him doing it.
Considering that I'm his boss and I don't want to scare him to death with having an official word with him... what would you do? To be honest, the fact that others know that he's doing it, is making it a bit weird.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
Now I'm far from naive and I know that my boobs are hard to ignore and I'm well used to guys looking at them... and I quite enjoy it too.
So I've got this new fella at work reporting into me. He keeps on staring at them, he's that type who probably thinks he's not obvious but he is. I thought sure the lad will get over it (them) at some point, but it's been months now and it's only getting worse. Even to a point that I've noticed others seeing him doing it.
Considering that I'm his boss and I don't want to scare him to death with having an official word with him... what would you do? To be honest, the fact that others know that he's doing it, is making it a bit weird.
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put him out of his misery and give him a flash lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
Now I'm far from naive and I know that my boobs are hard to ignore and I'm well used to guys looking at them... and I quite enjoy it too.
So I've got this new fella at work reporting into me. He keeps on staring at them, he's that type who probably thinks he's not obvious but he is. I thought sure the lad will get over it (them) at some point, but it's been months now and it's only getting worse. Even to a point that I've noticed others seeing him doing it.
Considering that I'm his boss and I don't want to scare him to death with having an official word with him... what would you do? To be honest, the fact that others know that he's doing it, is making it a bit weird.
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my boss has slapped my bum a few times but i dont mind,im working for him years so i just see it as a laugh |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all,
Now I'm far from naive and I know that my boobs are hard to ignore and I'm well used to guys looking at them... and I quite enjoy it too.
So I've got this new fella at work reporting into me. He keeps on staring at them, he's that type who probably thinks he's not obvious but he is. I thought sure the lad will get over it (them) at some point, but it's been months now and it's only getting worse. Even to a point that I've noticed others seeing him doing it.
Considering that I'm his boss and I don't want to scare him to death with having an official word with him... what would you do? To be honest, the fact that others know that he's doing it, is making it a bit weird.
Sack him and take me on I promise I wont look at them but I might cop the odd feel
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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my boss has slapped my bum a few times but i dont mind,im working for him years so i just see it as a laugh "
my boss slapped my ass recently too. I think he was more shocked than me haha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Isn't it a kind of compliment though? in a naughty sort of way "
yes it is, but to be honest after months of him doing it, even when having serious conversations, it's starting to get a bit on my tits. Pun intended  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I had a HR manager in London who would constantly look at girls chests. I of course felt the need to speak before my brain was in gear and told him I was up here and would appreciate it if he addressed his conversation to me and not my breasts. He was very apologetic and a little embarrassed. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my boss has slapped my bum a few times but i dont mind,im working for him years so i just see it as a laugh
my boss slapped my ass recently too. I think he was more shocked than me haha"
lol,my boss has done it too me a cpl of times now cheeky fecker |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Isn't it a kind of compliment though? in a naughty sort of way
yes it is, but to be honest after months of him doing it, even when having serious conversations, it's starting to get a bit on my tits. Pun intended "
so are u going to say anything to him? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't know classy, I was trying to get ideas on how to approach it. I don't want to make it official and avoid embarrassing him in front of others.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had a HR manager in London who would constantly look at girls chests. I of course felt the need to speak before my brain was in gear and told him I was up here and would appreciate it if he addressed his conversation to me and not my breasts. He was very apologetic and a little embarrassed."
I'd say he was scared you're going to make a complaint! As a HR manager you'd think he'd know better! |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
Now I'm far from naive and I know that my boobs are hard to ignore and I'm well used to guys looking at them... and I quite enjoy it too.
So I've got this new fella at work reporting into me. He keeps on staring at them, he's that type who probably thinks he's not obvious but he is. I thought sure the lad will get over it (them) at some point, but it's been months now and it's only getting worse. Even to a point that I've noticed others seeing him doing it.
Considering that I'm his boss and I don't want to scare him to death with having an official word with him... what would you do? To be honest, the fact that others know that he's doing it, is making it a bit weird.
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What would worry me is you know others have noticed him doing it and you've done nothing......your either a boss or not !!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know classy, I was trying to get ideas on how to approach it. I don't want to make it official and avoid embarrassing him in front of others.
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if it was me id say nothing,but if its really annoying u and affecting yur work id just pull him aside and tell him politely tht him staring at yur breasts is making u feel uncomfortable and wud he stop and give u EYE contact when u both converse! |
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my boss has slapped my bum a few times but i dont mind,im working for him years so i just see it as a laugh
my boss slapped my ass recently too. I think he was more shocked than me haha
lol,my boss has done it too me a cpl of times now cheeky fecker "
To be fair to himyou have a really nice bum. No excuse though ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my boss has slapped my bum a few times but i dont mind,im working for him years so i just see it as a laugh
my boss slapped my ass recently too. I think he was more shocked than me haha
lol,my boss has done it too me a cpl of times now cheeky fecker
To be fair to himyou have a really nice bum. No excuse though ha ha"
thank u
he only does it when im walking up the stairs in front of him |
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my boss has slapped my bum a few times but i dont mind,im working for him years so i just see it as a laugh
my boss slapped my ass recently too. I think he was more shocked than me haha
lol,my boss has done it too me a cpl of times now cheeky fecker
To be fair to himyou have a really nice bum. No excuse though ha ha
thank u
he only does it when im walking up the stairs in front of him "
Are you sure it was his hand?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my boss has slapped my bum a few times but i dont mind,im working for him years so i just see it as a laugh
my boss slapped my ass recently too. I think he was more shocked than me haha
lol,my boss has done it too me a cpl of times now cheeky fecker
To be fair to himyou have a really nice bum. No excuse though ha ha
thank u
he only does it when im walking up the stairs in front of him
Are you sure it was his hand? "
lol,well if it wasnt his hand whatever it was must of been rock hard cos it bloody hurt!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my boss has slapped my bum a few times but i dont mind,im working for him years so i just see it as a laugh
my boss slapped my ass recently too. I think he was more shocked than me haha
lol,my boss has done it too me a cpl of times now cheeky fecker
To be fair to himyou have a really nice bum. No excuse though ha ha
thank u
he only does it when im walking up the stairs in front of him "
omg what a lovely view he would have hhhmmmm |
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Send him an email simply saying "FYI" and with a link to this forum!
Seriously, when you're talking to him, only speak when he makes eye contact. As soon as he looks at your boobs, stop talking, and continue only when he looks at your eyes again. The penny is bound to drop...... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just because he's looking doesn't mean he's enjoying. Some are hard to miss and draw attention. Kinda like my big head. "
are you comparing my fabulous boobage to something like a big mole on a nose??? lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I got some great ideas how to approach it now, so thanks everyone for your feedback.
I saw only yesterday that others notice him looking and I know it's come to a point when I need to address it.
I will start with the subtle approach of stopping to talk until he's looking back into my eyes. |
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over a year ago
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We'll not to drag the fun out of it but u need to have a word with him, like u might feel ok with it but if he did it to another girl and she made a complaint to your boss or head of the company (depending what way your company is set up) and takes your company to court over unwanted sexual attention. I no were I work if someone reported me to my boss and she did nothing then she is liable for any damages that result in a court case against the department,we get these chats once a month at our team meetings, so either my department is afraid of court cases or were full of pervs lol
Or on the lighter note get a badge with "do u want a picture it will last longer" wrote on it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Sweet unfortunately I would be just at eye level it wouldn't be the boobs just a height issue "
haha great excuse!! I think that's the problem... I often walk around and talk to my team... so he sits and I stand next to him, my boobage on eye level.
thing is, he's about 6'3" and he still does it when we stand next to each other lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know classy, I was trying to get ideas on how to approach it. I don't want to make it official and avoid embarrassing him in front of others.
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well he is embarrassing you. Why not embarrass him back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all,
Now I'm far from naive and I know that my boobs are hard to ignore and I'm well used to guys looking at them... and I quite enjoy it too.
So I've got this new fella at work reporting into me. He keeps on staring at them, he's that type who probably thinks he's not obvious but he is. I thought sure the lad will get over it (them) at some point, but it's been months now and it's only getting worse. Even to a point that I've noticed others seeing him doing it.
Considering that I'm his boss and I don't want to scare him to death with having an official word with him... what would you do? To be honest, the fact that others know that he's doing it, is making it a bit weird.
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It's simple. If it's bothering you covered them up |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know classy, I was trying to get ideas on how to approach it. I don't want to make it official and avoid embarrassing him in front of others.
well he is embarrassing you. Why not embarrass him back?"
exactly, start staring at his crotch, though it may only encourage |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It's simple. If it's bothering you covered them up"
Ehm, are you one of them 'it's her own fault when she's dressed that way?' type?
My boobs are all covered up at work, thank you very much. It's not my fault they're very big and unless I wear a big tent of fabric or some sort of balloon as a top, I can't hide them.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I wish I had that problem I do try everything jus to make my small things stand out haha "
you can have some of mine lol
I'm sure they look at your hot ass instead ha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I had that problem I do try everything jus to make my small things stand out haha
you can have some of mine lol
I'm sure they look at your hot ass instead ha"
can i have some too? |
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I just looked at your pics Ash and what are you talking about? You have a fine set of boobs there who I'm sure get some attention.
slinky, because it's you, come have some |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Haha thanks Hun but I hav them well pushed up in them pics nearly at a stage that I can't breath ha"
I don't believe it, you have to proof this to us now ... give us a look |
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"Haha thanks Hun but I hav them well pushed up in them pics nearly at a stage that I can't breath ha
I don't believe it, you have to proof this to us now ... give us a look "
hahaha I could always take a pic of my back it would look the exact same haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't know classy, I was trying to get ideas on how to approach it. I don't want to make it official and avoid embarrassing him in front of others.
well he is embarrassing you. Why not embarrass him back?
exactly, start staring at his crotch, though it may only encourage"
That would be funny especially if he knew she was and he got a boner Infront of her and the whole office |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I just looked at your pics Ash and what are you talking about? You have a fine set of boobs there who I'm sure get some attention.
slinky, because it's you, come have some"
on my way |
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