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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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A few people have said that they wouldn't meet me as I wasn't verified by the right people. I've assumed that this meant by people they've met or other more experienced swingers. Do people actually think like that or is just a polite rejection   |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"A few people have said that they wouldn't meet me as I wasn't verified by the right people. I've assumed that this meant by people they've met or other more experienced swingers. Do people actually think like that or is just a polite rejection "
Did you ask them?
Obviously it couldn't mean more experienced because I've had a look at your verifications and they're well experienced as far as I can see. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"A few people have said that they wouldn't meet me as I wasn't verified by the right people. I've assumed that this meant by people they've met or other more experienced swingers. Do people actually think like that or is just a polite rejection
Did you ask them?
Obviously it couldn't mean more experienced because I've had a look at your verifications and they're well experienced as far as I can see. "
Yeah I did ask, one said I hadn't met anyone they knew, the other 2 ignored my question. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Move on I'd say, especially those that haven't the manners to reply. Sometimes people use those excuses when they realise they have to travel too. Plenty more men here that would be more than willing to meet you! |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"A few people have said that they wouldn't meet me as I wasn't verified by the right people. I've assumed that this meant by people they've met or other more experienced swingers. Do people actually think like that or is just a polite rejection
Did you ask them?
Obviously it couldn't mean more experienced because I've had a look at your verifications and they're well experienced as far as I can see.
Yeah I did ask, one said I hadn't met anyone they knew, the other 2 ignored my question. "
But surely that's the objective to meet with new people. Did you ask them?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few people have said that they wouldn't meet me as I wasn't verified by the right people. I've assumed that this meant by people they've met or other more experienced swingers. Do people actually think like that or is just a polite rejection "
Right people?
And they say there are no cliques..........
Block the twits, breathe a sigh of relief you didn't meet and move on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was it couples who said that? Perhaps they might say that as your verifications are all single men? Just guessing."
she's a single woman not a couple!!
that doesn't make sense.... |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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As always people have choices but in fairness i never thought i see a thread like this from a single fem this site never ceases to amaze me cpls complaining they cant get single fems, and here hot cant get cpls
i am sure there plenty that would meet u but thanks for balancing things up block them and continue ur quest there will be loads on sat night that would gladly meet u  |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"It was 3 single men.
I'm not quite sure why I've been called ridiculous for asking a question. I was only asking advice. "
i think it was their lame excuse that was refered rather than u |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was it couples who said that? Perhaps they might say that as your verifications are all single men? Just guessing.
she's a single woman not a couple!!
that doesn't make sense.... "
My point being.. she is a single girl verified by only men in the past. If these comments were from couples then they might be worried about her not having met couples before.
However it has since been clarified that these comments were made by single males which makes them kinda mind boggling. I'm guessing they lost their bottle. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was it couples who said that? Perhaps they might say that as your verifications are all single men? Just guessing.
she's a single woman not a couple!!
that doesn't make sense....
My point being.. she is a single girl verified by only men in the past. If these comments were from couples then they might be worried about her not having met couples before.
However it has since been clarified that these comments were made by single males which makes them kinda mind boggling. I'm guessing they lost their bottle. "
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Was it couples who said that? Perhaps they might say that as your verifications are all single men? Just guessing.
she's a single woman not a couple!!
that doesn't make sense....
My point being.. she is a single girl verified by only men in the past. If these comments were from couples then they might be worried about her not having met couples before.
However it has since been clarified that these comments were made by single males which makes them kinda mind boggling. I'm guessing they lost their bottle. "
The mind does boggle. Its very easy to trace verifications. Not even a case of 6 degrees of seperation more like 3 on here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So let me get this straight, a single woman was turned down by a man? *looks at profile* Well, I'm outside your age range but are they blind? I thought it was usually the other way around 
As mentioned, don't worry about them - most defintly thier loss.
*goes off to find a DeLorean*  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So let me get this straight, a single woman was turned down by a man? *looks at profile* Well, I'm outside your age range but are they blind? I thought it was usually the other way around
As mentioned, don't worry about them - most defintly thier loss.
*goes off to find a DeLorean* "
maybe the worm is turning |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"So let me get this straight, a single woman was turned down by a man? *looks at profile* Well, I'm outside your age range but are they blind? I thought it was usually the other way around
As mentioned, don't worry about them - most defintly thier loss.
*goes off to find a DeLorean* "
I have noted a preferred age range but haven't filtered my mail.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few people have said that they wouldn't meet me as I wasn't verified by the right people. I've assumed that this meant by people they've met or other more experienced swingers. Do people actually think like that or is just a polite rejection
Right people?
And they say there are no cliques..........
Block the twits, breathe a sigh of relief you didn't meet and move on"
If there's cliques(seems there is) it's their loss...doubtful ur short of offers...Nippy right block em n move on  |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"A few people have said that they wouldn't meet me as I wasn't verified by the right people. I've assumed that this meant by people they've met or other more experienced swingers. Do people actually think like that or is just a polite rejection "
Feck them....I reckon it's just a form of power for them , a one upmanship .
I'll certainly volunteer to step in |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im just guesding here but maybe after they did read profile and saw who had verified you they did think you would be a good match for them or maybe they have read the vers and saw the standard of men and who they had met in the past and didnt think much of they guys standards. so prob judged u off the people u have met not on you yourself. just playing devils advocate so lads dont attack me. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"im just guesding here but maybe after they did read profile and saw who had verified you they did think you would be a good match for them or maybe they have read the vers and saw the standard of men and who they had met in the past and didnt think much of they guys standards. so prob judged u off the people u have met not on you yourself. just playing devils advocate so lads dont attack me. "
Ha!!!! You're so wise I should have known you'd have something interesting to say here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im just guesding here but maybe after they did read profile and saw who had verified you they did think you would be a good match for them or maybe they have read the vers and saw the standard of men and who they had met in the past and didnt think much of they guys standards. so prob judged u off the people u have met not on you yourself. just playing devils advocate so lads dont attack me.
So your saying the guys op has been verified by have no standards???  "
Or too high a standard |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"im just guesding here but maybe after they did read profile and saw who had verified you they did think you would be a good match for them or maybe they have read the vers and saw the standard of men and who they had met in the past and didnt think much of they guys standards. so prob judged u off the people u have met not on you yourself. just playing devils advocate so lads dont attack me.
So your saying the guys op has been verified by have no standards???
Or too high a standard"
He says 'didn't think much of the guys standards'... How is that too high? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"im just guesding here but maybe after they did read profile and saw who had verified you they did think you would be a good match for them or maybe they have read the vers and saw the standard of men and who they had met in the past and didnt think much of they guys standards. so prob judged u off the people u have met not on you yourself. just playing devils advocate so lads dont attack me.
So your saying the guys op has been verified by have no standards???
Or too high a standard
He says 'didn't think much of the guys standards'... How is that too high? "
Oops that's my bad, thats what I get for reading it abd replying when half asleep |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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id say its more like what some1 likes on here is not what some1 else would like its not about standards its more about preferance of taste. but i am happy to say h&h is def on my hitlist if i can get her |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"im just guesding here but maybe after they did read profile and saw who had verified you they did think you would be a good match for them or maybe they have read the vers and saw the standard of men and who they had met in the past and didnt think much of they guys standards. so prob judged u off the people u have met not on you yourself. just playing devils advocate so lads dont attack me.
So your saying the guys op has been verified by have no standards???
Or too high a standard
He says 'didn't think much of the guys standards'... How is that too high?
Oops that's my bad, thats what I get for reading it abd replying when half asleep "
No problem. I was wondering was I reading the comment correctly or not myself(not yours)... |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"id say its more like what some1 likes on here is not what some1 else would like its not about standards its more about preferance of taste. but i am happy to say h&h is def on my hitlist if i can get her "
So just wrong choice of words.... Ah ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol hot n horny is most defintely who she says she is. And as well as been damn sexy. She is a very nice person and great to chat to. It's only work stopping me meeting it will happen xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it's basically some guys are scared off when someone actually says yes. The verification thing is puzzling tho. Surely a verification is there to say yes this person is genuine shows up. By the look of hnhs it shows she lives up to her name and is genuine. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"A few people have said that they wouldn't meet me as I wasn't verified by the right people. I've assumed that this meant by people they've met or other more experienced swingers. Do people actually think like that or is just a polite rejection "
and who are the rite ppl?never heard tht being said b4 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to say that's a first and I never heard of it before.
Maybe it's because your last meet is quite large if you know what I mean and they think they can't match that? |
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