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By *j47 OP Man
over a year ago
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This came to mind from reading another thread of a Cpl looking for another Cpl or Cpl's to meet on two dates in the future and in a general area it seems like after a week they are still looking so what i am wondering is do cpls find it hard to get meets i know we all have preferences but iis it that hard to get meets  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think once youre well verified it is easy enough to get chatting to other couples as they know you arent messers.
Mutual attraction and common likes when four people are involved is a different story though, hard to get it right, but when it is its simply fab!  |
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By *j47 OP Man
over a year ago
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"I think once youre well verified it is easy enough to get chatting to other couples as they know you arent messers.
Mutual attraction and common likes when four people are involved is a different story though, hard to get it right, but when it is its simply fab! "
its great when u click with a Cpl as u say but is it alot harder like if ur were in dub for the weekend in other words traveling out side ur area |
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over a year ago
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"I think once youre well verified it is easy enough to get chatting to other couples as they know you arent messers.
Mutual attraction and common likes when four people are involved is a different story though, hard to get it right, but when it is its simply fab! "
Many couples on here and I think they get lots of meets. I imagine there are more fake couple profiles than anything else but not sure what can be deducted from this.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think once youre well verified it is easy enough to get chatting to other couples as they know you arent messers.
Mutual attraction and common likes when four people are involved is a different story though, hard to get it right, but when it is its simply fab!
Many couples on here and I think they get lots of meets. I imagine there are more fake couple profiles than anything else but not sure what can be deducted from this. "
We recently stopped chatting to unverified couples as for the most part they turned out either to be single guys.. or just messers. It was a real headwrecker so we just dont go there anymore.
In saying that every couple has to start somewhere and loads of genuine unverified couples out there im sure |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"True loads of unverified that's where the fourms,chat and meets and greets are good for even the secret social was a great way to get verified "
so true yoda!  |
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By *j47 OP Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"True loads of unverified that's where the fourms,chat and meets and greets are good for even the secret social was a great way to get verified
so true yoda! "
getting a complex about this yoda fella here |
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"True loads of unverified that's where the fourms,chat and meets and greets are good for even the secret social was a great way to get verified
so true yoda!
getting a complex about this yoda fella here "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Due to our situation (see profile) we're not in a position to meet at the drop of a hat any night of the week, so our meets are planned well in advance, we do a lot of chatting back and forth on various platforms (kik etc) while waiting for our schedules to sync.
Before Christmas it was slow going, and it was almost becoming work to find people, I was getting frustrated, along with the fact that Cork seemed to be quiet at the time (Ms slut is down to me more than i'm up to her)
The meet and greet in Cork helped somewhat, and we went with only a networking purpose in mind rather than playing and we hit it off with a few people, who are on our to-do list, so we really dont have to message too many complete strangers here for a while. Ironically, the people we're hoping to meet the most are from up the Dublin direction so we'll be concentrating up there for the next while.
Meets are starting to fall into place and we couldnt be happier with the pace right now. We were forced to play the long game and it worked in our favour....patience is the key. |
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"Due to our situation (see profile) we're not in a position to meet at the drop of a hat any night of the week, so our meets are planned well in advance, we do a lot of chatting back and forth on various platforms (kik etc) while waiting for our schedules to sync.
Before Christmas it was slow going, and it was almost becoming work to find people, I was getting frustrated, along with the fact that Cork seemed to be quiet at the time (Ms slut is down to me more than i'm up to her)
The meet and greet in Cork helped somewhat, and we went with only a networking purpose in mind rather than playing and we hit it off with a few people, who are on our to-do list, so we really dont have to message too many complete strangers here for a while. Ironically, the people we're hoping to meet the most are from up the Dublin direction so we'll be concentrating up there for the next while.
Meets are starting to fall into place and we couldnt be happier with the pace right now. We were forced to play the long game and it worked in our favour....patience is the key."
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By *j47 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Due to our situation (see profile) we're not in a position to meet at the drop of a hat any night of the week, so our meets are planned well in advance, we do a lot of chatting back and forth on various platforms (kik etc) while waiting for our schedules to sync.
Before Christmas it was slow going, and it was almost becoming work to find people, I was getting frustrated, along with the fact that Cork seemed to be quiet at the time (Ms slut is down to me more than i'm up to her)
The meet and greet in Cork helped somewhat, and we went with only a networking purpose in mind rather than playing and we hit it off with a few people, who are on our to-do list, so we really dont have to message too many complete strangers here for a while. Ironically, the people we're hoping to meet the most are from up the Dublin direction so we'll be concentrating up there for the next while.
Meets are starting to fall into place and we couldnt be happier with the pace right now. We were forced to play the long game and it worked in our favour....patience is the key."
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By (user no longer on site)
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In my experience any mail gotten from couples consists of the least amount of words they can muster, I dont know why that is, maybe they think cos they are a couple they dont need to make as much effort. I gave up on the idea of meeting a couple as communication seems to be a real problem. |
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By *j47 OP Man
over a year ago
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"In my experience any mail gotten from couples consists of the least amount of words they can muster, I dont know why that is, maybe they think cos they are a couple they dont need to make as much effort. I gave up on the idea of meeting a couple as communication seems to be a real problem."
this what i am thinking we hear the males sending a "hi" or "fancy a fuck i am in ur area" do cpls make more or less of an attempt u would think they would considering there is two of them influenced by the female perspective or am i wrong |
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"Due to our situation (see profile) we're not in a position to meet at the drop of a hat any night of the week, so our meets are planned well in advance, we do a lot of chatting back and forth on various platforms (kik etc) while waiting for our schedules to sync.
Before Christmas it was slow going, and it was almost becoming work to find people, I was getting frustrated, along with the fact that Cork seemed to be quiet at the time (Ms slut is down to me more than i'm up to her)
The meet and greet in Cork helped somewhat, and we went with only a networking purpose in mind rather than playing and we hit it off with a few people, who are on our to-do list, so we really dont have to message too many complete strangers here for a while. Ironically, the people we're hoping to meet the most are from up the Dublin direction so we'll be concentrating up there for the next while.
Meets are starting to fall into place and we couldnt be happier with the pace right now. We were forced to play the long game and it worked in our favour....patience is the key. "
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We found it hard in the beginning but after attending meet and greets and parties it's all fallen into place nicely. We have built a network of close friends and playmates and just love this site.   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes thats true all four have to click and have an attraction...thats the worst about it as its hard to find a couple where we are all attracted to each other!! |
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"Yes thats true all four have to click and have an attraction...thats the worst about it as its hard to find a couple where we are all attracted to each other!!"
So true!
Don't you just find that 'sorry, this isn't going to work' chat excruciating? |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes thats true all four have to click and have an attraction...thats the worst about it as its hard to find a couple where we are all attracted to each other!!
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I think every cpl can identify with that....one of the reasons we enjoy partys as we don't always play as a cpl |
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By *j47 OP Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"Yes thats true all four have to click and have an attraction...thats the worst about it as its hard to find a couple where we are all attracted to each other!!
I think every cpl can identify with that....one of the reasons we enjoy partys as we don't always play as a cpl"
damm and i missed that party  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes thats true all four have to click and have an attraction...thats the worst about it as its hard to find a couple where we are all attracted to each other!!"
or having one fussy partner ... I hold my hand up .. its me the fem  ... taking one for the team isn't somethin I want to do ... we are finding it hard to even arrange a mmf ..was much easier as a single fem .. but there are alot more pluses to being a cpl on here .. if a meet doesnt show up we got each other haha |
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By *iktikiCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes thats true all four have to click and have an attraction...thats the worst about it as its hard to find a couple where we are all attracted to each other!!
So true!
Don't you just find that 'sorry, this isn't going to work' chat excruciating? "
yes its a tuf one to send but better to be upfront than fudging around then everyone can move on |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Yes thats true all four have to click and have an attraction...thats the worst about it as its hard to find a couple where we are all attracted to each other!!
I think every cpl can identify with that....one of the reasons we enjoy partys as we don't always play as a cpl
damm and i missed that party "
Yes you did pity it was a good one lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Happened once where a couple came round and i had to get up half way and make my excuses...the guy was really creepy...i felt so bad...wont make that mistake again lol... |
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"Happened once where a couple came round and i had to get up half way and make my excuses...the guy was really creepy...i felt so bad...wont make that mistake again lol... "
Same....face pics are nothing to go by either!! If there's no chemistry forget it!!! I think its very hard for us both to agree on a couple...that is why parties suit us best |
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