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Asking ur partner wife husband to join swinging
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Hi all just had a conversation last nite with hubby about when we started talking about joining swinging as I brought it up to join hehe my question is
have any of the married women r married men r people that are in relationships that are on here on their own ever brought the subject up about their partners joining them
And for couples was it the male r female that first spoke about doing swinging
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"I was on here before while in a relationship.
I'd never share someone I love. "
We were talking about it last nite as a couple together since we were teenagers and never strayed this works for us but just wondering how others brought the subject up
Fair play to u saying u would never share someone you love  |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
I brought it up in 2 long term relationships.1st we were very young and it happened naturally.she fucked cpl guys and swingin was next step
I brought it up 2nd time again, she knew I did it before so it was always there
She knew I HAD to share the woman I loved.luckily she loved it too |
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"I was on here before while in a relationship.
I'd never share someone I love.
We were talking about it last nite as a couple together since we were teenagers and never strayed this works for us but just wondering how others brought the subject up
Fair play to u saying u would never share someone you love "
My partner was the first person I ever even thought about swinging with, we came across doggers accidentally one night and the curiosity grew from there, looked online , found a few sites then someone told us about fab and been here ever since! There have been a few teething problems but it was very much a joint thing with us, wouldn't have it any other way now, and the good thing is ,when we need a break , we can communicate well enough and respect each other enough to take a break together.  |
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"I was on here before while in a relationship.
I'd never share someone I love.
We were talking about it last nite as a couple together since we were teenagers and never strayed this works for us but just wondering how others brought the subject up
Fair play to u saying u would never share someone you love
My partner was the first person I ever even thought about swinging with, we came across doggers accidentally one night and the curiosity grew from there, looked online , found a few sites then someone told us about fab and been here ever since! There have been a few teething problems but it was very much a joint thing with us, wouldn't have it any other way now, and the good thing is ,when we need a break , we can communicate well enough and respect each other enough to take a break together. "
It has to be a joint thing if one of us is not happy we know not to pressure the other ever into doing anything that's where problems would start
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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we met at a meet&greet so we knew we both were into it , we just had to work out what was best for us as a cpl, which didnt take long as we only do things together and comunicate. as regards not sharing the person u love , dont think we would be as happy swinging as a cpl if we didnt love one another as there is a huge difference between sex and love .!!!!!! |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"we met at a meet&greet so we knew we both were into it , we just had to work out what was best for us as a cpl, which didnt take long as we only do things together and comunicate. as regards not sharing the person u love , dont think we would be as happy swinging as a cpl if we didnt love one another as there is a huge difference between sex and love .!!!!!!"
Exactly this.while I jave mwt lots of cpls n singles with fbuddies there is no comparison to wen u swing with person u love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Must be a serious thrill/adrenaline rush watching the person you love ... performing with another person
For me nothing else comes close to it.which is sad cos im single"
Are you willing to share every woman you love? |
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By *al2001Man
over a year ago
kildare |
"Must be a serious thrill/adrenaline rush watching the person you love ... performing with another person
For me nothing else comes close to it.which is sad cos im single
Are you willing to share every woman you love?"
Im a cuckold born n bred dtg.kinda goes with the territory.I cudnt imagine not sharing the woman I love |
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"we met at a meet&greet so we knew we both were into it , we just had to work out what was best for us as a cpl, which didnt take long as we only do things together and comunicate. as regards not sharing the person u love , dont think we would be as happy swinging as a cpl if we didnt love one another as there is a huge difference between sex and love .!!!!!!
Exactly this.while I jave mwt lots of cpls n singles with fbuddies there is no comparison to wen u swing with person u love"
Sex is sex totally agree NSA big difference between sex and love
It's such a high when you see ur hubby enjoying himself and vice versa .
I think it's lovely when singles meet on a site and become a couple you know exactly what u are on here for and if u meet a partner even better |
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I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
We had lots of conversations about having sex with random ppl it was our fantasy for years...it's was hubby who looked up the sites for us to join I must say I was a bit scared it would change our relationship but we said we would try it and if either one was not happy we would never do it again....that was three years ago |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
around |
"Must be a serious thrill/adrenaline rush watching the person you love ... performing with another person
For me nothing else comes close to it.which is sad cos im single
Are you willing to share every woman you love?
Im a cuckold born n bred dtg.kinda goes with the territory.I cudnt imagine not sharing the woman I love"
What would you do if you fell for a woman that wasn't interested in it? |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
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this is my situation also she has dabbled being on site went to a M&G but its not for her and i respect that as she does mine
there is a big difference between love and sex its learning to distinguish between them that can be hard for some
as for sharing my wife i think it would be more of i want to see her explore her sexual side be adventurous and enjoy her self while i take pleasure in her pleasure but alas we all have our preferences and i respect hers
does that make any sense ??? |
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"I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
this is my situation also she has dabbled being on site went to a M&G but its not for her and i respect that as she does mine
there is a big difference between love and sex its learning to distinguish between them that can be hard for some
as for sharing my wife i think it would be more of i want to see her explore her sexual side be adventurous and enjoy her self while i take pleasure in her pleasure but alas we all have our preferences and i respect hers
does that make any sense ???"
Total sense |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
this is my situation also she has dabbled being on site went to a M&G but its not for her and i respect that as she does mine
there is a big difference between love and sex its learning to distinguish between them that can be hard for some
as for sharing my wife i think it would be more of i want to see her explore her sexual side be adventurous and enjoy her self while i take pleasure in her pleasure but alas we all have our preferences and i respect hers
does that make any sense ???"
Yip it sure dose ....yoda |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I was on here before while in a relationship.
I'd never share someone I love. "
I don't know what but something about this statement seems (hypocritical?) odd for a swingers site. |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
limerick |
"I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
this is my situation also she has dabbled being on site went to a M&G but its not for her and i respect that as she does mine
there is a big difference between love and sex its learning to distinguish between them that can be hard for some
as for sharing my wife i think it would be more of i want to see her explore her sexual side be adventurous and enjoy her self while i take pleasure in her pleasure but alas we all have our preferences and i respect hers
does that make any sense ???
Yip it sure dose ....yoda"
ur going to have to give me more than yoda i haven't a clue what yoda means  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ive asked...its a no go area...!!!
The answer??? is no
I was confused. I thought you meant he wouldn't discuss.  "
he wouldnt either.it was absolutely no and end of discussion  |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Ive asked...its a no go area...!!!
The answer??? is no
I was confused. I thought you meant he wouldn't discuss. he wouldnt either.it was absolutely no and end of discussion "
Hmmmm .....
Well his prerogative |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
this is my situation also she has dabbled being on site went to a M&G but its not for her and i respect that as she does mine
there is a big difference between love and sex its learning to distinguish between them that can be hard for some
as for sharing my wife i think it would be more of i want to see her explore her sexual side be adventurous and enjoy her self while i take pleasure in her pleasure but alas we all have our preferences and i respect hers
does that make any sense ???
Yip it sure dose ....yoda
ur going to have to give me more than yoda i haven't a clue what yoda means "
Wise one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ive asked...its a no go area...!!!
The answer??? is no
I was confused. I thought you meant he wouldn't discuss. he wouldnt either.it was absolutely no and end of discussion
Hmmmm .....
Well his prerogative "
indeed....i,however,like it....!! different strokes for different folks |
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"Ive asked...its a no go area...!!!
The answer??? is no
I was confused. I thought you meant he wouldn't discuss. he wouldnt either.it was absolutely no and end of discussion
Hmmmm .....
Well his prerogative indeed....i,however,like it....!! different strokes for different folks "
I use the same stroke on them all.  |
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"I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
this is my situation also she has dabbled being on site went to a M&G but its not for her and i respect that as she does mine
there is a big difference between love and sex its learning to distinguish between them that can be hard for some
as for sharing my wife i think it would be more of i want to see her explore her sexual side be adventurous and enjoy her self while i take pleasure in her pleasure but alas we all have our preferences and i respect hers
does that make any sense ???"
total sense, and great that you could talk to her about it at all, now that is love |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It was my husband who first brought up swinging to me and asked me to consider swinging I was so naive back then I had to ask him what it was lol "
awww.. |
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"It was my husband who first brought up swinging to me and asked me to consider swinging I was so naive back then I had to ask him what it was lol "
And now 110 meets later !! - suggests a duck to water. |
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"It was my husband who first brought up swinging to me and asked me to consider swinging I was so naive back then I had to ask him what it was lol
And now 110 meets later !! - suggests a duck to water."
Ha ha yes I kind of liked it alright lol that's 7 years ago now but I will be honest when I realised what he wanted us to do at first I was horrified and it was picture and no sound for about 2 weeks lol but curiosity got the better of me and as the song says I kissed a girl and I liked it !! |
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"I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
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The complexity and dynamics of relationships is amazing. I was not aware there is so much accepted playing away in irish relationships. Do people not get jealous ?
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i had heard about swinging but it didnt peak my interest, not until i met my fella, he was the one that asked me if i was interested in learning and explorring a different lifestyle, he had been swinging with his ex. i wasnt sure at the time but eventually i gave it ago and im still learning more, he likes to share me only if he's either to watch/join im slowly gettin use to sharing him its difficult tho cause of how much i love him, but im gettin there :D, its a naughty fun filled adventure for us |
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I've asked my long term partner to join in with my adventures here before. He has no interest whatsoever sadly.
He knows I'm on site, I don't flaunt it in his face, it's my "hobby"
I respect his decision not to swing and he respects mine to swing. (When I'm active)
The complexity and dynamics of relationships is amazing. I was not aware there is so much accepted playing away in irish relationships. Do people not get jealous ?
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its being happening for years him in no 10 is calling to her in no 3 just swept under the carpet so to speak now its more prominent due to sites like this |
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"i had heard about swinging but it didnt peak my interest, not until i met my fella, he was the one that asked me if i was interested in learning and explorring a different lifestyle, he had been swinging with his ex. i wasnt sure at the time but eventually i gave it ago and im still learning more, he likes to share me only if he's either to watch/join im slowly gettin use to sharing him its difficult tho cause of how much i love him, but im gettin there :D, its a naughty fun filled adventure for us"
A modern day love story, I like. |
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i (mrs slo) seen a video on dogging and liked the thought off it so we talked we have both only ever been with each other. Hubby said he doesn't want me to live my life and think i wish i had tried that, so we decided to dip our toes in and we loved it and have made the greatest friends and had the horniest most wonderful experiences ever  |
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