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any singles goin to the venue the 22nd?
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over a year ago
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Hi, guys and girls first time posting here so not sure how it works. Just wondering is there any single guys or girls heading to the Venue on the 22nd ? I really want to go but nervous goin as a single girl.  |
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"Hi, guys and girls first time posting here so not sure how it works. Just wondering is there any single guys or girls heading to the Venue on the 22nd ? I really want to go but nervous goin as a single girl. "
Give it 5 mins and your mail box will be flooded with offers to be escorted there and back safely, and all things in between |
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over a year ago
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"My first time goin aswel I'm nervous 2 ha if u want I could meet u at the bar in the hotel and hav a drink first? "
yea sounds great do u want to message me and we can arrange it? Thanks babedelicious  |
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"My first time goin aswel I'm nervous 2 ha if u want I could meet u at the bar in the hotel and hav a drink first? yea sounds great do u want to message me and we can arrange it? Thanks babedelicious "
ye no prob Hun I'll send u on one now |
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Ladies, its normal to feel apprehensive before a social, even the ones who have been before feel it, I include myself, couples too fell it. Your not alone.
Its always good to meet for a drink first and it helps to arrive in tandem, but my advise is to get there early, its easier to arrive when its empty than it is when its full. When its empty everyone else comes to you to say hello, when its full its harder to mingle. Remember its a social, there is no expectation for play, so set up your ducks and meet someone either male or female first if you can and arrive together. Even after 5/6 socials I still get the butterflies, but the butterflies add to the excitement for me. |
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"Ladies, its normal to feel apprehensive before a social, even the ones who have been before feel it, I include myself, couples too fell it. Your not alone.
Its always good to meet for a drink first and it helps to arrive in tandem, but my advise is to get there early, its easier to arrive when its empty than it is when its full. When its empty everyone else comes to you to say hello, when its full its harder to mingle. Remember its a social, there is no expectation for play, so set up your ducks and meet someone either male or female first if you can and arrive together. Even after 5/6 socials I still get the butterflies, but the butterflies add to the excitement for me."
sounds like great advise  think im just gonna grab the bull by the horns and go thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
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i was on my own for the last party at the gathering,,it was my first but in all honesty you meet so many people andsome will be in the same boat,,a simple hello willget the ball rolling and conversation kicks in,,everyone there knows the story so nothing to be coy or embarrased about,,playing upstairs will be a natural thing if it happens but the music and craic downstairs is also a bit of laugh |
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We went to there last party nervous as fuk we where we didin no wat to expect at all from the hotel to the venue we where put at ease straight away everybody was all chatty and haven the craic up dancing the hole night music stopped around 2am as far as i remeber we left at 5am with a massive smile on our faces after being upstairs the party never stopped when we got back to the hotel either 11.30am sunday we stopped and checked out at 12pm lol lol but honest its a nice vibe nice crowd an good tunes only kinda thing that sucked was the price of beer but hey fuk it it was a great night enjoy your self |
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"Hi, guys and girls first time posting here so not sure how it works. Just wondering is there any single guys or girls heading to the Venue on the 22nd ? I really want to go but nervous goin as a single girl. "
the venue is brillant great craic, everyone is very friendly we attend every time you have no need to be nervous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think only selected single males are aloud go "
Yes, very select
Seriously though, if you get the chance to go, do it. It's always great fun and don't for a second be shy about going alone, you will be put at ease the minute you go in the door (and come say hi if you see me at the bar |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Think only selected single males are aloud go
Yes, very select
Seriously though, if you get the chance to go, do it. It's always great fun and don't for a second be shy about going alone, you will be put at ease the minute you go in the door (and come say hi if you see me at the bar "
that will be hard seems you dont have a pic up ha thanks everyone for your great help |
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I'll be attending as well. this will be my second time there but first time attending on my own. The last time I was there, everyone one seems very friendly and chatty. As a single girl attending on your own, you won't run short of people to keep you company in the venue.
The good ol nerves will all be there at first but that will eventually wear off |
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Our first time (last time) at the venue was absolute fabulous, no pressure at all, really nice people and the mood was really good, we didnt know what to expect but nerves was settled pretty early with introductions, good atmosphere and an excellent night that we still rave about, we will see you all again on the 22nd.... Ps, have you contact the organisers to put your name down if places still available. |
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I came alone for the first time at the jan one. Met a lovely couple in the hotel before, there were a few familiar faces in the bar there too. Calmed my nerves and helped me on arrival. Personally Im not great when people come up to me to start convo, find its a bit of pressure so like to arrive when its in full swing and you can blend in a lil! Prefer to mingle with some familiar faces and approach people myself.  |
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"I came alone for the first time at the jan one. Met a lovely couple in the hotel before, there were a few familiar faces in the bar there too. Calmed my nerves and helped me on arrival. Personally Im not great when people come up to me to start convo, find its a bit of pressure so like to arrive when its in full swing and you can blend in a lil! Prefer to mingle with some familiar faces and approach people myself. "
yep same as me at the last venue night |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Or search joandwex that's there profile "
Was there not a fab member called Ginger who used to organise parties at the venue too? Or was that ages and ages ago? |
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im dying to experience it see wat its like. Carlow is a bit away just for a club
