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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So noticing a few posts of late that a few ladies had bad experiences with meets ( let to believe one spent time in hospital ).
So I think having a fab member ( fab friend ) should be aware of any new meets and be able to be in contact with there fab friend during the meet..
For example.. A quick phone call 10 mins into the meet to ensure that there feeling comfortable ect.. Maybe provide a reason for there exit..
I know everyone isn't known to be on here so it would be great to have a fab friend to know where they are ect..
Thoughts?? |
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"So noticing a few posts of late that a few ladies had bad experiences with meets ( let to believe one spent time in hospital ).
So I think having a fab member ( fab friend ) should be aware of any new meets and be able to be in contact with there fab friend during the meet..
For example.. A quick phone call 10 mins into the meet to ensure that there feeling comfortable ect.. Maybe provide a reason for there exit..
I know everyone isn't known to be on here so it would be great to have a fab friend to know where they are ect..
Thoughts?? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can I just say, this shouldn't be just about the ladies
I have heard of men meeting women to only have been conned and beaten up and robbed
Guys need to also think of their safety |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I tell my hubby everything when I have a meet and he normally texts me about 15 minutes in to see how it is going. I feel safer this way. I think is a great idea to set up a safe network on here so someone will always know when and when and with whom you are meeting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Great Thread we joked a while back about being a member of the Grouphug Brigade and we'd all watch for each other... but having some sort of network having maybe 2/3 people on standby if things went pear shaped etc.... |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"Can I just say, this shouldn't be just about the ladies
I have heard of men meeting women to only have been conned and beaten up and robbed
Guys need to also think of their safety"
Well said that nipple |
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Personal opinion; if you're actually in serious danger though, it probably doesn't matter how many people you have lined up to call, as you're most likely not going to get a chance to use a phone. The "phone a friend " option only works if you get stuck with someone you don't like, as opposed to someone who wants to hurt you. Maybe I'm wrong though?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personal opinion; if you're actually in serious danger though, it probably doesn't matter how many people you have lined up to call, as you're most likely not going to get a chance to use a phone. The "phone a friend " option only works if you get stuck with someone you don't like, as opposed to someone who wants to hurt you. Maybe I'm wrong though? "
Kinda, if something was to go wrong though at least someone else would know where to start rallying the forces |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personal opinion; if you're actually in serious danger though, it probably doesn't matter how many people you have lined up to call, as you're most likely not going to get a chance to use a phone. The "phone a friend " option only works if you get stuck with someone you don't like, as opposed to someone who wants to hurt you. Maybe I'm wrong though? "
The Friend would ring you and if you let's say didn't answer the second time then alarm bells... Other Side to argument is you could be "busy" when phone is ringing but ..Safety Is Paramount |
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"Personal opinion; if you're actually in serious danger though, it probably doesn't matter how many people you have lined up to call, as you're most likely not going to get a chance to use a phone. The "phone a friend " option only works if you get stuck with someone you don't like, as opposed to someone who wants to hurt you. Maybe I'm wrong though?
Kinda, if something was to go wrong though at least someone else would know where to start rallying the forces"
Yes, you're right in that at least someone knows where to start looking, but that might be scant consolation if some guy has already beaten the lard out of you. |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"Personal opinion; if you're actually in serious danger though, it probably doesn't matter how many people you have lined up to call, as you're most likely not going to get a chance to use a phone. The "phone a friend " option only works if you get stuck with someone you don't like, as opposed to someone who wants to hurt you. Maybe I'm wrong though? "
It's the friends bit your concerned about Mick....just phone an imaginary one , no one will think less of you buddy  |
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"Personal opinion; if you're actually in serious danger though, it probably doesn't matter how many people you have lined up to call, as you're most likely not going to get a chance to use a phone. The "phone a friend " option only works if you get stuck with someone you don't like, as opposed to someone who wants to hurt you. Maybe I'm wrong though?
The Friend would ring you and if you let's say didn't answer the second time then alarm bells... Other Side to argument is you could be "busy" when phone is ringing but ..Safety Is Paramount"
Yes, in theory the friend calling you would work, but in reality I'm not so sure. |
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"Personal opinion; if you're actually in serious danger though, it probably doesn't matter how many people you have lined up to call, as you're most likely not going to get a chance to use a phone. The "phone a friend " option only works if you get stuck with someone you don't like, as opposed to someone who wants to hurt you. Maybe I'm wrong though?
It's the friends bit your concerned about Mick....just phone an imaginary one , no one will think less of you buddy "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I tell my hubby everything when I have a meet and he normally texts me about 15 minutes in to see how it is going. I feel safer this way. I think is a great idea to set up a safe network on here so someone will always know when and when and with whom you are meeting."
thats awesome.im so jealous...   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"As soon as u meet ur meet send pic of car reg to ur fab friend.and maje sure guy sees u do it"
That's the sort of things I am thinking about, you need to ensure that they also know your safe.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In reality though if God forbid anything was to happen it would be 999 I would be calling not my friend. As long as it connects, police will be at your location soon after especially if you don't answer on ring back. ( Having experienced this whilst babysitting and the wee tyke had got her hands on my phone) |
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Everyone safety is vital !!!! Goes for men and women!!!! Ringing a fab friend who might not be in your location might not be the right answer but gives a little reassurance. .
I think like sofia said I would be dialing 999.
Meeting socially first is the best answer.
But then even after s social meet are u still safe. I actually know that is still not the answer. .its very hard |
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By *ohnsmithMan
over a year ago
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"So noticing a few posts of late that a few ladies had bad experiences with meets ( let to believe one spent time in hospital ).
So I think having a fab member ( fab friend ) should be aware of any new meets and be able to be in contact with there fab friend during the meet..
For example.. A quick phone call 10 mins into the meet to ensure that there feeling comfortable ect.. Maybe provide a reason for there exit..
I know everyone isn't known to be on here so it would be great to have a fab friend to know where they are ect..
Thoughts?? "
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