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Common Occurance

By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

What saddens me more is when people meet someone from the site & become (somewhat) trapped/owned/tagged to the extent that they can't chat/reply or even acknowledge friends they've met before from here.

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Ohhh do u mean somebody is telling them not to chat to others as in 'owned'

or in a relationship with then and they doing as they told.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yes i can somewhat relate to this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG"
does that seriously actually happen?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's your friend's choice to chat to you or not, if something like that happened to me it's my choice and my choice would be to do whatever i want

Sorry to hear DTG, but it does happens sadly

I think you need a grouphug xx

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTGdoes that seriously actually happen?"

yes it dose seen it more then once

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

sorry dident mean to answer for dtg.....forgive my rudeness lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We can deffo relate to this by a mile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Woukd I be right in saying that a lot here use this site for a lot more then just no strings sexual fun? What I mean is would you ever meet someone for fun and then not hear from then again till your having fun the next time?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That's sad to hear

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG"
well my tack to something like this would be to call your friends controlling half out...... That's what friends are for......imo

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG"

I'd be inclined to think that if they're that easily controlled by others, you're far better off without them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG

I'd be inclined to think that if they're that easily controlled by others, you're far better off without them.

My sentiments also. Its a sex site.....not POF! NSA sex. If I was meeting someone and they told me they didn't like me talking to others on fab.....it would be a case of 'build a bridge and get over it' and if he couldn't then 'close the door on your way out'

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah dtg you missing me. Im just up to my eyes at work at the minute. Im still here pal but not so much in forums. I miss you to. Bromance

Haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG

I'd be inclined to think that if they're that easily controlled by others, you're far better off without them.

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exactly! That's why I'm thinking how could someone have a "hold" over you! Your meeting for sex, not blossoming into a budding relationship

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG

I'd be inclined to think that if they're that easily controlled by others, you're far better off without them.

exactly! That's why I'm thinking how could someone have a "hold" over you! Your meeting for sex, not blossoming

into a budding relationship "

Mine did no harm in it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG

I'd be inclined to think that if they're that easily controlled by others, you're far better off without them.

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there's two people....i wouldn't like to rely on as friends.....seems pretty feckin shallow to me

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG

I'd be inclined to think that if they're that easily controlled by others, you're far better off without them.

there's two people....i wouldn't like to rely on as friends.....seems pretty feckin shallow to me

What seems shallow to you jack?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

We know its not POF etc but it's still nice/important/essential to have people to network/jump ideas off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about "

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sex"
each to there own but I'd call that pure and utter pointless

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm not here to make friends, I've enough friends. BUT it's nice to be civil/polite and friendly and meet/chat to like minded people.

Anyway . . . No worries anymore I tend to ignore them when they come back and give it the whole "I know I've been keeping quite but he/she would have got stiff" etc...

A sign of weakness if you're controlled by others. ..

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"I'm not here to make friends, I've enough friends. BUT it's nice to be civil/polite and friendly and meet/chat to like minded people.

Anyway . . . No worries anymore I tend to ignore them when they come back and give it the whole "I know I've been keeping quite but he/she would have got stiff" etc...

A sign of weakness if you're controlled by others. .."

It seems a bit silly to me that someone would let another person dictate who they can chat with alright, but maybe it's part of the whole sub /dom thing?

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sexeach to there own but I'd call that pure and utter pointless "

maybe but if a single woman messages me or speaks to me here on the forum ...now we may not be what she is looking for she may only want to have sex with single men or we may not be looking for single women....dose that mean we dont answer her? not every message ends in sex

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sexeach to there own but I'd call that pure and utter pointless

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sexeach to there own but I'd call that pure and utter pointless

wires uncrossed

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sexeach to there own but I'd call that pure and utter pointless

Exactly, some of the best friendships on fab can start that way

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sexeach to there own but I'd call that pure and utter pointless

wires uncrossed

Never mind wires. What about legs?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sexeach to there own but I'd call that pure and utter pointless

Exactly, some of the best friendships on fab can start that way"
see the key word there been friendship! I can't speak for others but I have enough friends and don't need here to make more as DTG said! I'm purely here to try hey sexual fun

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about

for some yes but not everyone.....plenty of ppl here that chat but may never meet for sexeach to there own but I'd call that pure and utter pointless

wires uncrossed

Never mind wires. What about legs?

i can do that too

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wasn't saying that friendship was the desired outcome though, sometimes after exchanging messages that's just the way it pans out. Besides it's nice to have friends to talk to about life on fab

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"I wasn't saying that friendship was the desired outcome though, sometimes after exchanging messages that's just the way it pans out. Besides it's nice to have friends to talk to about life on fab"

yes it is talking about the same subject all the time can get very boreing and anyway how can you know if you want to meet up with someone for something more if you havent chatted about other subjects as well

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"I'm not here to make friends, I've enough friends. BUT it's nice to be civil/polite and friendly and meet/chat to like minded people.

Anyway . . . No worries anymore I tend to ignore them when they come back and give it the whole "I know I've been keeping quite but he/she would have got stiff" etc...I

A sign of weakness if you're controlled by others. .."
I think that bloody madness ffs no bugger tell me to mail or not to mail I answer to no one. Sod that shite

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wasn't saying that friendship was the desired outcome though, sometimes after exchanging messages that's just the way it pans out. Besides it's nice to have friends to talk to about life on fab"
like if I was chatting to a female and no fun came of it, I more then likely wouldn't keep talking to her as that's not what I'm here for but as I said each to their own

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

Life long friendships, relationships and marriages start in the swinging world.

Id argue they are some of the best 1s

As for dtg id just let them pass on by if they came back

Shows lack of character on their behalf

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Life long friendships, relationships and marriages start in the swinging world.

Id argue they are some of the best 1s

As for dtg id just let them pass on by if they came back

Shows lack of character on their behalf"

Very true Hal my man! !

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Life long friendships, relationships and marriages start in the swinging world.

Id argue they are some of the best 1s

As for dtg id just let them pass on by if they came back

Shows lack of character on their behalf"

very true hal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So does that mean your not talking to me now dtg?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"So does that mean your not talking to me now dtg?

Course I'm talking to you. . . . Its people that you regularly go for lunch with and then BOOOOOM don't talk anymore when they've met someone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Don't take it to heart it happens it normal life to. You need to realise that ppl want what's best for themselves and sometimes they get caught up in love and you get put to the side. I don't agree with it but that's life. It is going on with my bestfriend at the minute the guy was my bestman and his misses don't like me so we never see him and we never talk. Ill always be a phone call away for him. Love is blind in more ways than just one!!

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

"So does that mean your not talking to me now dtg?

Course I'm talking to you. . . . Its people that you regularly go for lunch with and then BOOOOOM don't talk anymore when they've met someone"

Romance getting in the way of bromance??

Better talk to georgiana

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So does that mean your not talking to me now dtg?

Course I'm talking to you. . . . Its people that you regularly go for lunch with and then BOOOOOM don't talk anymore when they've met someone

Romance getting in the way of bromance??

Better talk to georgiana"

Our Bromance will never die. Well not till i meet a girl and am not allowed talk to him.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This is very common in my experience. I've been asked to curb friendships I've had through swing when I was seeing someone in the past. I've also been on the receiving end of this too. In the past week two people have had a strop with me over who I've spent time with.

You can't please everyone I guess

Though I'd like to try

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is very common in my experience. I've been asked to curb friendships I've had through swing when I was seeing someone in the past. I've also been on the receiving end of this too. In the past week two people have had a strop with me over who I've spent time with.

You can't please everyone I guess

Though I'd like to try

Here I am Tiny...volunteering ...so that you can try to see if you can please everyone....ohhh the things i do in the name of science

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Arent u lucky u have us!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Arent u lucky u have us!!!"

Yes I am....sooooooooooo...when can I...(forgive me buts that very forward of me to ask)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"In my 3 years here I've seen so many come & go. That's life!!

It happens a fair bit, and in some cases when that "fling/term/relationship" ends they come back & explain how they weren't allowed chat to others from here.... he/she got possessive etc...

Just my thought as I feel like I've lost another good friend from here to this.

DTG

I'd be inclined to think that if they're that easily controlled by others, you're far better off without them.

there's two people....i wouldn't like to rely on as friends.....seems pretty feckin shallow to me

What seems shallow to you jack?

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i think its shallow to say if youou have a friend who has gotten into a situation where they are somewhat being controlled ....that your better of without them

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Life long friendships, relationships and marriages start in the swinging world.

Id argue they are some of the best 1s

As for dtg id just let them pass on by if they came back

Shows lack of character on their behalf"
but surly its only a lack of character if the person is doing it by choice....in which case they are Not being controlled

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You need a grouphug DTG????? Or maby a shag.....anything i can do to help!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You need a grouphug DTG????? Or maby a shag.....anything i can do to help!!!!

love it annimal

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about "
dear knickersoaker, it obviously isnt that simple.....believe me and all the others....thats what the thread is about. Complications, confusions. NSA fun can be confusing as with sex comes feeling and with feeling comes emotion and with emotion comes bonding and before you know it you're half in a relationship or you think you are.........

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You need a grouphug DTG????? Or maby a shag.....anything i can do to help!!!!

"
think he needs a grougshag.....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You need a grouphug DTG????? Or maby a shag.....anything i can do to help!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Now as i am not up to date on all matters on this i cannot but give my own opinion, i don't think that anyone would let someone control them unless it was something they wanted, some ppl want to be owned, some ppl feel the need to be owned and this brings them not only sexual gratification but fulfillment in their life. As i said i don't know much about it or do i understand it but if this is how a person enjoys their life well then more luck to them. Actually i must read up more about it to grasp a better understanding of it. Just have to respect their way of life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You were supposed to call up to me for tea dtg no sign of you lol kettle is at the ready

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you so seriously need to grow up and get a life

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't take it to heart it happens it normal life to. You need to realise that ppl want what's best for themselves and sometimes they get caught up in love and you get put to the side. I don't agree with it but that's life. It is going on with my bestfriend at the minute the guy was my bestman and his misses don't like me so we never see him and we never talk. Ill always be a phone call away for him. Love is blind in more ways than just one!!"

If you and your friend go way back I agree with you, you need to ride it out and be there for them. I have friends who make the wrong choices in love and knowing I will always love them and there to help them pick up the pieces gives them the strength to walk away from a bad relationship. If I was not here for them they might feel stuck in the relationship for life,but as said before love is blind. All you can do is send the odd text every so often to let them know you are still around.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"So does that mean your not talking to me now dtg?

Course I'm talking to you. . . . Its people that you regularly go for lunch with and then BOOOOOM don't talk anymore when they've met someone

Romance getting in the way of bromance??

Better talk to georgiana"

Ahhhh thank you Hun for the recognition

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"You were supposed to call up to me for tea dtg no sign of you lol kettle is at the ready

Wow..... have you forgotten how to reply to texts? ? And turning the othet way in town when your with a certain person yesterday

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about dear knickersoaker, it obviously isnt that simple.....believe me and all the others....thats what the thread is about. Complications, confusions. NSA fun can be confusing as with sex comes feeling and with feeling comes emotion and with emotion comes bonding and before you know it you're half in a relationship or you think you are.........and at last somebody said it! I think an awful lot of women here have a hidden agenda and are not here for just some "casual no strings fun"! If I say I'm having no strings fun with a woman, that's what it is! The only way IMO u get strong feelings for somebody and potentially get hurt is by seen to much of them! A fabtasy if mine is to have sexual fun with mature women(cougar type) but not in a month of Sundays would I date one seriously! if somebody gets "hurt" from this site, in all honesty u would feel sorry for them but that's no the outset idea of the site "
haha knickersoaker its not a no strings sex site its a swingers site mate and what's wrong with people developing friendships or relationships from being on here. You cant help who you fall for why does it matter that it was on fab or any other site for that matter were all still human at the end of the day its all about feelings and emotions doesn't make a difference whether you met them on here or down in the local pub or anywhere else for that matter lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" haha knickersoaker its not a no strings sex site its a swingers site mate and what's wrong with people developing friendships or relationships from being on here. You cant help who you fall for why does it matter that it was on fab or any other site for that matter were all still human at the end of the day its all about feelings and emotions doesn't make a difference whether you met them on here or down in the local pub or anywhere else for that matter lol"

LOVE IT... totally agree.. :D

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It's as simple as meeting with a person, see if ye get on, if you do you have sexual fun! Then onto the next person or next time with that same person! Isn't that what the site is about dear knickersoaker, it obviously isnt that simple.....believe me and all the others....thats what the thread is about. Complications, confusions. NSA fun can be confusing as with sex comes feeling and with feeling comes emotion and with emotion comes bonding and before you know it you're half in a relationship or you think you are.........and at last somebody said it! I think an awful lot of women here have a hidden agenda and are not here for just some "casual no strings fun"! If I say I'm having no strings fun with a woman, that's what it is! The only way IMO u get strong feelings for somebody and potentially get hurt is by seen to much of them! A fabtasy if mine is to have sexual fun with mature women(cougar type) but not in a month of Sundays would I date one seriously! if somebody gets "hurt" from this site, in all honesty u would feel sorry for them but that's no the outset idea of the site haha knickersoaker its not a no strings sex site its a swingers site mate and what's wrong with people developing friendships or relationships from being on here. You cant help who you fall for why does it matter that it was on fab or any other site for that matter were all still human at the end of the day its all about feelings and emotions doesn't make a difference whether you met them on here or down in the local pub or anywhere else for that matter lol"
it doesn't matter but the point I'm making is comming in here witn the view(even tho you might not make it clear) "I might get something more here then some no strings fun" is a bad mentality to have! Whatever way you want to paint it pal it's predominantly a site where oeople join looking to eventually meet others for caudal fun!

@georgina if a person comes in here and meets a lot of different people for fun, different types of people, broadening their horizons! There is absoloitkey nothing wrong witn that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Omg I can't believe you said that it is so disrespectful. Cougars are ladies too and to be honest your posts of late have been very cutting. Yes you are after no strings attached fun, but what you are really looking for is a string of one night stands. "
nearly forgot, cougar is not an offensive term or more to the point certainly should not be takin offensively

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swing

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swing"
Lmfao Hal u hit the nail on the head

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

"Life long friendships, relationships and marriages start in the swinging world.

Id argue they are some of the best 1s

As for dtg id just let them pass on by if they came back

Shows lack of character on their behalf but surly its only a lack of character if the person is doing it by choice....in which case they are Not being controlled "

Shows lack of character if they allow themselves to be controlled by someone from fab.or anybody

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swing"
lol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

Will someone just ride knickersoaker so he'll get it out of his system for once and for all. Please, just take one for the team. We'll all love you forever! Fuck it, I'd nearly do it myself at this stage!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Will someone just ride knickersoaker so he'll get it out of his system for once and for all. Please, just take one for the team. We'll all love you forever! Fuck it, I'd nearly do it myself at this stage!

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lmao that has nothing to do with what I'm saying! Point I'm makin is if u sign up here and (without openly admitting it) are hoping for more then sexual fun(if anyone is) you could potentially be setting yourself up for a massive fall! What I see so far is people say "its a swingers site and not a sex site", so what nobody meets for sex on here do they? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Love the term "Take One For The Team"

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

lmao that has nothing to do with what I'm saying! Point I'm makin is if u sign up here and (without openly admitting it) are hoping for more then sexual fun(if anyone is) you could potentially be setting yourself up for a massive fall! What I see so far is people say "its a swingers site and not a sex site", so what nobody meets for sex on here do they? Lol"
correction snickers most of us have met on here for fun point is have u

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We know its not POF etc but it's still nice/important/essential to have people to network/jump ideas off"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lmao that has nothing to do with what I'm saying! Point I'm makin is if u sign up here and (without openly admitting it) are hoping for more then sexual fun(if anyone is) you could potentially be setting yourself up for a massive fall! What I see so far is people say "its a swingers site and not a sex site", so what nobody meets for sex on here do they? Lolcorrection snickers most of us have met on here for fun point is have u

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tgats great to hear! That's the aim of the game

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol"
well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Michael, you are asking for a lot there, i'd take one for the team allright if it was someone else but as i said before i'd turn lesbian in this case lol

You go for it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?"
you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Knicker-- you cant tell by meeting with someone if they're fun or not... what you can tell is if there's a "connection"

That connection determines the extent of the fun ye'll have

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker-- you cant tell by meeting with someone if they're fun or not... what you can tell is if there's a "connection"

That connection determines the extent of the fun ye'll have"
if I meet a girl, physically like her and get on well providing it's mutual we will have fun but it will stay at casual fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

my brain is itching reading this....

and no Michael, I'm a team player, but asking to take one for the team is just asking for too much lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker-- you cant tell by meeting with someone if they're fun or not... what you can tell is if there's a "connection"

That connection determines the extent of the fun ye'll have"

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If I meet a girl, physically like her and get on well providing it's mutual we will have fun but it will stay at casual fun

Has she any say in this Knicker???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

You just said it there yourself.... "you meet, you see if there is a mutual like" this is exactly what a coffee meet is.. it makes it easier on everyone to call it a coffee meet and its much easier to say no to fun if a coffee meet has been organised rather than a play meet and no "mutual like" as you said yourself and having to say no sorry im not attracted to you. Thats an even bigger disappointment!! "
thats not what my point is at all! My initial point is the ultimate aim of the game here is to meet people and potentially have "sexual fun" with them! I'm wondering and thinking do some people (even tho it's not said out straight) want more then that on here! there is no rule to say you have to develop friendships and it's not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If I meet a girl, physically like her and get on well providing it's mutual we will have fun but it will stay at casual fun

Has she any say in this Knicker???"
have a say in what?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

You just said it there yourself.... "you meet, you see if there is a mutual like" this is exactly what a coffee meet is.. it makes it easier on everyone to call it a coffee meet and its much easier to say no to fun if a coffee meet has been organised rather than a play meet and no "mutual like" as you said yourself and having to say no sorry im not attracted to you. Thats an even bigger disappointment!! thats not what my point is at all! My initial point is the ultimate aim of the game here is to meet people and potentially have "sexual fun" with them! I'm wondering and thinking do some people (even tho it's not said out straight) want more then that on here! there is no rule to say you have to develop friendships and it's not a dating site "

Who knows what reason people are on here for... once it doesnt interfere with your swinging what difference does it make to you?? If thats not what your here for im sure people will know it. And some people dont come with the intention of it but it just happens. When you meet a guy/girl a few times some sort of a relationship does build up. And im not talking boyfriend/husband relationship but sometimes it ends up that way. And now you have made me late for work! !!!

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By *al2001Man over a year ago

kildare

"If I meet a girl, physically like her and get on well providing it's mutual we will have fun but it will stay at casual fun

Has she any say in this Knicker???"

There is no she

And I dont think there will b anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We have known that for a while now Hal

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By *j47Man over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

You just said it there yourself.... "you meet, you see if there is a mutual like" this is exactly what a coffee meet is.. it makes it easier on everyone to call it a coffee meet and its much easier to say no to fun if a coffee meet has been organised rather than a play meet and no "mutual like" as you said yourself and having to say no sorry im not attracted to you. Thats an even bigger disappointment!! thats not what my point is at all! My initial point is the ultimate aim of the game here is to meet people and potentially have "sexual fun" with them! I'm wondering and thinking do some people (even tho it's not said out straight) want more then that on here! there is no rule to say you have to develop friendships and it's not a dating site

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

You just said it there yourself.... "you meet, you see if there is a mutual like" this is exactly what a coffee meet is.. it makes it easier on everyone to call it a coffee meet and its much easier to say no to fun if a coffee meet has been organised rather than a play meet and no "mutual like" as you said yourself and having to say no sorry im not attracted to you. Thats an even bigger disappointment!! thats not what my point is at all! My initial point is the ultimate aim of the game here is to meet people and potentially have "sexual fun" with them! I'm wondering and thinking do some people (even tho it's not said out straight) want more then that on here! there is no rule to say you have to develop friendships and it's not a dating site

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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Snickers have you ever heard of a glory hole??? I think it's what your after.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

You just said it there yourself.... "you meet, you see if there is a mutual like" this is exactly what a coffee meet is.. it makes it easier on everyone to call it a coffee meet and its much easier to say no to fun if a coffee meet has been organised rather than a play meet and no "mutual like" as you said yourself and having to say no sorry im not attracted to you. Thats an even bigger disappointment!! thats not what my point is at all! My initial point is the ultimate aim of the game here is to meet people and potentially have "sexual fun" with them! I'm wondering and thinking do some people (even tho it's not said out straight) want more then that on here! there is no rule to say you have to develop friendships and it's not a dating site

Yes as far as im aware alot of people join for different reasons. There are the people who never meet and just like the chats, or just the perves, or the excitement, or boredom. Or then there are the people who join with the possibility of a relationship.... "
so you have people who just sign up here to "chat"? Complete waste of time! What does that achieve? If you join her looking for a relationship again IMO it complete ludicrous! I'm sure there are plenty of free dating websites around the net

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Ffs I think I'm going to cry.

I'm sorry snickers your actually painful....

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

Taxi to Waterford please, and step on the gas my good man!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs I think I'm going to cry.

I'm sorry snickers your actually painful.... "

My itching has spread out from my brain all the way to my feet. It's like a snickers rash

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"Taxi to Waterford please, and step on the gas my good man!

Good on you...mind you dont become emotionally attached to him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Taxi to Waterford please, and step on the gas my good man!

Good on you...mind you dont become emotionally attached to him

Haha!! That actually made me laugh out loud!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol it's actually hilarious reading the majority! The site in a nutshell is a site where hopefully ye meet people for sexual activity yet most of ye go on the complete defensive when that's said lol! Nice to have a good laugh in the mornings

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

You just said it there yourself.... "you meet, you see if there is a mutual like" this is exactly what a coffee meet is.. it makes it easier on everyone to call it a coffee meet and its much easier to say no to fun if a coffee meet has been organised rather than a play meet and no "mutual like" as you said yourself and having to say no sorry im not attracted to you. Thats an even bigger disappointment!! thats not what my point is at all! My initial point is the ultimate aim of the game here is to meet people and potentially have "sexual fun" with them! I'm wondering and thinking do some people (even tho it's not said out straight) want more then that on here! there is no rule to say you have to develop friendships and it's not a dating site

Yes as far as im aware alot of people join for different reasons. There are the people who never meet and just like the chats, or just the perves, or the excitement, or boredom. Or then there are the people who join with the possibility of a relationship.... so you have people who just sign up here to "chat"? Complete waste of time! What does that achieve? If you join her looking for a relationship again IMO it complete ludicrous! I'm sure there are plenty of free dating websites around the net "

Cause you are so perfect in every way.. how does what other people have come here for effect you?????

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Taxi to Waterford please, and step on the gas my good man!

Good on you...mind you dont become emotionally attached to him

Might cause all sorts of embarrassment, might be the next hegogate

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

You just said it there yourself.... "you meet, you see if there is a mutual like" this is exactly what a coffee meet is.. it makes it easier on everyone to call it a coffee meet and its much easier to say no to fun if a coffee meet has been organised rather than a play meet and no "mutual like" as you said yourself and having to say no sorry im not attracted to you. Thats an even bigger disappointment!! thats not what my point is at all! My initial point is the ultimate aim of the game here is to meet people and potentially have "sexual fun" with them! I'm wondering and thinking do some people (even tho it's not said out straight) want more then that on here! there is no rule to say you have to develop friendships and it's not a dating site

Yes as far as im aware alot of people join for different reasons. There are the people who never meet and just like the chats, or just the perves, or the excitement, or boredom. Or then there are the people who join with the possibility of a relationship.... so you have people who just sign up here to "chat"? Complete waste of time! What does that achieve? If you join her looking for a relationship again IMO it complete ludicrous! I'm sure there are plenty of free dating websites around the net

Cause you are so perfect in every way.. how does what other people have come here for effect you?????

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because it's utterly misleading that's why and not one person challenged me when I said "I maintain a lot have hidden agendas on here and want more the causal fun" gets me thinkin even more!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That it exactly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

That is because we can't be bothered!! You talk some amount of rubbish and i seriously can't take anymore, we have tried to explain many times and you never ever listen, you ramble on and get all childish about most threads so why should we bother anymore? You really are painful!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Going back to the original post. Yes it happens and happened to me too previously. But I always stayed in touch by chat. Not being allowed to chat is wrong. Being owned is wrong too. The whole consensus of the thread or the way it is developing does show that swinging, dating, can be confusing. There is a whole range of ppl and the different ways they use the site. From only chatting to ppl getting into a relationship and getting married. And theres nothing wrong with any of that! But I think the ones that are succesfull are good comunicators. They are able to hold a conversation both on chat and in person. Im referring to my thread: its just sex...but is it? Loosing friends is always hard but true friends always stay in your heart and they will come back to you as Georgiana said.......

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker for a guy who just joined and no meets yet u sure like to tell us all how to swinglol there is no telling anyone how to have casual fun pal, it's pretty self explanatory lol well apparently it isnt!!! Coming from you that the biggest understatement after all your questions in posts......wanna fuck?you meet u see if there is a mutual like u have fun! Simple as abc! Now is it a crime if u don't go back to that same person again and want to try diff people on the site? Not at all! As Georgina says you want a string of one night stands"! Not totally but I don't come in here with an agenda of how many I'm going to meet

You just said it there yourself.... "you meet, you see if there is a mutual like" this is exactly what a coffee meet is.. it makes it easier on everyone to call it a coffee meet and its much easier to say no to fun if a coffee meet has been organised rather than a play meet and no "mutual like" as you said yourself and having to say no sorry im not attracted to you. Thats an even bigger disappointment!! thats not what my point is at all! My initial point is the ultimate aim of the game here is to meet people and potentially have "sexual fun" with them! I'm wondering and thinking do some people (even tho it's not said out straight) want more then that on here! there is no rule to say you have to develop friendships and it's not a dating site

Yes as far as im aware alot of people join for different reasons. There are the people who never meet and just like the chats, or just the perves, or the excitement, or boredom. Or then there are the people who join with the possibility of a relationship.... so you have people who just sign up here to "chat"? Complete waste of time! What does that achieve? If you join her looking for a relationship again IMO it complete ludicrous! I'm sure there are plenty of free dating websites around the net

Cause you are so perfect in every way.. how does what other people have come here for effect you?????

because it's utterly misleading that's why and not one person challenged me when I said "I maintain a lot have hidden agendas on here and want more the causal fun" gets me thinkin even more!"

Wel heres what ya do... do up a questionnaire for women to fill in to be a potential suitable casual encounter for you.... I am here for purely fun.. still doesnt mean im going to meet just anybody..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Too many reply and quotes its getting confusing. ...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And if they don't come back I would go so far to say they where not true friends

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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because it's utterly misleading that's why and not one person challenged me when I said "I maintain a lot have hidden agendas on here and want more the causal fun" gets me thinkin even more!"
nooooooooooooooooooo don't 'think' anymore...

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Im taking another action im going to agree with everything he says. .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Have a nice day now everybody!!!! And dtg cheer up!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I offered KS a fuck in previous post.....he never replied.....I'll do one for the team Michael.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Have a nice day now everybody!!!! And dtg cheer up!!!

Don't think im here behind my screen sad. I'm a big boy. .. when I say it saddens me that folk do such things im not actually sitting with a puss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So snickers if someone wanted to swing the rest of there life and also wanted to fall in love get married have kids can you recommend a place they could find someone?

*The pof profile*

Hi im Keith nice guy looking for the right girl to spoil fall in love with have kids get married and at least once a month watch her get fucked Senseless by more guys and girls and the odd gangbang.

Don't think that will work but i mite just try it.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Have a nice day now everybody!!!! And dtg cheer up!!!

Don't think im here behind my screen sad. I'm a big boy. .. when I say it saddens me that folk do such things im not actually sitting with a puss

I hate cats.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"I offered KS a fuck in previous post.....he never replied.....I'll do one for the team Michael."

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Dutchgold, you are my hero!! Seriously x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let me ask how many of ye on this forum have met more then once at meets and greets?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Let me ask how many of ye on this forum have met more then once at meets and greets?"

I've met people here a good few times

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't go to meets and greets at all, but i do go to parties and i have met a good few peopke a few times yes, i meet a great couple every now and then and go to parties with them , brilliant fun

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let me ask how many of ye on this forum have met more then once at meets and greets?

I've met people here a good few times "
see that's where I differ and I don't think there is anything wrong with it! Would I attend a meet and greet? Yes! would I like to attend lots and lots of them? No as that's not what I'm here for! I'd predominantly attend to get verified

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I don't go to meets and greets at all, but i do go to parties and i have met a good few peopke a few times yes, i meet a great couple every now and then and go to parties with them , brilliant fun

I don't do parties/M&G's but have had regular meets with folk here esp galway based ones

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let me ask how many of ye on this forum have met more then once at meets and greets?"

I've only been to two and they where in different parts of the country. I have however kept in touch with some I have met at them

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Knicker:

What's your criteria?

Face first (and if you like you'll meet for coffee)

But they have to be in Waterford what's the furthest you'd travel for coffee (with someone you find attractive)

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker:

What's your criteria?

Face first (and if you like you'll meet for coffee)

But they have to be in Waterford what's the furthest you'd travel for coffee (with someone you find attractive)"
if there is a mutual physical attraction I will meet for coffee but I AM NOT going to travel a fair distance to meet with someone on here for just a chat! It's a waste of my time and therea

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Knicker:

What's your criteria?

Face first (and if you like you'll meet for coffee)

But they have to be in Waterford what's the furthest you'd travel for coffee (with someone you find attractive)if there is a mutual physical attraction I will meet for coffee but I AM NOT going to travel a fair distance to meet with someone on here for just a chat! It's a waste of my time and therea"

I don't think there's anyone that fits your criteria here

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker:

What's your criteria?

Face first (and if you like you'll meet for coffee)

I don't think there's anyone that fits your criteria here

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lol so there is nobody on here I'm physically attracted to? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Knicker:

What's your criteria?

Face first (and if you like you'll meet for coffee)

I don't think there's anyone that fits your criteria here

lol so there is nobody on here I'm physically attracted to? Lol"

Dude there's two people that should be involved not just you.

This seems to be your criteria from what ive seen in forums over last few weeks:

1. You need to be attracted to their face when photos sent

2. They have to be in Waterford (or very close)

3. It has to be NSA

You don't seen to compromise/sacrifice when certain women here have offered.

Note: Your options are extremely low also due to your attitude/opinion here.

And yes you're entitled to your opinion. I'm just saying.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker:

What's your criteria?

Face first (and if you like you'll meet for coffee)

I don't think there's anyone that fits your criteria here

lol so there is nobody on here I'm physically attracted to? Lol

Dude there's two people that should be involved not just you.

This seems to be your criteria from what ive seen in forums over last few weeks:

1. You need to be attracted to their face when photos sent

2. They have to be in Waterford (or very close)

3. It has to be NSA

You don't seen to compromise/sacrifice when certain women here have offered.

Note: Your options are extremely low also due to your attitude/opinion here.

And yes you're entitled to your opinion. I'm just saying. "
the aim of the game pal is sexual fun(100th time or so saying it) I meet with people for a drink who I think I'm physically attracted to in some way and the feeling is mutual! On here IMO you should not be forced into a travel to meet a person you have no interest in fun with just to be verified!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Yeah but whats the furthest you'd travel to meet for coffee with someone you think looks nice

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"Knicker:

What's your criteria?

Face first (and if you like you'll meet for coffee)

I don't think there's anyone that fits your criteria here

lol so there is nobody on here I'm physically attracted to? Lol"

the question u should be asking is there anybody here attracted to me ???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

lmao that has nothing to do with what I'm saying! Point I'm makin is if u sign up here and (without openly admitting it) are hoping for more then sexual fun(if anyone is) you could potentially be setting yourself up for a massive fall! What I see so far is people say "its a swingers site and not a sex site", so what nobody meets for sex on here do they? Lolcorrection snickers most of us have met on here for fun point is have u

tgats great to hear! That's the aim of the game

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah but whats the furthest you'd travel to meet for coffee with someone you think looks nice"
2 hours or so

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Knicker:

What's your criteria?

Face first (and if you like you'll meet for coffee)

I don't think there's anyone that fits your criteria here

lol so there is nobody on here I'm physically attracted to? Lol

the question u should be asking is there anybody here attracted to me ???"
so liking something physical about a person before wanting to meet them is wrong?

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

The thing about a social meet/ coffee is to ensure there is an attraction as has being posted there are some hunks here but they have the brain of a pea spend more time looking in the mirror than their meet it doesn't work for some they want an intelligent convo as well as the bod

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah but whats the furthest you'd travel to meet for coffee with someone you think looks nice2 hours or so "

Now we're getting places... ok so

You just need to find a woman who you're attracted to within a two hour radius of you and hope the feeling is mutual.... its possible!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"The thing about a social meet/ coffee is to ensure there is an attraction as has being posted there are some hunks here but they have the brain of a pea spend more time looking in the mirror than their meet it doesn't work for some they want an intelligent convo as well as the bod "
again that's self explanatory but if there is no physical attraction at all initially I won't be meeting and I wouldn't expect her to either if she didn't like me

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

No snickers its not wrong but there are some went to coffee with ur vied they are not attracted and the next day their status reads wow what a night it happens believe me

why did i let my self get sucked back in to this

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Yeah but whats the furthest you'd travel to meet for coffee with someone you think looks nice2 hours or so

Now we're getting places... ok so

You just need to find a woman who you're attracted to within a two hour radius of you and hope the feeling is mutual.... its possible!

"
lol mate under no circumstances should the site be rocket science! it's very easy simplified! No need to complicate things

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I'm in search for a woman that will only rub my feet/never speak and her name has to be ingrid... oh and she has to live in galway with Scottish parents

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think snickers should just pay for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Yeah but whats the furthest you'd travel to meet for coffee with someone you think looks nice2 hours or so

Now we're getting places... ok so

You just need to find a woman who you're attracted to within a two hour radius of you and hope the feeling is mutual.... its possible!

lol mate under no circumstances should the site be rocket science! it's very easy simplified! No need to complicate things "

It's not rocket science. .. we get it. We do ok here.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I think snickers should just pay for it

Will you take one for the team ???

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"I'm in search for a woman that will only rub my feet/never speak and her name has to be ingrid... oh and she has to live in galway with Scottish parents"

aweee bliss

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"No snickers its not wrong but there are some went to coffee with ur vied they are not attracted and the next day their status reads wow what a night it happens believe me

why did i let my self get sucked back in to this

"
if u want to meet a woman for coffee you had no physical attraction to when u see her pics and or on cam! Be my guest

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"I think snickers should just pay for it

Will you take one for the team ???"

at this stage we would pay u

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By *ingerrrrWoman over a year ago

Meath

I wouldn't travel to meet for coffee either if I felt there was no attraction. If I knew I'd not be playing with them at any time in the future.

If they live close/work close and we've been chatting then probably just to put the face behind the person. I always say it's a social meet, nothing more.

But if there was then definitely I'd travel.. It can be hard to find a guy with the attitude I'm looking for..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Do u know what most of ye on these forums remind me of, a tight nit little family

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I wouldn't travel to meet for coffee either if I felt there was no attraction. If I knew I'd not be playing with them at any time in the future.

If they live close/work close and we've been chatting then probably just to put the face behind the person. I always say it's a social meet, nothing more.

But if there was then definitely I'd travel.. It can be hard to find a guy with the attitude I'm looking for.. "
your first line is what I'm saying

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Do u know what most of ye on these forums remind me of, a tight nit little family

It is nit season

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By *ingerrrrWoman over a year ago

Meath

I'm agreeing with you!

I see your point.

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"I think snickers should just pay for it

Will you take one for the team ???

at this stage we would pay u

sorry i should not have said that hugs busty

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm agreeing with you!

I see your point. "
at last someone does

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"Do u know what most of ye on these forums remind me of, a tight nit little family

not exactly true but u could say people get a feel for each other here especially regular posters as we have got a feel for u also the lukers get a feel for posters so yes swinging in Ireland is a tight knit community

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm agreeing with you!

I see your point. at last someone does

We're not saying jump into bed with someone you're not attracted to we're saying nothings happening for you on the site so meet socially first (to build contacts/network)

But you're not willing to.

You're entitled to choice/opinion of course. We're just giving some tips (that clearly work)

CASE CLOSED

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

"I'm agreeing with you!

I see your point. at last someone does

We're not saying jump into bed with someone you're not attracted to we're saying nothings happening for you on the site so meet socially first (to build contacts/network)

But you're not willing to.

You're entitled to choice/opinion of course. We're just giving some tips (that clearly work)

CASE CLOSED"

finally

another decent thread gone to pot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

" tgats great to hear! That's the aim of the game

I think you need to refocuss your aim Snickers!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I'm agreeing with you!

I see your point. at last someone does

We're not saying jump into bed with someone you're not attracted to we're saying nothings happening for you on the site so meet socially first (to build contacts/network)

But you're not willing to.

You're entitled to choice/opinion of course. We're just giving some tips (that clearly work)

CASE CLOSED"
I'm chatting to a couple of women in the last few days where at the moment there is a physical attraction! That will do me fine! Id prefer that then an aimless meet with somebody that I know from the outset nothing will happen there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Life long friendships, relationships and marriages start in the swinging world.

Id argue they are some of the best 1s

As for dtg id just let them pass on by if they came back

Shows lack of character on their behalf but surly its only a lack of character if the person is doing it by choice....in which case they are Not being controlled

Shows lack of character if they allow themselves to be controlled by someone from fab.or anybody"
if you allow yourself then infact its rollplay.... And your really controlling yourself.....if someone manipulated you to control you....that's different.....people dont lack character if they are as strong as some of us mentally.....there just different

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Grouphug

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

Don't worry k.soaker I don't think anyone is going to get emotionally attached to you anytime soon

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't worry k.soaker I don't think anyone is going to get emotionally attached to you anytime soon"
thank god

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By *avie tCouple over a year ago

otherside of nowhere

"Don't worry k.soaker I don't think anyone is going to get emotionally attached to you anytime soonthank god

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Don't worry k.soaker I don't think anyone is going to get emotionally attached to you anytime soonthank god

Lol"
i wouldn't like to make a situation tricky lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Lots of soaking knickers around

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Grouphug"
more to the point groupshag For the tite knit little community

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Thanks for your views on my thread

Like every other thread it got side tracked. .. what harm.

This case is closed... you may go in peace

Grouphug

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Plenty of soaked vnickers cos we're all crying into them at this stage

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