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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

On average how often/long do you chat to a person before meeting them?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

One message sent hey wanna fuck

then job done!!!!!

How long is a piece of string.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

One message sent hey wanna fuck

then job done!!!!!

How long is a piece of string.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends on how well you get on with someone and how available they are. I've usually met someone within a week for coffee unless there living outside my county.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One message sent hey wanna fuck

then job done!!!!!

How long is a piece of string."
surely there is an average length a time before the next step anyway

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"One message sent hey wanna fuck

then job done!!!!!

How long is a piece of string.surely there is an average length a time before the next step anyway "

Not at all...no time frame on it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Depends on how well you get on with someone and how available they are. I've usually met someone within a week for coffee unless there living outside my county."
thats good

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One message sent hey wanna fuck

then job done!!!!!

How long is a piece of string.surely there is an average length a time before the next step anyway

Not at all...no time frame on it."
imo endless chatting without the next steo gets highly repetitive and boring!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Depends how intense the messaging is, try to organise a meet within two weeks circumstances permitting. If we get on would rather meet fairly soon and see if the connection is there at a social meet and take it from there. My shortest was just under two hours, longest still talking but normal life keeps getting in the way

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"One message sent hey wanna fuck

then job done!!!!!

How long is a piece of string.surely there is an average length a time before the next step anyway

Not at all...no time frame on it.imo endless chatting without the next steo gets highly repetitive and boring! "

Not saying that. Circumstances may prohibit meeting for a while. So why give a time frame chances are you may miss out on something/one great..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

My phylosophy is I'm on here to meet people( be it sucially first)! Why drag it out! All it takes is the 2 parties to agree on a day n time

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"My phylosophy is I'm on here to meet people( be it sucially first)! Why drag it out! All it takes is the 2 parties to agree on a day n time "

So how's that going for you???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My phylosophy is I'm on here to meet people( be it sucially first)! Why drag it out! All it takes is the 2 parties to agree on a day n time

So how's that going for you???

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i didn't even get near the next step yet never mind meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"My phylosophy is I'm on here to meet people( be it sucially first)! Why drag it out! All it takes is the 2 parties to agree on a day n time

So how's that going for you???

Bold girl Ms Wild...bold girl

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"My phylosophy is I'm on here to meet people( be it sucially first)! Why drag it out! All it takes is the 2 parties to agree on a day n time

So how's that going for you???

i didn't even get near the next step yet never mind meeting "

Surprise surprise...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"My phylosophy is I'm on here to meet people( be it sucially first)! Why drag it out! All it takes is the 2 parties to agree on a day n time

So how's that going for you???

i didn't even get near the next step yet never mind meeting

Surprise surprise...

"
nothing to do with what I'm saying! It seems women like "slow play"

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

To be honest I don't drop my knickers that quick and I certainly would not like to be told come on we on a time scale let's get cracking

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest I don't drop my knickers that quick and I certainly would not like to be told come on we on a time scale let's get cracking"

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"My phylosophy is I'm on here to meet people( be it sucially first)! Why drag it out! All it takes is the 2 parties to agree on a day n time

So how's that going for you???

i didn't even get near the next step yet never mind meeting

Surprise surprise...

nothing to do with what I'm saying! It seems women like "slow play" "

What's the rush???

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"To be honest I don't drop my knickers that quick and I certainly would not like to be told come on we on a time scale let's get cracking"
ill put it this way! One weeks consecutive chatting to someone on here! Ul get to know them aswel as ur going to through a screen

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

I've chatted to people longer than a week real life gets in the way..u have zero patience.

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"To be honest I don't drop my knickers that quick and I certainly would not like to be told come on we on a time scale let's get crackingill put it this way! One weeks consecutive chatting to someone on here! Ul get to know them aswel as ur going to through a screen"

You think??? Not me...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've chatted to people longer than a week real life gets in the way..u have zero patience."
i have patience it just gets very boring! That's all just my opinion! I'm talking about the next steo after a weeks chatting, not meeting

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

You think??? Not me..."
absolutley and even at that u will never get to know a person properly true a screen no matter how much u chat

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By *omcattyMan over a year ago

Local

Think your goin to have a pretty good idea after a cpl of weeks of messaging wheather it's worth following on or just wasting time,and it's good to stay in touch with ppl uve met too

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Well op I think you have just shot urself in the foot by that comment.

It's gets boring

bloody hell it ain't dial a fuck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Well op I think you have just shot urself in the foot by that comment.

It's gets boring

bloody hell it ain't dial a fuck."
so repetitive chatting on here without taking the next step doesn't get boring?

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

I'm confused. Aren't you contradicting yourself there..hmm

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I'm confused. Aren't you contradicting yourself there..hmm"
contraficting myself where?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've chatted to people longer than a week real life gets in the way..u have zero patience.i have patience it just gets very boring! That's all just my opinion! I'm talking about the next steo after a weeks chatting, not meeting sorry if people are boring you, if your that bored maybe you are chatting the wrong people ..."
whats also confusing is people talk then the next day you mail they don't then the next day they do! Surely if you like speaking to someone the first time ud like to chat again or am I wrong?

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"One weeks consecutive chatting to someone on here! Ul get to know them aswel as ur going to through a screen

...absolutley and even at that u will never get to know a person properly true a screen no matter how much u chat "

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"One weeks consecutive chatting to someone on here! Ul get to know them aswel as ur going to through a screen

...absolutley and even at that u will never get to know a person properly true a screen no matter how much u chat "
all the more reason to take the next step sooner! A few days chatting should do the job!

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"I've chatted to people longer than a week real life gets in the way..u have zero patience.i have patience it just gets very boring! That's all just my opinion! I'm talking about the next steo after a weeks chatting, not meeting sorry if people are boring you, if your that bored maybe you are chatting the wrong people ...whats also confusing is people talk then the next day you mail they don't then the next day they do! Surely if you like speaking to someone the first time ud like to chat again or am I wrong?"

Because your probably not the only one she's chatting to and knows you get bored chatting consecutively...LOL

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By *longshottMan over a year ago

Limerick

"One message sent hey wanna fuck

then job done!!!!!

How long is a piece of string."

Ssssshhhh let's thought that our secret.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"To be honest I don't drop my knickers that quick and I certainly would not like to be told come on we on a time scale let's get cracking"

Ahhhhh...now ya tell me

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Thing is Op I think there is a natural moment when the idea of a social meet comes up. Pushing this will only get you blocked on here as a lot of woman me included don't like pushiness. When it feels right to both party's they will meet, be that two days or six months or longer

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"I've chatted to people longer than a week real life gets in the way..u have zero patience.i have patience it just gets very boring! That's all just my opinion! I'm talking about the next steo after a weeks chatting, not meeting sorry if people are boring you, if your that bored maybe you are chatting the wrong people ...whats also confusing is people talk then the next day you mail they don't then the next day they do! Surely if you like speaking to someone the first time ud like to chat again or am I wrong?

Because your probably not the only one she's chatting to and knows you get bored chatting consecutively...LOL"
so she might chat one day a week? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Thing is Op I think there is a natural moment when the idea of a social meet comes up. Pushing this will only get you blocked on here as a lot of woman me included don't like pushiness. When it feels right to both party's they will meet, be that two days or six months or longer"
well I'm gonna stick by a rule Im gonna make up( I'll keep it to myself) and see how it goes

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"I've chatted to people longer than a week real life gets in the way..u have zero patience.i have patience it just gets very boring! That's all just my opinion! I'm talking about the next steo after a weeks chatting, not meeting sorry if people are boring you, if your that bored maybe you are chatting the wrong people ...whats also confusing is people talk then the next day you mail they don't then the next day they do! Surely if you like speaking to someone the first time ud like to chat again or am I wrong?

Because your probably not the only one she's chatting to and knows you get bored chatting consecutively...LOLso she might chat one day a week? Lol"

Yes... You could be her Friday chat or whatever day of the week it is..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is Op I think there is a natural moment when the idea of a social meet comes up. Pushing this will only get you blocked on here as a lot of woman me included don't like pushiness. When it feels right to both party's they will meet, be that two days or six months or longerwell I'm gonna stick by a rule Im gonna make up( I'll keep it to myself) and see how it goes "
go with the flow!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Thing is Op I think there is a natural moment when the idea of a social meet comes up. Pushing this will only get you blocked on here as a lot of woman me included don't like pushiness. When it feels right to both party's they will meet, be that two days or six months or longerwell I'm gonna stick by a rule Im gonna make up( I'll keep it to myself) and see how it goes go with the flow!!!!

Yes kinda important if you want her flowing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

OP you sound like a petulant child. And a pushy one. If you dont listen to the advice being given then you will become another UNLOS sooner rather than later...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP you sound like a petulant child. And a pushy one. If you dont listen to the advice being given then you will become another UNLOS sooner rather than later...

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there is no advice given! All is given is the way certain women who posted want to do things! There is nothing as bad as chatting week upon end about the same stuff! Let's face it without knowing the person properly you cannot bring up new topics

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP you sound like a petulant child. And a pushy one. If you dont listen to the advice being given then you will become another UNLOS sooner rather than later...

there is no advice given! All is given is the way certain women who posted want to do things! There is nothing as bad as chatting week upon end about the same stuff! Let's face it without knowing the person properly you cannot bring up new topics "

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"One message sent hey wanna fuck

then job done!!!!!

How long is a piece of string.

Ssssshhhh let's thought that our secret."
whoops sorry llong so it is

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"OP you sound like a petulant child. And a pushy one. If you dont listen to the advice being given then you will become another UNLOS sooner rather than later...

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?"
intitate what? The next step?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Just show her this thead, should get things moving along one way or another

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What advice lol you have a gut instinct!! Go with it ..and if you gotta force something but it probably aint happening...chill, relax and enjoy the banter...see where it goes ..and as 'they' say...good things come to those who wait lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?"

Well that or new topics

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"OP you sound like a petulant child. And a pushy one. If you dont listen to the advice being given then you will become another UNLOS sooner rather than later...

Pmsl... It's called conversation!! I could chat about 100 different things in one 'chat' session

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topics"
u can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"OP you sound like a petulant child. And a pushy one. If you dont listen to the advice being given then you will become another UNLOS sooner rather than later...

Pmsl... It's called conversation!! I could chat about 100 different things in one 'chat' session"

Mmmmmm......Ladies- 1...OP-Nil

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO "

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

Chat about the weather. That'll give you four or five different conversations every single day!

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

Ah now I understand your name....lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

"
yes I am to an extent but still doesn't take from the fact that weeks upon end of chatting on here gets very repetitive

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By *longshottMan over a year ago

Limerick

"What advice lol you have a gut instinct!! Go with it ..and if you gotta force something but it probably aint happening...chill, relax and enjoy the banter...see where it goes ..and as 'they' say...good things come to those who wait lol "

Lol really....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Chat about the weather. That'll give you four or five different conversations every single day! "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol really....

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really

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

"
every site has faults let's be honest lol

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By *longshottMan over a year ago

Limerick

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding session

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

yes I am to an extent but still doesn't take from the fact that weeks upon end of chatting on here gets very repetitive "

Have you actually tried asking at some point during your weeks upon end the simple question would she like to meet up for a chat. You don't have to wait for her to ask

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

yes I am to an extent but still doesn't take from the fact that weeks upon end of chatting on here gets very repetitive

Have you actually tried asking at some point during your weeks upon end the simple question would she like to meet up for a chat. You don't have to wait for her to ask "
i have suggested the next step of Skype phone call meet and was told no for a couple a diff reasons

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding session"
okkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

"
im sure lol loose sleep tonight over it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

yes I am to an extent but still doesn't take from the fact that weeks upon end of chatting on here gets very repetitive

Have you actually tried asking at some point during your weeks upon end the simple question would she like to meet up for a chat. You don't have to wait for her to ask i have suggested the next step of Skype phone call meet and was told no for a couple a diff reasons "

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By *longshottMan over a year ago

Limerick

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

Let's so just you and me then lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

yes I am to an extent but still doesn't take from the fact that weeks upon end of chatting on here gets very repetitive

Well maybe she's not the interested in meeting then but enjoys you endless chats. I know I have chatted to quite a few have never met them and well nothing wrong with that. It's nice to chat if it leads to meeting great if not still nice to get to know new people. "
ah mate in all fairness endless chatting without meeting is like cyber buddies, stuff you do on social networking sites

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

Let's so just you and me then lol"
ok llong let's get it on.

Hey op it did not take llong that long.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

im sure lol loose sleep tonight over it "

And this attitude wont help either! You might be surprised how many women read the forums. Your not helping yourself at all.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

im sure lol loose sleep tonight over it

And this attitude wont help either! You might be surprised how many women read the forums. Your not helping yourself at all.

"
what attitude? U can't resound to what someone related at you?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

yes I am to an extent but still doesn't take from the fact that weeks upon end of chatting on here gets very repetitive

Well maybe she's not the interested in meeting then but enjoys you endless chats. I know I have chatted to quite a few have never met them and well nothing wrong with that. It's nice to chat if it leads to meeting great if not still nice to get to know new people. ah mate in all fairness endless chatting without meeting is like cyber buddies, stuff you do on social networking sites

Well each to their own. But as was asked before in the thread how's that working out for you.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

im sure lol loose sleep tonight over it

And this attitude wont help either! You might be surprised how many women read the forums. Your not helping yourself at all.

what attitude? U can't resound to what someone related at you?"

Excuse me?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

yes I am to an extent but still doesn't take from the fact that weeks upon end of chatting on here gets very repetitive

Well maybe she's not the interested in meeting then but enjoys you endless chats. I know I have chatted to quite a few have never met them and well nothing wrong with that. It's nice to chat if it leads to meeting great if not still nice to get to know new people. ah mate in all fairness endless chatting without meeting is like cyber buddies, stuff you do on social networking sites

Well each to their own. But as was asked before in the thread how's that working out for you. "
it takes two to take the next step pal! I can't make it happen on my own! That's an obvious answer

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By *longshottMan over a year ago

Limerick

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

Let's so just you and me then lol ok llong let's get it on.

Hey op it did not take llong that long.

Must be my boyish charm let's

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

U love arguing op

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

im sure lol loose sleep tonight over it

And this attitude wont help either! You might be surprised how many women read the forums. Your not helping yourself at all.

what attitude? U can't resound to what someone related at you?

Excuse me?

"
you said that attitude won't help you! A poster said to me "you do my nut in" and I responded " I'm sure I'll loose sleep over it"!

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"Kkkk op but I find u repetitive in a way.

Your always picking faults on the site.

Let's fancy fault finding sessionokkk Llong but not with op joining in sorry op.u fo my nut in.

Let's so just you and me then lol ok llong let's get it on.

Hey op it did not take llong that long.

Must be my boyish charm let's"
it must be

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"U love arguing op "
i actually don't! Iove simlifying things

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"U love arguing op "

Would be ok if he was good at it....

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

What in God's name do u want.?

Spit it out.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What in God's name do u want.?

Spit it out. "
think about that question! What's everyone on here for?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

A shag...now! Lol

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"What in God's name do u want.?

Spit it out. think about that question! What's everyone on here for?"
doh I don't know! !!!! Ahhh here!!!!

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"What in God's name do u want.?

Spit it out. "

Attention...I'm guessing

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Why not? If she doesn't initiate it why don't you?intitate what? The next step?

Well that or new topicsu can't talk about new topics on a consecutive basis! Most chats take the same jist IMO

Oh sweet Jesus your pulling the piss now...I hope

yes I am to an extent but still doesn't take from the fact that weeks upon end of chatting on here gets very repetitive

same here!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Banging your head off a brick wall here me thinks

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If the conversation is repetitive and boring it may be that you don't have a nice connection. Now I know you're not really looking for that, but that could be the reason why.

I prefer meeting for coffee sooner or later too if I like the person. As I don't want to spend too much time online talking either. But as others said, life gets in the way sometimes.

In all honesty, if the conversation with this person is boring you now already, you're probably better off talking to someone else. I doubt it will get much better in person.

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"Banging your head off a brick wall here me thinks

"
kat it's the only banging he's doing..

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"What in God's name do u want.?

Spit it out. think about that question! What's everyone on here for?doh I don't know! !!!! Ahhh here!!!! "
meets with people! It won't be sex as I know that doesn't happen straight off but Jesus things go slower then a snail here! I heated a woman once say to a men here " ul be doing good if you get 1 meet on this site in 6 months"! I'm life holy mother of god

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Banging your head off a brick wall here me thinks

kat it's the only banging he's doing..

"
was exactly my thinking lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If the conversation is repetitive and boring it may be that you don't have a nice connection. Now I know you're not really looking for that, but that could be the reason why.

I prefer meeting for coffee sooner or later too if I like the person. As I don't want to spend too much time online talking either. But as others said, life gets in the way sometimes.

In all honesty, if the conversation with this person is boring you now already, you're probably better off talking to someone else. I doubt it will get much better in person. "
I could converse with a woman today starting with something in her profile! The next time she replies what new can you talk about! What did you do today, how was work etc

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

"
want me to be honest? I thought I would of had a coffee meet within 5 weeks! A lad I know wants to sign up here thinking he"ll get shaggin women within 2 weeks! He's 30 and his mind quickly changed when I told him how the site generally works

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By *longshottMan over a year ago

Limerick

"If the conversation is repetitive and boring it may be that you don't have a nice connection. Now I know you're not really looking for that, but that could be the reason why.

I prefer meeting for coffee sooner or later too if I like the person. As I don't want to spend too much time online talking either. But as others said, life gets in the way sometimes.

In all honesty, if the conversation with this person is boring you now already, you're probably better off talking to someone else. I doubt it will get much better in person. I could converse with a woman today starting with something in her profile! The next time she replies what new can you talk about! What did you do today, how was work etc"

You are over thinking it

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

want me to be honest? I thought I would of had a coffee meet within 5 weeks! A lad I know wants to sign up here thinking he"ll get shaggin women within 2 weeks! He's 30 and his mind quickly changed when I told him how the site generally works "

Now dont be putting potential guys off...just cos your slow doesn't mean he will. Ps is he fit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op has it ever crossed your mind that people just might not want to meet you? If your messages are like your posts on here I can see why going on gut feeling cos you don't think any of our opinions are valid which is the wrong attitude. Now I'm not saying every post you have to agree with what the women or others say but you don't even seem open to acknowledging that they may have a point. As I said most people rely on gut instinct as to when to meet and if they not feeling it they certainly won't feel you or any other male or couple or female for that matter

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Stop digging man....you aint doing yourself any favours

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If someone seems in no major rush and doesn't push to meet quickly I actually find that quite attractive... and I find myself trying to make it happen sooner.

The pushiness to meet can be a real turn off (for me anyway), and there is a certain attractiveness to a confident man who doesn't need to push

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"If the conversation is repetitive and boring it may be that you don't have a nice connection. Now I know you're not really looking for that, but that could be the reason why.

I prefer meeting for coffee sooner or later too if I like the person. As I don't want to spend too much time online talking either. But as others said, life gets in the way sometimes.

I'd be inclined to think that if your struggling to converse with her on day two, you'd probably be better off chatting to someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We meet at our own pace as do many others round here. We're meeting a couple this weekend we first messaged 6 months ago. We just haven't managed to meet before then. We've also people we met at the meet and greet who are now on our "to do list" lol that we'll arrange when schedules allow.

Its not always about what you want mr soaker.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op has it ever crossed your mind that people just might not want to meet you? If your messages are like your posts on here I can see why going on gut feeling cos you don't think any of our opinions are valid which is the wrong attitude. Now I'm not saying every post you have to agree with what the women or others say but you don't even seem open to acknowledging that they may have a point. As I said most people rely on gut instinct as to when to meet and if they not feeling it they certainly won't feel you or any other male or couple or female for that matter "
simple reply to that! Then why continue speaking?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Op I would Lmao if your friend joined and he got a meet before u..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Stop digging man....you aint doing yourself any favours

"
or his mates lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If the conversation is repetitive and boring it may be that you don't have a nice connection. Now I know you're not really looking for that, but that could be the reason why.

I prefer meeting for coffee sooner or later too if I like the person. As I don't want to spend too much time online talking either. But as others said, life gets in the way sometimes.

You do realise that most the people on here do read the forums may not always contribute. So in all probability whoever you have been chatting to now thinks you think they are boring. Probably not going to help but am sure you know that already

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Does he have any sisters my age?

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Now dont be putting potential guys off...just cos your slow doesn't mean he will. Ps is he fit

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

Ever think of that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

I don't expect women to see my side of things! I joined a sex site and tbh didn't intend chatting for months before I got a first Meet not sex! The site doesn't work the same for women as they have upmteen mails to choose from on a daily basis! Most women probably think the sites all roses and I can understand why

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Does he have any sisters my age?

"
ha ha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Now dont be putting potential guys off...just cos your slow doesn't mean he will. Ps is he fit

Is he in the west??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Auntie Georgie says take time getting to know their interests and bring them into the conversation, just because it is a swingers site does not mean all conversations have to be about sex. The purpose of swinging is to get to know the other person, have a connection and meet regularly otherwise it is just a one night stand site. Different people have different definitions of NSA but when it comes down to it both have to agreed on one.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Now dont be putting potential guys off...just cos your slow doesn't mean he will. Ps is he fit

Now OP...there ya go ...when a woman repeats herself you need to take note

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

Ever think of that?"
im not having the same problem with everyone! More then likely I'll intitate a convo! As I said when speaking to a person you don't know through a screen there is not 100's of things u can chat about on a regular basis for weeks upon end! Just my view! I'd ur still chatting to someone a week after initial contact why not take the next step?

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

Op I think I love you..

your everything I ever wanted

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Jaysus would need a JCB to dig this thread out of its hole lmao

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Now dont be putting potential guys off...just cos your slow doesn't mean he will. Ps is he fit

Now OP...there ya go ...when a woman repeats herself you need to take note

LOL I think I nodded off there...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Jaysus would need a JCB to dig this thread out of its hole lmao"
lol no talking to him ....no pun intended

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Op I think I love you..

your everything I ever wanted

Don't bore him.... Just meet now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

The initial point was why not take the next step a week after initial contact and the majority of women react negatively to it! scared wary etc must be the reasons to not do it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Now dont be putting potential guys off...just cos your slow doesn't mean he will. Ps is he fit

Now OP...there ya go ...when a woman repeats herself you need to take note

LOL I think I nodded off there...

"
ah you missed nothing lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

Ever think of that?im not having the same problem with everyone! More then likely I'll intitate a convo! As I said when speaking to a person you don't know through a screen there is not 100's of things u can chat about on a regular basis for weeks upon end! Just my view! I'd ur still chatting to someone a week after initial contact why not take the next step?"

Perhaps it depends on circumstance too, people cant meet at the drop of the hat, especially when they have kids, responsibilities etc. If you're patient, don't push the issue and wait, isn't that better than annoying her by pestering to meet and then ending up not meeting at all (cos you pissed her off)? I'm speaking from experience here...

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"The initial point was why not take the next step a week after initial contact and the majority of women react negatively to it! scared wary etc must be the reasons to not do it "

Because its not as simple as that....

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ffs man ur on in five weeks.

It in the secret social and knowing my luck darling I will get u we can argue over coffee deal.

Now dont be putting potential guys off...just cos your slow doesn't mean he will. Ps is he fit

Now OP...there ya go ...when a woman repeats herself you need to take note

LOL I think I nodded off there...

ah you missed nothing lol

I've got a keen eye

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

"
see ur picking me up all wrong! By the next step I don't been meeting in person!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"The initial point was why not take the next step a week after initial contact and the majority of women react negatively to it! scared wary etc must be the reasons to not do it

Because its not as simple as that...."
yes it is if u want it to be! As I said I simplify things and when I say next steep I don't meen meeting

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

see ur picking me up all wrong! By the next step I don't been meeting in person! "

What do you mean then?

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

see ur picking me up all wrong! By the next step I don't been meeting in person!

What do you mean then?"

Where's that wall kazz??

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

see ur picking me up all wrong! By the next step I don't been meeting in person!

What do you mean then?"
skype exchange contact details, chat on phone! Some of them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

see ur picking me up all wrong! By the next step I don't been meeting in person!

What do you mean then?

Where's that wall kazz??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

This has to be the most repetitive thread I have ever read

OP can't take constructive criticism well at all and every post is trying to give him just that

Next...

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I don't expect women to see my side of things! I joined a sex site and tbh didn't intend chatting for months before I got a first Meet not sex! The site doesn't work the same for women as they have upmteen mails to choose from on a daily basis! Most women probably think the sites all roses and I can understand why "

Incase u didnt notice both the women and the men have the same response to you on this thread.. :/ so its not just women who dont see ur side of things. Ur the only one that sees it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

see ur picking me up all wrong! By the next step I don't been meeting in person!

What do you mean then?

Where's that wall kazz??

"
deep breaths and go to your happy place lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice???"
oh so u have jibes at more then one male? Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Incase u didnt notice both the women and the men have the same response to you on this thread.. :/ so its not just women who dont see ur side of things. Ur the only one that sees it."
and if u noticed it's predominantly "older" men and as I said a few weeks ago this site is a lot more beneficial to older men! Veris prove that

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

see ur picking me up all wrong! By the next step I don't been meeting in person!

What do you mean then?skype exchange contact details, chat on phone! Some of them! "

I see where you are coming from but a lot of females have trust issues especially with the recent attacks. Also giving your number out is a big step one you can't take back and leaves the door open for abuse if things do not work out.

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice???oh so u have jibes at more then one male? Lol"

Reread...the important word was 'think'...

So I see the problem you don't read the answers fully..ahh makes sense now

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice???oh so u have jibes at more then one male? Lol

Reread...the important word was 'think'...

So I see the problem you don't read the answers fully..ahh makes sense now"
I saw think the first time

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Op if you're having the same problem with everyone then maybe the problem is you!

see ur picking me up all wrong! By the next step I don't been meeting in person!

What do you mean then?skype exchange contact details, chat on phone! Some of them!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

In this thread, I'm starting to wonder. Or via pm?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey Snickers, have you ever thought if a career in politics??...

With all your remarks and 'observations, you're not actually answering anyone's questions!...

Ok, so what's this now??...

Your 3rd profile here in what, just over a year??...

And you STILL ask the SAME questions, but WON'T accept anyone's responses!...

Don't get me wrong mate, at this stage, after all or any advice you get from anyone here you don't actually listen.

(Same as your profile before, and I think I recall, the one before that)...

1. Chill, relax into a conversation, enjoy chatting to someone (don't time it)

2. Always presume whoever your chatting to is also chatting with others, you're not on a pedestal (yet)

3. If your kind of 'pulling' doesn't work here, but as you said on other threads, it does in bars/clubs, then this place isn't for you.

4. I really don't care about how things go for you now, your questions are repetitive and boring (just like the conversations your having with other.

5. You're really not doing yourself any favours with these 'strategic' posts/threads, especially if your placing them in the very place in which you're looking to have success with some 'lucky' deserving woman...

Just my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet either

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet either"
so I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?"

Yes you could do that, talk about other things in the meantime to keep her interest

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?"

Another week maybe....lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?"

At last....the eagle has landed...repeat the eagle has landed

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?

Yes you could do that, talk about other things in the meantime to keep her interest"
how do you talk about other things! Without knowing the person properly there is not hundreds of things u can chat about

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice???"
ah Kim don't start please

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By *etmebeurfantasyWoman over a year ago

My town

"Hey Snickers, have you ever thought if a career in politics??...

With all your remarks and 'observations, you're not actually answering anyone's questions!...

Ok, so what's this now??...

Your 3rd profile here in what, just over a year??...

And you STILL ask the SAME questions, but WON'T accept anyone's responses!...

Don't get me wrong mate, at this stage, after all or any advice you get from anyone here you don't actually listen.

(Same as your profile before, and I think I recall, the one before that)...

1. Chill, relax into a conversation, enjoy chatting to someone (don't time it)

2. Always presume whoever your chatting to is also chatting with others, you're not on a pedestal (yet)

3. If your kind of 'pulling' doesn't work here, but as you said on other threads, it does in bars/clubs, then this place isn't for you.

4. I really don't care about how things go for you now, your questions are repetitive and boring (just like the conversations your having with other.

Just my opinion

"
fooey ur a legend

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Hey Snickers, have you ever thought if a career in politics??...

With all your remarks and 'observations, you're not actually answering anyone's questions!...

Ok, so what's this now??...

Your 3rd profile here in what, just over a year??...

And you STILL ask the SAME questions, but WON'T accept anyone's responses!...

Don't get me wrong mate, at this stage, after all or any advice you get from anyone here you don't actually listen.

(Same as your profile before, and I think I recall, the one before that)...

1. Chill, relax into a conversation, enjoy chatting to someone (don't time it)

2. Always presume whoever your chatting to is also chatting with others, you're not on a pedestal (yet)

3. If your kind of 'pulling' doesn't work here, but as you said on other threads, it does in bars/clubs, then this place isn't for you.

4. I really don't care about how things go for you now, your questions are repetitive and boring (just like the conversations your having with other.

Just my opinion

Bless you Fooey

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice??? ah Kim don't start please

"
what???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?

Yes you could do that, talk about other things in the meantime to keep her interesthow do you talk about other things! Without knowing the person properly there is not hundreds of things u can chat about "

That's why it's called getting to know her

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?

Ah here...this fella is off again...I'm going ta bed....night alllllll

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice??? ah Kim don't start please

what???

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sure it was me that met who ur on about and he got snagged for it least he helped out

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?

be interested in her and what she does, likes, her life if she's sharing some details.

Work on your building rapport skills and also showing empathy.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"On average how often/long do you chat to a person before meeting them?"

Consider american baseball rules: 3 strikes and out......

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?

That's why it's called getting to know her"
and as I said I feel through a screen here ur going to get to know a person as well as u can within a week consecutively chatting! U might then skype/chat and have a totally diff view! I get the vibe here on this thread lots love the weeks upon end chatting and if it leads to know next steo then "so be it"

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice??? ah Kim don't start please

what???

sure it was me that met who ur on about and he got snagged for it least he helped out"

I never mentioned you or anyone else so less of the accusations and assumptions please...

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Ladies...Ladies ...Ladies....will one of ye go and meet this man...pleaseeeeeeee....I would but I ammmmm...ahhhhhh...washing my hair..sorry, otherwise i would go

Where's 'he who will not be named in case he thinks I'm having a jibe at him' to take you for coffee to have words of advice??? ah Kim don't start please

what???

sure it was me that met who ur on about and he got snagged for it least he helped out"
a man met you?

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

Fuck it i cant see where ur going wrong i had my first coffee meet after five days and play date that night maybe this site is not for u

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?

be interested in her and what she does, likes, her life if she's sharing some details.

Work on your building rapport skills and also showing empathy. "
thats the problem! I have found a lot of women take offence to certain questions been asked and as they say questions make convos

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I never mentioned you or anyone else so less of the accusations and assumptions please..."
I'm not gona fight over it Kim I'm not like that so I'm gona stop it

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

you only present problems but never offer solutions.... and when solutions are offered you don't accept them by throwing more problems at us.

We just can't make you happy and we're trying so hard!!!!!!!

Throw us a frekking bone here!

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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I never mentioned you or anyone else so less of the accusations and assumptions please... I'm not gona fight over it Kim I'm not like that so I'm gona stop it "

Do because you come across as a nice young man and I wasn't making any dig at you or anyone...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about ye, you wee loon?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm always at my calmest and offer good advice during a good poop!...

Oops!... Did I just say that out loud??

I must get my inner monologue fixed sometime!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"you only present problems but never offer solutions.... and when solutions are offered you don't accept them by throwing more problems at us.

We just can't make you happy and we're trying so hard!!!!!!!

Throw us a frekking bone here! "
it's very hard when not one woman so far sees the site like I do! As I said before there seems to be a "set" way of doing things

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

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"you only present problems but never offer solutions.... and when solutions are offered you don't accept them by throwing more problems at us.

We just can't make you happy and we're trying so hard!!!!!!!

Throw us a frekking bone here! it's very hard when not one woman so far sees the site like I do! As I said before there seems to be a "set" way of doing things "

And he's off again.....next lot

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

soon the thread will be closed as it's too big... let's get there quick!!!

OP, there are no set ways. Everyone is different. But I still think this is not the site for you to be honest.

Now stop whining and have a wank. It helps. .

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Its gone tits up........Whistle...Whistle and stare at ceiling in pure ignorance of my surroundings...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

bump

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"soon the thread will be closed as it's too big... let's get there quick!!!

OP, there are no set ways. Everyone is different. But I still think this is not the site for you to be honest.

Now stop whining and have a wank. It helps. .

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id probably agree with you to an extent! The endless chatting and going nowhere! Don't thing it might be my cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

bump again

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By *imwildWoman over a year ago

around

"soon the thread will be closed as it's too big... let's get there quick!!!

OP, there are no set ways. Everyone is different. But I still think this is not the site for you to be honest.

Now stop whining and have a wank. It helps. .

I'm guessing that's his aim....closed thread not wank...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wanks always help!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yay we made it!! it's closed!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"soon the thread will be closed as it's too big... let's get there quick!!!

OP, there are no set ways. Everyone is different. But I still think this is not the site for you to be honest.

Now stop whining and have a wank. It helps. .

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By *j47Man over a year ago

limerick

Will u please just spend the next hr rereading this thread and come back and apologize to those that have tried their best to help u no two people are the same some i chat to have being chatting to over two years and still not met due to either distance or calendars clashing when it happens it will happen

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

a wank can always help... just to chillax and forget about all those demanding women on here with their boring endless chats lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What about ye, you wee loon?

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I recognise that chest lol....and nothing wee about me .. The loon part...I do wonder myself lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hey Snickers!!...

I've an idea!!...

How about, if I pull you in the secret social

, I travel down and give you a Masterclass in Wooness!??...

Just a thought!

Maybe the rest of the thread will support this??

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"If its via pm obviously they are not comfortable with meeting you yet, Simples. It's not ruled out yet eitherso I'll just give it a bit of time, mail again and see what the story is?

be interested in her and what she does, likes, her life if she's sharing some details.

Work on your building rapport skills and also showing empathy. "

Whoever she is..she must be a saint. I cant take much more of this!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

fooey and knicker

will you really travel that far JUST FOR A COFFE???? LOL

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

"Hey Snickers, have you ever thought if a career in politics??...

With all your remarks and 'observations, you're not actually answering anyone's questions!...

Ok, so what's this now??...

Your 3rd profile here in what, just over a year??...

And you STILL ask the SAME questions, but WON'T accept anyone's responses!...

Don't get me wrong mate, at this stage, after all or any advice you get from anyone here you don't actually listen.

(Same as your profile before, and I think I recall, the one before that)...

1. Chill, relax into a conversation, enjoy chatting to someone (don't time it)

2. Always presume whoever your chatting to is also chatting with others, you're not on a pedestal (yet)

3. If your kind of 'pulling' doesn't work here, but as you said on other threads, it does in bars/clubs, then this place isn't for you.

4. I really don't care about how things go for you now, your questions are repetitive and boring (just like the conversations your having with other.

Just my opinion

fooey ur a legend"

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

it doesn't have to end!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

still talking to myself here....

this conversation is just as boring as the OP's with his lady friend! LMAO

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

this one time, at boot camp.....

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whoop whoop!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We can all add new posts lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

yay!!! I'm no longer alone!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

so.. how you doin' Willve???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We can keep it going lol me n you sweetwhispers lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

just the two of us.... we can make it, if we try!!! Just the two of us! You and I!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I'm pretty good don't know why we gave been left on our own here. It's like bein in the pub after everyone's gone lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

kind of... or like 28 days later!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

When do you think it will stop lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I can go all night long lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don't know, never tested it!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

So everyone's intrigued sweetwhispers magical posts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

ah sure it's just a silly trick I learned on the UK forum

not sure I'll go all night though... haha

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

'Tis lovely weather we're having all the same!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe we can show the OP how to hold a conversation, Michael.

It's a bit breezy over here but it was sunny today for a few hours. Lovely it was. Are you enjoying the longer days?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Wonder when the all out confusion thread starts

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well sweetwhispers. Yeah the weathers getting good out love theese longer days not finishing work in the dark and all

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Isn't it nice! The mood lifts completely! In spring all the horny people leave their caves, clean up and try to get laid!

Oh hang on, those are bears wakening up from hybernation.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah we have to be quiet don't want to disturb them bears. Or they will be shitting all over the woods. And well I don't want to clean that up lol.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

oh no, them bear no 2s are mighty big

ok we officially have lost the plot!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Yeah we have dang it lol but in fairness as we have all stated there's no plot or real set out way for conversations to go just keeping in line with the ops original question. It's just about having a laugh

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

totally agree, just go with the flow! Even random things can be brought up and you end up having a great chat and laugh.

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By *ichael McCarthyMan over a year ago

Lucan

My apologies for the delay. Yes I'm enjoying the longer evenings. They're perfectly suited to longer threads!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

right, I think it's time to leave this thread! We don't want to exclude everyone else. Sure it was a bit of a laugh. Farewell my dear thread!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well will stop for now don't want anyone feeling left out.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Awk micheal welcome back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And just because I can... I'm adding this on here....

GROUNDHOG DAY!!!

Great movie btw!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well if you can add sweet so can I lol yes I loved that film tho don't fancy living it lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

some days would be great to re-live a few times! Or the ones you messed up big time...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Lol yeah that's very true there's a few days I'd love to go back and live again. And plenty I'd love to change lol.

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