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Secret shagger is lost on me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I don't get it, really. I understand how it works so no need to explain the rules. But why, If you want a date with someone on here don't you just ask them? Most of the guys must realise they are only going to get another guy or get omitted.
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"I don't get it, really. I understand how it works so no need to explain the rules. But why, If you want a date with someone on here don't you just ask them? Most of the guys must realise they are only going to get another guy or get omitted.
*sits back down "
Well what's so wrong with two men from a swingers site travelling several hours to have a coffee together ?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, really. I understand how it works so no need to explain the rules. But why, If you want a date with someone on here don't you just ask them? Most of the guys must realise they are only going to get another guy or get omitted.
*sits back down
Well what's so wrong with two men from a swingers site travelling several hours to have a coffee together ? "
Nothing, nothing at all |
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"I don't get it, really. I understand how it works so no need to explain the rules. But why, If you want a date with someone on here don't you just ask them? Most of the guys must realise they are only going to get another guy or get omitted.
*sits back down
Well what's so wrong with two men from a swingers site travelling several hours to have a coffee together ?
Nothing, nothing at all "
glad your not arguing for once  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The function of the secret social is to help people meet others, sometimes they maybe out of their age range but some nice friendships can be made over a coffee.
Last time some of the ladies and couples agreed to meet more than one person which helped a lot as more people got meets. Hopefully this time will be the same. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, really. I understand how it works so no need to explain the rules. But why, If you want a date with someone on here don't you just ask them? Most of the guys must realise they are only going to get another guy or get omitted.
*sits back down
Well what's so wrong with two men from a swingers site travelling several hours to have a coffee together ?
Nothing, nothing at all
glad your not arguing for once "
That's 'cos you're not talking shite for once.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The function of the secret social is to help people meet others, sometimes they maybe out of their age range but some nice friendships can be made over a coffee.
Last time some of the ladies and couples agreed to meet more than one person which helped a lot as more people got meets. Hopefully this time will be the same."
I completely agree, a social drink can be a fantastic ice-breaker. But haven't people got age restrictions or other preferences listed for a reason? |
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"I don't get it, really. I understand how it works so no need to explain the rules. But why, If you want a date with someone on here don't you just ask them? Most of the guys must realise they are only going to get another guy or get omitted.
*sits back down
Well what's so wrong with two men from a swingers site travelling several hours to have a coffee together ?
Nothing, nothing at all
glad your not arguing for once
That's 'cos you're not talking shite for once. "
no need for abuse u scoundrel lol. |
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By *ongbow71Man
over a year ago
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The general idea is to get people out of their comfort zone and meet people they wouldn't normally. Because the only commitment is coffee (*other hot and cold beverages are also available), it's a good opportunity to expand your friend base and also gives the genuine guys the chance to get a verification.
Logistically, it's a nightmare to run and organise, (our living room floor is a sea of paper come draw time), and there will always be more guys than couples entering, so yes, some do lose out, but it's just supposed to be a bit of fun. If we all remember that then it will turn out grand. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't get it, really. I understand how it works so no need to explain the rules. But why, If you want a date with someone on here don't you just ask them? Most of the guys must realise they are only going to get another guy or get omitted.
*sits back down
Well what's so wrong with two men from a swingers site travelling several hours to have a coffee together ?
Nothing, nothing at all
glad your not arguing for once
That's 'cos you're not talking shite for once.
no need for abuse u scoundrel lol."
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The general idea is to get people out of their comfort zone and meet people they wouldn't normally. Because the only commitment is coffee (*other hot and cold beverages are also available), it's a good opportunity to expand your friend base and also gives the genuine guys the chance to get a verification.
Logistically, it's a nightmare to run and organise, (our living room floor is a sea of paper come draw time), and there will always be more guys than couples entering, so yes, some do lose out, but it's just supposed to be a bit of fun. If we all remember that then it will turn out grand."
So it's basically for guys who can't get a meet....there's no 'commitment', if someone gets paired with someone they don't like the look/sound of then they're not going to meet are they? |
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"The general idea is to get people out of their comfort zone and meet people they wouldn't normally. Because the only commitment is coffee (*other hot and cold beverages are also available), it's a good opportunity to expand your friend base and also gives the genuine guys the chance to get a verification.
Logistically, it's a nightmare to run and organise, (our living room floor is a sea of paper come draw time), and there will always be more guys than couples entering, so yes, some do lose out, but it's just supposed to be a bit of fun. If we all remember that then it will turn out grand.
So it's basically for guys who can't get a meet....there's no 'commitment', if someone gets paired with someone they don't like the look/sound of then they're not going to meets are they?"
Nobody's asking u to take part, if you don't like it move on and stop criticising,,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The general idea is to get people out of their comfort zone and meet people they wouldn't normally. Because the only commitment is coffee (*other hot and cold beverages are also available), it's a good opportunity to expand your friend base and also gives the genuine guys the chance to get a verification.
Logistically, it's a nightmare to run and organise, (our living room floor is a sea of paper come draw time), and there will always be more guys than couples entering, so yes, some do lose out, but it's just supposed to be a bit of fun. If we all remember that then it will turn out grand.
So it's basically for guys who can't get a meet....there's no 'commitment', if someone gets paired with someone they don't like the look/sound of then they're not going to meets are they?
Nobody's asking u to take part, if you don't like it move on and stop criticising,,, "
I think that's actually a valid question. If you where to ask previous participants, how many have actually gone through with it? Speaking for myself, I feel I've made an effort to meet |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The general idea is to get people out of their comfort zone and meet people they wouldn't normally. Because the only commitment is coffee (*other hot and cold beverages are also available), it's a good opportunity to expand your friend base and also gives the genuine guys the chance to get a verification.
Logistically, it's a nightmare to run and organise, (our living room floor is a sea of paper come draw time), and there will always be more guys than couples entering, so yes, some do lose out, but it's just supposed to be a bit of fun. If we all remember that then it will turn out grand.
So it's basically for guys who can't get a meet....there's no 'commitment', if someone gets paired with someone they don't like the look/sound of then they're not going to meets are they?
Nobody's asking u to take part, if you don't like it move on and stop criticising,,, "
My thread, my questions & conclusions. If YOU don't have anything useful to add to MY thread, jog on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are trying to encourage people to meet their draw partners, this time their is a rule that if a good enough excuse is made they may decline. But it also states you must be willing to meet everyone on the thread, or a ban for the next one will be implemented. It is a lot of hard work and most do try to make it happen |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are trying to encourage people to meet their draw partners, this time their is a rule that if a good enough excuse is made they may decline. But it also states you must be willing to meet everyone on the thread, or a ban for the next one will be implemented. It is a lot of hard work and most do try to make it happen"
It sounds like a lot of organising on your behalf & for that I salute you. |
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"We are trying to encourage people to meet their draw partners, this time their is a rule that if a good enough excuse is made they may decline. But it also states you must be willing to meet everyone on the thread, or a ban for the next one will be implemented. It is a lot of hard work and most do try to make it happen"
well done trying to organise it, can't be easy with the negative ppl  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Everyone has their opinions and I for one respect that. It is just silly to get into a slanging match about something so trivial. Life is too short we should just all get along. Dear god I sound like a moon child lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We are trying to encourage people to meet their draw partners, this time their is a rule that if a good enough excuse is made they may decline. But it also states you must be willing to meet everyone on the thread, or a ban for the next one will be implemented. It is a lot of hard work and most do try to make it happen
well done trying to organise it, can't be easy with the negative ppl"
Or the auld ones.
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"Everyone has their opinions and I for one respect that. It is just silly to get into a slanging match about something so trivial. Life is too short we should just all get along. Dear god I sound like a moon child lol"
just ignore them. |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
Gods Own Country |
"I have met a few of my matches. Now they didn't need a verification but it was still nice to meet new people.
I have met most of mine too and enjoyed meeting people out of my comfort zone "
Wait til it's in the danger zone.....cue TopGun music |
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"I have met a few of my matches. Now they didn't need a verification but it was still nice to meet new people.
I have met most of mine too and enjoyed meeting people out of my comfort zone
Wait til it's in the danger zone.....cue TopGun music "
Love that sound track.....x |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"I have met a few of my matches. Now they didn't need a verification but it was still nice to meet new people.
I have met most of mine too and enjoyed meeting people out of my comfort zone
Wait til it's in the danger zone.....cue TopGun music
Love that sound track.....x"
Brilliant...Kenny Logins lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's going to organise the first speed shagging event? "
Had thought of a speed coffee meet, hire a hall and everyone has five minutes to chat and move on, and if it works out then a speed shagging could be on the cards lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's going to organise the first speed shagging event?
Had thought of a speed coffee meet, hire a hall and everyone has five minutes to chat and move on, and if it works out then a speed shagging could be on the cards lol "
What about making it speed drinking  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's going to organise the first speed shagging event?
Had thought of a speed coffee meet, hire a hall and everyone has five minutes to chat and move on, and if it works out then a speed shagging could be on the cards lol
What about making it speed drinking "
Bad idea |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's going to organise the first speed shagging event?
Had thought of a speed coffee meet, hire a hall and everyone has five minutes to chat and move on, and if it works out then a speed shagging could be on the cards lol
What about making it speed drinking
Bad idea "
Very bad idea then the ladies would get no action  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who's going to organise the first speed shagging event?
Had thought of a speed coffee meet, hire a hall and everyone has five minutes to chat and move on, and if it works out then a speed shagging could be on the cards lol
What about making it speed drinking
Bad idea
Very bad idea then the ladies would get no action "
Some of the men wouldn't either lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who's going to organise the first speed shagging event?
Had thought of a speed coffee meet, hire a hall and everyone has five minutes to chat and move on, and if it works out then a speed shagging could be on the cards lol
What about making it speed drinking
Bad idea
Very bad idea then the ladies would get no action "
Lol aww sure the guys could keep it going and all them that get left out won't remember  |
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