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over a year ago
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This is as stated a secret social, a draw for a coffee meet it is up to the individuals if they both want more. The objective is to encourage you to try something new and expand your friend base.
Right going to do one next week, as I said there are a few changes to keep in mind. These are to try and iron out some of the issues that have arisen.
Distance? I have addressed this by splitting Ireland in three (areas to follow)
You may enter more areas than your own only if you are willing to travel to the limits of the other areas.
Ladies and couples may enter more than once if they wish too. Simply enter your name in that section the amount of times you are willing to meet.
You must be verified or be picture verified or have a public picture on your profile( cock pics do not count)
You must be willing to meet everyone on the lists in case you are drawn against them. Non meets without a valid reason will be banned from the next one. If you have filters up it is your responsibility to contact your meet.
Abuse of any sort will result in a ban.
The draw will take this form all females and couples will be placed in one box and the males in another box ( this will be on a first listed bases, ie if there are 27 fems/ cpls the first 27 guys one the list will be entered) a draw will then take place matching one name against the other. Any spare males will be put into the reserve list and will be given a meet if any drop out or if any of the female or couples want to arrange to meet you individually.
Draws will open at 10pm on Thursday 27th and will close on at 10pm on Tuesday 4th. The draw will be made on the Wednesday 5th results posted that night.
Good luck everyone
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is as stated a secret social, a draw for a coffee meet it is up to the individuals if they both want more. The objective is to encourage you to try something new and expand your friend base.
Right going to do one next week, as I said there are a few changes to keep in mind. These are to try and iron out some of the issues that have arisen.
Distance? I have addressed this by splitting Ireland in three (areas to follow)
You may enter more areas than your own only if you are willing to travel to the limits of the other areas.
Ladies and couples may enter more than once if they wish too. Simply enter your name in that section the amount of times you are willing to meet.
You must be verified or be picture verified or have a public picture on your profile( cock pics do not count)
You must be willing to meet everyone on the lists in case you are drawn against them. Non meets without a valid reason will be banned from the next one. If you have filters up it is your responsibility to contact your meet.
Abuse of any sort will result in a ban.
The draw will take this form all females and couples will be placed in one box and the males in another box ( this will be on a first listed bases, ie if there are 27 fems/ cpls the first 27 guys one the list will be entered) a draw will then take place matching one name against the other. Any spare males will be put into the reserve list and will be given a meet if any drop out or if any of the female or couples want to arrange to meet you individually.
Draws will open at 10pm on Thursday 27th and will close on at 10pm on Tuesday 4th. The draw will be made on the Wednesday 5th results posted that night.
Good luck everyone
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Grate idea 
So we just post in here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed"
That's a problem for me. Is there nothing we can do to change that?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is as stated a secret social, a draw for a coffee meet it is up to the individuals if they both want more. The objective is to encourage you to try something new and expand your friend base.
Right going to do one next week, as I said there are a few changes to keep in mind. These are to try and iron out some of the issues that have arisen.
Distance? I have addressed this by splitting Ireland in three (areas to follow)
You may enter more areas than your own only if you are willing to travel to the limits of the other areas.
Ladies and couples may enter more than once if they wish too. Simply enter your name in that section the amount of times you are willing to meet.
You must be verified or be picture verified or have a public picture on your profile( cock pics do not count)
You must be willing to meet everyone on the lists in case you are drawn against them. Non meets without a valid reason will be banned from the next one. If you have filters up it is your responsibility to contact your meet.
Abuse of any sort will result in a ban.
The draw will take this form all females and couples will be placed in one box and the males in another box ( this will be on a first listed bases, ie if there are 27 fems/ cpls the first 27 guys one the list will be entered) a draw will then take place matching one name against the other. Any spare males will be put into the reserve list and will be given a meet if any drop out or if any of the female or couples want to arrange to meet you individually.
Draws will open at 10pm on Thursday 27th and will close on at 10pm on Tuesday 4th. The draw will be made on the Wednesday 5th results posted that night.
Good luck everyone
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Your doing a great job georgiana
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed
That's a problem for me. Is there nothing we can do to change that??"
Why would it be a problem for you the lists haven't even been posted yet? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed
I'd like a Georgia "
Good luck |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed
That's a problem for me. Is there nothing we can do to change that??
Why would it be a problem for you the lists haven't even been posted yet?"
I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few.   |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"This is as stated a secret social, a draw for a coffee meet it is up to the individuals if they both want more. The objective is to encourage you to try something new and expand your friend base.
Right going to do one next week, as I said there are a few changes to keep in mind. These are to try and iron out some of the issues that have arisen.
Distance? I have addressed this by splitting Ireland in three (areas to follow)
You may enter more areas than your own only if you are willing to travel to the limits of the other areas.
Ladies and couples may enter more than once if they wish too. Simply enter your name in that section the amount of times you are willing to meet.
You must be verified or be picture verified or have a public picture on your profile( cock pics do not count)
You must be willing to meet everyone on the lists in case you are drawn against them. Non meets without a valid reason will be banned from the next one. If you have filters up it is your responsibility to contact your meet.
Abuse of any sort will result in a ban.
The draw will take this form all females and couples will be placed in one box and the males in another box ( this will be on a first listed bases, ie if there are 27 fems/ cpls the first 27 guys one the list will be entered) a draw will then take place matching one name against the other. Any spare males will be put into the reserve list and will be given a meet if any drop out or if any of the female or couples want to arrange to meet you individually.
Draws will open at 10pm on Thursday 27th and will close on at 10pm on Tuesday 4th. The draw will be made on the Wednesday 5th results posted that night.
Good luck everyone
Your doing a great job georgiana
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed
That's a problem for me. Is there nothing we can do to change that??
Why would it be a problem for you the lists haven't even been posted yet?
I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few. "
id guess it's the luck of the draw |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few. 
This is a draw for a social meet. I am not playing match maker "
Awh but you could be so good at it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed
That's a problem for me. Is there nothing we can do to change that??
Why would it be a problem for you the lists haven't even been posted yet?
I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few. id guess it's the luck of the draw "
This is very true |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few.
This is a draw for a social meet. I am not playing match maker
Awh but you could be so good at it "
Been there done that cost a fortune in wedding pressys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few.
This is a draw for a social meet. I am not playing match maker "
I know and i appreciate that. Ah sure we will give it a bash.
Fair play to you. and thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed
That's a problem for me. Is there nothing we can do to change that??
Why would it be a problem for you the lists haven't even been posted yet?
I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few. "
ah here will u get a grip....thats jus creating problems.if ur afraid ur gonna be matched with someone u dont want to then dont enter.it really is that simple.dont make it complicated good boy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed
That's a problem for me. Is there nothing we can do to change that??
Why would it be a problem for you the lists haven't even been posted yet?
I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few. ah here will u get a grip....thats jus creating problems.if ur afraid ur gonna be matched with someone u dont want to then dont enter.it really is that simple.dont make it complicated good boy "
Now now cat behave. 
I chanced my arm to see if anything would be done was politely told to feck off so i moved on.
Now you behave or you will be getting a spanking |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What happens if you sign up and then someone who you don't want to meet signs up after?
That is the luck if the draw you keep your fingers crossed
That's a problem for me. Is there nothing we can do to change that??
Why would it be a problem for you the lists haven't even been posted yet?
I mean if i got put with someone i didn't want to meet. Sadly there is a few. ah here will u get a grip....thats jus creating problems.if ur afraid ur gonna be matched with someone u dont want to then dont enter.it really is that simple.dont make it complicated good boy "
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By (user no longer on site)
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Well done G.....a lot of work involved.....hope its appreciated. I wont be taking part this time but best of luck to you. I hope it runs smoothly and best of luck to all who enter .....hope you all get your wish |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This is as stated a secret social, a draw for a coffee meet it is up to the individuals if they both want more. The objective is to encourage you to try something new and expand your friend base.
Right going to do one next week, as I said there are a few changes to keep in mind. These are to try and iron out some of the issues that have arisen.
Distance? I have addressed this by splitting Ireland in three (areas to follow)
You may enter more areas than your own only if you are willing to travel to the limits of the other areas.
Ladies and couples may enter more than once if they wish too. Simply enter your name in that section the amount of times you are willing to meet.
You must be verified or be picture verified or have a public picture on your profile( cock pics do not count)
You must be willing to meet everyone on the lists in case you are drawn against them. Non meets without a valid reason will be banned from the next one. If you have filters up it is your responsibility to contact your meet.
Abuse of any sort will result in a ban.
The draw will take this form all females and couples will be placed in one box and the males in another box ( this will be on a first listed bases, ie if there are 27 fems/ cpls the first 27 guys one the list will be entered) a draw will then take place matching one name against the other. Any spare males will be put into the reserve list and will be given a meet if any drop out or if any of the female or couples want to arrange to meet you individually.
Draws will open at 10pm on Thursday 27th and will close on at 10pm on Tuesday 4th. The draw will be made on the Wednesday 5th results posted that night.
Good luck everyone
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ill go in |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Suppose its only a coffee meet so even if its someone u don't like its 15 min for coffee polite excuse and out the door like a shot,wouldn't work for us as we have quiet specific criteria but good luck organising it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Have been asked if I would make the lists go up sooner, I will open the lists on Monday 24th and close on Thursday 27th. Will post the areas later today |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Read the rules carefully as putting your name in the draw will mean you have read the rules and agreed to them. Everyone entered into the secret social must be able to and willing to travel to the borders of that area.
You may request to be withdrawn from the draw within the first 24 hours after the draws have closed by pm me.
Good luck everyone |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Why assume women and couples want to meet single men? Many couple profiles I come across don't want to. Why not just throw everyone in the same hat. It's a social after all. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Why assume women and couples want to meet single men? Many couple profiles I come across don't want to. Why not just throw everyone in the same hat. It's a social after all. "
Because we have done that and a lot of guys ended up with guys. The couples and girls know they will be place with a single guy already |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?"
North, middle or south |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south "
Ok. Sorry too far for me. |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me. "
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle |
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By *imwildWoman
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle"
Still too far... |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far..."
No problems |
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By *imwildWoman
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far...
No problems"
I think what your doing is commendable, great idea but my area goes from Galway to Dublin that's just too vast an area for just a coffee. Imo. |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far..."
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me |
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By *imwildWoman
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far...
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me"
that's what frightens me...lol  |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too f
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me that's what frightens me...lol "
Ouchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh |
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By *imwildWoman
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too f
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me that's what frightens me...lol
Ouchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh "
joking... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far...
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me"
Well maybe as an incentive for more couples and women to sign up the men should have to travel the distance if possible. And if a man decides its too far for him to travel then he pulls out and another guy is drawn in his place. This would give more guys a chance and more of an incentive for women.
It's only a suggestion. |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far...
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me
Well maybe as an incentive for more couples and women to sign up the men should have to travel the distance if possible. And if a man decides its too far for him to travel then he pulls out and another guy is drawn in his place. This would give more guys a chance and more of an incentive for women.
It's only a suggestion."
Good suggestion. I for one would feel more secure. I don't like to travel out of comfort zone on a coffee meet. |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too f
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me that's what frightens me...lol
Ouchhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh joking..."
You've hurt me now...you'll have to make it up to me...no other option for ya |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far...
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me
Well maybe as an incentive for more couples and women to sign up the men should have to travel the distance if possible. And if a man decides its too far for him to travel then he pulls out and another guy is drawn in his place. This would give more guys a chance and more of an incentive for women.
It's only a suggestion."
I like your thinking it sounds quite doable. |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far...
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me
Well maybe as an incentive for more couples and women to sign up the men should have to travel the distance if possible. And if a man decides its too far for him to travel then he pulls out and another guy is drawn in his place. This would give more guys a chance and more of an incentive for women.
It's only a suggestion.
I like your thinking it sounds quite doable."
You look quite doable yourself lol
Well as _imwild says she's not comfy traveling for coffee to a strange place which is understandable. |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far...
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me
Well maybe as an incentive for more couples and women to sign up the men should have to travel the distance if possible. And if a man decides its too far for him to travel then he pulls out and another guy is drawn in his place. This would give more guys a chance and more of an incentive for women.
It's only a suggestion.
I like your thinking it sounds quite doable.
You look quite doable yourself lol
Well as _imwild says she's not comfy traveling for coffee to a strange place which is understandable. "
I myself prefer to meet at my house I feel safer here mainly because I have two magnetic racks of knives on the wall in the kitchen for anyone who steps out over the mark lol :- |
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"Question: when you say willing to travel to the boundary of area, are you saying county boundary or division boundary i.e north, middle,south ?
North, middle or south
Ok. Sorry too far for me.
Most people will try and meet somewhere in the middle
Still too far...
Ahhh Ms Wild...go for it...you could get me
Well maybe as an incentive for more couples and women to sign up the men should have to travel the distance if possible. And if a man decides its too far for him to travel then he pulls out and another guy is drawn in his place. This would give more guys a chance and more of an incentive for women.
It's only a suggestion.
I like your thinking it sounds quite doable.
You look quite doable yourself lol
Well as _imwild says she's not comfy traveling for coffee to a strange place which is understandable.
I myself prefer to meet at my house I feel safer here mainly because I have two magnetic racks of knives on the wall in the kitchen for anyone who steps out over the mark lol :- "
Sounds interesting |
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