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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I havnt a clue could you do it or would it work but what about limiting the numbers who can use this site, for exp so many couples, males and females! I dunno should I have couples in there as I don't think that's an issue as this site is predominantly for couples but deffo an issue for single males as per females |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What would be your aim? Cause if it's to increase chances of getting a meet, I don't think it will work as you will still have some not willing to meet others as they don't fit what they are looking for |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I havnt a clue could you do it or would it work but what about limiting the numbers who can use this site, for exp so many couples, males and females! I dunno should I have couples in there as I don't think that's an issue as this site is predominantly for couples but deffo an issue for single males as per females "
If you limited the numbers, the first to be limited would probably be single males.........and you might be one of them. Better to let everyone take their chances really.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I havnt a clue could you do it or would it work but what about limiting the numbers who can use this site, for exp so many couples, males and females! I dunno should I have couples in there as I don't think that's an issue as this site is predominantly for couples but deffo an issue for single males as per females If you limited the numbers, the first to be limited would probably be single males.........and you might be one of them. Better to let everyone take their chances really. "
you limit on ages! A certain number of one age category a certain number of the next and so on so forth! Just a suggestion! I'd imagine it would be more enjoyable
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What would be your aim? Cause if it's to increase chances of getting a meet, I don't think it will work as you will still have some not willing to meet others as they don't fit what they are looking for"
the main point to my suggestion is there is way to many men in relation to women on this site! Maybe not the same numbers of each but deffo not the gulf in numbers you have at the moment
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can see where you are going with it but just don't think it's feasible. You would probably still run into the issues of males joining up as females and/or couples skewing the results. Also how could you decide which males would get booted off or mot allowed to join? Good idea just don't think it would work in practice |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I havnt a clue could you do it or would it work but what about limiting the numbers who can use this site, for exp so many couples, males and females! I dunno should I have couples in there as I don't think that's an issue as this site is predominantly for couples but deffo an issue for single males as per females "
Seriously for admin it's about making a profit so they are not going to limit users.
How about spending less time in the forums and more time sending interesting mail to your choice preference to start conversation and go from there. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I can see where you are going with it but just don't think it's feasible. You would probably still run into the issues of males joining up as females and/or couples skewing the results. Also how could you decide which males would get booted off or mot allowed to join? Good idea just don't think it would work in practice"
you get your numbers set in stone and as a male or a female leaves of blocks their profile you let another sign up! On the fakes issue? You have them on every single site on the net and only wY of stopping it is IP addresses
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I havnt a clue could you do it or would it work but what about limiting the numbers who can use this site, for exp so many couples, males and females! I dunno should I have couples in there as I don't think that's an issue as this site is predominantly for couples but deffo an issue for single males as per females
Seriously for admin it's about making a profit so they are not going to limit users.
How about spending less time in the forums and more time sending interesting mail to your choice preference to start conversation and go from there."
i send many mails aday since the first day I signed up here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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But its policing the fakes that could be the issue. Give you an example, I report you or you report me for being fake and admin block either or our ip addresses as a result. Do you see how this could be open to abuse? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But its policing the fakes that could be the issue. Give you an example, I report you or you report me for being fake and admin block either or our ip addresses as a result. Do you see how this could be open to abuse?"
see that's where I come in! I wouldn't report anybody on any site! I like the site controllers do that job! The main point is there is far to many men on here to women
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well unless you get women to rally up their female friends lol that's the way it will be....also goes for females getting too much mail and missing loads...its just the way it is...perseverance!!.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But its policing the fakes that could be the issue. Give you an example, I report you or you report me for being fake and admin block either or our ip addresses as a result. Do you see how this could be open to abuse?see that's where I come in! I wouldn't report anybody on any site! I like the site controllers do that job! The main point is there is far to many men on here to women "
If no one reports anybody for being fake how then would admin find out the fakes? 
There may be too many men on site but the real genuine men will get meets |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well unless you get women to rally up their female friends lol that's the way it will be....also goes for females getting too much mail and missing loads...its just the way it is...perseverance!!.."
lol for your side, lower the number of males on here for you and lots of your mails won't be gettin missed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well unless you get women to rally up their female friends lol that's the way it will be....also goes for females getting too much mail and missing loads...its just the way it is...perseverance!!..lol for your side, lower the number of males on here for you and lots of your mails won't be gettin missed "
but then you could lose all the good ones! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"But its policing the fakes that could be the issue. Give you an example, I report you or you report me for being fake and admin block either or our ip addresses as a result. Do you see how this could be open to abuse?see that's where I come in! I wouldn't report anybody on any site! I like the site controllers do that job! The main point is there is far to many men on here to women
If no one reports anybody for being fake how then would admin find out the fakes?
There may be too many men on site but the real genuine men will get meets "
all genuine men won't get meets! There is just to big a gap to numbers and then women love this " quality over quantity"!
I shoukd of said it might be your gut instict they're fake but how can you prove it and be sure |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well unless you get women to rally up their female friends lol that's the way it will be....also goes for females getting too much mail and missing loads...its just the way it is...perseverance!!..lol for your side, lower the number of males on here for you and lots of your mails won't be gettin missed but then you could lose all the good ones! Lol "
no you won't lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well unless you get women to rally up their female friends lol that's the way it will be....also goes for females getting too much mail and missing loads...its just the way it is...perseverance!!..lol for your side, lower the number of males on here for you and lots of your mails won't be gettin missed but then you could lose all the good ones! Lol no you won't lol"
too risky lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All the normal/upstanding/conversation flowing/men here will get meets"
a conversation has to be started on here for it to flow, something that's certainly not an easy feat
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"All the normal/upstanding/conversation flowing/men here will get meetsa conversation has to be started on here for it to flow, something that's certainly not an easy feat"
Don't worry your not alone  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the normal/upstanding/conversation flowing/men here will get meets"
not always ..I got to agree with him to a degree..I did a mass delete of msgs ...1000s..how was I to know who's msg I deleted, single females can't sit on fab all day reading a few hundred msgs...
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the normal/upstanding/conversation flowing/men here will get meetsnot always ..I got to agree with him to a degree..I did a mass delete of msgs ...1000s..how was I to know who's msg I deleted, single females can't sit on fab all day reading a few hundred msgs..."
No, no the normal ones will get a meet. Obv most of their mail don't get read but they'll gey lucky sooner rather than later.
Can I ask you "knickersoaker"
What's you ideal woman here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"All the normal/upstanding/conversation flowing/men here will get meetsnot always ..I got to agree with him to a degree..I did a mass delete of msgs ...1000s..how was I to know who's msg I deleted, single females can't sit on fab all day reading a few hundred msgs..."
I know what you mean but how does it get decided who goes who stays.
I personal don't think it would be fair and don't think it should be done. Sadly the problem you have is your cross to bear. Don't me that smart just saying. Sure its a good complaint to have. I remember at the start not having one mail for days but had to stick it out.
Came good in the end.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the normal/upstanding/conversation flowing/men here will get meetsnot always ..I got to agree with him to a degree..I did a mass delete of msgs ...1000s..how was I to know who's msg I deleted, single females can't sit on fab all day reading a few hundred msgs...
I know what you mean but how does it get decided who goes who stays.
I personal don't think it would be fair and don't think it should be done. Sadly the problem you have is your cross to bear. Don't me that smart just saying. Sure its a good complaint to have. I remember at the start not having one mail for days but had to stick it out.
Came good in the end. "
that's what I was saying lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"All the normal/upstanding/conversation flowing/men here will get meetsnot always ..I got to agree with him to a degree..I did a mass delete of msgs ...1000s..how was I to know who's msg I deleted, single females can't sit on fab all day reading a few hundred msgs..."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love the grouphug!!!! Knickersoaker............ You badly need a ride man......youre doing too much thinking and you like to hear yourself talk. Maybe you should just set up your own swingers website and you can control everything.....just a suggestion.........happy Valentine's day x |
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By *ean299Man
over a year ago
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"I havnt a clue could you do it or would it work but what about limiting the numbers who can use this site, for exp so many couples, males and females! I dunno should I have couples in there as I don't think that's an issue as this site is predominantly for couples but deffo an issue for single males as per females "
Are you suggesting only ladies and couples can join until there is some level of balance in the numbers. What you are saying is that once you got to join no more men can join. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I havnt a clue could you do it or would it work but what about limiting the numbers who can use this site, for exp so many couples, males and females! I dunno should I have couples in there as I don't think that's an issue as this site is predominantly for couples but deffo an issue for single males as per females "
i dont think it matters how many are on the site it depends on whether yur attracted to them or not! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"All the normal/upstanding/conversation flowing/men here will get meetsnot always ..I got to agree with him to a degree..I did a mass delete of msgs ...1000s..how was I to know who's msg I deleted, single females can't sit on fab all day reading a few hundred msgs...
No, no the normal ones will get a meet. Obv most of their mail don't get read but they'll gey lucky sooner rather than later.
Can I ask you "knickersoaker"
What's you ideal woman here?"
ideal woman? When it comes to no strings fun I don't have an "ideal" woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. "
exactley |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I havnt a clue could you do it or would it work but what about limiting the numbers who can use this site, for exp so many couples, males and females! I dunno should I have couples in there as I don't think that's an issue as this site is predominantly for couples but deffo an issue for single males as per females "
You will be missed |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Love the grouphug!!!! Knickersoaker............ You badly need a ride man......youre doing too much thinking and you like to hear yourself talk. Maybe you should just set up your own swingers website and you can control everything.....just a suggestion.........happy Valentine's day x"
i don't do to much thinking at all! A person with half a brain cell can see there is to many males here as per female!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. "
great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
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By *ean299Man
over a year ago
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"Love the grouphug!!!! Knickersoaker............ You badly need a ride man......youre doing too much thinking and you like to hear yourself talk. Maybe you should just set up your own swingers website and you can control everything.....just a suggestion.........happy Valentine's day xi don't do to much thinking at all! A person with half a brain cell can see there is to many males here as per female! "
I take it you are going to lead the exodus of single men???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening! "
i dont think so,well it wudnt make any difference to me if their was 5000 men or 5 on the site! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening! "
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. |
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By *ean299Man
over a year ago
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
i dont think so,well it wudnt make any difference to me if their was 5000 men or 5 on the site!"
Ah gosh classy - thats me off your list then - I am probably number5001 |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. "
lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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ideal woman? When it comes to no strings fun I don't have an "ideal" woman
So you'll shag anyone then....whete did I say that? "
as I said with the way things are here if I came in with a very fussy attitude id get no meets |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol "
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"knickersoaker, even if you were the only guy on here, based on your behaviour and attitude, I would still not meet you  "
look the site is ment to be fun! Where your sending mail each day and 90 off % are been ignored come back to me and you'll know where I'm comming from |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient "
lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?"
off course they do,buts its only obvious theres gonna be more men than women on a sex site!thts just the way it is!dont take it so seriously!as u say its only sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
off course they do,buts its only obvious theres gonna be more men than women on a sex site!thts just the way it is!dont take it so seriously!as u say its only sex"
it is only sex but I'm on here to have fun thinking it would be fun! It's certainly not fun so far( read my above comment) |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?"
Of course they do but do they not have it in the real world to!!??
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
Of course they do but do they not have it in the real world to!!??
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well I'd go deaf if it was to go by the saying " it's a mans world" |
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By (user no longer on site)
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When you can't afford something the honorable thing to do is save up over time. Standing there with not enough money arguing over the counter will not get you what you cant afford. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
off course they do,buts its only obvious theres gonna be more men than women on a sex site!thts just the way it is!dont take it so seriously!as u say its only sexit is only sex but I'm on here to have fun thinking it would be fun! It's certainly not fun so far( read my above comment)"
but yur only on here 3 wks!sum guys can be on here for months b4 they meet sumone,what did u expect when u joined?did u think u wud get to meet sumone straight away for sex?tht rarely happens! |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
Of course they do but do they not have it in the real world to!!??
well I'd go deaf if it was to go by the saying " it's a mans world" "
don't start the "battle of the sexes" we will be here until next week lol... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
off course they do,buts its only obvious theres gonna be more men than women on a sex site!thts just the way it is!dont take it so seriously!as u say its only sexit is only sex but I'm on here to have fun thinking it would be fun! It's certainly not fun so far( read my above comment)
but yur only on here 3 wks!sum guys can be on here for months b4 they meet sumone,what did u expect when u joined?did u think u wud get to meet sumone straight away for sex?tht rarely happens!"
no I'm talking about reply's! Vast majority of you mail (as I said 90% plus) been deleted! I see guys in their 20's on here 6 months plus with no veris! I'm like what are you doing wrong or how are you still sticking it here |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
off course they do,buts its only obvious theres gonna be more men than women on a sex site!thts just the way it is!dont take it so seriously!as u say its only sexit is only sex but I'm on here to have fun thinking it would be fun! It's certainly not fun so far( read my above comment)
but yur only on here 3 wks!sum guys can be on here for months b4 they meet sumone,what did u expect when u joined?did u think u wud get to meet sumone straight away for sex?tht rarely happens!no I'm talking about reply's! Vast majority of you mail (as I said 90% plus) been deleted! I see guys in their 20's on here 6 months plus with no veris! I'm like what are you doing wrong or how are you still sticking it here "
well i dont read all my messages,cos im not on every day they can build up and its impossible to read them all!i usually just luk at the profile if i think i mite like i read the message and reply,but if i dont think id like i delete!i used to reply to them saying not interested but it wud just lead to replies like "why not" or "ive met lots on here why dont u like me" or "u stuck up bitch"so i stopped |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
off course they do,buts its only obvious theres gonna be more men than women on a sex site!thts just the way it is!dont take it so seriously!as u say its only sexit is only sex but I'm on here to have fun thinking it would be fun! It's certainly not fun so far( read my above comment)
but yur only on here 3 wks!sum guys can be on here for months b4 they meet sumone,what did u expect when u joined?did u think u wud get to meet sumone straight away for sex?tht rarely happens!no I'm talking about reply's! Vast majority of you mail (as I said 90% plus) been deleted! I see guys in their 20's on here 6 months plus with no veris! I'm like what are you doing wrong or how are you still sticking it here
well i dont read all my messages,cos im not on every day they can build up and its impossible to read them all!i usually just luk at the profile if i think i mite like i read the message and reply,but if i dont think id like i delete!i used to reply to them saying not interested but it wud just lead to replies like "why not" or "ive met lots on here why dont u like me" or "u stuck up bitch"so i stopped"
see that's where less men would benefit you haha read all your male then |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
off course they do,buts its only obvious theres gonna be more men than women on a sex site!thts just the way it is!dont take it so seriously!as u say its only sexit is only sex but I'm on here to have fun thinking it would be fun! It's certainly not fun so far( read my above comment)
but yur only on here 3 wks!sum guys can be on here for months b4 they meet sumone,what did u expect when u joined?did u think u wud get to meet sumone straight away for sex?tht rarely happens!no I'm talking about reply's! Vast majority of you mail (as I said 90% plus) been deleted! I see guys in their 20's on here 6 months plus with no veris! I'm like what are you doing wrong or how are you still sticking it here
well i dont read all my messages,cos im not on every day they can build up and its impossible to read them all!i usually just luk at the profile if i think i mite like i read the message and reply,but if i dont think id like i delete!i used to reply to them saying not interested but it wud just lead to replies like "why not" or "ive met lots on here why dont u like me" or "u stuck up bitch"so i stoppedsee that's where less men would benefit you haha read all your male then "
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knickersoaker, you asked me personally for feedback today and when I took my time to do this, all what came back from you were excuses, negativity and blaming everyone else.
If you won't change your negative attitude you probably will continue to have a tough time on this site.
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Ok maybe you're right less men! THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE THE CUT WOULD BE TO BE ALREADY VERIFIED. 
Mate, you're away with the fairies you're giving out about a problem when you are a part of the problem. |
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"Ok maybe you're right less men! THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE THE CUT WOULD BE TO BE ALREADY VERIFIED.
Mate, you're away with the fairies you're giving out about a problem when you are a part of the problem. "
how am I part of the problem? Explain that one |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
off course they do,buts its only obvious theres gonna be more men than women on a sex site!thts just the way it is!dont take it so seriously!as u say its only sexit is only sex but I'm on here to have fun thinking it would be fun! It's certainly not fun so far( read my above comment)
but yur only on here 3 wks!sum guys can be on here for months b4 they meet sumone,what did u expect when u joined?did u think u wud get to meet sumone straight away for sex?tht rarely happens!no I'm talking about reply's! Vast majority of you mail (as I said 90% plus) been deleted! I see guys in their 20's on here 6 months plus with no veris! I'm like what are you doing wrong or how are you still sticking it here
well i dont read all my messages,cos im not on every day they can build up and its impossible to read them all!i usually just luk at the profile if i think i mite like i read the message and reply,but if i dont think id like i delete!i used to reply to them saying not interested but it wud just lead to replies like "why not" or "ive met lots on here why dont u like me" or "u stuck up bitch"so i stoppedsee that's where less men would benefit you haha read all your male then "
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"knickersoaker, you asked me personally for feedback today and when I took my time to do this, all what came back from you were excuses, negativity and blaming everyone else.
If you won't change your negative attitude you probably will continue to have a tough time on this site.
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not excuses love it's reality! |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
Of course they do but do they not have it in the real world to!!??
well I'd go deaf if it was to go by the saying " it's a mans world" don't start
the "battle of the sexes" we will be here until next week lol... "
Well cork is next weekend so it can keep us ocupado till then. Haha
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"Ok maybe you're right less men! THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE THE CUT WOULD BE TO BE ALREADY VERIFIED.
Mate, you're away with the fairies you're giving out about a problem when you are a part of the problem. how am I part of the problem? Explain that one "
That's self explanatory really
Your looking for the numbers to be evened out that would involve a cull of single males on here and with u being a single male u are adding to the single male population on here |
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You're whining about too much men -YOURE A MAN
You whine that women dont open 90% mail -
THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LIFE OUTSIDE OF HERE AND ITS CLEAR THAT THEY GET 100s of mail
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"Ok maybe you're right less men! THE ONLY WAY TO MAKE THE CUT WOULD BE TO BE ALREADY VERIFIED.
Mate, you're away with the fairies you're giving out about a problem when you are a part of the problem. how am I part of the problem? Explain that one
That's self explanatory really
Your looking for the numbers to be evened out that would involve a cull of single males on here and with u being a single male u are adding to the single male population on here"
i might get culled I might not! If i do given my philosophy I'll get a chance to join again! That was my Initial point |
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"You're whining about too much men -YOURE A MAN
You whine that women dont open 90% mail -
THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LIFE OUTSIDE OF HERE AND ITS CLEAR THAT THEY GET 100s of mail
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mother of god lmao! So how do you reduce the "100"a of mail"? It's not rocket science |
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"You're whining about too much men -YOURE A MAN
You whine that women dont open 90% mail -
THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LIFE OUTSIDE OF HERE AND ITS CLEAR THAT THEY GET 100s of mail
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you might send lovely opening mails to women on here but there is no guarentee it is going to be read |
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I dont send random mails.
I started in forums and got chatting via here etc. Gain an interest in folk/things in common.
You're an ignorant young lad I've seen so many of your type come and go.
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"You're whining about too much men -YOURE A MAN
You whine that women dont open 90% mail -
THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LIFE OUTSIDE OF HERE AND ITS CLEAR THAT THEY GET 100s of mail
you might send lovely opening mails to women on here but there is no guarentee it is going to be read "
even if i got the most loveliest message ever if the guy who snt it luks likes shrek i aint gonna reply |
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"I dont send random mails.
I started in forums and got chatting via here etc. Gain an interest in folk/things in common.
You're an ignorant young lad I've seen so many of your type come and go.
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I would of thought the whole aim of the game is to send mail to women in the possibility of getting chatting and potentially meet |
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"You're whining about too much men -YOURE A MAN
You whine that women dont open 90% mail -
THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LIFE OUTSIDE OF HERE AND ITS CLEAR THAT THEY GET 100s of mail
you might send lovely opening mails to women on here but there is no guarentee it is going to be read
even if i got the most loveliest message ever if the guy who snt it luks likes shrek i aint gonna reply "
chances are with an opening mail, you won't no what his face is like lol |
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"You're whining about too much men -YOURE A MAN
You whine that women dont open 90% mail -
THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LIFE OUTSIDE OF HERE AND ITS CLEAR THAT THEY GET 100s of mail
you might send lovely opening mails to women on here but there is no guarentee it is going to be read
even if i got the most loveliest message ever if the guy who snt it luks likes shrek i aint gonna reply chances are with an opening mail, you won't no what his face is like lol"
i was just using it as an example!and as i said b4 i luk at the profiles first b4 i read any messages |
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"You're whining about too much men -YOURE A MAN
You whine that women dont open 90% mail -
THEY HAVE THEIR OWN LIFE OUTSIDE OF HERE AND ITS CLEAR THAT THEY GET 100s of mail
you might send lovely opening mails to women on here but there is no guarentee it is going to be read
even if i got the most loveliest message ever if the guy who snt it luks likes shrek i aint gonna reply chances are with an opening mail, you won't no what his face is like lol
i was just using it as an example!and as i said b4 i luk at the profiles first b4 i read any messages "
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Don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice. Ah Feck it!!
Its a bad idea mate just drop it. I personal don't think you helped your cause which i thinks is bang anything that Will let you.
No i love you all cause of the day that's in it so in the words of DTG! Grouphug  |
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"Don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice. Ah Feck it!!
Its a bad idea mate just drop it. I personal don't think you helped your cause which i thinks is bang anything that Will let you.
No i love you all cause of the day that's in it so in the words of DTG! Grouphug "
I wouldn't bang anyone but I certainly don't have a list as long as my arm to judge a woman on when it comes to some casual sex |
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"Don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice. Ah Feck it!!
Its a bad idea mate just drop it. I personal don't think you helped your cause which i thinks is bang anything that Will let you.
No i love you all cause of the day that's in it so in the words of DTG! Grouphug I wouldn't bang anyone but I certainly don't have a list as long as my arm to judge a woman on when it comes to some casual sex
Well if you won't bang anyone your on the wrong website mate. 
Just saying.  "
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"Don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice don't say it be nice. Ah Feck it!!
Its a bad idea mate just drop it. I personal don't think you helped your cause which i thinks is bang anything that Will let you.
No i love you all cause of the day that's in it so in the words of DTG! Grouphug I wouldn't bang anyone but I certainly don't have a list as long as my arm to judge a woman on when it comes to some casual sex
Well if you won't bang anyone your on the wrong website mate.
Just saying.
lol "
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I started in forums and got chatting via here etc. Gain an interest in folk/things in common.
You're an ignorant young lad I've seen so many of your type come and go.
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Oh bit harsh? Jus saying |
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"So u want some single guys reduced all so it be easier for you to get meets???
Give the women less to choose from and they might choose you!!
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I hear women day after day say they have 200, 300 mail to get through! You reckon that's enjoyable? They can't possibly get through that amount of mail and could be missing some of the nicest and best ones so have no chance but to bulk delete |
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"I dont send random mails.
I started in forums and got chatting via here etc. Gain an interest in folk/things in common.
You're an ignorant young lad I've seen so many of your type come and go.
Oh bit harsh? Jus saying"
Not at all! Its fact if you see his exploits on forums as of late you'll understand |
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"So u want some single guys reduced all so it be easier for you to get meets???
Give the women less to choose from and they might choose you!!
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Hal dude trust me we're pissing into the wind if we think we've anyway of educating this man |
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"I dont send random mails.
I started in forums and got chatting via here etc. Gain an interest in folk/things in common.
You're an ignorant young lad I've seen so many of your type come and go.
Oh bit harsh? Jus saying
Not at all! Its fact if you see his exploits on forums as of late you'll understand "
there is no exploits that inhibit the term "ignorant"! simple as that |
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"I dont send random mails.
I started in forums and got chatting via here etc. Gain an interest in folk/things in common.
You're an ignorant young lad I've seen so many of your type come and go.
Oh bit harsh? Jus saying
Not at all! Its fact if you see his exploits on forums as of late you'll understand there is no exploits that inhibit the term "ignorant"! simple as that "
I was being polite by not saying DUMB |
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"I dont send random mails.
I started in forums and got chatting via here etc. Gain an interest in folk/things in common.
You're an ignorant young lad I've seen so many of your type come and go.
Oh bit harsh? Jus saying
Not at all! Its fact if you see his exploits on forums as of late you'll understand there is no exploits that inhibit the term "ignorant"! simple as that
I was being polite by not saying DUMB"
tgere is none to that regard either |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?"
Sunshine do women not have the distinct advantage everywhere? Not just here??
Can't really see your problem with it here. Go to a nightclub, 500 pissed men 100 women.. 100 women get hit on by 500 fellas, only a few take the girl home!
Stop moaning, just cuz the girls on here don't mean they slags and gunna sleep with everyone who mails them.
The big dog gets the bone, the alpha lion rules the pack, the boss gets the bride...
You get sand kicked in your face at beach.. Or you the man doing the kicking?
There endeth my lesson you man. |
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The thing is it's not just the volume of mail that is an issue on this site. It's the one liners asking do i want to meet straight away, it's the profiles that tell me nothing about the guy, and it's the profiles that don't have any pics that are also a problem. Why would any person meet someone that doesn't make any effort at all? I certainly dont! I also don't meet people that whine about not getting meets due to other pricks on the site either in mail or via a forum. What will get me to meet someone is a person that has some but not necessarily all of the above, well apart from the whinging. In last six months or so I have only met ones from the forum where theit personality has shone through in their posts be they part of my preferences or not and have had a great time with them. |
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"in reality if all numbers were even here, it doesn't mean that everyone is guaranteed a meet. Because matching preferences is still required. great point but there would be a greater chance of it happening!
nope, not for the overall population on the site. Because this assumes that some people will change their preferences because there's less choice.
However, the way it is now, couples and women have more choice and therefore there can also be more meets with different people who suit each other. lets call a spade a spade! The site is set up for women and couples! Jesus gettin lots a mail each day on a NSA site! I'd love it instead of having to work your backside off lol
no its not!sure im mainly on here to meet guys,theres lots of guys on here tht have met plenty of women,u just have to be patient lol so women don't have a distinct advantage on here?
Sunshine do women not have the distinct advantage everywhere? Not just here??
Can't really see your problem with it here. Go to a nightclub, 500 pissed men 100 women.. 100 women get hit on by 500 fellas, only a few take the girl home!
Stop moaning, just cuz the girls on here don't mean they slags and gunna sleep with everyone who mails them.
The big dog gets the bone, the alpha lion rules the pack, the boss gets the bride...
You get sand kicked in your face at beach.. Or you the man doing the kicking?
There endeth my lesson you man. "
as I said already to another poster im always been told "it's a mans world" |
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"The thing is it's not just the volume of mail that is an issue on this site. It's the one liners asking do i want to meet straight away, it's the profiles that tell me nothing about the guy, and it's the profiles that don't have any pics that are also a problem. Why would any person meet someone that doesn't make any effort at all? I certainly dont! I also don't meet people that whine about not getting meets due to other pricks on the site either in mail or via a forum. What will get me to meet someone is a person that has some but not necessarily all of the above, well apart from the whinging. In last six months or so I have only met ones from the forum where theit personality has shone through in their posts be they part of my preferences or not and have had a great time with them. "
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Are you a cave man?
That's the most ignorant thing I've ever heard.
So because someone told you its a mans world youb think us men can have/do what we want.???
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"Are you a cave man?
That's the most ignorant thing I've ever heard.
So because someone told you its a mans world youb think us men can have/do what we want.???
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where did I say that! He said women hold the cards in every aspect of life! I just said it's always been said "it's a mans world"! Not ment in any certain aspect |
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"knickersoaker, you asked me personally for feedback today and when I took my time to do this, all what came back from you were excuses, negativity and blaming everyone else.
If you won't change your negative attitude you probably will continue to have a tough time on this site.
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Same here...tried to explain a few things and encourage him but it seems he's got his mind made up and there's no changing it....doesn't augur well for his hope of finding some fun  |
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"knickersoaker, you asked me personally for feedback today and when I took my time to do this, all what came back from you were excuses, negativity and blaming everyone else.
If you won't change your negative attitude you probably will continue to have a tough time on this site.
Same here...tried to explain a few things and encourage him but it seems he's got his mind made up and there's no changing it....doesn't augur well for his hope of finding some fun "
how can your mind be changed with most of the normal precise, nice non offensive opening mail is ignored? I can't keep trying and trying as the pool of women is very small so what do you suggest? |
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"knickersoaker, you asked me personally for feedback today and when I took my time to do this, all what came back from you were excuses, negativity and blaming everyone else.
If you won't change your negative attitude you probably will continue to have a tough time on this site.
Same here...tried to explain a few things and encourage him but it seems he's got his mind made up and there's no changing it....doesn't augur well for his hope of finding some fun how can your mind be changed with most of the normal precise, nice non offensive opening mail is ignored? I can't keep trying and trying as the pool of women is very small so what do you suggest?"
Lots of men manage to crack the code.... myself and sweetwhispers have given you our thoughts and feedback on the subject in pms today. Maybe reread those and see did you really take in what was said in those. |
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"knickersoaker, you asked me personally for feedback today and when I took my time to do this, all what came back from you were excuses, negativity and blaming everyone else.
If you won't change your negative attitude you probably will continue to have a tough time on this site.
Same here...tried to explain a few things and encourage him but it seems he's got his mind made up and there's no changing it....doesn't augur well for his hope of finding some fun how can your mind be changed with most of the normal precise, nice non offensive opening mail is ignored? I can't keep trying and trying as the pool of women is very small so what do you suggest?
Lots of men manage to crack the code.... myself and sweetwhispers have given you our thoughts and feedback on the subject in pms today. Maybe reread those and see did you really take in what was said in those."
both replies give me no indication as to why most mails are deleted that's what I'm hitting at! I'm always told my profile is grand |
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I don't normally delete mails so I can't answer that but some of the ladies have given you an answer on here.....they get too many and just don't have the time to reply to them all....hard on the guys I know but I'm sure the successful guys on here have had plenty of mail deleted too but perservered with patience |
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"I don't normally delete mails so I can't answer that but some of the ladies have given you an answer on here.....they get too many and just don't have the time to reply to them all....hard on the guys I know but I'm sure the successful guys on here have had plenty of mail deleted too but perservered with patience "
so I should keep mailing women until I get a "thanks but no thanks message" as concrete proof she doesn't want to chat? Lol after all she might not see my first mail |
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"let's try Groupsex instead "
Woo hoo Sweetwhispers ...got that room after...come join us ..you too DTG and sure Knickersoaker you may as well join in....get rid of some that of that stress/frustration |
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"let's try Groupsex instead
Woo hoo Sweetwhispers ...got that room after...come join us ..you too DTG and sure Knickersoaker you may as well join in....get rid of some that of that stress/frustration "
Is it a private party or can anyone join in |
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" what do you suggest?"
you can do one of two things:
1. keep trying.
2. give up.
With regards to this thread I recommend number 2, as another poster has said you are ignorant, and sadly you are the very definition of it, as you've been given advice and information but you choose to ignore the parts that don't suit you or your arguments.
You seem to have excuses for everything, oh and you use exclamation marks waaaay too much.
I'm done here. |
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"let's try Groupsex instead
Woo hoo Sweetwhispers ...got that room after...come join us ..you too DTG and sure Knickersoaker you may as well join in....get rid of some that of that stress/frustration "
Sounds perfect.
Lets all break knickers fab virginity.
*that last sentence is literally one of the most fucked up things I've ever written* |
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" what do you suggest?
you can do one of two things:
1. keep trying.
2. give up.
With regards to this thread I recommend number 2, as another poster has said you are ignorant, and sadly you are the very definition of it, as you've been given advice and information but you choose to ignore the parts that don't suit you or your arguments.
You seem to have excuses for everything, oh and you use exclamation marks waaaay too much.
I'm done here."
I would agree in regards to Op |
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"let's try Groupsex instead
Woo hoo Sweetwhispers ...got that room after...come join us ..you too DTG and sure Knickersoaker you may as well join in....get rid of some that of that stress/frustration
Is it a private party or can anyone join in "
It isn't a party with out you Sofia....will I bring the cards |
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"let's try Groupsex instead
Woo hoo Sweetwhispers ...got that room after...come join us ..you too DTG and sure Knickersoaker you may as well join in....get rid of some that of that stress/frustration
Is it a private party or can anyone join in
It isn't a party with out you Sofia....will I bring the cards "
Oh yes please do |
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I'll tell you exactly what I was told! One didn't like discretion in my profile I said I use it as women seem to like it and I am discrete! The other told me to persevere and be patient that's it in a nutshell |
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What I'd say is chill op is on here 3 weeks or so. While I in no way think I am one of the successful guys on here I think just from chatting to a few lady's on here and reading many forum threads no one wants to meet someone who's pushy if I send a mail and it gets deleted so be it move on. Yes I have been blocked by ppl but take it as they aren't interested. Just have a laugh and don't worry if you don't get meets. If your a decent guy and some way sane eventually it may happen. Patience is a virtue. |
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"What I'd say is chill op is on here 3 weeks or so. While I in no way think I am one of the successful guys on here I think just from chatting to a few lady's on here and reading many forum threads no one wants to meet someone who's pushy if I send a mail and it gets deleted so be it move on. Yes I have been blocked by ppl but take it as they aren't interested. Just have a laugh and don't worry if you don't get meets. If your a decent guy and some way sane eventually it may happen. Patience is a virtue. "
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I reckon its hard to suss somebody out from just their profile. Messages and forum posts help to build a picture but they really are a poor substitute for meeting and hanging out with a person.There is no body language to interpret on here ! For men perhaps no biggie. But for women - critical. |
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Jayus i have a pain in my head after all that
being here two years and have given up sending mails its easier to meet people at m&gs and if ur interacting on the fourms or chat when u send one chances of it getting read are a lot greater plus u get to know people that don't fit ur preferences just saying op maybe change ur approach and don't hold ur breath for a meet it will happen when it happens |
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"I reckon its hard to suss somebody out from just their profile. Messages and forum posts help to build a picture but they really are a poor substitute for meeting and hanging out with a person.There is no body language to interpret on here ! For men perhaps no biggie. But for women - critical."
totally agree! I could never suss somebody out from a profile alone
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