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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Intersting point I heard the other day! A woman told me that it's her husband who chooses the men she can meet and not herself! I found this a very strange statement! Any other couples like this? as a female your husband chooses what men you meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I noticed this at some parties, chatting and flirting with a girl and she says I have to go ask hubby if we can play.I didnt.horses for courses"
But it's a couple so she should say that rather than saying "we are playing"
I would always ask not tell |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I noticed this at some parties, chatting and flirting with a girl and she says I have to go ask hubby if we can play.I didnt.horses for courses"
if she was part of a couple and that couple play with others seperatly then she had no need to ask her hubby  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..x"
so what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?"
surely! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!"
surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him"  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him" "
a i know but i don't think anyone in a happy relationship would want that badly to sleep with someone.....if it upset other half |
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?"
Exactly no fun if all not happy  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him" a i know but i don't think anyone in a happy relationship would want that badly to sleep with someone.....if it upset other half"
true but also I think if jealousy is a little part of you then swinging with your partner is threading on eggshells |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him" a i know but i don't think anyone in a happy relationship would want that badly to sleep with someone.....if it upset other halftrue but also I think if jealousy is a little part of you then swinging with your partner is threading on eggshells "
wouldn't have to be jealousy though.....to not approve....so to speak...of someone |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet? surely!surely she could tell her hubby "I want to fuck him" a i know but i don't think anyone in a happy relationship would want that badly to sleep with someone.....if it upset other halftrue but also I think if jealousy is a little part of you then swinging with your partner is threading on eggshells wouldn't have to be jealousy though.....to not approve....so to speak...of someone"
id imagine what runs through a lot of male heads is "god he's better looking then me and his fucking my gf/wife, I can't let this happen" lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"No way I would leave him to choose for me lol that just does not make sence to me and it's part of fun choosing and flirting !!!"
I agree I'd be the very same  |
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By *razy-CplCouple
over a year ago
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"I noticed this at some parties, chatting and flirting with a girl and she says I have to go ask hubby if we can play.I didnt.horses for courses"
as we dont play seperatly, if this did happen with either a guy or a girl , we would be calling one another up to the room as well |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?"
YES  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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at a party we play sepertly and together so not a issue....but if we are meeting a cpl of course we both have to be 100% happy or it just wont go anywhere.....but i think thats normal thats why we enjoy parties so much |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Asking permission and choosing for her,is she like 7 asking can she go play?? Choose....i wouldn't let my hubby chose my dinner for me!!!Let alone a guy...  |
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By *at2Couple
over a year ago
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We both have to be happy with who we play with and never push either into anything we arnt happy with. Some couples play separately at parties which is their thing but other couples like us don't as we enjoy encounters together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We choose together..we both have to agree 100%.
That would not be very nice or fair..sleeping with someone.. You didn't want..xso what if you 100% agree on a fella and he doesn't? No meet?"
Yes no meet! |
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I wouldn't like my partner choosing for me either but if we were at a party and he specifically didn't want me to play with someone I'd rather not rock the boat for the sake of a shag...
If you're playing as a couple you have to be tight and united together in this or it all falls apart. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I wouldn't like my partner choosing for me either but if we were at a party and he specifically didn't want me to play with someone I'd rather not rock the boat for the sake of a shag...
If you're playing as a couple you have to be tight and united together in this or it all falls apart. "
Agree |
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