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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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come on guys and girls and couples it dont take that much to be nice no matter what it is from unwanted mails its nice to say not intrested to abusive mails like what i this place suppose to be we class our selfs friendly well i hop we are an have never offended anyone and always mail them back to no so or so on dunno why people can and are so rude or ignorant and abusive no need for it happy swinging everyone 
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Nice or not nice, manners are not only an essential quality in my book, they are a basic given and it's so sad if folk do not have them...Mr22"
well said mr22 manners are essential even if your dont the person its nice to be nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how hard it it to say sorry not my type instead of deleting mail and ignoring you "
Would depend how big your age range is and how many filters you have on. I have found with good usage of the site tools I'm able to respond to all mails |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say I just take it as not interested when a mail is read and deleted don't see the point in sending again and don't ever send nasty mails to anyone. People get worked up over someone not responding or deleting the message I just think move on. I think it's big headed to think that every female I message will want to respond or whatever. |
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"Manners.. No such thing on here. Unfortunately it's the nature of the beast here.  ah i dont think you are correct there at all"
I stand corrected. Not many with manners here. There are some though, just gotta trawl through the dust to find the diamond. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Having that problem right now actually told a guy no sorry not intrested n he got thick sayin i only want to be friends not lookin to meet we were friends b4 talkin not he sent a request n i accepted i told him look ok if we chatted b4 but i havent in ages im under different circumstance now i dont know u personally and im not intrested sorry he sent more mail and i didnt respond and then he sends a mail callin me ignorant for ignorning him and abuse n sayin it free to reply here i will say i sent back a not so nice mail and blocked him but i think im well within my rights to chat to n be friends with who i want to n if i dont wish to reply im not obligated to do so especially when iv already said not intrested  |
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We got a mail from a couple introducing themselves to US and when we hadn't responded quickly enough to their liking they sent another mail calling US allsorts and timewasters.they then blocked US denyin
g US a right to reply in which due to work commitments we were unable to . Thought it very rude." You know who you are" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah true a simple "no thanks, not my type" I know some have hundreds of messages but the ones that had time to open/read the actual message should at least reply.
I've solved that problem (for me) Ive stopped making the first move. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No reply is a reply according to the site rules. I think it is ruder to bombard people with messages without reading their profile and then expect a reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have also stopped sending mails unless I am mailed first or I have received a wink.
I don't blame the woman and couples and as they have said on many occasions they get bombarded and if you only spend an hour or so a day on here you need to spend it wisely. Not just deleting mails. |
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By *itreMan
over a year ago
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Reading some of the above posts make me cringe. How people can resort to abuse following a rejection is unbelievable. Just enforces what I have always known, that there are people on here, that because of their immaturity, shouldn't be near this place.
So, do they think that by being abusive, the recipient will suddenly relent, and say "ok, I will meet you so"..unbelievable.
is it any wonder, couples and ladies have to put up so many filters, and genuine guys suffer. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having that problem right now actually told a guy no sorry not intrested n he got thick sayin i only want to be friends not lookin to meet we were friends b4 talkin not he sent a request n i accepted i told him look ok if we chatted b4 but i havent in ages im under different circumstance now i dont know u personally and im not intrested sorry he sent more mail and i didnt respond and then he sends a mail callin me ignorant for ignorning him and abuse n sayin it free to reply here i will say i sent back a not so nice mail and blocked him but i think im well within my rights to chat to n be friends with who i want to n if i dont wish to reply im not obligated to do so especially when iv already said not intrested "
wow you must be the unluckiest fabber here! every week a new problem lol |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"how hard it it to say sorry not my type instead of deleting mail and ignoring you
Would depend how big your age range is and how many filters you have on. I have found with good usage of the site tools I'm able to respond to all mails"
i agree with you 100% sofia use the proper usage of the tools it is very possible to answer all mails and have time to perve a few profiles as well lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"how hard it it to say sorry not my type instead of deleting mail and ignoring you
Would depend how big your age range is and how many filters you have on. I have found with good usage of the site tools I'm able to respond to all mails
i agree with you 100% sofia use the proper usage of the tools it is very possible to answer all mails and have time to perve a few profiles as well lol"
There's always time for a bit of Perving |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"how hard it it to say sorry not my type instead of deleting mail and ignoring you
Would depend how big your age range is and how many filters you have on. I have found with good usage of the site tools I'm able to respond to all mails
i agree with you 100% sofia use the proper usage of the tools it is very possible to answer all mails and have time to perve a few profiles as well lol
There's always time for a bit of Perving "
i ment to say inspect we ladies never perve lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how hard it it to say sorry not my type instead of deleting mail and ignoring you
Would depend how big your age range is and how many filters you have on. I have found with good usage of the site tools I'm able to respond to all mails
i agree with you 100% sofia use the proper usage of the tools it is very possible to answer all mails and have time to perve a few profiles as well lol
There's always time for a bit of Perving
i ment to say inspect we ladies never perve lol"
No it's market research  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We always try to respond to all mails...but sometimes no thanks is followed by why not...ect....then that's it!! I no longer reply...but its nice to be nice! |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
otherside of nowhere |
"how hard it it to say sorry not my type instead of deleting mail and ignoring you
Would depend how big your age range is and how many filters you have on. I have found with good usage of the site tools I'm able to respond to all mails
i agree with you 100% sofia use the proper usage of the tools it is very possible to answer all mails and have time to perve a few profiles as well lol
There's always time for a bit of Perving
i ment to say inspect we ladies never perve lol
No it's market research "
pmsl......i might just use that if you dont mind |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"how hard it it to say sorry not my type instead of deleting mail and ignoring you
Would depend how big your age range is and how many filters you have on. I have found with good usage of the site tools I'm able to respond to all mails
i agree with you 100% sofia use the proper usage of the tools it is very possible to answer all mails and have time to perve a few profiles as well lol
There's always time for a bit of Perving
i ment to say inspect we ladies never perve lol
No it's market research
pmsl......i might just use that if you dont mind"
Not at all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having that problem right now actually told a guy no sorry not intrested n he got thick sayin i only want to be friends not lookin to meet we were friends b4 talkin not he sent a request n i accepted i told him look ok if we chatted b4 but i havent in ages im under different circumstance now i dont know u personally and im not intrested sorry he sent more mail and i didnt respond and then he sends a mail callin me ignorant for ignorning him and abuse n sayin it free to reply here i will say i sent back a not so nice mail and blocked him but i think im well within my rights to chat to n be friends with who i want to n if i dont wish to reply im not obligated to do so especially when iv already said not intrested wow you must be the unluckiest fabber here! every week a new problem lol"
Yes lately i seem to be since putting up that i am pregnant every weirdo across ireland has contacted me whether they think im desprate now that im preg or what i dont know but its been unreal and my age preference is 18-40 i dont have a block on it as i have a few older friends who i chat to on odd occasion and i dont want to put a block on it but since puttin up im preg every man 40+ has mailed me a million time over askin to meet my answer is not going to change and you would think they would have more cope on il have to block in the end or take down that i am preg but then im not being honest about my self and another round of abuse will insue no winning with some people here  |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Having that problem right now actually told a guy no sorry not intrested n he got thick sayin i only want to be friends not lookin to meet we were friends b4 talkin not he sent a request n i accepted i told him look ok if we chatted b4 but i havent in ages im under different circumstance now i dont know u personally and im not intrested sorry he sent more mail and i didnt respond and then he sends a mail callin me ignorant for ignorning him and abuse n sayin it free to reply here i will say i sent back a not so nice mail and blocked him but i think im well within my rights to chat to n be friends with who i want to n if i dont wish to reply im not obligated to do so especially when iv already said not intrested wow you must be the unluckiest fabber here! every week a new problem lol
Yes lately i seem to be since putting up that i am pregnant every weirdo across ireland has contacted me whether they think im desprate now that im preg or what i dont know but its been unreal and my age preference is 18-40 i dont have a block on it as i have a few older friends who i chat to on odd occasion and i dont want to put a block on it but since puttin up im preg every man 40+ has mailed me a million time over askin to meet my answer is not going to change and you would think they would have more cope on il have to block in the end or take down that i am preg but then im not being honest about my self and another round of abuse will insue no winning with some people here "
i think if you have chatted to them already they wont be blocked...i could be wrong but its worth checking it out |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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as far as im concerned for me, being nice is easy, the problem is that nice is all i ever am as a result, im never seen as anything other than the nice guy |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When someone reads your msg and deletes it is a bit frustrating. All it takes is to type two words. "No thanks" I can understand if the messenger was abusive or arrogant but if it's someone being friendly I think a bit of manners would be nice.
I have got messages from single guys lately asking me if I wanted my cock sucked, now I'm not gay but I would always reply to them and say I wasn't interested. I always get thanked for replying even if it wasn't what they wanted to her. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"When someone reads your msg and deletes it is a bit frustrating. All it takes is to type two words. "No thanks" I can understand if the messenger was abusive or arrogant but if it's someone being friendly I think a bit of manners would be nice.
I have got messages from single guys lately asking me if I wanted my cock sucked, now I'm not gay but I would always reply to them and say I wasn't interested. I always get thanked for replying even if it wasn't what they wanted to her."
here here |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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According to site rules replies may be nice but they are not necessary. As I Said earlier if every day you log on and have a tonne of messages you are not going to reply to all of them, people dont have the time. Besides why would you actually complain about not getting a chance to meet someone who won't reply to messages?
On another note, have the men that serially complain about this actually looked at the messages they are sending and whether you actually match preferences of the person you are sending it too. Just remember all the messages you are sending that don't get replies all have one thing in common... |
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Nice to be nice but in being nice getting called a stuck up bitch and hope you're tits drop off !!!!!after I said no thanks I'm not into a quick shag cause u have she Hour to kill !!!!!!!!! One word twat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Nice to be nice but in being nice getting called a stuck up bitch and hope you're tits drop off !!!!!after I said no thanks I'm not into a quick shag cause u have she Hour to kill !!!!!!!!! One word twat "
my word! what an insult! Sorry hun but it actually made me laugh, it's so pathetic. |
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"Nice to be nice but in being nice getting called a stuck up bitch and hope you're tits drop off !!!!!after I said no thanks I'm not into a quick shag cause u have she Hour to kill !!!!!!!!! One word twat
my word! what an insult! Sorry hun but it actually made me laugh, it's so pathetic. "
ain't it pathetic it's like yep drop everything and go running for a quick shag !!!!!!
As for my tits dropping off I did laugh, the mentality really baffles me |
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