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over a year ago
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"Does there always have to be a physical attraction? I'm finding as I get older a mental connection seems to be more of a turn on.."
I agree I find the mental connection really stimulating as you know supported with good looks is such a turn on!! |
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over a year ago
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"Does there always have to be a physical attraction? I'm finding as I get older a mental connection seems to be more of a turn on.."
For me a connection with personality is far greater than that of physical attraction.
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over a year ago
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days  same here 
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it."
Well we all a bit mental on here  |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it.anyday "
Might hold ya to that |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it."
face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. "
I have broadcast quality voice lets |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets"
I will have to tune into u then. |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then. "
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. "
Well hello |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol"
mmmm decisions decisions |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions "
U could put it to audience vote |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions
U could put it to audience vote"
right all in favour please comment below. |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions
U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below. "
In favour of what lets |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions
U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.
In favour of what lets"
in whatever takes your fancy llong ,????? |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions
U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.
In favour of what lets in whatever takes your fancy llong ,????? "
Us having good old fashioned shag lets. Would they vote on that. Or would you.  |
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions
U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.
In favour of what lets in whatever takes your fancy llong ,?????
Us having good old fashioned shag lets. Would they vote on that. Or would you. "
well let's put it to the vote then all favour for me 'shagging" llong |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!
One compliments the other.
A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.
But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!
One compliments the other.
A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.
But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. "
its not all about the kss either...lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!
One compliments the other.
A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.
But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. its not all about the kss either...lol "
Oh I disagree, a guy that I font enjoy kissing I usually don't enjoy in bed, it's what gets the juices flowing, but there has to be something attractive to get to the kissing |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
Mentally attracted gets me to the coffee meet but there does need to be a physical attraction as well....maybe I am too fussy!  "
I'm the exact same.....there's times where I've done the coffee meets but haven't had the physical attraction to move it on to a play meet |
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Kissing is the major attraction I have sat with someone thinking mmmm id love to kiss them; but I would never make the first move. Then waiting if attraction there is torture thinking bloody hell just kiss me |
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"Kissing is the major attraction I have sat with someone thinking mmmm id love to kiss them; but I would never make the first move. Then waiting if attraction there is torture thinking bloody hell just kiss me "
When we meet lets code word Eiffel tower and I'll know u want kiss. Hope your Eiffel tower pops up first though. |
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"Kissing is the major attraction I have sat with someone thinking mmmm id love to kiss them; but I would never make the first move. Then waiting if attraction there is torture thinking bloody hell just kiss me
When we meet lets code word Eiffel tower and I'll know u want kiss. Hope your Eiffel tower pops up first though."
hey Llong maybe your eiffel tower will pop up first then I will know |
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"Kissing is the major attraction I have sat with someone thinking mmmm id love to kiss them; but I would never make the first move. Then waiting if attraction there is torture thinking bloody hell just kiss me
When we meet lets code word Eiffel tower and I'll know u want kiss. Hope your Eiffel tower pops up first though. hey Llong maybe your eiffel tower will pop up first then I will know "
That's what worries me |
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"Kissing is the major attraction I have sat with someone thinking mmmm id love to kiss them; but I would never make the first move. Then waiting if attraction there is torture thinking bloody hell just kiss me
When we meet lets code word Eiffel tower and I'll know u want kiss. Hope your Eiffel tower pops up first though. hey Llong maybe your eiffel tower will pop up first then I will know
That's what worries me"
ohhh don't worry bout that I love seeing the bulge major turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tbh I dont think alot of guys care who they meet if I'm been honest "
I care  there has to be a personality click for me..
I Find I Can Be More Physically AAttracted To Someone Who I Get On With. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!
One compliments the other.
A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.
But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. its not all about the kuss either...lol
Oh I disagree, a guy that I font enjoy kissing I usually don't enjoy in bed, it's what gets the juices flowing, but there has to be something attractive to get to the kissing "
oh dont get me wrong i love to kiss.i absolutely love it but i was with a guy recently and because of a fkn coldsore i hadwe couldnt kiss and i couldnt perform oral.it was all my pleasure but tgere was no kissing and the fun we had was fab.i did miss the kiss tho. |
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"You have to be physically attracted in some way, as well as mentally!
One compliments the other.
A great kiss can sway the physical and a good laugh can influence the mental.
But if the person you meet isn't attractive to you in some way then it's a no go. "
Agree there.. And as was said earlier., the mental connection/sense of humour gets me to coffee and then it's the interaction that creates the physical connection... And bingo!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think a mental attraction has to come first and then a physical but it's why a coffee meet is a great way to determine as can only tell so much without meeting. But when it clicks all together |
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By *ean0001Man
over a year ago
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For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.
I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.
For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.
If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.
It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.
I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.
For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.
If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.
It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus."
Well said Sean |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.
I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.
For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.
If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.
It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus.
Well said Sean "
I tried to say that but yours is a fat better way of explaining it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.
I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.
For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.
If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.
It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus."
couldnt agree more! And well said!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.
I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.
For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.
If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.
It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus."
..well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For me the mental connection is key. The physical is less important to me if the mental one is there.
I enjoy a bit of kink so like to spice it up so without the mental it's nor as enjoyable for me.
For me a woman's beauty comes within and her attitude and sense of fun is the most important and that's the part I enjoy.
If the mental is there the physical will grow. If it's the other way around you will only get bored with the purely physical.
It's about finding someone you like spending time with and who's company I enjoy. The rest is just a bonus.
..well said"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Does there always have to be a physical attraction? I'm finding as I get older a mental connection seems to be more of a turn on.."
always with me anyway! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think both are needed but equally. When this is achieved you're onto a real winner.
Like with everything in life - Balance is the key "
Have you found n e one perfectly balanced yet |
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By (user no longer on site)
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There needs to be some physical attraction for me and I dont mean has to be good looking. To me theres a huge difference between good looks and attractiveness. I think attraciveness is very subjective. Id rather attractiveness over goodlooks any day. Looks fade with time but whats attractive about a person never does. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There needs to be some physical attraction for me and I dont mean has to be good looking. To me theres a huge difference between good looks and attractiveness. I think attraciveness is very subjective. Id rather attractiveness over goodlooks any day. Looks fade with time but whats attractive about a person never does. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. "
Me granny had knees like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees. "
Me granny had knees like that |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have to be physically attracted and mentally attracted if you have both happy days same here go for it..sounds like your both on for it so why not
I have face for radio and mentally something not sure what. Would ya risk it. face for radio , mmmm I like voices if its a nice accent I go weak at the knees.
I have broadcast quality voice lets I will have to tune into u then.
Outside broadcast your place lets or mutual venue lol mmmm decisions decisions
U could put it to audience vote right all in favour please comment below.
In favour of what lets in whatever takes your fancy llong ,?????
Us having good old fashioned shag lets. Would they vote on that. Or would you. well let's put it to the vote then all favour for me 'shagging" llong "
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By *imwildWoman
over a year ago
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"There needs to be some physical attraction for me and I dont mean has to be good looking. To me theres a huge difference between good looks and attractiveness. I think attraciveness is very subjective. Id rather attractiveness over goodlooks any day. Looks fade with time but whats attractive about a person never does. "
You've put that perfectly. Afterall beauty is in the eye of the beholder |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There needs to be some physical attraction for me and I dont mean has to be good looking. To me theres a huge difference between good looks and attractiveness. I think attraciveness is very subjective. Id rather attractiveness over goodlooks any day. Looks fade with time but whats attractive about a person never does. "
absolutely....100% agree |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think both are needed but equally. When this is achieved you're onto a real winner.
Like with everything in life - Balance is the key
Have you found n e one perfectly balanced yet "
I have indeed
Only very recently I may add |
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