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"Is this a older persons game? "
It's any person's game really as long as your respectful and get to know people first you'll go far age doesn't come in to it |
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"I'm 41 and I wouldn't consider myself old! Location shouldn't have any effect once discretion is expected and assured. "
i said older! Of course location plays a part! It actually plays a big part! A person living in a big city like cork or dublin are obviously going to have more people from cork and dublin on here! There 2 of the biggest city's with huge population in Ireland! I have already realised on here with a bit of distance comes into play a lot are reluctant to travel or even if u can travel have no interest because your a distance away  |
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"dont worry about age,you will get there faster than you think (or care to for that matter) hopefully and you are hot "
she is hot
with age comes experience,and experience will teach you,on a couples profile,the guy has the right to post comments as well |
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"dont worry about age,you will get there faster than you think (or care to for that matter) hopefully and you are hot
she is hot
with age comes experience,and experience will teach you,on a couples profile,the guy has the right to post comments as well"
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people "
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I dont think age is a huge issue here even location not being a big factor i think what really makes it hard for people is lack of origionality i can log on and check my mail everyday an 1 out of 50 messages will be an actual genuine message where the guy read my profile and started a conversation that i can reply to and get to know the person from the other 49 messages are as follows
- hi sexy
-im free i can meet you now
- can we meet
- i love ur pics id bang u
49/50 are being deleted and i dont need to see the attached pics to know der all cocks. Another thing is the majority of guys adding as a friend without even speaking to the person they are asking just to see pictures and lastly when told no receving either abuse or more messages.
Personally age is not a problem for me i do have a preference of 18-40 on my page but i dont have that as a block its just a guide i do have older the 40 friends and have met some too |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?"
it's better for older people |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people "
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people  |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people "
just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man" |
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"I'm 41 and I wouldn't consider myself old! Location shouldn't have any effect once discretion is expected and assured. i said older! Of course location plays a part! It actually plays a big part! A person living in a big city like cork or dublin are obviously going to have more people from cork and dublin on here! There 2 of the biggest city's with huge population in Ireland! I have already realised on here with a bit of distance comes into play a lot are reluctant to travel or even if u can travel have no interest because your a distance away "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man""
That's not the site, that's personal preference
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man""
I would say the same barriers/opportunities are open to all....perhaps us oldies try a bit more and dont expect things to fall in our lap? Not saying you are, just putting it out there ..... I for one am not looking for older men and I know of plenty of females who are not so maybe it's about how a person uses the site as opposed to what age they are? |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
That's not the site, that's personal preference
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well in my experience since joining I have mailed lots of women, normal opening mails! I'm never once offensive and the majority of my mails are ignored! I'm a lad in his 20's and sometimes women say to me "your location is out of the way" "sorry but your to young"! Exactly my point! The site is more successful to older people! The other thing I find confusing is women might have your age range on her profile but when you mail her she says something like "sorry I don't talk to under 30's"! the mind boggles |
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"dont worry about age,you will get there faster than you think (or care to for that matter) hopefully and you are hot"
There's where your going wrong a bit of respect goes a long way on here not age point proven |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
I would say the same barriers/opportunities are open to all....perhaps us oldies try a bit more and dont expect things to fall in our lap? Not saying you are, just putting it out there ..... I for one am not looking for older men and I know of plenty of females who are not so maybe it's about how a person uses the site as opposed to what age they are?"
oh effort is needed on here and I will admit it's extensive effort! Effort which a lot of young lads are not willing to put in! Also IMO you have to be a little bit considerate to younger males on here as the site is very very difficult for them! Let's call a spade a spade! Just look at how many women are online compared to men and let's not forget as a younger male you probably won't be even able to mail half those women |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
That's not the site, that's personal preference
well in my experience since joining I have mailed lots of women, normal opening mails! I'm never once offensive and the majority of my mails are ignored! I'm a lad in his 20's and sometimes women say to me "your location is out of the way" "sorry but your to young"! Exactly my point! The site is more successful to older people! The other thing I find confusing is women might have your age range on her profile but when you mail her she says something like "sorry I don't talk to under 30's"! the mind boggles "
So you dont think older people dont have the same knock backs?
I often tell guys they are too far away, and i dont allow guys I find too young or too old to contact me
We all have preferences
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
I would say the same barriers/opportunities are open to all....perhaps us oldies try a bit more and dont expect things to fall in our lap? Not saying you are, just putting it out there ..... I for one am not looking for older men and I know of plenty of females who are not so maybe it's about how a person uses the site as opposed to what age they are?oh effort is needed on here and I will admit it's extensive effort! Effort which a lot of young lads are not willing to put in! Also IMO you have to be a little bit considerate to younger males on here as the site is very very difficult for them! Let's call a spade a spade! Just look at how many women are online compared to men and let's not forget as a younger male you probably won't be even able to mail half those women "
I don't think you would get anywhere near meeting half the women on here as an older guy either though. Everyone has in mind what they want from here and if your not in that picture why would they meet you. Intellect will always win over chronology for me and Im sure many others. |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
That's not the site, that's personal preference
well in my experience since joining I have mailed lots of women, normal opening mails! I'm never once offensive and the majority of my mails are ignored! I'm a lad in his 20's and sometimes women say to me "your location is out of the way" "sorry but your to young"! Exactly my point! The site is more successful to older people! The other thing I find confusing is women might have your age range on her profile but when you mail her she says something like "sorry I don't talk to under 30's"! the mind boggles
So you dont think older people dont have the same knock backs?
I often tell guys they are too far away, and i dont allow guys I find too young or too old to contact me
We all have preferences
If you want to get to meet people, try a social. Go along and show who you are. Get those boundaries moved for you"
i tried to get along to one social so far! Was again told sorry your to young and we also don't let single males attend! All I'm saying is IMO the site is very difficult for younger males! see women in lots of cases have this mentality that younger guys are "wham bam thank you mam"! Not all are! I try to the best of my ability to care for her needs first and foremost! I just don't like when I hear people judging you on your profile! my profile text is a bit of halfhearted humour and so is my name! at the end of the day this site is supposed to be fun isn't it? |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
I would say the same barriers/opportunities are open to all....perhaps us oldies try a bit more and dont expect things to fall in our lap? Not saying you are, just putting it out there ..... I for one am not looking for older men and I know of plenty of females who are not so maybe it's about how a person uses the site as opposed to what age they are?oh effort is needed on here and I will admit it's extensive effort! Effort which a lot of young lads are not willing to put in! Also IMO you have to be a little bit considerate to younger males on here as the site is very very difficult for them! Let's call a spade a spade! Just look at how many women are online compared to men and let's not forget as a younger male you probably won't be even able to mail half those women
I don't think you would get anywhere near meeting half the women on here as an older guy either though. Everyone has in mind what they want from here and if your not in that picture why would they meet you. Intellect will always win over chronology for me and Im sure many others."
"I don't think you would get anywhere near meeting half the women on here as an older guy either though"
That's my main point! Older men have a distinct advantage on here |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
That's not the site, that's personal preference
well in my experience since joining I have mailed lots of women, normal opening mails! I'm never once offensive and the majority of my mails are ignored! I'm a lad in his 20's and sometimes women say to me "your location is out of the way" "sorry but your to young"! Exactly my point! The site is more successful to older people! The other thing I find confusing is women might have your age range on her profile but when you mail her she says something like "sorry I don't talk to under 30's"! the mind boggles
So you dont think older people dont have the same knock backs?
I often tell guys they are too far away, and i dont allow guys I find too young or too old to contact me
We all have preferences
If you want to get to meet people, try a social. Go along and show who you are. Get those boundaries moved for youi tried to get along to one social so far! Was again told sorry your to young and we also don't let single males attend! All I'm saying is IMO the site is very difficult for younger males! see women in lots of cases have this mentality that younger guys are "wham bam thank you mam"! Not all are! I try to the best of my ability to care for her needs first and foremost! I just don't like when I hear people judging you on your profile! my profile text is a bit of halfhearted humour and so is my name! at the end of the day this site is supposed to be fun isn't it? "
Fun your way or no way ??
That's how you come across
Yes you will be judged on profile, on pics and forum postings , because that's your only window you have to set your stall
You have set yours, and the women are choosing if they are stopping to try and buy
Seems like you are attracting window shoppers only at the moment |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
That's not the site, that's personal preference
well in my experience since joining I have mailed lots of women, normal opening mails! I'm never once offensive and the majority of my mails are ignored! I'm a lad in his 20's and sometimes women say to me "your location is out of the way" "sorry but your to young"! Exactly my point! The site is more successful to older people! The other thing I find confusing is women might have your age range on her profile but when you mail her she says something like "sorry I don't talk to under 30's"! the mind boggles
So you dont think older people dont have the same knock backs?
I often tell guys they are too far away, and i dont allow guys I find too young or too old to contact me
We all have preferences
If you want to get to meet people, try a social. Go along and show who you are. Get those boundaries moved for youi tried to get along to one social so far! Was again told sorry your to young and we also don't let single males attend! All I'm saying is IMO the site is very difficult for younger males! see women in lots of cases have this mentality that younger guys are "wham bam thank you mam"! Not all are! I try to the best of my ability to care for her needs first and foremost! I just don't like when I hear people judging you on your profile! my profile text is a bit of halfhearted humour and so is my name! at the end of the day this site is supposed to be fun isn't it?
Fun your way or no way ??
That's how you come across
Yes you will be judged on profile, on pics and forum postings , because that's your only window you have to set your stall
You have set yours, and the women are choosing if they are stopping to try and buy
Seems like you are attracting window shoppers only at the moment "
some people I'd imagine prefer a short to the point profile! Why judge them on that and not when you actually speak to them? That's what I'm saying! As I said already nippy I try to the best of my ability to simplify fun as best as possible! |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
I would say the same barriers/opportunities are open to all....perhaps us oldies try a bit more and dont expect things to fall in our lap? Not saying you are, just putting it out there ..... I for one am not looking for older men and I know of plenty of females who are not so maybe it's about how a person uses the site as opposed to what age they are?oh effort is needed on here and I will admit it's extensive effort! Effort which a lot of young lads are not willing to put in! Also IMO you have to be a little bit considerate to younger males on here as the site is very very difficult for them! Let's call a spade a spade! Just look at how many women are online compared to men and let's not forget as a younger male you probably won't be even able to mail half those women
I don't think you would get anywhere near meeting half the women on here as an older guy either though. Everyone has in mind what they want from here and if your not in that picture why would they meet you. Intellect will always win over chronology for me and Im sure many others. "I don't think you would get anywhere near meeting half the women on here as an older guy either though"
That's my main point! Older men have a distinct advantage on here "
You misread that ....what I'm saying is I dont think you would get to meet half the women on the site even if you were older. There are wayyyyy too many lol |
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"Try being in your 20's and in the midlands very hard to meet like minded people
Ever tried ever failed no matter try again fail again fail better  "
Wonder if that's the first time Beckett has been quoted on Fab?? |
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
I would say the same barriers/opportunities are open to all....perhaps us oldies try a bit more and dont expect things to fall in our lap? Not saying you are, just putting it out there ..... I for one am not looking for older men and I know of plenty of females who are not so maybe it's about how a person uses the site as opposed to what age they are?"
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
I would say the same barriers/opportunities are open to all....perhaps us oldies try a bit more and dont expect things to fall in our lap? Not saying you are, just putting it out there ..... I for one am not looking for older men and I know of plenty of females who are not so maybe it's about how a person uses the site as opposed to what age they are?oh effort is needed on here and I will admit it's extensive effort! Effort which a lot of young lads are not willing to put in! Also IMO you have to be a little bit considerate to younger males on here as the site is very very difficult for them! Let's call a spade a spade! Just look at how many women are online compared to men and let's not forget as a younger male you probably won't be even able to mail half those women
I don't think you would get anywhere near meeting half the women on here as an older guy either though. Everyone has in mind what they want from here and if your not in that picture why would they meet you. Intellect will always win over chronology for me and Im sure many others. "I don't think you would get anywhere near meeting half the women on here as an older guy either though"
That's my main point! Older men have a distinct advantage on here
You misread that ....what I'm saying is I dont think you would get to meet half the women on the site even if you were older. There are wayyyyy too many lol"
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"Is this a older persons game? not totally IMO but I firmly believe this sight is more accommodating to older people
Not sure what you mean by more accommodating?it's better for older people
But the site offers the same to everyone no matter the age so its hardly more accommodating to "older" people just because it's accommodating to all ages doesn't mean all ages are as successful! I have heard here by a fair few women "I prefer the older experienced man"
I would say the same barriers/opportunities are open to all....perhaps us oldies try a bit more and dont expect things to fall in our lap? Not saying you are, just putting it out there ..... I for one am not looking for older men and I know of plenty of females who are not so maybe it's about how a person uses the site as opposed to what age they are?"
i ment to write more to this! We are all here looking for NSA! Isn't that what the site is about? Well besides the fakes |
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"I dont think age is a huge issue here even location not being a big factor i think what really makes it hard for people is lack of origionality i can log on and check my mail everyday an 1 out of 50 messages will be an actual genuine message where the guy read my profile and started a conversation that i can reply to and get to know the person from the other 49 messages are as follows
- hi sexy
-im free i can meet you now
- can we meet
- i love ur pics id bang u
49/50 are being deleted and i dont need to see the attached pics to know der all cocks. Another thing is the majority of guys adding as a friend without even speaking to the person they are asking just to see pictures and lastly when told no receving either abuse or more messages.
Personally age is not a problem for me i do have a preference of 18-40 on my page but i dont have that as a block its just a guide i do have older the 40 friends and have met some too "
Never saw so much sense packed into such a small space - this really resonates with us, reflects our experience perfectly. Oh, forgot the stomach-churning 'babe' 'hun' 'hunny' in their messages also. Oh, and don't get us started on txt spk  |
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Some ppl just like listening to themselves.... Think that when you're in your 40 as I am myself its harder to get away from home. Websites offer a good alternative. Most of us 40 ppl lnow what we want and also what we dont want! So for younger ppl they habe all that exploring to do, relationships, do I want a family , jobs, moving house etc. I think this sites caters for everyone but the ones that are most succesful here show respect, socialise, connect with ppl and are genuine. Plenty of those on the site as fas as Im concerned. Sorry for the long talk, couldn't stop lol. Hate long rants myself...
..just saying....and its site not sight that is if you're talking about the same thing |
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I have no complaints really ... different ppl hav different preferences ... ive been chattin to some women that actually prefer yoinger men and ive also been chattin to ppl the opposite end of the scale ... so its all about perseverance and looking ... |
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"Try being in your 20's and in the midlands very hard to meet like minded people
Ever tried ever failed no matter try again fail again fail better
Wonder if that's the first time Beckett has been quoted on Fab?? "
I hope not it's a good quote |
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"I dont think age is a huge issue here even location not being a big factor i think what really makes it hard for people is lack of origionality i can log on and check my mail everyday an 1 out of 50 messages will be an actual genuine message where the guy read my profile and started a conversation that i can reply to and get to know the person from the other 49 messages are as follows
- hi sexy
-im free i can meet you now
- can we meet
- i love ur pics id bang u
49/50 are being deleted and i dont need to see the attached pics to know der all cocks. Another thing is the majority of guys adding as a friend without even speaking to the person they are asking just to see pictures and lastly when told no receving either abuse or more messages.
Personally age is not a problem for me i do have a preference of 18-40 on my page but i dont have that as a block its just a guide i do have older the 40 friends and have met some too
Never saw so much sense packed into such a small space - this really resonates with us, reflects our experience perfectly. Oh, forgot the stomach-churning 'babe' 'hun' 'hunny' in their messages also. Oh, and don't get us started on txt spk "
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