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ok ladies/couples would u meet a bi guy
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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ok many times this has been posted im doing this for another member who is bi....
this member has been refused meets by single ladys/couples as for his sexuality....
and i wanna no why wont ladys meet bi guys an couples it dont make them any less of a man or anything....
they can still do the job as any straight guy can so whats the differance...
between straight/bi guys we are both bi sexual an proud lol....
we have bin refused meets as of the male half being bi and i dont get it bi people can be as straight as u want them to be.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm very curious what the responses will be. I've seen this discussed many times, but just generally that women won't meet them.
Most men are in no way put off if the women they meet are bisexual. So why are so many women put off by bisexual men?
I have no issue with bisexual men. For a silly reason I don't think I would want one as a husband/boyfriend. Because the competition is twice as much and I'd feel I wouldn't be able to give them something they need.
Obviously swinging could come into place here but that depends on how strong the relationship is and how happy we both would be to swing together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity, why didn't "your friend" post this himself?  "
does it matter? it's a general question she is curious about!
or maybe because this friend has had bad experience when bringing it up. Judging from some comments in the forum I wouldn't want to be a bisexual man because they have been quite homophobic and hurtful. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I'm very curious what the responses will be. I've seen this discussed many times, but just generally that women won't meet them.
Most men are in no way put off if the women they meet are bisexual. So why are so many women put off by bisexual men?
I have no issue with bisexual men. For a silly reason I don't think I would want one as a husband/boyfriend. Because the competition is twice as much and I'd feel I wouldn't be able to give them something they need.
Obviously swinging could come into place here but that depends on how strong the relationship is and how happy we both would be to swing together. "
spot on there an 80% of women here are bi but its ok i just feel like these guys are not given any chance at all yeno so thats why so curious to why they wont meet them |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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I would say it's the same as meeting any cpl ....your hardly going to jump on everyone you meet regardless of their preference we have met cpls where the women is straight and I managed to control myself ....lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I would say it's the same as meeting any cpl ....your hardly going to jump on everyone you meet regardless of their preference we have met cpls where the women is straight and I managed to control myself ....lol"
ah yeh yeh where the same we have met straight people an it all cool yes hard to control yourself but we accept too meet straight people as well as bi people i just think they are being targeted or some thing it was the radio a while back where a guy is bi an had a partner and she wanted to know is it ok an that but it just too strange that a single women would not meet a bi guy just cause he likes men aswell as women |
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"Just out of curiosity, why didn't "your friend" post this himself?
does it matter? it's a general question she is curious about!
or maybe because this friend has had bad experience when bringing it up. Judging from some comments in the forum I wouldn't want to be a bisexual man because they have been quite homophobic and hurtful. "
It matters to me, as I'm never particularly happy about getting into third party debates. I'll sit this one out. I can't say I've ever noticed homophobic comments here, but I'll take your word for it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just out of curiosity, why didn't "your friend" post this himself?
does it matter? it's a general question she is curious about!
or maybe because this friend has had bad experience when bringing it up. Judging from some comments in the forum I wouldn't want to be a bisexual man because they have been quite homophobic and hurtful. "
i have to agree with ya there iv seen som nasty comments to guys from both couples and singles an straight males and why i dont no before i met steo i was with a guy who was bi sexual and i had no issues with him infact it was great lookin at hot guys with each other lol lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok many times this has been posted im doing this for another member who is bi....
this member has been refused meets by single ladys/couples as for his sexuality....
and i wanna no why wont ladys meet bi guys an couples it dont make them any less of a man or anything....
they can still do the job as any straight guy can so whats the differance...
between straight/bi guys we are both bi sexual an proud lol....
we have bin refused meets as of the male half being bi and i dont get it bi people can be as straight as u want them to be.....
comments and feedback guys happy swinging folks "
I think lot of it could be because the male mite still have that old fashion opinion " what if he try something with me" its sad really cause they cant get a chance.
I have never been in a bi male situation but i will and plan to give it a lash. Pun ment.  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I guess the definition of homophobia is a worth a whole other thread... just looking at what's currently going on in the media with RTE/Panty-gate.
I haven't seen direct homophobia but very general homophobic comments. So while they haven't been said directly to someone they would be very hurtful.
I actually googled the topic now and there are some interesting discussion threads there. Some women mentioned that they think bisexual men are a higher risk of STD. Some said the though of them having had gay sex is a turn off. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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thats intresting one but at th same time bi women can easliy have or cought an std all of our meets bi or straight fun are always always safe an now days i think people have seen the damage done by not gloving up so im guessing about 60% are very or fairly strict with protecting them selfs with condoms etc |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"thats intresting one but at th same time bi women can easliy have or cought an std all of our meets bi or straight fun are always always safe an now days i think people have seen the damage done by not gloving up so im guessing about 60% are very or fairly strict with protecting them selfs with condoms etc"
Well we hope so. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"When we meet single guy we prefer them to be bi as its just adds a little extra fun to it and i ( mrs ) love playing with bi men.
But saying that i have seen a few fems here that refuse to meet bi males and i dont see why as when we meet cpls we mostly play straight to and a guy can too , also alot of bi males dont do anal just like mr crazy doesnt , he just enjoys the oral side
But for most meeting a bi fem is no bother , what is the differene , a cock is a cock and once a condom is on it , thats the most important part "
spot on crazy ahem we really need to meet up ahem ahem lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We also have no problem with bimen...my hubby is very straight however i love playing with bimen 2 is a dream....but my hubby will not get involved but he's seriously cool with it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We also have no problem with bimen...my hubby is very straight however i love playing with bimen 2 is a dream....but my hubby will not get involved but he's seriously cool with it... "
That is the way it should be. No problem with bi men and if ye don't wana play DON'T. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Because I am. But I will try anything but would still classify myself as a tri sexual straight man...
To be fully bi in my eyes you need to be equally as attracted to men as women. I wouldn't be but would not rule out trying anything.. just my opinion.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because I am. But I will try anything but would still classify myself as a tri sexual straight man...
To be fully bi in my eyes you need to be equally as attracted to men as women. I wouldn't be but would not rule out trying anything.. just my opinion.
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Good answer i actually (kinda) agree. Kinda in the sense of cock pics are a turn on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Because I am. But I will try anything but would still classify myself as a tri sexual straight man...
To be fully bi in my eyes you need to be equally as attracted to men as women. I wouldn't be but would not rule out trying anything.. just my opinion.
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Does that not make you curious then?
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Because I am. But I will try anything but would still classify myself as a tri sexual straight man...
To be fully bi in my eyes you need to be equally as attracted to men as women. I wouldn't be but would not rule out trying anything.. just my opinion.
Does that not make you curious then?
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Possibly but again I wouldn't say I 100% have to try it etc. If it happened it happened but wouldn't necessarily go out of my way looking for it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Again this is just my opinion and I could be way off the mark.
I don't like to pigeon hole myself in anyway really. I am a guy who loves sex.. what happens while its going on can sometimes go where you would have thought it wouldn't.
And I wouldn't rule that out for me.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Again this is just my opinion and I could be way off the mark.
I don't like to pigeon hole myself in anyway really. I am a guy who loves sex.. what happens while its going on can sometimes go where you would have thought it wouldn't.
And I wouldn't rule that out for me.."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Again this is just my opinion and I could be way off the mark.
I don't like to pigeon hole myself in anyway really. I am a guy who loves sex.. what happens while its going on can sometimes go where you would have thought it wouldn't.
And I wouldn't rule that out for me.."
And that's a good attitude to take, I would even go so far to say try things twice rather than just once as different circumstances can sometimes yield different outcomes. It's what I have done for things I won't do and things I will now do |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Again this is just my opinion and I could be way off the mark.
I don't like to pigeon hole myself in anyway really. I am a guy who loves sex.. what happens while its going on can sometimes go where you would have thought it wouldn't.
And I wouldn't rule that out for me..
And that's a good attitude to take, I would even go so far to say try things twice rather than just once as different circumstances can sometimes yield different outcomes. It's what I have done for things I won't do and things I will now do"
Great advice. . |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think your honest and that's always a good thing...but so many men have straight up on their profiles and they have played...or...been with a man...there is still a taboo even in swinging circles and there really shouldn't be....but i does work both ways...one night at a party a woman bolted out of the place cause two girls started to play...
People should just take it at a pace that they are comfortable with...and if couples don't want to meet a biguy/bifemale i guess we have to respect that also... |
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By *avie tCouple
over a year ago
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"Again this is just my opinion and I could be way off the mark.
I don't like to pigeon hole myself in anyway really. I am a guy who loves sex.. what happens while its going on can sometimes go where you would have thought it wouldn't.
And I wouldn't rule that out for me..
And that's a good attitude to take, I would even go so far to say try things twice rather than just once as different circumstances can sometimes yield different outcomes. It's what I have done for things I won't do and things I will now do"
agree......for me in order to get the most out of this lifestyle being openminded is the key |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your honest and that's always a good thing...but so many men have straight up on their profiles and they have played...or...been with a man...there is still a taboo even in swinging circles and there really shouldn't be....but i does work both ways...one night at a party a woman bolted out of the place cause two girls started to play...
People should just take it at a pace that they are comfortable with...and if couples don't want to meet a biguy/bifemale i guess we have to respect that also... "
Completely agree and on a site and in the lifestyle in general honesty is always the best policy.
Really at the end of the day we are here to have fun |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doing my best...at the fun part!!
Hopefully I can lose my newbie status soon and I will also be enjoying the fun part or more aptly put parts "
Get us drooling over pics.... |
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My hubby is straight and we have had meets were the other guy was no it doesn't bother us in the slightest bit. He knew hubby was straight and respected it so it was one off the best nights ever!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i would have no problem meeting a bi guy and have done but i do hate when that bi guy only has verifications from men...!!!"
What about bisexual women who only have veris from men too?That one always gets me...  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i would have no problem meeting a bi guy and have done but i do hate when that bi guy only has verifications from men...!!!
What about bisexual women who only have veris from men too?That one always gets me... "
yeah exactly. i dont get it.surely it should be varied.i was giving out the other day about a bi guy who mailed me for a "chat".he had 15 verifications and ALL of them were from men.not one couple or female....u mean thats odd to me??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i would have no problem meeting a bi guy and have done but i do hate when that bi guy only has verifications from men...!!!
What about bisexual women who only have veris from men too?That one always gets me... yeah exactly. i dont get it.surely it should be varied.i was giving out the other day about a bi guy who mailed me for a "chat".he had 15 verifications and ALL of them were from men.not one couple or female....u mean thats odd to me??? "
Yesssss....Exactly!!!! So true!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i would have no problem meeting a bi guy and have done but i do hate when that bi guy only has verifications from men...!!!
What about bisexual women who only have veris from men too?That one always gets me... yeah exactly. i dont get it.surely it should be varied.i was giving out the other day about a bi guy who mailed me for a "chat".he had 15 verifications and ALL of them were from men.not one couple or female....u mean thats odd to me??? "
You're so right. My entire sex life is on this site. I never have sex with anyone in 'real life'. Every single person I have ever had sex with has verified me just so other people can inspect my sexual history via the verification system.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"i would have no problem meeting a bi guy and have done but i do hate when that bi guy only has verifications from men...!!!
What about bisexual women who only have veris from men too?That one always gets me... yeah exactly. i dont get it.surely it should be varied.i was giving out the other day about a bi guy who mailed me for a "chat".he had 15 verifications and ALL of them were from men.not one couple or female....u mean thats odd to me??? "
well 15 veries from all guys an hes ment to be bi id say more gay than bi in that tbh but that his choice but for those with a mixture of verts from both men and women surely to god a single woman meet him |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"i would have no problem meeting a bi guy and have done but i do hate when that bi guy only has verifications from men...!!!
What about bisexual women who only have veris from men too?That one always gets me... yeah exactly. i dont get it.surely it should be varied.i was giving out the other day about a bi guy who mailed me for a "chat".he had 15 verifications and ALL of them were from men.not one couple or female....u mean thats odd to me???
well 15 veries from all guys an hes ment to be bi id say more gay than bi in that tbh but that his choice but for those with a mixture of verts from both men and women surely to god a single woman meet him"
Obviously it's easier for men to meet men, as we women are so picky. So if a guy is open to meeting men he can have lots of meets.
So because he had lots of male verifications you think he's gay? Why would he email then a woman? He's obviously interested in you, otherwise he wouldn't bother. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doing my best...at the fun part!!
Hopefully I can lose my newbie status soon and I will also be enjoying the fun part or more aptly put parts
Get us drooling over pics.... "
I'll send them privately |
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"i would have no problem meeting a bi guy and have done but i do hate when that bi guy only has verifications from men...!!!
What about bisexual women who only have veris from men too?That one always gets me... yeah exactly. i dont get it.surely it should be varied.i was giving out the other day about a bi guy who mailed me for a "chat".he had 15 verifications and ALL of them were from men.not one couple or female....u mean thats odd to me???
well 15 veries from all guys an hes ment to be bi id say more gay than bi in that tbh but that his choice but for those with a mixture of verts from both men and women surely to god a single woman meet him
Obviously it's easier for men to meet men, as we women are so picky. So if a guy is open to meeting men he can have lots of meets.
So because he had lots of male verifications you think he's gay? Why would he email then a woman? He's obviously interested in you, otherwise he wouldn't bother. "
true fair point but im bi sexual which means i like both men an women yes id be looking for a more verts of a mixture of women an men as 15 verts from guys kinda sums up what hes after tbh thats alot without 1 vert from a couple or a woman |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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im bi have had no problem in group or single situations..have had rejections because of it but most people i met have been fine,,its never been a factor in group situation either |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doing my best...at the fun part!!
Hopefully I can lose my newbie status soon and I will also be enjoying the fun part or more aptly put parts
Get us drooling over pics....
I'll send them privately "
Can't wait.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doing my best...at the fun part!!
Hopefully I can lose my newbie status soon and I will also be enjoying the fun part or more aptly put parts
Get us drooling over pics....
I'll send them privately
Can't wait.... "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doing my best...at the fun part!!
Hopefully I can lose my newbie status soon and I will also be enjoying the fun part or more aptly put parts
Get us drooling over pics....
I'll send them privately
Can't wait....
Sent as promised "
Yummmmmmm..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Doing my best...at the fun part!!
Hopefully I can lose my newbie status soon and I will also be enjoying the fun part or more aptly put parts
Get us drooling over pics....
I'll send them privately
Can't wait....
Sent as promised
Yummmmmmm..... "
Now I'm embarrassed |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Mr22 has had a bit of bi fun and enjoyed it, and the Mrs really got so HOT from watching !!
Sex is sex and if it feels right....Trysexual is often said and is true.. But each to his own
As previous posts have said, bi folk are generally straight but enjoy a bit of different fun from time to time..
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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when meeting as a single woman I prefer to meet a straight guy
I don't rule out bi guys unless they have a list as long as your arm of meets with guys - reads to me that he prefers cock and isnt really bi but gay
Same as I wont meet those straight guys who meet a load of Tvs and bi curious guys
Homophobic? not really Just preferesnce
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when meeting as a single woman I prefer to meet a straight guy
I don't rule out bi guys unless they have a list as long as your arm of meets with guys - reads to me that he prefers cock and isnt really bi but gay
Same as I wont meet those straight guys who meet a load of Tvs and bi curious guys
Homophobic? not really Just preferesnce
Lol u up for meeting me then nippy hehe
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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I think your friend should try get chatting to genuine couples / fems who are comfortable with meeting bi guys and build up some friendships. He should concentrate on them and try not let it get to him. J |
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"I think your friend should try get chatting to genuine couples / fems who are comfortable with meeting bi guys and build up some friendships. He should concentrate on them and try not let it get to him. J "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think your friend should try get chatting to genuine couples / fems who are comfortable with meeting bi guys and build up some friendships. He should concentrate on them and try not let it get to him. J
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Theres nothing wrong with bi guys.
They get the best of both and theres some seriously HOT bi guys on the site.
Yummy! |
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