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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() My coffee meets never end at coffee ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() so for you it's not just a coffee? Lol | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() It takes the pressure off! ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Carrot Cake? ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Mm I do love carrot cake ![]() | |||
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"If somebody is very very well verified then I don't mind not doing a coffee meet but if they are not well verified I will always insist on a coffee meet its mainly for my own safety then anything else and it hasn't let me down yet. ![]() that remains me of a old blow up doll I had I never let her down lol | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() do ya fancy a coffee lol | |||
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"I agree verifications are good in regards of safety, but that does not mean i am going to have sexual chemistry with a guy just cos a bunch of people have, i have met well verified guys for coffee and there was no spark whatsoever so i am not going to have sex with them obviously ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Thanks, in some cases verifications are overrated ![]() FACT! MINE are overrated ![]() | |||
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"I know for a fact all of them are true, see what i mean when i said distance is a pain? ![]() No you don't! ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Ha! I always fancy coffee | |||
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"I know for a fact all of them are true, see what i mean when i said distance is a pain? ![]() Distance a pain? You're in my one hour radius ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() thats a really valid point !! most of the people ive been chatting to in my local area are to ahy to reveal themselvea so dont meet local guys ... and anyone else eally meeting is at least an hour and a half away and even further now because I have had to give up my car ... this Is a double whammy for me because at the min im not verified and its not from lack of trying lol | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() mine will have to be a chai latte ... I can drink those faster lol | |||
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"Yeah but you don't plan ahead, remember? Saying that i will be in Galway on the 22nd of February, i have an hour to spare, coffee? Pint? ![]() Oh good on you, you remember how I roll ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() yes that's it in a nutshell | |||
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"Yeah of course, will send you a message on the 21st and i hope we can meet face to face ![]() Sound ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() dnt think it will ever change man but what can ya do lol | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() Just put in the time. If you REALLY want that veri get your hole on a bus and put it the time and do the coffee meet. Sacrifices | |||
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".. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK) LOL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i totally agree with u on this ![]() ![]() | |||
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" ![]() Less of that smiling craic, you'll be paying for my coffee (I don't even drink coffee) | |||
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"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint ![]() Im extremely Anti-Alcohol So there'll be a zero tolerance on pints ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() nah im goim to dunlin soon to meet someone but I have to go down anyway ... what im sayin is that a 4 hour bus journey can b a bit of a nightmare for just a coffee .. especially If its midweek .. dnt get me wrong I know it has to be done im only conplain because I dnt have a car atm lol | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() i always openly speak my mind! IMO that is a complete nightmare! Lol lovely if u get additions but travelling 4 hours 4 a chat and a coffee! Tough going | |||
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"Ok tea then? Lol Sending you a message , bit of privacy ![]() I dont do private messages ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() You don't need to travel 4 hours for a coffee have standards/cut off points | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() i initially said 1 n a half to 2 hours! I don't think I'd travel over an hour for a coffee meet! The pool of women is small here but then when other things come into account it becomes much smaller | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() I think u know what I mean ... I have standards if I just wanted the ride id head out in derry lol theres plenty of women here its the swingin experience im after ... and did u not just say get ur hole on the bus if ye really want that veri lol | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() yes......ps this question could have been lot shorter ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() ![]() ![]() Lol Jack ![]() ![]() | |||
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"thats why im on here .. dunno about u but I dnt just meet a girl take her home and ask her oh yea do u fancy being my swinging partner maybe im shy I dunno ...but most girls I meet out are very vanilla and I want to try new things and I aint settling down just yet ... u are right though I woukdnt go any further than an hour and a half away for a coffee or social" Don't thino just because these women are here that they're as adventurous as hell. Alot of extremely shy women here who aren't as sex crazed as you think. Derry may be you're best option | |||
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"We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to play" thats were couples are at an advantage...theres safety in numbers. i feel better meeting for coffee first to get an idea of someone.but i have been known to play on a coffee date too ![]() | |||
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"Don't drink coffee so that rules out a coffee meet for me ![]() ![]() or just head out that night in the locality and bring a bird home ![]() | |||
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"thats why im on here .. dunno about u but I dnt just meet a girl take her home and ask her oh yea do u fancy being my swinging partner maybe im shy I dunno ...but most girls I meet out are very vanilla and I want to try new things and I aint settling down just yet ... u are right though I woukdnt go any further than an hour and a half away for a coffee or social Don't thino just because these women are here that they're as adventurous as hell. Alot of extremely shy women here who aren't as sex crazed as you think. Derry may be you're best option" of course not all woman on here are adventurous that why you chat and find out .. where did I say any woman was sex crazed ?? ... well if a woman is shy and and we het chatting theb we know we are not for eachother simples | |||
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"Yeah get your hole on the bus and travel within an hour and a half. The swinging exp? Sure meeting a single woman here is the same as meeting a woman-- on a night out in Derry like you said. Real swinging exp'- get a woman on night out in Derry and get her on board and meet swinging couples. Thats swinging" spoken like a fooker who has forgotten what its like to have no wheels.. | |||
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"I always like to meet for coffee first to see if there is a spark and what the person is like face to face its very easy to lie on the internet and i was always willing to travel half way for coffee although i had a few travel to me from cork r make a stop when they was traveling from dublin to galway. Meeting for coffee has never let me down and sometimes it didnt always stick to just coffee but that is decided after a good chat. I know this is fabswingers and not fabcoffee r fabchat but you have to be safe and a gut feeling during a coffee meet can save u might be harder to say no or leave if ur in a hotel room already and have exchanged megs sayin u will meet for fun alot of freaks and fakes on this! ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I always like to meet for coffee first to see if there is a spark and what the person is like face to face its very easy to lie on the internet and i was always willing to travel half way for coffee although i had a few travel to me from cork r make a stop when they was traveling from dublin to galway. Meeting for coffee has never let me down and sometimes it didnt always stick to just coffee but that is decided after a good chat. I know this is fabswingers and not fabcoffee r fabchat but you have to be safe and a gut feeling during a coffee meet can save u might be harder to say no or leave if ur in a hotel room already and have exchanged megs sayin u will meet for fun alot of freaks and fakes on this! ![]() ![]() I totally agree with this as when I first joined I did meet a guy in a hotel room (without a coffee meet first) and I just couldn't do it as he was soo different that his pic as it was at least 10 years old!! ![]() | |||
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"We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to playthats were couples are at an advantage...theres safety in numbers. i feel better meeting for coffee first to get an idea of someone.but i have been known to play on a coffee date too ![]() So have I ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() On my previous profile I had stated preferably within a certain distance as I would expect a coffee meet first however if all going well you'd never know where that coffee could lead to ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint ![]() ![]() can a meet not have a drink with you dtg and to think you were on my to do list ![]() | |||
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"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint ![]() ![]() ![]() Hal behave ya big Fuck yeah ![]() | |||
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"Just on a break and something I have noticed a lot on here! People saying they want coffee meets before seeing if they want the real thing! I understand but surely it rules out a lot of people! Why? If your we will say for argument sake 1h 30m to 2 hours away from someone! I personally don't think most are going to travel that distance for just a coffee! So what I'm saying Is does this for most people limit down the people your going to meet and is it a reason why distance bothers a lot? morning all ![]() I traveled from artane in dub to portloaise (about 2 hours as i don't drive) just for coffee i have no problem with it. Now i don't think id get train to cork for coffee but within reason id travel no problem. I think its best then there is no pressure on anyone you can be more relaxed. Tbh all my meets end up been sex but i think its just best to go with no intent. That's just me Im an interest ![]() ![]() | |||
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"We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to playthats were couples are at an advantage...theres safety in numbers. i feel better meeting for coffee first to get an idea of someone.but i have been known to play on a coffee date too ![]() yes couples are at a advantage safety wise but the disadvantage is 4 ppl have to get along.....so it has to be a social meet for us first to much pressure...but our location makes it possible for us to meet and shag most of the country if the other party is willing to meet us half way | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? " Alot Obv there has to be an attraction also | |||
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"We dontdo coffee meets,its fabswingers,not fabjava,when we meet,we meet to playthats were couples are at an advantage...theres safety in numbers. i feel better meeting for coffee first to get an idea of someone.but i have been known to play on a coffee date too ![]() well i have the same prob being in cavan... thank god for my crackin boobs coz they make men travel ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? " If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. | |||
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"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Not sure if class can be taught. Just watch aloada Don Johnson movies I have a longbow. Something else perhaps? | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. " a jolly personality for me is needed but it's not the be all and end all | |||
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"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() will u teach me....im a good student ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. a jolly personality for me is needed but it's not the be all and end all" I understand that but if no personality then no attraction and if no attraction id be thinking of fixing the broken something or what ill do after work or something so the fun would not really be fun. Lol | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. " Totally agree I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality | |||
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"So if you meet a woman who you are really attracted to but she has no personality whatsover you'd still have sex with her?" of course he would....all men would..!!! | |||
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"I said coffee? Pint? 4-5 is a great time of the day for a nice cold pint ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ya big excluding bollox ....... ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? " personality is most important......but there has to be attraction too cause if not its just friendship | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lol" maybe i am.. ![]() | |||
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"So if you meet a woman who you are really attracted to but she has no personality whatsover you'd still have sex with her?of course he would....all men would..!!!" Not all men cat. Some still are not all about getting off. ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. Totally agree I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality " hhhmmmmm ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. Totally agree I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality " cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lol" No no not at all there is a lot that wouldn't. ![]() | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() a here...feckin bet most would ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. Totally agree I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol" ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() I agree most would ( probably) but not all. I know for a fact id walk away unless she was that boring and i played a drinking game with myself and got pissed d*unk and she was hot then and only then id prob try talk myself into it. Haha | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. Totally agree I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol" pmsl ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. Totally agree I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol" Note I said lookalike, the man himself would be tied to the bed ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() split personality syndrome ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. Totally agree I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol Note I said lookalike, the man himself would be tied to the bed ![]() ![]() Haha ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() ![]() What one of us are you talking to. ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() id safely say everyone gets it......you wouldntt.....ok offs ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ??? | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Don't mind them two Im back now. Lol | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() That actually made me lol literally ![]() | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() good ![]() ![]() | |||
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"So if you meet a woman who you are really attracted to but she has no personality whatsover you'd still have sex with her?" if she's stunning? Of course I would | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() that a dig jack? | |||
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"Not all guys would curvy cat, well i don't think so, maybe i am being naive here lolmaybe i am.. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() is what a dig......o and fyi....my digs usually ain't hard to read.... | |||
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".. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK) LOL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I do agree on the inquisitive remark not sure about the good addition to the forums. You seem to over analyse everything too much is my humble opinion.... Very tirying I must say | |||
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".. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK) LOL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() pmsl....actually laughing out loud .....that was harsh lol ![]() | |||
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".. and my I add that you're a good addition to the forums (even though you're as inquisitive as FUCK) LOL ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() its just opinions on different topics! If you don't like it, you don't have to comment! as I said I speak my mind! I'm on a site to have sexual fun not coffee fun ![]() | |||
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"Let me ask a question! How important is a great personality for you with fun? If no personality no fun its the biggest turn off. Totally agree I would walk away from a Clooney lookalike if he didn't have a fun attractive personality cant agree not when george is involved id do him even if he had the personality of a cabbage lol Note I said lookalike, the man himself would be tied to the bed ![]() ![]() for me he is the essence of the word attractive........just have a mental pic now of him tied to the bed......mine not yours.....mind if i use this pic kinda running out of my own | |||
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"The main reason why I want to do coffee meet first is because it takes less long to get ready for a coffee meet. I don't know about other women but shaving/waxing/buffing/nails/hair/make-up/lingerie... it's the extra time and effort. So having done that a few times and then been cancelled so many times last minute I can't be arsed anymore to make that extra effort before someone proofs that they're genuine and actually show up. Don't get me wrong I do look after myself and don't look like a slob on a normal day lol But the difference in time and effort is substantial enough. Now I have played after a coffee/drink meet before but I don't like the pressure and somewhat expectations. I rather get to know the person a bit, chillax and arrange something more intimate next time if we fancy what we see. ![]() see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help? | |||
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" see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help?" always a great idea to phone/skype before anyway! But I've done that and actually didn't fancy them in person. So what if you show up and she says no. Would you be pissed off? | |||
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"sorry for the long post... I'm not the most concise writer... tough to do this when it's not your native language (great excuse, I know!) ![]() you speak better than some on here where english IS their first language ![]() | |||
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" see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help? always a great idea to phone/skype before anyway! But I've done that and actually didn't fancy them in person. So what if you show up and she says no. Would you be pissed off? " id probably tell her to get her cameras lens fixed on her camera or go to specsavers lol ![]() | |||
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"sorry for the long post... I'm not the most concise writer... tough to do this when it's not your native language (great excuse, I know!) ![]() ![]() aaaawww mwah!!! | |||
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"So i assume you'd travel 4 hours back and forth too if she is stunning? Lol" Id have no problem traveling that to meet someone i was getting along with. But the looks this never really plays that BIG a part for me. | |||
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" see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help? always a great idea to phone/skype before anyway! But I've done that and actually didn't fancy them in person. So what if you show up and she says no. Would you be pissed off? id probably tell her to get her cameras lens fixed on her camera or go to specsavers lol ![]() that's because you don't really mind what personality the woman has and if there's chemistry (based on your previous posts). Most women do care about it and you only really know if it's there when you meet them in person. | |||
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"sorry for the long post... I'm not the most concise writer... tough to do this when it's not your native language (great excuse, I know!) ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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" see I dunno about others but I no from a skype/can chat whether I physically like her and I phone call, I get a great insight into her personality! That help? always a great idea to phone/skype before anyway! But I've done that and actually didn't fancy them in person. So what if you show up and she says no. Would you be pissed off? id probably tell her to get her cameras lens fixed on her camera or go to specsavers lol ![]() hey hey we agree ![]() | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() Ah stop it you all! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i see you didn't try explain what chemistry is through fun! I totally understand it in a loving serious relationship! IMO wanting chemistry and connection opens a dirty can of worms and leads to complications with feelings etc! Maybe I'm wrong tho ![]() | |||
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" Maybe I'm wrong tho ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() so explain to me what's chemistry through fun? I know what connection is that's a personality and or a physical attraction | |||
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" Maybe I'm wrong tho ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I'm tired my dear. Go and ask Daddy. Or Google. ![]() | |||
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" Maybe I'm wrong tho ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ill take that as you can't explain it! No problem ![]() | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Chemistry doesn't be the sole domain of a loving serious relationship. I ha e great chemistry with a couple of regular meets on here. It was like omg, this person understands me and the sex it totally inhabititive and amazing, time and time again We are not loving couples. We are people who have met someone who we click with sexually and we enjoy each other because of that. That, when looking for NSA is what it's all about. You can be meeting the best looking person in the world but without that chemistry and personality, you may as well stay home and wank | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have just googled it and the first thing came up is,, " most men can have great sex and don't need sexual chemistry" the next line said "most women can't have sex without chemistry" "a man can shag his female friend just for sexual release but it's more to her! She feels a desire and connection between them"! I guess it's just a difference between a lot of men and women | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() agree totaly iam in a serious loveing relationship for over 20 years...but have found sexual chemistry with 3 men who are also in serious loving relationships and the sex is great | |||
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" Maybe I'm wrong tho ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Thing is it's very hard to explain the chemistry bit, it's either there or its not. It's usually that naughty twinkle in the eye, the one that matches your own. And I do think you can have a connection without it going too far | |||
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" Maybe I'm wrong tho ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() also when I looked up sexual chemistry! It said "it's often the basis in which women look for in a man in the hope of it developing to more"! That's the point I was making! I want it purely at fun! I have had brilliant sex in and out of a relationship | |||
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" Maybe I'm wrong tho ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() dude seriously .....chemistry is the creation of connections......the same connections u keep banging on about....there pretty much the same....as for your physical connections ...... there chemical attractions..... ![]() | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() And that's bollocks. I certainly don't need to feel chemistry to have sexual release, can shag anyone for that But great sex????? | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() I have had great sex with women! Maybe it's just a lot of men havnt a clue what chemistry is! The stuff I quoted there was on a page when I typed in "what is sexual chemistry" | |||
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"Oops should have been truly good sex ![]() Sometimes they're the same thing! ![]() | |||
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"Oops should have been truly good sex ![]() ![]() I wonder what kind of tricky positions sofia has been trying!?? ![]() | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() your using Google to get ur info ....... that's not going to work out well...... ![]() | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirely" I hate women with standards! It's so unfair! ![]() | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirely" doesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act? | |||
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"Round of applause please!! ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() i was told to! ![]() | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?" oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... ![]() ![]() | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... ![]() ![]() great sex for a woman does come from a man who knows what he's doing ![]() | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... ![]() ![]() ![]() No a man knowing what he us doing helps, but sometimes exploring what works makes for great sex | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... ![]() ![]() ![]() exactly all women have different little areas on her body which make her tick | |||
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"Thanks, in some cases verifications are overrated ![]() ![]() Yours are defo not overrated DTG I never lie ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?" You do have a lot to learn me thinks You know that expression, it not size it's how you use it? Well that means that you know the woman. You read her. You read what's working and what's not, you know what questions need to be asked, and what ones don't That's where the chemistry comes into it. That what makes great sex. If you have that, you can even get girls deep throating and cum swallowing ![]() | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?oooo lad.....your asking a bunch of singers.....there telling you what makes great sex.....and u ain't bying it.....u think what makes great sex is a great man...... that is a stupid thing to think.....sure by then measures......gays are gettin the best by far..... maybe u should be soaking boxers...... ![]() ![]() ![]() Yeah but unless I fancy something about them hes still not going to find those out. Why I do coffee meets or if far away a Skype or hangout on Google | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act?" not sure if any other women would agree with me....yes of course it helps if he knows what he doing but knowing the karma sutra back to front or even front to back is not gonna make it happen if the right connection isent there.....not something that can be explained too easily | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act? You do have a lot to learn me thinks You know that expression, it not size it's how you use it? Well that means that you know the woman. You read her. You read what's working and what's not, you know what questions need to be asked, and what ones don't That's where the chemistry comes into it. That what makes great sex. If you have that, you can even get girls deep throating and cum swallowing ![]() lol I never once mentioned size! it's like I said! Exploring her body and finding what works for her | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act? not sure if any other women would agree with me....yes of course it helps if he knows what he doing but knowing the karma sutra back to front or even front to back is not gonna make it happen if the right connection isent there.....not something that can be explained too easily " Lol you said it better than me ![]() ![]() | |||
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"any women can get sexual release with a piece of plastic and a battery dont even need a man......but as all us women know great sex is something else entirelydoesnt great sex come from a man who knows what he's at when it comes to the act? not sure if any other women would agree with me....yes of course it helps if he knows what he doing but knowing the karma sutra back to front or even front to back is not gonna make it happen if the right connection isent there.....not something that can be explained too easily " this applies to more then just you! Ye women are as complicated as be dammed ![]() ![]() ![]() | |||
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"I always like to meet for coffee first to see if there is a spark and what the person is like face to face its very easy to lie on the internet and i was always willing to travel half way for coffee although i had a few travel to me from cork r make a stop when they was traveling from dublin to galway. Meeting for coffee has never let me down and sometimes it didnt always stick to just coffee but that is decided after a good chat. I know this is fabswingers and not fabcoffee r fabchat but you have to be safe and a gut feeling during a coffee meet can save u might be harder to say no or leave if ur in a hotel room already and have exchanged megs sayin u will meet for fun alot of freaks and fakes on this! ![]() ![]() You are so right that's it in a nutshell for me. ![]() ![]() | |||
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