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Kink (BDSM) scene overlap :)
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over a year ago
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"Are there many other strays from the BDSM scene in Ireland on Fab?
Seems to be an overlap of a few people 
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We're here and fall into the above category  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definitely it's something I'm keen to try more of. Was lucky to have found someone on the same page as me a couple of years ago. The experiences were mind blowing. Haven't met anyone since who walks the walk when it comes to it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We had our first night of kink fun recently.we were a bit wary at first but have to say it was very hot. "
Glad you enjoyed it always great fun! And means there is always new things to try |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Definitely it's something I'm keen to try more of. Was lucky to have found someone on the same page as me a couple of years ago. The experiences were mind blowing. Haven't met anyone since who walks the walk when it comes to it. "
Challenge accepted!! Keep us in mind if you are in Belfast or Dublin |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Definitely it's something I'm keen to try more of. Was lucky to have found someone on the same page as me a couple of years ago. The experiences were mind blowing. Haven't met anyone since who walks the walk when it comes to it.
Challenge accepted!! Keep us in mind if you are in Belfast or Dublin"
Will do xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've dabbled...
Sounds fun!
Xx little more than dabble.."
Likewise! When your toy box keeps expanding and bucket list keep shrinking you know you've passed the point of no return lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we would like to be introduced into it gently"
but not too gently
we had a lovely couple who we have met a few times and trust, introduce us.very sexy and great fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are there many other strays from the BDSM scene in Ireland on Fab?
Seems to be an overlap of a few people
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so....then.....what's bdsm mean among the fabbers on here?????? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So....then.....what's bdsm mean among the fabbers on here??????"
Well, to those who dont know anything about the scene, they'd probably think it's an easy way to get a ride. it's not. many kinksters play without any sexual element at all.
So any of those who would like to "try it out" or be "eased into it" expecting sex at the end would be sorely mistaken.
It's all about trust, and knowing what you're doing. the last thing you'd want is to cause an injury or be injured if you dont know what you're doing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So....then.....what's bdsm mean among the fabbers on here??????
Well, to those who dont know anything about the scene, they'd probably think it's an easy way to get a ride. it's not. many kinksters play without any sexual element at all.
So any of those who would like to "try it out" or be "eased into it" expecting sex at the end would be sorely mistaken.
It's all about trust, and knowing what you're doing. the last thing you'd want is to cause an injury or be injured if you dont know what you're doing."
sounds deep  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" sounds deep
well it aint just hitting people.
im gettin a lot of what it ain't......so what is it then...."
Well for myself and most that I know its for the fulfillment and exploration of their kinks be it rubber, boots, submission, spanking, etc. Its meeting like minded people and learning from and teaching them, getting to know them enough to eventually even playing with them. Not everyone here might agree with this but everyone has their own opinions on what kink is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" sounds deep
well it aint just hitting people.
im gettin a lot of what it ain't......so what is it then....
Well for myself and most that I know its for the fulfillment and exploration of their kinks be it rubber, boots, submission, spanking, etc. Its meeting like minded people and learning from and teaching them, getting to know them enough to eventually even playing with them. Not everyone here might agree with this but everyone has their own opinions on what kink is."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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" sounds deep
well it aint just hitting people.
im gettin a lot of what it ain't......so what is it then...."
well for us it involved 4 people, restaints,blindfolds,floggers,candles lots of teasing ,toys, massage oil and lots and lots of very hot sex |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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What is bdsm? Good question
For us..it is when any two people trust each other to explore their deeper cravings, whatever might be.
So, while the pleasure from a wand is straightforward enough, bdsm is realising that there are also things like adrenaline, endorphins, the feeling of being confined or restrained, or the feeling of being controlled and not having to think about anything completely clearing your head and bringing about a really nice buzz. Or maybe roleplay, or having language used that gives you a kick.
Those are only a few mild examples, there are tons and tons more.
I suppose the point is, bdsm is when you trust someone to explore this stuff with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"What is bdsm? Good question
For us..it is when any two people trust each other to explore their deeper cravings, whatever might be.
So, while the pleasure from a wand is straightforward enough, bdsm is realising that there are also things like adrenaline, endorphins, the feeling of being confined or restrained, or the feeling of being controlled and not having to think about anything completely clearing your head and bringing about a really nice buzz. Or maybe roleplay, or having language used that gives you a kick.
Those are only a few mild examples, there are tons and tons more.
I suppose the point is, bdsm is when you trust someone to explore this stuff with you "
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By (user no longer on site)
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" sounds deep
well it aint just hitting people.
im gettin a lot of what it ain't......so what is it then....
well for us it involved 4 people, restaints,blindfolds,floggers,candles lots of teasing ,toys, massage oil and lots and lots of very hot sex "
That all sounds amazing,
Have ye ever been to nimh/libertine.? |
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By *ast_jjMan
over a year ago
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" sounds deep
well it aint just hitting people.
im gettin a lot of what it ain't......so what is it then....
Well for myself and most that I know its for the fulfillment and exploration of their kinks be it rubber, boots, submission, spanking, etc. Its meeting like minded people and learning from and teaching them, getting to know them enough to eventually even playing with them. Not everyone here might agree with this but everyone has their own opinions on what kink is."
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