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over a year ago
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What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people..  |
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people.. "
when did this happen, I've not seen anybody's details been given out can u be more specific,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people.. "
All of the above with the inclusion of names of Hotels/meeting points or even locations (which seem to happen quite freely here)  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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When someone points out a persons location to someone or tells others where they are based.
Not mentioned on a forum but in person.
Also if out in town and if u see someone u have met with even briefly for a chat u just keep walking.
Dont go over to them. u never know who is close by from their real life.
it could cause major problems for them. |
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"When someone points out a persons location to someone or tells others where they are based.
Not mentioned on a forum but in person.
Also if out in town and if u see someone u have met with even briefly for a chat u just keep walking.
Dont go over to them. u never know who is close by from their real life.
it could cause major problems for them. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people..
when did this happen, I've not seen anybody's details been given out can u be more specific, "
Not talking about the forum, I just heard my real name come back to me from someone who I have never met or chatted to before and it really annoyed me. I just feel people talk to much, and Ireland is small....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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One of my personal favourites was a random message from someone I'd never spoken to....
"You met with ****, I heard all about you!  so when are WE going to meet?"
BLOCK! 
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"One of my personal favourites was a random message from someone I'd never spoken to....
"You met with ****, I heard all about you! so when are WE going to meet?"
BLOCK!
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Happened to me to....politely said no thankyou and as you say blocked |
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people.. "
you should ask them who told them that is what we do |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"One of my personal favourites was a random message from someone I'd never spoken to....
"You met with ****, I heard all about you! so when are WE going to meet?"
BLOCK!
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you must of got a glowing reference  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Have seen a few people give real names on verifications eg "met Vanessa last night and she was great" or " met John last night such a nice fella"
When there profile name is something completely different
Stick to the profile for anonymity |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people..
you should ask them who told them that is what we do"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Have seen a few people give real names on verifications eg "met Vanessa last night and she was great" or " met John last night such a nice fella"
When there profile name is something completely different
Stick to the profile for anonymity "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Gossip is like drinking. most like a bit of wine or beer but to much and you regret it in the morning!
If someone tells me something, I DO NOT repeat it. It's nice to chat about others but nothing that will put them in an awkward position or at worst case, even in danger.
Doesn't stop me asking though lol. So who done this, what did they do? Tell me more, tell me more, did you get very far,
Tell me more, tell me more, did you undo her bra?
Shoo whoop shoo whoop hehhhh!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was out at my local new years eve with my bf we were sitting close to people i work with, people who come to my work place who i see every day and people who know my family, an older man who recognised me from my photos waited until my bf went to the bathroom and then sat down beside me and told me he loved my pictures that he wanked to them alot and would love a meet with me he was no way discrete and was not quiet about it either i was mortified and when we were leaving we had to walk past him and he stood up and tried to shake my hand and kiss my cheek while askin for a meet and could he add me as a friend on the site and then turned to my bf and tried to shake his hand and tell him i was a fine woman and loved my pictures i had to pull my bf out of the pub i was lucky he knew about fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well butterfly, that guy is obviously an idiot.
Next time tip a drink over his head! Lol
And not the one he wants to show you!
That's def the opposite of discrete (yes I know, nondiscrete is the word lol)
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By *j47Man
over a year ago
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"I was out at my local new years eve with my bf we were sitting close to people i work with, people who come to my work place who i see every day and people who know my family, an older man who recognised me from my photos waited until my bf went to the bathroom and then sat down beside me and told me he loved my pictures that he wanked to them alot and would love a meet with me he was no way discrete and was not quiet about it either i was mortified and when we were leaving we had to walk past him and he stood up and tried to shake my hand and kiss my cheek while askin for a meet and could he add me as a friend on the site and then turned to my bf and tried to shake his hand and tell him i was a fine woman and loved my pictures i had to pull my bf out of the pub i was lucky he knew about fab"
now that's scary a good reason not to have face pics up spares unwanted attention |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I was out at my local new years eve with my bf we were sitting close to people i work with, people who come to my work place who i see every day and people who know my family, an older man who recognised me from my photos waited until my bf went to the bathroom and then sat down beside me and told me he loved my pictures that he wanked to them alot and would love a meet with me he was no way discrete and was not quiet about it either i was mortified and when we were leaving we had to walk past him and he stood up and tried to shake my hand and kiss my cheek while askin for a meet and could he add me as a friend on the site and then turned to my bf and tried to shake his hand and tell him i was a fine woman and loved my pictures i had to pull my bf out of the pub i was lucky he knew about fab
now that's scary a good reason not to have face pics up spares unwanted attention "
scary is right......
last week I saw a guy in a shop that I recognised from here (as facepic on his profile). I had a secret smile as a stood beside him in the queue... but one reason why I would never put my face pic up here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people.. "
Ditto........ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people.. "
Noire, can't add anything that hasn't aleady been said. If it's any conscilation. Your name hasn't travelled to Bangor yet!
Bad joke? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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jeez butterfly that's so creepy!
I would never approach someone off here in the real world. If I was out and about and someone woudl recognise me they should never come and talk to me unless I make it very clear that they can. .
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people.. "
Ah Jaysus Mary Bridie who's been giving your name out lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people..
Noire, can't add anything that hasn't aleady been said. If it's any conscilation. Your name hasn't travelled to Bangor yet!
Bad joke? "
northerners: hot and discrete but terrible comedians?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people..
Ah Jaysus Mary Bridie who's been giving your name out lol."
I told ya not to use my real name John Joe!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What does discretion mean to you?
To me it means not giving out peoples real names/job/location details etc to randomers on a swinging site!
what's wrong with people..
Noire, can't add anything that hasn't aleady been said. If it's any conscilation. Your name hasn't travelled to Bangor yet!
Bad joke?
northerners: hot and discrete but terrible comedians? "
well I'll take the first two as compliments my jokes are awful.. in fact!!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i have found alot of my personal info has come back to me and of course the threads in the past advertising all my details.discretion means nothing to some.i have only given my real name to a select few and my phone number to even less.nobody can be trusted in my opinion.i on the other hand keep my mouth shut and the only info i give out are my verifications. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"i have found alot of my personal info has come back to me and of course the threads in the past advertising all my details.discretion means nothing to some.i have only given my real name to a select few and my phone number to even less.nobody can be trusted in my opinion.i on the other hand keep my mouth shut and the only info i give out are my verifications."
You know something, dont even give them out
Discretion means keeping your life (on and off here) private. minute you share just one bit of you - then thats it - discretion flies out the window
Sure you may no longer be the most popular person on here, but then I think "better safe then sorry" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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if you want discretion it's you're own responsibility to a great degree i feel !
and putting face pics up and posting personals about you're life on here is a sure way to lose anonymity
not for a minute saying what he did was right but take responsibility for you're own anonymity |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I do agree with being very careful about your personal details.
But then on the other hand, what if something happens? You go to the guards and say I have no clue who this person was who did whatever bad thing to me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I do agree with being very careful about your personal details.
But then on the other hand, what if something happens? You go to the guards and say I have no clue who this person was who did whatever bad thing to me? "
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"We where in the final stages of arranging a meet for a fri night a while back,midweek we get a message from one of the prospective meets buddys to see if he could come along too,fecking liberties!"
Is that Catherine Tate |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We where in the final stages of arranging a meet for a fri night a while back,midweek we get a message from one of the prospective meets buddys to see if he could come along too,fecking liberties!
Is that Catherine Tate"
haha yeah the nan! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm amazed at the amount of times I see threads naming the Hotel or location someones going to be in when attending a party!...
Discretion totally blown there! |
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over a year ago
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"I'm amazed at the amount of times I see threads naming the Hotel or location someones going to be in when attending a party!...
Discretion totally blown there! "
like an invitation to stalk! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'm amazed at the amount of times I see threads naming the Hotel or location someones going to be in when attending a party!...
Discretion totally blown there!
like an invitation to stalk! "
That's exactly what I was thinking!!...
(Hey I'm staying at #####, who else will be there?)...
Everyone and anyone who want to lurk!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all know now where to go on the 14th to find some fabbers
What's happening on the 14th? "
nothing, not for me anyway
but now I maybe go to that place to see if I get lucky!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"we all know now where to go on the 14th to find some fabbers
What's happening on the 14th?
nothing, not for me anyway
but now I maybe go to that place to see if I get lucky!! "
You do that, let us all know what you find! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"but now I maybe go to that place to see if I get lucky!!
You do that, let us all know what you find! "
for some reason a song comes to mind:
She's up all night 'til the sun
I'm up all night to get some
She's up all night for good fun
I'm up all night to get lucky
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By (user no longer on site)
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"but now I maybe go to that place to see if I get lucky!!
You do that, let us all know what you find!
for some reason a song comes to mind:
She's up all night 'til the sun
I'm up all night to get some
She's up all night for good fun
I'm up all night to get lucky
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Not on the 14th you won't!....
PMSL!! |
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"I was out at my local new years eve with my bf we were sitting close to people i work with, people who come to my work place who i see every day and people who know my family, an older man who recognised me from my photos waited until my bf went to the bathroom and then sat down beside me and told mehe loved my pictures that he wanked to them alot and would love a meet with me he was no way discrete and was not quiet about it either i was mortified and when we were leaving we had to walk past him and he stood up and tried to shake my hand and kiss my cheek while askin for a meet and could he add me as a friend on the site and then turned to my bf and tried to shake his hand and tell him i was a fine woman and loved my pictures i had to pull my bf out of the pub i was lucky he knew about fab
now that's scary a good reason not to have face pics up spares unwanted attention
scary is right......
last week I saw a guy in a shop that I recognised from here (as facepic on his profile). I had a secret smile as a stood beside him in the queue... but one reason why I would never put my face pic up here! "
have met two ppl from here in local shop |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I can see both the pros and cons of the topic of "discretion"
Pros - its obvious. Keeping fully discreet is a way of deterring stalkers/weirdos. No one actually needs to know your business
Cons - when a genuine person is trying to make convo, you want to get a jist of the person you can potentially meet. You can half gauge what the said person is like - ie. their personality and if they are outgoing enough in keeping a convo going, then they are pretty much the same face to face.
Things like that could make or break a good meet!!
All in my opinion of course |
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