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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Do you like the idea of having sex with other people, with no strings attached? Would you like to explore your fantasies with like-minded people?
Would you enjoy the intimacy and long-term commitment with your partner, but don't want to miss out on the opportunity for sexual exploration with a variety of other people? If this sounds like something you'd enjoy, then the increasingly popular lifestyle known as 'swinging' could be for you.
Swinging is sex between consenting adults, most commonly consisting of male/female couples meeting other male/female couples for sex and/or ongoing intimate friendships. However, some couples enjoy a 3rd person. It could be with another man or another woman.
Swinging (some swingers simply call it "the lifestyle") can take a variety of different forms. Single women are often invited and are welcomed. They are not usually a threat to most married wives and the husbands enjoy a 2nd woman.
Although female bisexuality is generally accepted in the swinging community, the degree to which male bisexuality is accepted also varies from couple to couple? however, for the most part; the man to man stuff is usually not accepted.
Did you know the American divorce rate is about 52% and some say it's even higher? 98% of these couples are traditional 'thinking? couples and are so-called monogamous people. In other words, they get married and take an oath and promise to only have sex with each other.
#1 Reason for divorce is finances. #2 Reason for divorce among traditional married couples is infidelity. In other words, millions of traditional married couples divorce because the husband or the wife was unfaithful and that trusting relationship was or is destroyed. By the way, a national survey now says it's 50/50. 50% of husbands and 50% of wives are cheaters in their marriage.
Want to hear more shocking statistics?
Compare that percentage with Swinging Couples or Sharing Couples. (I prefer to call them sharing couples) Less than 2% of sharing couples ever get separated or divorced.
I realize that is a shocking statistic to many people; however, there are many reasons for this.
Sharing couples or (swinging couples), are extremely bonded and are the best of friends. They seldom lie or cheat on each other because that is not how you treat a close friend. They understand and accept each other much more than traditional couples do. Sharing couples are deeply in love with each other and have a deep trusting bond.
Sharing couples have a very loving and trusting relationship. They enjoy a satisfying sex life with each other and usually spend quality and quantity of time with each other and their families. They enjoy each other's company and they sincerely 'like? each other. They take care of each other's needs and wants. They respect each other. The best part is; They TRUST each other completely.
Now, I'm not saying 100% of all swinging couples are bonded in a trusting friendship, but it is evident the majority of swinging couples have a very high trust factor due to their very low divorce rate.
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I agree with much of what you've wrote but think you need to factor in cultural differences.
The vast majority Americans are in no way as liberal as Europeans, the church there plays an even bigger role in everday life than iy does even in Ireland (one of the reasons I debunked).
Not all swinging couples here (ireland and UK) are happy little campers - real life has the same effect on relationships here. |
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