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Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee. |
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"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee. "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee. "
Yes but u dont wanna hurt ppls feelings...but do u go ahead for the sake of it??? #hardgraft |
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"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee. "
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"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee.
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If your not even up for a coffee don't enter however there will be a swap shop after but I don't think. That my draw looks like sloth from the goonies will be a good reason to swap. |
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"If your not even up for a coffee don't enter however there will be a swap shop after but I don't think. That my draw looks like sloth from the goonies will be a good reason to swap. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Well think the idea is meeting maybe someone who's not normally your cup of tea who you may not have considered. You never know they might turn out to be someone you do want to have fun with and well if not it's just a coffee.
Yes but u dont wanna hurt ppls feelings...but do u go ahead for the sake of it??? #hardgraft"
I think yeah go ahead don't think people's feelings can be hurt if you just agree to coffee not everyone is going to click but I do think it's a good opportunity to meet with someone as you never know. Maybe they don't write a good profile or whatever but in person may be someone you might like. Equally yes someone who's profile is amazing might actually not be someone you want when you meet. It's a raffle you might win or might lose. |
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Well...if that is sole reason why you'd want to meet someone - based on their looks - and you think that *everyone else* on here is of the opinion that 'any hole's a goal', then maybe - and I make no judgement in saying this - just maybe you should sit this one out... |
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"Look sorry new to this ..so if its all names in a jar wat do u do if ur stuck with a total minger male or female not been bad just sayin!!"
At the end of the day, you don't have to put your name into the hat if you're not happy with the consequences!...
No harm in just a coffee meet, you don't have to actually Shag who you're drawn with!
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By (user no longer on site)
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Sorry I in no way think that every hole is a goal and don't think that is the opinion of most on here. I don't believe I've said that if that's how it come across I am sorry. |
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"If my ss didn't wanna meet me I'd rather them say than waste time on doing coffee... You have to be able to take rejection on this site.!"
Well I'm sure you don't get too many reject you |
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"If my ss didn't wanna meet me I'd rather them say than waste time on doing coffee... You have to be able to take rejection on this site.!"
Of course you do. And then there's the inevitable incompatibility of my last go at it. I was drawn for (a) a bloke (b) at the other end of the island. I always say don't knock it til you try it - but neither blokes nor big travel is currently on my Fab agenda.
But let's say he was in Belfast - an hour away and somewhere I am all the time. Can I at least offer a pint on Friday? Of course. What's the cost? Some time and a tenner for a round.
I just think that there's a lot of VERY cut throat behaviour on here; and I'm not judging anyone in particular. But would it really hurt anyone within a ten mile radius to do coffee after setting out the do's and don'ts?
Not really. But like I say - my thoughts aren't aimed at anyone in particular. It's just an observation. |
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"If my ss didn't wanna meet me I'd rather them say than waste time on doing coffee... You have to be able to take rejection on this site.!
Of course you do. And then there's the inevitable incompatibility of my last go at it. I was drawn for (a) a bloke (b) at the other end of the island. I always say don't knock it til you try it - but neither blokes nor big travel is currently on my Fab agenda.
But let's say he was in Belfast - an hour away and somewhere I am all the time. Can I at least offer a pint on Friday? Of course. What's the cost? Some time and a tenner for a round.
I just think that there's a lot of VERY cut throat behaviour on here; and I'm not judging anyone in particular. But would it really hurt anyone within a ten mile radius to do coffee after setting out the do's and don'ts?
Not really. But like I say - my thoughts aren't aimed at anyone in particular. It's just an observation. "
I like your attitude.. It's probably the correct one to have. But for me personally, I don't have much time for meets and would rather it with someone I am interested in.. Obviously I wouldn't judge my ss on looks, but after a few mails back and forth I'd know if I was interested in meeting them or not. That's the way I work anyway |
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But then why enter the secret shagger if you are not going to take the chance, as that is the main aspect of it. If you only want to meet people you like, which is fine, why not just keep an eye on the list of males and of one or more catches your eye message him |
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The purpose of the secret swagger is that people get talking to a random person selected for them it helps people get verified. If you don't like them big deal it's a coffee at the end of the day. I personally think it's better thank kiss fuck avoid and it's the anticipation of not knowing who your getting let's not make it regimented I'm open to suggestions pm me |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"But then why enter the secret shagger if you are not going to take the chance, as that is the main aspect of it. If you only want to meet people you like, which is fine, why not just keep an eye on the list of males and of one or more catches your eye message him"
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Well...if that is sole reason why you'd want to meet someone - based on their looks - and you think that *everyone else* on here is of the opinion that 'any hole's a goal', then maybe - and I make no judgement in saying this - just maybe you should sit this one out..."
Thats totaly not the issue i was simply curious to the takin part..never wanted to come across as shallow !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I don't enter ss., as I can't always commit to a coffee or whatever... But the op asked what to do it you didn't like them, my reply was to be honest.. "
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