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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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8 months here no meets not for the want of trying , go and chat in chat rooms to get to know people and be friendly but no meets still maybe not meant for me just wondering what im doing wrong lol and should i just give up ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Could help haven a few profile pics tbh we dont even reply to mails if theres no profile pics keep going to plenty of meet an greets get ur name out there also get on the fourm an have a wee banter that can help again just gettin ur name out ur meets will come in time its hard for single males on here as theres tons but keep trying dont give up hope that helps |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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at least I know I am not the only one! Men outnumber ladies by quite a bit so it seems nearly impossible to get a meet up especially if you are attached, over 45 and are honest enough to put it in your profile. What's really annoying is no reply to a message enough to say 'not interested' .rant over for now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"at least I know I am not the only one! Men outnumber ladies by quite a bit so it seems nearly impossible to get a meet up especially if you are attached, over 45 and are honest enough to put it in your profile. What's really annoying is no reply to a message enough to say 'not interested' .rant over for now "
well i have to say an this is just but we 110% dont meet any attched men including married and women thats just us we have blocked people in the past cause they where attched and we explained it to other attched people an some where cool with it others not so much so im guessing other couples/women wont meet attched guys/women just like us which thats there choice in the end of the day but for us its a big no but happy swinging to ya |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Could help haven a few profile pics tbh we dont even reply to mails if theres no profile pics keep going to plenty of meet an greets get ur name out there also get on the fourm an have a wee banter that can help again just gettin ur name out ur meets will come in time its hard for single males on here as theres tons but keep trying dont give up hope that helps"
Definitely this, if you banter on forums and in chat and get to know people that way, then when meet and greets / parties are happening, you are more likely to be invited when people know you are polite and respectful, depending on who is organising it of course. I think to just try and arrange a 1 on 1 meet can be a lot more difficult for guys. You just need to keep your ear to the ground, check forums regularly etc, there was a meet and greet not that long ago in belfast, and I think there may be one again this year soon , though haven't heard anything more about it. |
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"at least I know I am not the only one! Men outnumber ladies by quite a bit so it seems nearly impossible to get a meet up especially if you are attached, over 45 and are honest enough to put it in your profile. What's really annoying is no reply to a message enough to say 'not interested' .rant over for now well i have to say an this is just but we 110% dont meet any attched men including married and women thats just us we have blocked people in the past cause they where attched and we explained it to other attched people an some where cool with it others not so much so im guessing other couples/women wont meet attched guys/women just like us which thats there choice in the end of the day but for us its a big no but happy swinging to ya"
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Totally agree we don't either
"at least I know I am not the only one! Men outnumber ladies by quite a bit so it seems nearly impossible to get a meet up especially if you are attached, over 45 and are honest enough to put it in your profile. What's really annoying is no reply to a message enough to say 'not interested' .rant over for now well i have to say an this is just but we 110% dont meet any attched men including married and women thats just us we have blocked people in the past cause they where attched and we explained it to other attched people an some where cool with it others not so much so im guessing other couples/women wont meet attched guys/women just like us which thats there choice in the end of the day but for us its a big no but happy swinging to ya"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put more into your profile, friends pics only is no good as not everyone wants to share straight away and even though we pretend we are not shallow their has to be a physical attraction of some kind as we'll as a mental.
Don't give up!
Forums work, it shows your personality more in here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I understand where profiles clearly state state no attached or single guys that you would not reply-same as max age,straight or any other preference-by then how many guy would admit to being attached  |
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By *at2Couple
over a year ago
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"at least I know I am not the only one! Men outnumber ladies by quite a bit so it seems nearly impossible to get a meet up especially if you are attached, over 45 and are honest enough to put it in your profile. What's really annoying is no reply to a message enough to say 'not interested' .rant over for now "
We don't meet attached/married people either we also don't reply to all the msg's we get as most don't meet our preferences . We did reply to all msg's when we first joined but we learnt really quickly that even a polite no hanks only led to more msg's asking for reasons as to why not meant we ended up having two to three times the msg's a day which really pissed us off so we only reply now to someone the ticks all our boxes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"at least I know I am not the only one! Men outnumber ladies by quite a bit so it seems nearly impossible to get a meet up especially if you are attached, over 45 and are honest enough to put it in your profile. What's really annoying is no reply to a message enough to say 'not interested' .rant over for now "
but why do u need sumone to tell u their not interested?surely a non reply means just tht! |
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