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By *unkey OP Man
over a year ago
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hi people wondering yer views on admin deliting people who arent verified after 3 months on site?tink its a gud idea.iv seen cples here 10 months plus and no meets and singles too.or wud 6 months grace b better?everyone deserves time to settle in.but if ur here a year and no meets its really fantasy stuff and thats no good for genuine who take time to msg them and all for noting. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Or maybe they just choose not to show verifications or ask for them  "
I know plenty of people that have meets on here but choose not to have veries at all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There is an alternative, if it bothers you don't meet any non-verified couples/singles and adjust your filters accordingly. In the detailed search I even think looking for people who are verified is one of the options |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here's an idea,if there is something about another profile you find un agreeable,move on to the next one and then the next one,and so on.
Why moan about other profiles,nothing good comes of it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it a boast to say you have had 50 cocks."
50 Cocks where has that come from ??
Verifications are a very personal choice for each and everyone of us here. It's up to every individual weather they chose to display them or not and no one should be labeled just because of their verification situation. We have gathered a few verifications but that comes with been years on the site it's not a boast or an ego thing and some can just be from social meets where we have had just a good a time. I don't think profiles should b blocked due to no veris as it wouldn't be a fair thing to do some people like to keep their veris private which is very understandable. Mrs S !! |
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By *s louWoman
over a year ago
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"hi people wondering yer views on admin deliting people who arent verified after 3 months on site?tink its a gud idea.iv seen cples here 10 months plus and no meets and singles too.or wud 6 months grace b better?everyone deserves time to settle in.but if ur here a year and no meets its really fantasy stuff and thats no good for genuine who take time to msg them and all for noting."
I was on here before with my ex and we didn't get any veris for 18 months, even though we had had a few meets - and most of those were with non-verified profiles too so neither of us could veri each other. Just because you don't have veris doesn't mean you're not genuine.... |
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By *unkey OP Man
over a year ago
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just tink it cuts a heap of time if u chat to sumone.see ther verifed and tink they are wfor u.like most people read the back of a book b4 reading.noting aginst non verified folk atal,the site is designed ina way wher verifaction.and photo verifations are necessary to cut time wasting and fakes.i didnt design it lol.its seems to work. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just tink it cuts a heap of time if u chat to sumone.see ther verifed and tink they are wfor u.like most people read the back of a book b4 reading.noting aginst non verified folk atal,the site is designed ina way wher verifaction.and photo verifations are necessary to cut time wasting and fakes.i didnt design it lol.its seems to work."
yea ppl shud be made get photo verified after 3 months if they have no verifications i think |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just tink it cuts a heap of time if u chat to sumone.see ther verifed and tink they are wfor u.like most people read the back of a book b4 reading.noting aginst non verified folk atal,the site is designed ina way wher verifaction.and photo verifations are necessary to cut time wasting and fakes.i didnt design it lol.its seems to work.
yea ppl shud be made get photo verified after 3 months if they have no verifications i think"
Determined fakers will just phot shop |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"just tink it cuts a heap of time if u chat to sumone.see ther verifed and tink they are wfor u.like most people read the back of a book b4 reading.noting aginst non verified folk atal,the site is designed ina way wher verifaction.and photo verifations are necessary to cut time wasting and fakes.i didnt design it lol.its seems to work.
yea ppl shud be made get photo verified after 3 months if they have no verifications i think
Determined fakers will just phot shop"
wud tht not be a bit hard to do if they had to take a pic of themselves holding a piece of paper with their username and the fabswinger logo on it? |
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By *unkey OP Man
over a year ago
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it took me 3 months to get verified ,iv seen cples here over 12 months and a long list of friends yet not one ther friends care to mention anyting bout them.nor no one has seen them on cam or for real. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The site already offers verification by sending a photo of yourself with your user name and fabswingers on it and admin will verify it matches your other photos. But surely seems some people pass judgement on number of veries anyway. As in the comment of is having 50 cocks a boast. But is it not that most veries come from cam sessions and social meets so it's not that every verification is actually from having sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The site already offers verification by sending a photo of yourself with your user name and fabswingers on it and admin will verify it matches your other photos. But surely seems some people pass judgement on number of veries anyway. As in the comment of is having 50 cocks a boast. But is it not that most veries come from cam sessions and social meets so it's not that every verification is actually from having sex. "
yes we know tht!i just thought it mite be better if admin made it mandatory tht users had to be photo verified after 3 months |
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By *unkey OP Man
over a year ago
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well said .i honestly wudnt take a chance on meeting sumone is here long term and no body has meet them,u knw its waste time simple reason is non verifed.it take a min to verify sumone and if u here 12 months and no one took a min to verify them .why shud i waste time on them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I suppose you are right tho as a newbie not having any meets think that it may end up deleting or kicking out people who are genuine but just haven't attracted another verified member. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The thing is how do you know they may have met some but not clicked, so no verification. Just cos someone doesn't get on in person doesn't mean they are not genuine. But as I said previously, if you don't want to meet unverified people just roll on by them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just filter them how hard is it to use your filters unless they are verified they cant contact us and prob we wouldnt contact them either,a verie doesnt mean much really far better off with a finely tuned bullshit meter to spot fakes and dreamers,We have been on and off for 3 or 4 yrs and still get caught out eery so often so green tick means nothing. |
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By *unkey OP Man
over a year ago
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sofia bell why dont u just delete all ur verifactions and let people judge and roll on by if they dont like the look of ur blank page lol tumble rolls by dats why.u get f all action wen ur non verifed.the point ur making is silly cuz u av plenty verifactions and ,and they tempt people in after all?: |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"sofia bell why dont u just delete all ur verifactions and let people judge and roll on by if they dont like the look of ur blank page lol tumble rolls by dats why.u get f all action wen ur non verifed.the point ur making is silly cuz u av plenty verifactions and ,and they tempt people in after all?:"
Tumbles won't roll by. There was a thread recently on either swingers chat or the lounge I'm not sure which where the Op removed all verifications and didn't have any pics up not even in friends. She still got mailed and offers. Now I will concede if single male was to do this it would most definitely be different story. The points I was making as a single female and/or couple there is still a chance even without verifications you will still be able to get meets, it might be harder but not impossible. And if you don't want to meet unverified people pass them by and use your filters |
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By *unkey OP Man
over a year ago
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yes sofia ur point is single mails wil msg and meet anyone basically.so if ur a cple or a fem.the mails will roll in wit no pic no friend no veris.the mails will b from non verifed desperate men.who the f wants b in dat type scenario.i poted this cuz i av a local cple on here over 9 months and every thurs day same meets post.iv chatted ti them and always the male half asked was i bi.so i said id see wat folk tink.9 months and no meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes sofia ur point is single mails wil msg and meet anyone basically.so if ur a cple or a fem.the mails will roll in wit no pic no friend no veris.the mails will b from non verifed desperate men.who the f wants b in dat type scenario.i poted this cuz i av a local cple on here over 9 months and every thurs day same meets post.iv chatted ti them and always the male half asked was i bi.so i said id see wat folk tink.9 months and no meet.
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No meet that you know of but it ddoes seem a bit suss. I have found social meets cut out a lot of these issues or even a call from the female. If they have nothing to hide won't be a problem, mo matter how long they have been on |
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By *unkey OP Man
over a year ago
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yes sofia am jus sick of seeing the same posts from the same people weekly/.total waste time as we knw ther web wankenking fantasists lol admin shud nip it in bud.thers folk who tink ther genuine and .waste time i myselfwas invited to a cples house id bein chatting wiv.wasnt evn ther house nor wer they ther,they thought very funny) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes sofia am jus sick of seeing the same posts from the same people weekly/.total waste time as we knw ther web wankenking fantasists lol admin shud nip it in bud.thers folk who tink ther genuine and .waste time i myselfwas invited to a cples house id bein chatting wiv.wasnt evn ther house nor wer they ther,they thought very funny)"
Yeah there's some real jackanory's on here, different story every week, so obvious they are fake profiles too lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"yes rinky lol i tink admin shud out the fakes .eg the people who av reported alot lol and stand up people"
tbh i doubr they would have the time or resources, don't forget this is a free site, payment is totally optional, I think it's just a case of being aware and blocking when needed, I don't worry so much about anyone but myself these days on fab. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok i valued all the opions lol back to the grind then.fake busters here i come lol,its like pushing water up a hill wit a fork "
After a month or six you will be a dab hand at fake busting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"hi people wondering yer views on admin deliting people who arent verified after 3 months on site?tink its a gud idea.iv seen cples here 10 months plus and no meets and singles too.or wud 6 months grace b better?everyone deserves time to settle in.but if ur here a year and no meets its really fantasy stuff and thats no good for genuine who take time to msg them and all for noting."
you seem to be perusing everyone is thwarting same |
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