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over a year ago
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Yep, I'm with ya there whopper!!...
But I've found a way to get around it...
I volunteered to work! 
That way someone else can be home, spending time with their family   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I did the same like fooey... only that they decided to close anyway. So being honest, I'll be alone on Christmas. I'll be on my couch in my pjs stuffing myself with lots of crap, watching a lot of movies lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, I'm with ya there whopper!!...
But I've found a way to get around it...
I volunteered to work!
That way someone else can be home, spending time with their family "
 aww thats nice |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well ya can be sitting right beside your other half and still feel alone so it depends on the point of view ..xxx
totally with u  "
At times I feel like that too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well ya can be sitting right beside your other half and still feel alone so it depends on the point of view ..xxx
totally with u
At times I feel like that too "
I think a lot of us feel like that.x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yep, I'm with ya there whopper!!...
But I've found a way to get around it...
I volunteered to work!
That way someone else can be home, spending time with their family "
That's really thoughtful...... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well ya can be sitting right beside your other half and still feel alone so it depends on the point of view ..xxx
totally with u
At times I feel like that too "
It does happen unfortunately..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"well ya can be sitting right beside your other half and still feel alone so it depends on the point of view ..xxx
totally with u
At times I feel like that too
It does happen unfortunately....."
ah its life....thats why im here with you fabulous people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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can I ask for your advice on something. I have a dear friend who will be alone on Xmas. She's actually an ex. I hate thought of her being like that esp on that day.
Anyway il be with my family which im blessed to have but would I be over stepping the line if I called for a few hours. I know she would appreciate but id hate to her to think im doing it out of pity.
Oh and FYI i have no hidden agenda here ok. We well past that. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Were gonna have a full house this year with all the visitors coming to see our two new arrivals. Looking forward to it and best of all hubby is doing the cooking |
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"can I ask for your advice on something. I have a dear friend who will be alone on Xmas. She's actually an ex. I hate thought of her being like that esp on that day.
Anyway il be with my family which im blessed to have but would I be over stepping the line if I called for a few hours. I know she would appreciate but id hate to her to think im doing it out of pity.
Oh and FYI i have no hidden agenda here ok. We well past that. "
personally i think its s nice idea; if you still have s friendly relationship than why not.
Christmas can be s lonely day if on your own so pop round with some mince pies and a bottle of wine she may appreciate it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can I ask for your advice on something. I have a dear friend who will be alone on Xmas. She's actually an ex. I hate thought of her being like that esp on that day.
Anyway il be with my family which im blessed to have but would I be over stepping the line if I called for a few hours. I know she would appreciate but id hate to her to think im doing it out of pity.
Oh and FYI i have no hidden agenda here ok. We well past that. personally i think its s nice idea; if you still have s friendly relationship than why not.
Christmas can be s lonely day if on your own so pop round with some mince pies and a bottle of wine she may appreciate it. "
Yes I agree. Call and see her.....its a nice thing to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can I ask for your advice on something. I have a dear friend who will be alone on Xmas. She's actually an ex. I hate thought of her being like that esp on that day.
Anyway il be with my family which im blessed to have but would I be over stepping the line if I called for a few hours. I know she would appreciate but id hate to her to think im doing it out of pity.
Oh and FYI i have no hidden agenda here ok. We well past that. personally i think its s nice idea; if you still have s friendly relationship than why not.
Christmas can be s lonely day if on your own so pop round with some mince pies and a bottle of wine she may appreciate it. "
If there is no hidden agenda and theres no likelyhood of a misunderstanding of the intention then I think its a lovely idea.
I had a couple of Christmases where I had my ex hubby, an ex boyfriend and my present partner all sitting together for Christmas dinner ....conversation was a bit strained at times but went off ok lol |
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"can I ask for your advice on something. I have a dear friend who will be alone on Xmas. She's actually an ex. I hate thought of her being like that esp on that day.
Anyway il be with my family which im blessed to have but would I be over stepping the line if I called for a few hours. I know she would appreciate but id hate to her to think im doing it out of pity.
Oh and FYI i have no hidden agenda here ok. We well past that. personally i think its s nice idea; if you still have s friendly relationship than why not.
Christmas can be s lonely day if on your own so pop round with some mince pies and a bottle of wine she may appreciate it.
If there is no hidden agenda and theres no likelyhood of a misunderstanding of the intention then I think its a lovely idea.
I had a couple of Christmases where I had my ex hubby, an ex boyfriend and my present partner all sitting together for Christmas dinner ....conversation was a bit strained at times but went off ok lol "
I done that
Last yr with my ex on new years eve spent the night together and it turned out ok. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can I ask for your advice on something. I have a dear friend who will be alone on Xmas. She's actually an ex. I hate thought of her being like that esp on that day.
Anyway il be with my family which im blessed to have but would I be over stepping the line if I called for a few hours. I know she would appreciate but id hate to her to think im doing it out of pity.
Oh and FYI i have no hidden agenda here ok. We well past that. "
im my opinion. Anyone who wouldn't do that for someone important.... Is an ass.... So no you wouldn't be over steeping at all.... But maybe u should ask her round to ur family.... Then shell surly not feel like pity. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can I ask for your advice on something. I have a dear friend who will be alone on Xmas. She's actually an ex. I hate thought of her being like that esp on that day.
Anyway il be with my family which im blessed to have but would I be over stepping the line if I called for a few hours. I know she would appreciate but id hate to her to think im doing it out of pity.
Oh and FYI i have no hidden agenda here ok. We well past that.
im my opinion. Anyone who wouldn't do that for someone important.... Is an ass.... So no you wouldn't be over steeping at all.... But maybe u should ask her round to ur family.... Then shell surly not feel like pity. "
Good idea bud |
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By *andytownMan
over a year ago
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Think there's too much relevance and pressure put on at Xmas to be ' part of a family or not home alone'.......for many it's just another day and rightly so !!!
What ever and who ever you choose to spend the day with , be content and happy with your lot.....if not pull the bar clean awf yersell  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"can I ask for your advice on something. I have a dear friend who will be alone on Xmas. She's actually an ex. I hate thought of her being like that esp on that day.
Anyway il be with my family which im blessed to have but would I be over stepping the line if I called for a few hours. I know she would appreciate but id hate to her to think im doing it out of pity.
Oh and FYI i have no hidden agenda here ok. We well past that.
im my opinion. Anyone who wouldn't do that for someone important.... Is an ass.... So no you wouldn't be over steeping at all.... But maybe u should ask her round to ur family.... Then shell surly not feel like pity.
Good idea bud "
totally agree, if your family is ok with it, invite her!
Will anyone invite me? All my friends are away and my family is abroad |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"ok i know no one is going to honestly answer this but lets see can we help someone ?"
awh will u be alone whopper?il lend u my pussy cat for the day,hes great company |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"well ya can be sitting right beside your other half and still feel alone so it depends on the point of view ..xxx
totally with u
At times I feel like that too
I think a lot of us feel like that.x
Totally agree with you.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Technically I'll be with people as I'll be staying in my parents but essentially, alone.
It's my first Xmas on my own and not how this one was meant to go at all so kinda dreading the whole thing.
But no doubt I'll spend the day glued to Fab as usual lol |
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By *em4ejacWoman
over a year ago
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Some people choose to be alone as it's easier than faking it at someone's house where you don't feel at ease or even welcome , or there's a feud going on right under your nose . So it's Christmas Day . Do whatever pleases you or go visiting some fab friends either for a fab breakfast , fab lunch , fab supper or a fab drinking session with a happy ending . |
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My christmas day will consist of work a few pints then back home, never got the whole celebrating christmas thing, I have been invited to plenty of mates houses but would never dream of going (maybe that's why they invite me) its a day for kids really so it has never bothered me being on my own at christmas. Either that or I will drink myself into a coma anyway happy christmas to you all  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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never really an family xmas tbh after growing up in care for years xmas was a lonely time for me till i met met herself an a few years ago i was gonna have an xmas dinner with a family for the first time have to be honest i was shittin it i was so nervous noting could calm me down now today and this year i love it i feel so welcomed an relaxed and its a really nice feeling being apart if it and i know theres people out there who will be home alone and my heart goes out to them anyho folks have happy xmas or sexy xmas ste.. |
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My mum passed away this year. First time I won't be able to call round for Christmas.
So despite many invites to be elsewhere, for me, it'll be an open fire, my own cooking, a pile of movies and time to myself.
She'd been in much pain the past couple of years. Am I looking forward to it, knowing she's not in pain any more? I dunno. We'll see.
But Merry Christmas to you all. Even the fake profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My mum passed away this year. First time I won't be able to call round for Christmas.
So despite many invites to be elsewhere, for me, it'll be an open fire, my own cooking, a pile of movies and time to myself.
She'd been in much pain the past couple of years. Am I looking forward to it, knowing she's not in pain any more? I dunno. We'll see.
But Merry Christmas to you all. Even the fake profiles. "
You have my sympathy. The first christmas without a loved one, especially your mother, is very tough. Take your comfort in knowing she's free from pain. When my first christmas without my mother came, i made myself think how much worse she'd have been, had she made it till then. Losing my mother is the worst thing that's ever happened to me, but i am grateful every day her suffering is over. |
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"My mum passed away this year. First time I won't be able to call round for Christmas.
So despite many invites to be elsewhere, for me, it'll be an open fire, my own cooking, a pile of movies and time to myself.
She'd been in much pain the past couple of years. Am I looking forward to it, knowing she's not in pain any more? I dunno. We'll see.
But Merry Christmas to you all. Even the fake profiles. "
xmas was never the same when my mum died! mothers holds the family together i think,and xmas dinners just arent the same as when she made them |
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"My mum passed away this year. First time I won't be able to call round for Christmas.
So despite many invites to be elsewhere, for me, it'll be an open fire, my own cooking, a pile of movies and time to myself.
She'd been in much pain the past couple of years. Am I looking forward to it, knowing she's not in pain any more? I dunno. We'll see.
But Merry Christmas to you all. Even the fake profiles.
xmas was never the same when my mum died! mothers holds the family together i think,and xmas dinners just arent the same as when she made them "
ohh I hear you second Xmas without my mum Christmas aint the same she loved Christmas so trying to make it a good Xmas this yr in memory of her |
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I will be home alone, I hate Xmas for various reasons, but those that have families I hope you all have a lovely time.
For me it will be tv, fav foods, maybe a glass of something and that's about it |
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"My mum passed away this year. First time I won't be able to call round for Christmas.
So despite many invites to be elsewhere, for me, it'll be an open fire, my own cooking, a pile of movies and time to myself.
She'd been in much pain the past couple of years. Am I looking forward to it, knowing she's not in pain any more? I dunno. We'll see.
But Merry Christmas to you all. Even the fake profiles.
xmas was never the same when my mum died! mothers holds the family together i think,and xmas dinners just arent the same as when she made them ohh I hear you second Xmas without my mum Christmas aint the same she loved Christmas so trying to make it a good Xmas this yr in memory of her "
its just not the same without my mum,dont think xmas will ever be the same again! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hi all
We are with family during Christmas but if anyone around here is on there own and wants to meet for chat in the evening this can be arranged. There will be no playing on Christmas day as it is against our rules.
To everyone happy christmas |
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"My mum passed away this year. First time I won't be able to call round for Christmas.
So despite many invites to be elsewhere, for me, it'll be an open fire, my own cooking, a pile of movies and time to myself.
She'd been in much pain the past couple of years. Am I looking forward to it, knowing she's not in pain any more? I dunno. We'll see.
But Merry Christmas to you all. Even the fake profiles.
xmas was never the same when my mum died! mothers holds the family together i think,and xmas dinners just arent the same as when she made them ohh I hear you second Xmas without my mum Christmas aint the same she loved Christmas so trying to make it a good Xmas this yr in memory of her
its just not the same without my mum,dont think xmas will ever be the same again!"
my mim loved the film scrooge I put it on and ended up crying so I turbed it off we used to watch it Xmas eve night with a irish coffee. |
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"My mum passed away this year. First time I won't be able to call round for Christmas.
So despite many invites to be elsewhere, for me, it'll be an open fire, my own cooking, a pile of movies and time to myself.
She'd been in much pain the past couple of years. Am I looking forward to it, knowing she's not in pain any more? I dunno. We'll see.
But Merry Christmas to you all. Even the fake profiles.
xmas was never the same when my mum died! mothers holds the family together i think,and xmas dinners just arent the same as when she made them ohh I hear you second Xmas without my mum Christmas aint the same she loved Christmas so trying to make it a good Xmas this yr in memory of her
its just not the same without my mum,dont think xmas will ever be the same again!"
mum passed n dad gone too he used to call round for Xmas dinner few drinks n a film gonna be a tough day to get through alone |
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